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By *arkhelga OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We've known a couple about a year,meet them a few times a week, we discuss any subject under the sun, he's a lot older than her,by at least fifteen year,he's away on a stag do this week,she's all home alone,when she's had a couple of beers she's very very flirty, question is should we take her out,should we flirt,maybe more?let us know what you think what you would do.....M&Hxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh could end up losing a friend. Think I would give that one a miss x

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

If she wants to speak with you she'll contact you, while her hubby is away, as you're friends.

Sounds like you're wanting to try and take advantage of her by getting her d*unk first

That's not such a clever idea tbh.

So if you like these people as friends and want to stay friends - keep your thoughts as a fantasy and drop it into the next easy flowing conversation you have when her hubby is back home....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has the fact he’s 15 years older than her got to do with anything?

Is she part of the lifestyle? If not i’d be pretty pissed off if alledged friends assumed i’d be up for cheating on my fella with them or led astray when he’s away just because i’m a flirty type.

Some people enjoy being left to their own devices. Gives them chance to catch up with the ironing and have some “me” time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a mate that has a bf and when she drinks she gets really flirty. I could have fucked her many times but as she has a bf I have politely said no and just danced with her, as this usually happens in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've known a couple about a year,meet them a few times a week, we discuss any subject under the sun, he's a lot older than her,by at least fifteen year,he's away on a stag do this week,she's all home alone,when she's had a couple of beers she's very very flirty, question is should we take her out,should we flirt,maybe more?let us know what you think what you would do.....M&Hxxx"

Ask yourself if you'd be happy if friends of yours approached either of you without your partners knowledge while you were away with what looks like the express intention of having sex with them? If it had been part of a fourway conversation and agreed between all 4 of you, crack on but I wouldn't decribe you as a friend to either if them and would very much end any contact with "friends " who did that to either of us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s see if this thread gets the same reaction as the single guy profile who is asking about shagging his girlfriends mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where in the original post does it say they are going to fuck her nevermind take advantage of her..

They are maybe gonna go out for a drink and flirt! She will still surely be able to make a conscious decision to say know if she wants and I'm sure the op will accept that.

Why do people blow these things into something their not.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a female mate that when we all go on a night out (her bf included.) when she gets tipsy she tends to become clingy with me. Its always been the deal, I could have fucked her every time without fail. But I respect that my mate (her bf) is her bf. And I politely say no. If she was single I'd have had her twice every night as she is a perfect 10.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Where in the original post does it say they are going to fuck her nevermind take advantage of her..

They are maybe gonna go out for a drink and flirt! She will still surely be able to make a conscious decision to say know if she wants and I'm sure the op will accept that.

Why do people blow these things into something their not..... "

"question is should we take her out,should we flirt,maybe more?"

Maybe more is suggestive of more than just sharing a garlic bread over dinner.

It doesn't sound good - why would you take advantage of a friend being away to see what happens with his partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where in the original post does it say they are going to fuck her nevermind take advantage of her..

They are maybe gonna go out for a drink and flirt! She will still surely be able to make a conscious decision to say know if she wants and I'm sure the op will accept that.

Why do people blow these things into something their not..... "

If anyone is under the influence of alcohol then they are not in the right mind to make a valid decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am glad i dont touch alcohol.i have seen what it does to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where in the original post does it say they are going to fuck her nevermind take advantage of her..

They are maybe gonna go out for a drink and flirt! She will still surely be able to make a conscious decision to say know if she wants and I'm sure the op will accept that.

Why do people blow these things into something their not.....

If anyone is under the influence of alcohol then they are not in the right mind to make a valid decision. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Posts deleted which contain reference to illegal subjects not allowed on the forum.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"let us know what you think what you would do..."
Let her come to you if she wants to cheat on your friend. Then, if you’re happy to do that, that’s up to you. But I think there’s a difference between that and encouraging her to, directed by your move.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

I get flirty when d*unk and if my guy says I can stay with the lady I will does not mean I will sleep with her. we could always phone her hub to turn him on same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, this is an easy one to answer: do the right thing and don't see her when he's not there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless she comes on to you, I would just be as normal as possible

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Let’s see if this thread gets the same reaction as the single guy profile who is asking about shagging his girlfriends mate

That one ended up..UNLOS

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