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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this morning a couple(newly joined) sent me a message saying they are interested after checking my profile and photos. So I replied and send some face pics and they send me both their photos and the lady's photos..They said they are interested in cuckold and the lady liked my pic's, they'd like to meet.. so I went on chatting with them and set a date to meet for social and I said if they are still happy I'm happy with it. And the next minute I found I got blocked... why time wasters bother to message?? Can't they just move on... so annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens

get over it

move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it happens

get over it

move on"

Yea.. but still annoyed they ruined my coffee..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it happens

get over it

move on

Yea.. but still annoyed they ruined my coffee..x"

This all happened in the time you had a cuppa?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it happens

get over it

move on

Yea.. but still annoyed they ruined my coffee..x

This all happened in the time you had a cuppa?!"

I love my coffee..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry there are plenty of time wasters on here all talk and no action!!!! Alot of woman on here love the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'newly joined couple' might actually have been a newly joined bloke who hadn't quite got around to telling his wife they were on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't worry there are plenty of time wasters on here all talk and no action!!!! Alot of woman on here love the block button"

Yea.. I agree, got a taster today.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The 'newly joined couple' might actually have been a newly joined bloke who hadn't quite got around to telling his wife they were on a swingers site."

Yea.. that's possible.. I did thought about it.. near cheating in that case if he sends his wife picture and them both playing to someone whom he has never met..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel equally aggrieved... having just had my time wasted reading this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel equally aggrieved... having just had my time wasted reading this thread. "

Terrible aint it..

That's 2 minutes of your life you will never get back

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

OP, never expect a meet to happen until you’re face to face with the people or person you’ve made arrangements with.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Probably just didn’t have the balls to tell you they had changed their mind.

How far did the planning get? A date and time? If not I don’t think they deserve to be called ‘timewasters’ that word gets thrown around like confetti on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One (or both) of them had an orgasm.

End of fantasy. Until next time they are horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, never expect a meet to happen until you’re face to face with the people or person you’ve made arrangements with."

Superb advice and oh so true....never beleive anything on here while chatting only beleive something when face to face with the person or persons....

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"OP, never expect a meet to happen until you’re face to face with the people or person you’ve made arrangements with.

Superb advice and oh so true....never beleive anything on here while chatting only beleive something when face to face with the person or persons.... "
OP - Look on the bright side, you never went out somewhere and were stood up, maybe costing a few quid or time in the process. For many, that is the unfortunate reality of this place, in spite of the robust checks they do, you can never account for others behavior or standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, never expect a meet to happen until you’re face to face with the people or person you’ve made arrangements with.

Superb advice and oh so true....never beleive anything on here while chatting only beleive something when face to face with the person or persons.... OP - Look on the bright side, you never went out somewhere and were stood up, maybe costing a few quid or time in the process. For many, that is the unfortunate reality of this place, in spite of the robust checks they do, you can never account for others behavior or standards. "

And especially when guys on here masquerade as couples to get pics !!! thats the behaviour of many on here, being stood up is horses for courses, the only fool proof way and i insist on this is to chat with the female first if the excuses come back such as.........she is at work..she is at the doctors..she has just nipped out to get milk and the best of all.....she is on the school run !!!! then beat a hasty retreat and block them as they are or he is a fake.

Just ask to speak to the female if no response then move on to someone who will chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, never expect a meet to happen until you’re face to face with the people or person you’ve made arrangements with.

Superb advice and oh so true....never beleive anything on here while chatting only beleive something when face to face with the person or persons.... OP - Look on the bright side, you never went out somewhere and were stood up, maybe costing a few quid or time in the process. For many, that is the unfortunate reality of this place, in spite of the robust checks they do, you can never account for others behavior or standards.

And especially when guys on here masquerade as couples to get pics !!! thats the behaviour of many on here, being stood up is horses for courses, the only fool proof way and i insist on this is to chat with the female first if the excuses come back such as.........she is at work..she is at the doctors..she has just nipped out to get milk and the best of all.....she is on the school run !!!! then beat a hasty retreat and block them as they are or he is a fake.

