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Cannot accommodate, cannot travel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that’s going to make arranging a meeting a bit of a challenge.

Really what’s the point of being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To chat perhaps

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Well that’s going to make arranging a meeting a bit of a challenge.

Really what’s the point of being on here."

I manage to meet ok. Maybe you'd be best off asking the individual person than assuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I too wonder how that works

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

May they should have a chat only option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat and use forums .Had bad meets been put off or met someone not playing with others .All people on here for different things .People with kids will not invite people around too homes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say more often than not it’s people on to chat, cam, use the forums or people looking for someone close to home who will accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk to a local hotel

Local club visit...

I see travel as traveling a large distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that’s going to make arranging a meeting a bit of a challenge.

Really what’s the point of being on here."

You can't accommodate either

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Well that’s going to make arranging a meeting a bit of a challenge.

Really what’s the point of being on here.

I manage to meet ok. Maybe you'd be best off asking the individual person than assuming "

How do you meet if you don't travel or accomadate hun?

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

it means there probably in jail...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clearly I didn’t see the distance chart re traveling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t drive and as a single mother I’m not about to let random people into my home, does that mean I’m not allowed on here?

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By *ightboy69Man
over a year ago

Torquay

Rediculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes people have this as a filter -

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By *TheBoneMan
over a year ago

Bury, Lancashire

It could also mean, for various reasons l cant invite you to my home, and l dont drive so you will have to pick me up

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By *hisguy84Man
over a year ago

Jersey

'Travel' is a subjective word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This comes up all the time.

They are just on here for chat/the forums.

They only play at clubs.

They will only meet people who can accommodate locally or meet in a local hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what ???? I do whatever I want !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It confuses the easily confused

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Why worry about what other people have as their criteria? Could be any number of reasons they have that setting - if it doesn't fit what you're looking for just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lesson learned.

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

One of the very best meets I have ever had was a " cannot travel/ cannot accommodate" girl.

Arranged to pick her up from her work at lunchtime, took her back to my house, and had a fabulous afternoon of wonderful lust!

Then took her back to her place of work just in time for her to get her usual bus home.....

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

There used to be a cookery programme called Can't Cook, Won't Cook.

Managed to have a fair amount of cooking going on in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't acommodate and will only meet locally or in clubs. It's pretty simple really.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Could be 1001 reasons why people put this, but one may be that it acts as a filter. One where the person wants to be contacted by people prepared to put the effort into trying to make it work. Rather than just a convenient ", any accommodating appendage will do" meet.

For many, the social side is the glue that holds the attraction of this place together, so in making the effort to put the person/couple ahead of any sex says more about the person they are approached by, than advertising they are available to host.

Horses for courses and all that, for some people though, the effort of the chase IS worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that’s going to make arranging a meeting a bit of a challenge.

Really what’s the point of being on here."

I don't host, I don't want to.

I don't travel as I don't drive and I,m not getting bus or train. So travel I take as being in a different area to resident.

I am looking for men in my own town who can host

Occasionally I do car sex XXX

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"There used to be a cookery programme called Can't Cook, Won't Cook.

Managed to have a fair amount of cooking going on in it. "

Excellent response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It confuses the easily confused "

exactly.

I don't accomodate and I don't have a car so I'm not going anywhere that isn't local.

It's not that difficult to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It confuses the easily confused

exactly.

I don't accomodate and I don't have a car so I'm not going anywhere that isn't local.

It's not that difficult to understand "

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

There are lots of reasons why you might see "cannot accommodate, cannot travel"

1. Used as a filter when not meeting.

2. The user considers "travel" to mean a long distance/time but will happily meet in a local hotel or your home if local

3. User does not accommodate at their own home but is happy to use a hotel and does not consider this "able to accommodate"

4. User is here to chat and use the forums.

All of the above are perfectly valid, in my view. Sometimes people explain in their profile what they mean too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They meet locally in a hotel.

Or they like to do their own searching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few people I’ve known over the years have used it as a filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have these selected, I do drive I’m happy to drive within about a 20 mins radius but would definitely not travel to Liverpool, Preston, Warrington, Leeds etc. People always argue with me that these are close enough but I’m not willing to do a 2 hour round trip and possibly be let down, therefore I don’t travel.

I believe people that have this are only willing to go to places near them, maybe that they can get to by bus, taxi, walking or driving a short distance. This is not travelling.... if someone asks you do you like to travel they mean do you go to different countries, travel Britain, they do not include getting on a bus to the other side of town

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the constructive replies folks.

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By *r_Darcy40Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

if cannot accommodate or travel ermm think that must mean you have to pay for a hotel in the area perhaps. People might have kids etc. I find it worse when they say not looking for guys. Yet all there veries are from blokes lol how is that possible. Must look for blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if cannot accommodate or travel ermm think that must mean you have to pay for a hotel in the area perhaps. People might have kids etc. I find it worse when they say not looking for guys. Yet all there veries are from blokes lol how is that possible. Must look for blokes "

Maybe they met men in their he past and are now looking for something different or they prefer to do the looking and not be bombarded by messages.

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