FabSwingers.com forum: Oral only

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I the only person that if an oral only session was on offer, I'd pass.

I enjoy oral but as foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you’re probably not the only person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind if there was a time crunch, but I'd probably pass too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say no....

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

I would definately pass too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am good with oral only

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

It would be a pass from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im passing ....

i like to feel the lady cumming on my cock .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the context. I'm not myopically obsessed by fucking. I can imagine it could be very hot to be teased by a potential lover with an oral experience that feels like it's leading to sex only to be denied it until next time

Damn I'd be horny after that though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im amazed how many men are saying no. I was expecting them to be happy with a blow and go

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't enjoy receiving so it would be a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily lick a sexy lady out for nothing in return if anyone local is interested.

P.s prefer when my face is sat on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It acts as a filter for me if i read a mans profile where he proclaims himself to have 'excellent oral skills'...

Makes him sound like a one trick pony and there is so much more fun to be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It acts as a filter for me if i read a mans profile where he proclaims himself to have 'excellent oral skills'...

Makes him sound like a one trick pony and there is so much more fun to be had"

anyone who claims to have any "skills" just comes across to me as missing the whole point. Sex is a dance between two turned on souls. Not a talent competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love oral sex. I like showing tongue skills during the foreplay and it feels good when I get a blow job to finish with. Again preference change from people to people..xx

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s a bit strange to limit yourself to just one thing, no matter what it is. I can picture being in the throes of passion and saying “let me kiss your nipples” and being answered “no, it’s oral only, read the rules on the door”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet in a club I only soft play.

For me to have full sex with someone I would want it to be a a fb/fwb scenario and as It will take me some time to find the right person for that then yup orals cool with me.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Definitely not OP, I wouldn't meet anyone that just wanted oral sex.

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ive always been, sexually submissive and as a sub, love giving oral and receiving nothing. But, since joining this site and reading posts like this one. Im surprised that, almost no women enjoy receiving oral only and those that do. Get bored after ten mins. I think even I would not be interested, hardly worth taking my coat off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest if a woman wanted me to meet her so she could suck me off! Then I would be radio rental to say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, if I'm receiving and don't have to move from my seat sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be up for a oral only meet in the right circumstance. Like as an initial meet to build up the desire for a full on meet within the next few days following.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Nothing wrong with an oral only meeting.

Giving, receiving or both.

In fact, have had quite a few giving only meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, I like the main event better

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Oral only is fine with me as long as I am receiving happy to return the favour.A girl I know only wants to give me oral as she feels she would be cheating on her bf if she had sex with me who I am I to argue

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd pass.

unless we are talking about oral only without orgasm in the morning, then go to work knowing that we will meet again in the evening to complete matters... that might be very horny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a woman I don’t see the point of just oral. There’s so much more to do...

However with guys, I’m perfectly happy with just sucking cock or getting sucked.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'd pass for sure. I've only ever met one person who truly satisfied me via oral... And I'd still rather have the option to fuck him silly as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m not interested in oral only, I like cock too much XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the oral only profiles. If you're not looking for sex then why come on here? A good bj is ok with me though, and I don't mind giving oral but it leaves me wanting more. So feels like a tease, so unless I really wanted a bj it would be a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the oral only profiles. If you're not looking for sex then why come on here? A good bj is ok with me though, and I don't mind giving oral but it leaves me wanting more. So feels like a tease, so unless I really wanted a bj it would be a no. "

Because we don’t all have the same preferences as each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we don’t all have the same preferences as each other.

Fair enough, but it's still just foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id hate just oral - total bore on its own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im amazed how many men are saying no. I was expecting them to be happy with a blow and go"

That'll change once the meet starts

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd be hoping every time I met with a lady would be spontaneous and adventurous, rather than prescriptive, so while I wouldn't rule it out completely I'd be hoping to change things up and keep things fresh and exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve met loads of guys who have been only too happy with oral only meets with my wife . There’s one thing for sure , in the real world of fab , ( by that I mean those who don’t use the forums , and who are on here to meet people ) , there is often a very different reality than the one shown on the forums .

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I would love oral only, sometimes it's better!

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Fair enough, but it's still just foreplay."
It’s only foreplay if it comes ‘fore something. Otherwise it’s just ‘play’.