Just ask to speak to the female if no response then move on to someone who will chat "

Good advice.. that's what I should have done

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"OP, never expect a meet to happen until you’re face to face with the people or person you’ve made arrangements with.

Superb advice and oh so true....never beleive anything on here while chatting only beleive something when face to face with the person or persons.... OP - Look on the bright side, you never went out somewhere and were stood up, maybe costing a few quid or time in the process. For many, that is the unfortunate reality of this place, in spite of the robust checks they do, you can never account for others behavior or standards.

And especially when guys on here masquerade as couples to get pics !!! thats the behaviour of many on here, being stood up is horses for courses, the only fool proof way and i insist on this is to chat with the female first if the excuses come back such as.........she is at work..she is at the doctors..she has just nipped out to get milk and the best of all.....she is on the school run !!!! then beat a hasty retreat and block them as they are or he is a fake.

Just ask to speak to the female if no response then move on to someone who will chat "

We've noticed an increase of couples where the wife is on holiday in some lovely exotic location thousands of miles away. But the male has her permission to play at will. New Zealand seems to be a popular destination. We had two messages from different profiles stating the wife was there.

One male. No wife. Two fake profiles?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"The 'newly joined couple' might actually have been a newly joined bloke who hadn't quite got around to telling his wife they were on a swingers site."

Most likely just a bloke with a non existent wife just had some pics of a female.

Happens all the time.

If it seems too good to be true.....guess what

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"OP, never expect a meet to happen until you’re face to face with the people or person you’ve made arrangements with.

Superb advice and oh so true....never beleive anything on here while chatting only beleive something when face to face with the person or persons.... OP - Look on the bright side, you never went out somewhere and were stood up, maybe costing a few quid or time in the process. For many, that is the unfortunate reality of this place, in spite of the robust checks they do, you can never account for others behavior or standards.

And especially when guys on here masquerade as couples to get pics !!! thats the behaviour of many on here, being stood up is horses for courses, the only fool proof way and i insist on this is to chat with the female first if the excuses come back such as.........she is at work..she is at the doctors..she has just nipped out to get milk and the best of all.....she is on the school run !!!! then beat a hasty retreat and block them as they are or he is a fake.

Just ask to speak to the female if no response then move on to someone who will chat "

Definitely this. I'd say 80 percent of the "couples" who contact me are blokes.

Ask to speak to the female half and they disappear...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Horrible people eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens a its happen to me too even when i fab there photos just move on as it not meant to be if they do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular occurrence in here.

Delete. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably just didn’t have the balls to tell you they had changed their mind.

How far did the planning get? A date and time? If not I don’t think they deserve to be called ‘timewasters’ that word gets thrown around like confetti on here. "

Agreed to meet. Time and venue was fixed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Horrible people eh!"

Horrible horrible people :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, never expect a meet to happen until you’re face to face with the people or person you’ve made arrangements with.

Superb advice and oh so true....never beleive anything on here while chatting only beleive something when face to face with the person or persons.... OP - Look on the bright side, you never went out somewhere and were stood up, maybe costing a few quid or time in the process. For many, that is the unfortunate reality of this place, in spite of the robust checks they do, you can never account for others behavior or standards.

And especially when guys on here masquerade as couples to get pics !!! thats the behaviour of many on here, being stood up is horses for courses, the only fool proof way and i insist on this is to chat with the female first if the excuses come back such as.........she is at work..she is at the doctors..she has just nipped out to get milk and the best of all.....she is on the school run !!!! then beat a hasty retreat and block them as they are or he is a fake.

Just ask to speak to the female if no response then move on to someone who will chat

Definitely this. I'd say 80 percent of the "couples" who contact me are blokes.

Ask to speak to the female half and they disappear..."

Yea, I know women get lots of attention from single men. I should have done that. Next time I must insist I do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, never expect a meet to happen until you’re face to face with the people or person you’ve made arrangements with.

Superb advice and oh so true....never beleive anything on here while chatting only beleive something when face to face with the person or persons.... OP - Look on the bright side, you never went out somewhere and were stood up, maybe costing a few quid or time in the process. For many, that is the unfortunate reality of this place, in spite of the robust checks they do, you can never account for others behavior or standards.

