FabSwingers.com forum: Not enough time spent kissing?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Kissing for me is the ultimate turn on both before, during and after sex.

Could and have spent ages just kissing, from soft slow brushes of the lips to full on mouths wide snogathons - without it there's something missing from the proceedings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lips are always sore.

In a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a massive part of our play, we love it. A meet isnt quite the same without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep love a good kiss. Soft gentle with tongues..without..gentle lip biting..love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If profiles say "no kissing" I won't go near them. I find that a bizarre dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

Definitely. It's a lost part of foreplay. Guys just seem to want to get down and start giving oral like its the vital element. We love to kiss when swinging, although on the two occasions we've met couples,they've both had no kissing on the mouth rule-yes, I fucked both wives in every sleazy way possible, but kissing is anathema!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There’s so many ways to kiss and as a singleton it’s what I miss the most... so many ways to kiss and is so hugely erotic in all its forms!!!

Especially with the right person!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

Absolutely love it, in fact with a girl I knew before we would say only kissing for an hour before anything else, hands outside only and we’d both be climbing the walls waaaay before the time was up! Lol

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

I love kissing and you're right there isn't enough of it

x x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If profiles say "no kissing" I won't go near them. I find that a bizarre dynamic."

I get that but because it is so intimate maybe why for some couples they have that rule..??

But yes no kissing and I wouldn’t want to meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely agree ! "

Glad you think so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If profiles say "no kissing" I won't go near them. I find that a bizarre dynamic.

I get that but because it is so intimate maybe why for some couples they have that rule..??

But yes no kissing and I wouldn’t want to meet! "

I get the intimacy element with couples, for sure, I just find it bizarre for myself that anyone could have sex with a person and not kiss them at all. That would just be weird. I'd rather have a sad crying wank at home in the dark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing for me is the ultimate turn on both before, during and after sex.

Could and have spent ages just kissing, from soft slow brushes of the lips to full on mouths wide snogathons - without it there's something missing from the proceedings.

Ohh yes this, I won't entertain anyone who doesn't kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have experienced swingers who do not kiss as they believe the people they meet 'would get attached'. Which, in my opinion, is a lot of bull****. For me, kissing is a very integral part of the play, I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing, nothing better than kissing someone for the first time and feeling that chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have experienced swingers who do not kiss as they believe the people they meet 'would get attached'. Which, in my opinion, is a lot of bull****. For me, kissing is a very integral part of the play, I love it"

That's just insecurity within their relationship which they should be talking about and dealing with in other ways!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If profiles say "no kissing" I won't go near them. I find that a bizarre dynamic.

I get that but because it is so intimate maybe why for some couples they have that rule..??

But yes no kissing and I wouldn’t want to meet!

I get the intimacy element with couples, for sure, I just find it bizarre for myself that anyone could have sex with a person and not kiss them

at all. That would just be weird. I'd rather have a sad crying wank at home in the dark."

Hahaha I totally agree... I think without kissing what is the point!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I agree that there isn't enough kissing. It's still a huge part of any meet I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So happy there are lots of kissy people still around haha..I thought it was a lost art.... I need to meet you all and just spend hours kissing!!!! Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely agree !

Glad you think so!

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say I agree that there isn't enough kissing. It's still a huge part of any meet I have. "

I'll be right over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love to kiss before, during and after sex. all part of the enjoyment.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Kissing is so irresistible for us xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't say I agree that there isn't enough kissing. It's still a huge part of any meet I have. "

Obviously there is still a lot of kissing goes on but when chatting the main focus appears to be on the other stuff.. so was just curious that’s all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a huge part of play for us.

Love kissing and being kissed huge turn on .

That first kiss with a new playmate tells me ( jilly )

What kind of night we are in for .

We have met couples that don't kiss ( there rules ) and we have said sorry it won't work.

As I know I would want to kiss so would Nick and we would never break some ones rule that's there thing . Happy xxxxxxxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual sex partners passionately. We don't have a bizarre dynamic or a fear of attachment or intimacy.

Many people tell us they wouldn't want to meet us but I'm not sure why they feel we need to know this, we're aware we're not compatible so wouldn't ask them to.

