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By *outhern Comfort OP   Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

So I am after some advice about what I'm doing wrong with my profile as I never really seem to get any fabs on my pics, my partner says that my pics are too explicit but I thought they would be popular. Can you please take a look and tell me what you think honestly.

Your opinions mean a lot to me so any advice is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your pictures are great. very sexy. nothing wrong with them at all.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

You need to change the bit who you meet to single guys lol.

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By *ohnny89Man
over a year ago

Bootle

Yeah you pics are very sexy u rock the lingere aswell luv nothing wrong there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best ‘look at me’ thread I’ve seen in ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best ‘look at me’ thread I’ve seen in ages"

Round of applause sir, took the words right out of my mouth loo

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London


"So I am after some advice about what I'm doing wrong with my profile as I never really seem to get any fabs on my pics, my partner says that my pics are too explicit but I thought they would be popular. Can you please take a look and tell me what you think honestly.

Your opinions mean a lot to me so any advice is appreciated"

Forget about the photo fabs, and just enjoy the lifestyle. In this world fabbed photos mean nothing. Often shitty photos on shitty profiles gets the most likes as the SG and some couoles think they have better chance there.

This actually really helps us. We post good photos and this naturally pushes off most shy guys and we get less hassle. Same with our complicated profile. All that acts like a Firewall and fillters the messages we get. Only the brave message us, making them automatically to stand out as confidant which we like.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Your pics have fabs so confused as to this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people get so hung up on their pics being fabbed? It's a useless site tool that seems to cause so much angst to so many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pics have fabs so confused as to this post"
look at me look at me

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

your pics are very sexy and well taken. you are a good looking lady but smile more and look like you are have fun

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Why do people get so hung up on their pics being fabbed? It's a useless site tool that seems to cause so much angst to so many. "

Everybody knows it's always nice to get one or two. The site would be very sterile without it.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

They’re fine but I’m thinking of not fabbing them out of principle now lol.

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London

I would add something that we have learned over the years. Profiles with public faces, are less trusted and often seen like fakes(I know you are not). Most people would like to know that the other parties take care to be discreet and won't jeopardize them.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Joking aside. There IS a problem. There’s no male pics

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I like your pictures from last summer with your deep red x then pink hair x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Your pics have fabs so confused as to this post look at me look at me "

Agree as pics have megga amount of fabs. No male pics tho which is wrong for a couples profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen more of your pussy in those pics than I have of gfs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your pics are very sexy and well taken. you are a good looking lady but smile more and look like you are have fun "

Yeah great pics but you don't look too happy in them.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Personally we don’t like explicit or full all out there pics.

But then others will, it’s a hard one trying to please everyone, so don’t

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Your not looking for single guys and they are the ones who do all the fabbing, if that's all you are after open the gates to let them peek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your pics are very sexy and well taken. you are a good looking lady but smile more and look like you are have fun

Yeah great pics but you don't look too happy in them. "

She does look like it's a chore having them taken.

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By *aggie and DanCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"So I am after some advice about what I'm doing wrong with my profile as I never really seem to get any fabs on my pics, my partner says that my pics are too explicit but I thought they would be popular. Can you please take a look and tell me what you think honestly.

Your opinions mean a lot to me so any advice is appreciated"

Nothing wrong with your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs is very pretty but a smile might help a tad

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You say you want to see him with another lady - so do you not think that the lady would like to see pics of him? Far too one-sided for a couples profile - let’s have a look at your man!!!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Your pics have Fabs OP so not sure what the issue is - although a quick reverse image search might suggest some of the reasons and lead people to think this thread is a thinly disguised "look at me" rather than a genuine query

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you forced into taking the pics because there is a distinct lack of facial expression - which suggests that you were bored. The photos and poses are otherwise great.

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By *r PoliteMan
over a year ago

Long Eaton

Youve got a cracking body.

Just that theres about 30 pics of your pussy, but had to look closely at the pic from 9th july 06 to find a happy face. It looks like you might have a nice smile too, cant quite tell yet.....

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"You say you want to see him with another lady - so do you not think that the lady would like to see pics of him? Far too one-sided for a couples profile - let’s have a look at your man!!!"

This totally

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said that man. What a way of getting attention. Not going to lie. You look bored out of your mind in the photos. Try smiling. You'll get more fabs that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt worry about it..... i only ever get my pics fabbed by guys never women.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Make it appear like you enjoy having your photo taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would add something that we have learned over the years. Profiles with public faces, are less trusted and often seen like fakes(I know you are not). Most people would like to know that the other parties take care to be discreet and won't jeopardize them. "

Best looking couple on here you are gorgeous x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If you are mainly interested in getting photos fabbed, it benefits you to update something regularly so you keep showing up on feeds.

However, if you see your photos as a way to entice meets... I agree that you need to smile, show less genitalia and include Mr.

I personally do not like the majority of your photos, they may appeal more to men.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long thread but OP hasn’t resounded to any of the comments which would suggest a “look at me” thread. Just our opinion.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Similar to how many cock pics on a male profile... how many pussy pics are needed

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By *ugzbunny1Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Have to say I agree with virtually all comments above...make photos less staged, look at the camera and smile. You have a gorgeous body and a pretty face of that there is no doubt ....As to whether there are too many pussy shots, I think that's a personal choice, you could go down road of making some more explicit and raw so to speak or leave something to the imagination. Also try some focussing on particular parts of your body, legs, curved back, bottom and boobs...if you are looking for fabs then have a peek at hot photos of women...different images appeal to different folk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would add something that we have learned over the years. Profiles with public faces, are less trusted and often seen like fakes(I know you are not). Most people would like to know that the other parties take care to be discreet and won't jeopardize them. "

Wow is this a common point of view? I never thought of it like that. I tend to be the opposite, I find faceless profiles too secretive and guarded on the whole unless there's something about them I really like.

Different people, different needs I guess. Some need discretion, others don't x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Best pic of the lot is the one on the chair on the 9th, where you actually smile, makes all the difference

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