And especially when guys on here masquerade as couples to get pics !!! thats the behaviour of many on here, being stood up is horses for courses, the only fool proof way and i insist on this is to chat with the female first if the excuses come back such as.........she is at work..she is at the doctors..she has just nipped out to get milk and the best of all.....she is on the school run !!!! then beat a hasty retreat and block them as they are or he is a fake.

Just ask to speak to the female if no response then move on to someone who will chat

We've noticed an increase of couples where the wife is on holiday in some lovely exotic location thousands of miles away. But the male has her permission to play at will. New Zealand seems to be a popular destination. We had two messages from different profiles stating the wife was there.

One male. No wife. Two fake profiles?"

Haha... Men have decided to sent their wives on holiday so they can enjoy with other women. I agree. Can't believe this is happening even if they need to photo verify.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Horrible people eh!"

Delusional and very lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this morning a couple(newly joined) sent me a message saying they are interested after checking my profile and photos. So I replied and send some face pics and they send me both their photos and the lady's photos..They said they are interested in cuckold and the lady liked my pic's, they'd like to meet.. so I went on chatting with them and set a date to meet for social and I said if they are still happy I'm happy with it. And the next minute I found I got blocked... why time wasters bother to message?? Can't they just move on... so annoyed"

Some who are new to the scene, get cold feet once preparations get put into place. I think newcomers need to be given a little leeway in all honesty. We were all new once and it can be daunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this morning a couple(newly joined) sent me a message saying they are interested after checking my profile and photos. So I replied and send some face pics and they send me both their photos and the lady's photos..They said they are interested in cuckold and the lady liked my pic's, they'd like to meet.. so I went on chatting with them and set a date to meet for social and I said if they are still happy I'm happy with it. And the next minute I found I got blocked... why time wasters bother to message?? Can't they just move on... so annoyed

Some who are new to the scene, get cold feet once preparations get put into place. I think newcomers need to be given a little leeway in all honesty. We were all new once and it can be daunting "
I would agree with you but it is very for most men here i think as i class myself new to it.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"The 'newly joined couple' might actually have been a newly joined bloke who hadn't quite got around to telling his wife they were on a swingers site."

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By *ornstudMan
over a year ago

alnwick

So did i today and all because i asked to meet up lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea.. but still annoyed they ruined my coffee..x

lol...Try having to arrange getting the house to yourself...work...kids...

Actually getting one of them rare free nights...

Then sitting there like a total moron as they've failed to show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry there are plenty of time wasters on here all talk and no action!!!! Alot of woman on here love the block button"

From personal experience when I get pestered by the same bloke messaging over and over despite receiving a polite no thanks or sometimes no response from me, then he leaves me no choice but to use that button

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

just because someone changes their mind it doesn't mean they are timewasters. people are allowed to change their minds. on here as soon as you reply to someone it's like you've signed a meet in blood. Next time if you have a cafetiere then you can pour yourself more than one coffee if the other one is spoiled hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry over someone or someones actions you dont know? Delete all messages and move on, problem solved.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I get blocked and I also block some people. Don't overthink it , put it in the "fuck it" bucket and move on to the next

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"The 'newly joined couple' might actually have been a newly joined bloke who hadn't quite got around to telling his wife they were on a swingers site."

I think you've hit the nail on the head there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entice you using the old ACME dangly carrot trick and then BOOM!

Very annoying and its happened to me too. I feel your pain and frustration dude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Entice you using the old ACME dangly carrot trick and then BOOM!

Very annoying and its happened to me too. I feel your pain and frustration dude. "

Apparently many here doesn't know how that feels..

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

The clue for future reference OP is "newly joined"

It's usually more productive to chat to people who are meet verified

At least there is a chance they are real

Newbies have to start somewhere so let someone else waste their time on the fakes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbies often bottle it when confronted with a meet situation, they like the idea, probably talked about it for weeks but now they have a real life meet they panic and block, I’m very wary chatting to unverified peeps. They’ll probably delete their account and start again.

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