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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Mr asking.

Speaking as someone who has never given or received (not my thing),I wonder seeing lot's of pictures of people having they back door smashed in by some rather large cocks, also that anal seems to be the norm for lot's of people these days.

Does it have an adverse effect on your bumhole?

I am in no way interested in receiving let's get this clear,but being the kind caring chap that I am I can't help thinking that there must be some medical side effects of it?

I may be very very wrong and it's not a homophobic question it's just a question?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Take it slow, maybe work up from a finger to a plug or a vibe before trying a cock/dildo and golden rule is plenty of lube.

It's not for everyone.

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Take it slow, maybe work up from a finger to a plug or a vibe before trying a cock/dildo and golden rule is plenty of lube.

It's not for everyone."

It must cause chalfonts ??

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

like pussy- if its not lubed enough it hurts. as to side effects- no issues I can still shit normally and hold it in when I want to your muscles are rather strong there so you have to relax to enjoy it but you can use it as normal afterwards.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I would think that if you indulged daily over a prolonged period the muscles might weaken perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm as person who loves good anal with willing girl, i would recommend like girls said; plenty of lube, start with finger and take it very slowly to allow muscle to relax , Inside needs to be very lubricated then very gently . Good luck and remember first time always hurt a bit LOL

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Hmm as person who loves good anal with willing girl, i would recommend like girls said; plenty of lube, start with finger and take it very slowly to allow muscle to relax , Inside needs to be very lubricated then very gently . Good luck and remember first time always hurt a bit LOL "

I'm not interested in trying or how it's done. Just after seeing lot's of gape photos recently couldn't help thinking does it stay like this after a time?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think you should experience receiving it, that way you will know how blooming painful it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one problem is not the cock going in but the cleaning of the passage, all that washing removes the natural bacteria, which does have an effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it hurts, you're doing it wrong! And no, you won't be left permanently gaping; I worked my way up to a fist dildo and dildo the diameter of a can, playing 3 or 4 times a week with no ill effects.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

If you have to much anal like porn stars you can be come Incontinent and need surgery ....

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Glad I dont do it that often then

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Things are meant to come out of that area, not in! Each to their own though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I can take it. I tried with a but plug and it was PAINFUL.

I've given it and I'm amazed how easy it goes for them.

A porn actress at an interview I watched about 16 years ago said that some faeces could come out during the day unexpectedly. She couldn't hold it properly anymore.

I told a female friend who had done it many times, she laughed and told me that it was true but it closes after a while.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

There are some pretty shocking arsehole pics on line. Someone told me a phrase to Google....can't remember it right now....but I wish I hadn't looked. The effect of loads of anal I presume. It was like an inside out rectum

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By *nal-FunMan
over a year ago

London & Leeds

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By *nal-FunMan
over a year ago

London & Leeds


"Things are meant to come out of that area, not in! Each to their own though.... "

People aren’t ‘meant’ to do a lot of things, but it shouldn’t stop those that love it from doing it! Not sure where you’ve seen the rule book for what we should and shouldn’t do anyway

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By *TheBoneMan
over a year ago

Bury, Lancashire

They don't call it rectum for no reason

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"They don't call it rectum for no reason"

That is right... it was derived from the Latin for straight in the use "intestinus rectum" (straight intestine) and can be traced back to the 7th century. It has been in common use in the English language since the 16th century.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have to much anal like porn stars you can be come Incontinent and need surgery ...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit comes out of it daily, sometimes the size of a cock, so why would something that size going in daily make a difference? The muscle still stretches for things coming out, and the amount of time blokes spend on the loo dropping the kids off I think they're enjoying it more than they let on!

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't see why anyone would need to fuck a bum when there's a fanny right next door.. I don't get it, don't fix what's not broken I say

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Well as many know the male g spot is in the bum and women can reach orgasm through anal sex. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea but many like it. I can orgasm through anal alone and it’s a totally different orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should experience receiving it, that way you will know how blooming painful it is!

"

I've tried it but would love more of it

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Things are meant to come out of that area, not in! Each to their own though....

People aren’t ‘meant’ to do a lot of things, but it shouldn’t stop those that love it from doing it! Not sure where you’ve seen the rule book for what we should and shouldn’t do anyway "

If you read my original post I said ‘each to their own’.

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By *acheltartTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Try some poppers, it certainly relaxes the anal muscles and makes it more enjoyable!

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

It takes me one hour to insert my fist i to a guys bum hole.

I usually wear latex gloves and use plenty of lube. I start with one finger and go up to fist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit comes out of it daily, sometimes the size of a cock, so why would something that size going in daily make a difference? The muscle still stretches for things coming out, and the amount of time blokes spend on the loo dropping the kids off I think they're enjoying it more than they let on! "

That's the reasoning, but reality is very different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should experience receiving it, that way you will know how blooming painful it is!

"

Yes please

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

louth


"like pussy- if its not lubed enough it hurts. as to side effects- no issues I can still shit normally and hold it in when I want to your muscles are rather strong there so you have to relax to enjoy it but you can use it as normal afterwards. "

PMSL Well thats pretty clear OP Have to say we both love it and suffer no side effects and as someone said if it hurts you aint doing it right

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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Thanks for all the replies.

Just need to convince Mrs happy now then I have enough evidence that it's ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies.

Just need to convince Mrs happy now then I have enough evidence that it's ok "

Convince yourself you want a cock in your arse first

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By *w79Man
over a year ago

Stalbridge

Slow & steady with plenty of lube & if you think you've got enough lube add the same again if not more just to be sure & safe.

If the person you are penetrating says ow, stop or sounds/acts like they are in pain stop immediately, but if you are already inside them don't suddenly withdraw.

Just stop wait for them to recover & do what they tell you to do & if they tell you to take it out, do so extremely slowly & carefully so as not to cause damage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shit comes out of it daily, sometimes the size of a cock, so why would something that size going in daily make a difference? The muscle still stretches for things coming out, and the amount of time blokes spend on the loo dropping the kids off I think they're enjoying it more than they let on! "

Haha - made me giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be careful on how much lube or come you get up there.... it can be an unintentional enema

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By *orwich nice and naughtyCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

One of the quickest ways to get gonorrhea

Keep clear!! keep clean !!

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