I don’t particularly like to be graphic, but here we go... Sometimes, it’s nice to just have a kiss and a cuddle, without it /having/ to end up with full blown sex. I’m sure everybody would agree that much. So why can’t there be times when you just stop, for want of a better phrase, after a bit of a grope? Or masturbating each other? Or mutual masturbation? Or oral? Do you go through every single thing you like every single time you have sex? “Better not ejaculate yet, I haven’t ticked rimming and toe sucking off the list.”

People like what they like. A lot of women don’t like anal, so you don’t do it. There are myriad more things people will only do once they’re comfortable with each other, so you don’t do them either. Sticking your pee-pee in her vagoo is just one part of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rather give more foreplay/oral to the woman , not fussed about getting oral myself

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Fair enough, but it's still just foreplay.It’s only foreplay if it comes ‘fore something. Otherwise it’s just ‘play’.

Well this is a first , I totally agree with you

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By *urSurveySaysMan
over a year ago

London/Chichester

I'd be fine as long as it wasn't a one off and I knew another meet would happen where things would escalate.

I've had worse though, in my opinion. A potential meet but the young lady informed me she didn't want to kiss on the mouth in the meet. I definitely didn't go through with that one.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I'd be fine as long as it wasn't a one off and I knew another meet would happen where things would escalate."
Because they owe you full penatrive sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely meet for an oral only session! it would have to be with someone I repeat meet with though! I love oral, giving and receiving! I find it can be very intimate if full sex was not an option for whatever reason

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By *urSurveySaysMan
over a year ago

London/Chichester

"I'd be fine as long as it wasn't a one off and I knew another meet would happen where things would escalate.Because they owe you full penatrive sex?"

Owe me? You think I believe anybody owes me something? What an unusual conclusion to come to.

No, because I like having sex and I believe a meet with simply oral would leave me feeling more frustrated than satisfied.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I'd be fine as long as it wasn't a one off and I knew another meet would happen where things would escalate.Because they owe you full penatrive sex?

Owe me? You think I believe anybody owes me something? What an unusual conclusion to come to.

No, because I like having sex and I believe a meet with simply oral would leave me feeling more frustrated than satisfied. "

So you would suffer the frustration on the assumption that a second meet would be more satisfying then ?

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Im always up for giving a bit of head

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By *urSurveySaysMan
over a year ago

London/Chichester

"I'd be fine as long as it wasn't a one off and I knew another meet would happen where things would escalate.Because they owe you full penatrive sex?

Owe me? You think I believe anybody owes me something? What an unusual conclusion to come to.

No, because I like having sex and I believe a meet with simply oral would leave me feeling more frustrated than satisfied.

So you would suffer the frustration on the assumption that a second meet would be more satisfying then ? "

It would be frustrating knowing that I was so close to someone sexually but will never be able to take it further. If that's okay...?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

As we soft play only it's fine by us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As we soft play only it's fine by us."

Whats your reason for soft only?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"As we soft play only it's fine by us.

Whats your reason for soft only?"

Because that's what we want to do.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"Owe me? You think I believe anybody owes me something? What an unusual conclusion to come to."
Its not that unusual; a lot of men are presumptuous, and your post read that way. If that’s not the case, then it’s sll good.

"No, because I like having sex and I believe a meet with simply oral would leave me feeling more frustrated than satisfied. "
Okay. This is worth exploring. Do you only orgasm through vaginal intercourse? What about anal? Hand job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Owe me? You think I believe anybody owes me something? What an unusual conclusion to come to.Its not that unusual; a lot of men are presumptuous, and your post read that way. If that’s not the case, then it’s sll good.

No, because I like having sex and I believe a meet with simply oral would leave me feeling more frustrated than satisfied. Okay. This is worth exploring. Do you only orgasm through vaginal intercourse? What about anal? Hand job?"

you took him up wrong in what he posted, you've admitted that! why dissect and nit pick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love an oral session x

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"you took him up wrong in what he posted, you've admitted that! why dissect and nit pick? "
Because, putting that to one side, it’s still worth getting more detail. I’m intrigued as to what people find frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love oral only sessions sometimes. The last one was mixed with some rope tying and my wand but was amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy with just oral, love it. Can feel satisfied in the right hands from that.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Not quite what the OP asked but I would probably turn down a meet if giving and recieving oral wasn't a possibility, it's that important a part of the fun for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not quite what the OP asked but I would probably turn down a meet if giving and recieving oral wasn't a possibility, it's that important a part of the fun for me."

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