Celebrate kissing, enjoy it, wax lyrical and we'll do the same about what sends us into the sexual stratosphere

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By *017chesterladMan
over a year ago

chester

Completely agree someone who can kiss properly will most certainly get me in the mood for more

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

Kissing and i mean good kissing is a must for me. if the kssing is terrible its generally down hill from there in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If profiles say "no kissing" I won't go near them. I find that a bizarre dynamic.

I get that but because it is so intimate maybe why for some couples they have that rule..??

But yes no kissing and I wouldn’t want to meet!

Reminds me of the scene from Pretty Women

Kissing is essential for me: it’s so sensual and can’t be damn-right dirty too. Win-win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we talking french kisses or Australian kisses

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Kissing and i mean good kissing is a must for me. if the kssing is terrible its generally down hill from there in my opinion."

Deffo..If they can't kiss then they probably can't shag either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say I agree that there isn't enough kissing. It's still a huge part of any meet I have.

Obviously there is still a lot of kissing goes on but when chatting the main focus appears to be on the other stuff.. so was just curious that’s all!! "

Oh I don't really chat about it. But then I don't chat much sex either. I prefer to just do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore kissing, and I always ensure there's plenty of hot kisses on all of my meets. If they can't make the effort at that stage then they won't get any further with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been known to get carried away with the kissing and forget about other stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing and letting the hands wonder,but there's nothing worse than a woman trying to eat the face off you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive found that a woman that kisses me before i can kiss her is one of the biggest turn ons.

That first kiss is electric. Sex without it just feels empty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing especially when im fingering

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh Lordy kissing makes me melt, massive puddle of lustful wetness, buckling legs...then comes the clutching and crushing of faces and bodies...

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Kissing and i mean good kissing is a must for me. if the kssing is terrible its generally down hill from there in my opinion.

Deffo..If they can't kiss then they probably can't shag either."

Agreed

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

"Kissing and i mean good kissing is a must for me. if the kssing is terrible its generally down hill from there in my opinion.

Deffo..If they can't kiss then they probably can't shag either."

Exactly

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Love kissing, nothing better than kissing someone for the first time and feeling that chemistry

True story

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Give me a good snogging than a pedestrian bonk any day.

Of all the shenanigans I get up to, kissing is still my favorite thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential I think. On the flip side if the person I'm with isn't a good kisser it can ruin it a bit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love kissing ,i even put a bit of lypsyl on for a meet lol

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Kissing is essential for us, it is the start of the sensual fun we love, it helps turn us on as we kiss and caress the whole body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love kissing, but we are surprised at how many meets don't want to engage in it. We have good teeth and fresh breath so don't understand the reluctance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

Love doing this...first initial contact is so exciting and horny x

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

If I ever get the opportunity then I'm going to spend as much time kissing as possible. I absolutely love it. There aren't many more things I find more intimate, passionate, sensual or a bigger turn on than kissing.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Kissing.....

Oops sorry started daydreaming.

More please, much more

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

Agree with you .

It’s all about just trying to get to the bj or fuck as quickly as possible . A shame .

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

We adore kissing and breathing each other’s breath can be so horny, I also think about T kissing another guy as much as I think about her fucking him

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"We adore kissing and breathing each other’s breath can be so horny, I also think about T kissing another guy as much as I think about her fucking him"

Watching S kissing another guy is hotter than watching her fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing but i do get carried away especially if his a good kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate kissing. It's just really gross.

I know, I am really weird.

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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago

Medway

"Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

We both like kissing and get turned by it. Good starter and during sex.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

"Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

Totally agree 100% i could meet only for a kissing session . Tune has to be taken to enjoy kissing as a prelude to more foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

No kissing means no meet. I kiss before, during and after or no meet thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

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yes loves a good sensual snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect other people’s rule of no kissing. However, this is not us. Kissing is like breathing......... it’s needed to keep the sexy session alive and energised.

