FabSwingers.com forum: Best type of man for cuckold relationship

By *IZZLERS OP Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Just wondering what would be the best type of guy to have a cuckold relationship with? Non of the humiliation stuff as not into that. Don't want a full blown dom who wants to control both parties, but feel it must be important to ensure in a long term three way relationship boundaries don't get confused. Single guys? is there a chance they might fall in love with her and then it all gets messy.... is it better to do this with a married guy who loves his wife but wants more sexual fun? Knowing after each meet he goes home to the one he loves and NSA?

Whats your thoughts???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess there’s always a chance of the single guy having feelings for your wife, I’ve played regular with a married couple for 2 years to be point that she sometimes stops over at mine on her own after a threesome with her hubby. Of course I like her a lot but that’s as far as it goes, we txt back and forth on a regular basis and not all about sex! My straight relationship with her hubby is just as important, quite often the 3 of us will go out for a drink and a good laugh. There’s a lot of trust involved and you’ll need to make sure that everything is in the open and talked about.

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston

The married man route would be better I would have thought, knowing that he's only interested in sex with no strings...

I've had a "relationship" with a lady that wouldn't really describe herself as a hotwife, and her other half didn't identify with the cuck thing, but she was more interested in the "meeting of minds", the flirting, the thrill of the chase... It was very intense. He knew what was going on but it was never discussed...

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

Surley it would depend on what you want. As in do you want to be a hot wife or do you want hubby to be cuckold in front of you and what type of cuckold is he and what he wants . Married as an extra cock is good. But as you say ,someone trying to control both party's can be too intense.

Single guys seem to be shagging everthing but you need to know first what you both want before adding in another

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By *adrMan
over a year ago

Near Bedford

Not sure that a married guy is less likely that a single one to be at risk of developing emotions/growing strings & there can be complications about when he can meet, how long for etc. However, perhaps? a married guy is more likely to be more concerned about her/your enjoyment than about his own & be around for longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say try to find an experienced bull who knows the lifestyle and establish ground rules then you won't go too far wrong.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Just wondering what would be the best type of guy to have a cuckold relationship with? Non of the humiliation stuff as not into that. Don't want a full blown dom who wants to control both parties, but feel it must be important to ensure in a long term three way relationship boundaries don't get confused. Single guys? is there a chance they might fall in love with her and then it all gets messy.... is it better to do this with a married guy who loves his wife but wants more sexual fun? Knowing after each meet he goes home to the one he loves and NSA?

Whats your thoughts???"

My thoughts are you are on a cliff, ready to jump. Make sure you are both holding hands if you do.

The dynamic is something I understand,

Just make sure the dynamic is right: and chat between all parties to what everyone wants.... then you will have so much fun... in oh so many ways.

Have a brilliant time.

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston

"I'd say try to find an experienced bull who knows the lifestyle and establish ground rules then you won't go too far wrong."

I guess not everyone feels that the bull/cuck/hotwife labels work for them. In my experience, there's often a desire to enjoy the emotional rollercoaster but a feeling that the established "cuck lifestyle" isn't what they want.

I find there's too much emphasis on humiliation - some people prefer to maintain a mutual respect...

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As a married guy I would agree that it may not avoid the issue of developing feelings as that would be largely down to the individuals involved. However, if a long term relationship with regular meets is sought you may be better off with a single guy with no other commitments, as a married guy may not always be available when you are.

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