We won’t play with non kissers as we love kissing in all of its forms.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Argh kissing is so erotic. We love the sensuality and sexiness of kissing. A good kisser so always much more HOT to play with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mwah

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By *traight up guyMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

Love it! Massive turn on. Makes a meet so much more enjoyable... (Heads for Hull)

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By *cceptedKinkMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's the intimacy we like to keep for us, like some couples keep anal for just her partner. Kissing for us is for very personal, intimate relationships not for those fleeting moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss having a long kissing session with nothing expected at the end of it just a long smooch and then get on with your day.

On here I would never meet someone who doesn't kiss but it's not the same as when you have a kissing session with someone your 100% comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. I've met quite a few guys who think that kissing is just a horderve when really it's the most important part of the meal.

Some days a good kiss is all I can think about

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London

"It's the intimacy we like to keep for us, like some couples keep anal for just her partner. Kissing for us is for very personal, intimate relationships not for those fleeting moments"

Same here, it’s our mutual preference

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By *bsolute GentlemamMan
over a year ago

Nr Rhyl

Nothing sexier than long, lingering, deep, sensual kissing; the kind that leaves you breathless but aching for more.

Then there’s the rampant, frantic, tear you clothes of type of kissing!, just as horny.

Or the slow delicate kisses on the small of the back, nape of the neck or inner thigh all raising heart rate and deepen one’s breathing.

Kissing is so underrated, far to much wham bamh thakyou man fuck and go mentality these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says it all on my profile

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

I get far more turned on from a good kiss than someone mauling their way round my body trying to find generic 'on' buttons.

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By *cceptedKinkMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Same here, it’s our mutual preference

Kissing removes the others from the room and we're more all-in. It's far from a race to get to the bj or fuck either, just requires more imagination. As for singles, well what would anyone expect, how long has that lust been building up?

Face to face is a connection deeply personal and for us, too intimate for just anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great kissing sessions is soooo underrated on here i find! My standards are high on kissing and have been known to leave a social etc with a guy who ticks every box but then kisses like he hasnt eaten for a week!

Amazingly sensual snog sessions are what opens the gates for me and makes everything else much more intense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing... hugely erotic and sexy but not much time seems to be spent kissing.. from slow and sensual to deep and passionate..

What do you guys find??

I love kissing I massive on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone fancy a kissing session message me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone fancy a kissing session message me lol"

You said anyone handsone

Id love you to french kiss my wrinkle rectum. I'll send you a pic of my ring now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ehh woman only lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I wrote yesterday in one of my messages languishing unread in the dark recesses of someone's inbox "Nothing quite like a great kiss. The way it swells and subsides from yearning lips lightly slipping across each other to deep lustful mouth fucking... and then back to teasing and toying"

Kissing kissing kissing. God I love it. All the way through sex. Connecting. Then a deep lustful look into each other's eyes right at the edge of cumming before one final passionate kiss that tips us both over into the abyss. Cumming whilst kissing! Wow. So gorgeous.

...and then of course there's post sex kissing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ehh woman only lol"

Too late dude... Too late haha

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"As I wrote yesterday in one of my messages languishing unread in the dark recesses of someone's inbox "Nothing quite like a great kiss. The way it swells and subsides from yearning lips lightly slipping across each other to deep lustful mouth fucking... and then back to teasing and toying"

...and then of course there's post sex kissing too

You should write for Mills & Boon!!!!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Same here, it’s our mutual preference

Face to face is a connection deeply personal and for us, too intimate for just anyone"

That’s cool , as is so often said on here , each to their own . No one needs to justify why anything they do or don’t do is right for them .

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"Ehh woman only lol

Too late dude... Too late haha "

He has you now, beard tractor beam is on and slowly drawing you in...... pucker up buttercup, you said anyone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all this kissing!

I'd really like a kissing meet now

Just kissing for a few hours...maybe with brief chocolate covered strawberries breaks

Peach (off to snog Fuzz in the meantime) x

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Kissing is the starting point for a got session. If they can't or don't kiss,then most of the build up is lost in my opinion

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Hot *

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By *x3anteexxCouple
over a year ago

NW Cheshire

Kissing an absolute must with us, if Mrs tingles at the kiss then you better fetch a towel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is such a turn on, starts the whole thing off long slow sensual kissing....mmm getting me hot just thinking of it now ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love kissing. And I love laying entwined after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can not beat a good snog and tease

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