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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personally dont send out any friend invites or winks as i have been told recently by a female friend from here that she regularly gets 50.....70 replies a day including winks.

Its probably a futile excersise for a guy to wink or send friend invites as couples & single females literally get swamped.

What is the most you have had in a day !!! i would think as a newbie on here it must be horrendous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you actually mean replies, or unsolicited junk mail?

I get a lot of the latter but i mostly ignore it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you actually mean replies, or unsolicited junk mail?

I get a lot of the latter but i mostly ignore it "

I mean actual replies or winks and not junk mail, the point of the thread was to see what couples and single females do actually get in random wannabee hopefull replies.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

I switched my settings one day last week to say we might be interested in single males. We received almost 80 messages in the day never mind all the winks. Settings changed back to couples only straight after and back down to a handful of messages a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 5.I don't need heavy filters either. It's great being a sour old minger

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Do you actually mean replies, or unsolicited junk mail?

I get a lot of the latter but i mostly ignore it

I mean actual replies or winks and not junk mail, the point of the thread was to see what couples and single females do actually get in random wannabee hopefull replies."

If by replies you mean messages then it depends on our activity....a standard day might be 30...post new pics and it can easily reach 100....go on cam and we lose count....winks are just bulk deleted so I don't really know how many we receive.

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

Zero replies pretty much as i can't remember last time I sent a first mail

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

Oh I think you mean mail. Prob a hundred when we have had a pic in top 10 or put a meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I got mail. Queue the sad violins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I got mail. Queue the sad violins "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's completely manageable if we use filters and only jumps up if we post new pictures.

People who have been here a few weeks and got past the initial flood only get swamped with messages if they want to be.

We're all attention seekers to a degree but some are much more than others and then have the false complaint of not being able to cope.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A lot less since I announced ‘clubs only’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you actually mean replies, or unsolicited junk mail?

I get a lot of the latter but i mostly ignore it

I mean actual replies or winks and not junk mail, the point of the thread was to see what couples and single females do actually get in random wannabee hopefull replies."

That would imply that messages are sent first and i always get replies to messages i send but i dont do that very often..

I get a lot of mail if i post new pics, and a lot if i don't (thats unsolicited)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you actually mean replies, or unsolicited junk mail?

I get a lot of the latter but i mostly ignore it

I mean actual replies or winks and not junk mail, the point of the thread was to see what couples and single females do actually get in random wannabee hopefull replies.

That would imply that messages are sent first and i always get replies to messages i send but i dont do that very often..

I get a lot of mail if i post new pics, and a lot if i don't (thats unsolicited)"

We've never really understood when people class messages on here as unsolicited.

A profile is an advert, an advert is an attempt to solicit interest. A response to that advert has been solicited.

It is not like junk mail. No one advertises to receive junk mail. That's why it's unsolicited.

The only profiles that could claim to receive unsolicited messages on here are those that are hidden or specifically state that they do not want messages from anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you actually mean replies, or unsolicited junk mail?

I get a lot of the latter but i mostly ignore it

I mean actual replies or winks and not junk mail, the point of the thread was to see what couples and single females do actually get in random wannabee hopefull replies.

That would imply that messages are sent first and i always get replies to messages i send but i dont do that very often..

I get a lot of mail if i post new pics, and a lot if i don't (thats unsolicited)

We've never really understood when people class messages on here as unsolicited.

A profile is an advert, an advert is an attempt to solicit interest. A response to that advert has been solicited.

It is not like junk mail. No one advertises to receive junk mail. That's why it's unsolicited.

The only profiles that could claim to receive unsolicited messages on here are those that are hidden or specifically state that they do not want messages from anyone."

yep I've never understood that either. If I don't want any messages I hide otherwise we can't pick and choose who messages us.

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By *leafordian75Man
over a year ago

Newark

Three. It was like all my Christmases had cum at once.

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Loads

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive had 3 messages this week (not from friends) which i find odd as my profile is hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most messages was over 900 but that was the day I opened the account. A normal day is about 50, if I put a meet up then around 300. Replies are pretty much nonexistent as I tend to just reply to the people that message me not initiate contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you actually mean replies, or unsolicited junk mail?

I get a lot of the latter but i mostly ignore it

I mean actual replies or winks and not junk mail, the point of the thread was to see what couples and single females do actually get in random wannabee hopefull replies.

That would imply that messages are sent first and i always get replies to messages i send but i dont do that very often..

I get a lot of mail if i post new pics, and a lot if i don't (thats unsolicited)

We've never really understood when people class messages on here as unsolicited.

A profile is an advert, an advert is an attempt to solicit interest. A response to that advert has been solicited.

It is not like junk mail. No one advertises to receive junk mail. That's why it's unsolicited.

The only profiles that could claim to receive unsolicited messages on here are those that are hidden or specifically state that they do not want messages from anyone."

I was using it as an analogy, and a tongue in cheek one at that

Nowhere did i say they were annoying or i hate recieving them.. they are part and parcel of the fab experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you actually mean replies, or unsolicited junk mail?

I get a lot of the latter but i mostly ignore it

I mean actual replies or winks and not junk mail, the point of the thread was to see what couples and single females do actually get in random wannabee hopefull replies."

Well I guess replies can't be unsolicited as there must have been an initial message to reply to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I got mail. Queue the sad violins

"

Not now lol!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I personally dont send out any friend invites or winks as i have been told recently by a female friend from here that she regularly gets 50.....70 replies a day including winks.

Its probably a futile excersise for a guy to wink or send friend invites as couples & single females literally get swamped.

What is the most you have had in a day !!! i would think as a newbie on here it must be horrendous."

The day I joined I had 0 filters on. I received 500 messages in 30 minutes which meant 16 men per second messaged me which was SCARY. I soon learnt about filters

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Ten hundred million billion in a day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally dont send out any friend invites or winks as i have been told recently by a female friend from here that she regularly gets 50.....70 replies a day including winks.

Its probably a futile excersise for a guy to wink or send friend invites as couples & single females literally get swamped.

What is the most you have had in a day !!! i would think as a newbie on here it must be horrendous.

The day I joined I had 0 filters on. I received 500 messages in 30 minutes which meant 16 men per second messaged me which was SCARY. I soon learnt about filters "

Couldnt have put it better......filters do help even I as a man have had to block males asking stupid questions like" if you get a female how about sharing her".......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot!! Haha. Now I get about 5 a day. From those I'm already friends with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hidden at the moment but from when I was last unhidden I have 710 new winks

I prefer to hunt my own prey. Only once I didn't get a reply and I must admit I was a little outraged

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot less since I announced ‘clubs only’"

Smart move for couples and single females

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I personally dont send out any friend invites or winks as i have been told recently by a female friend from here that she regularly gets 50.....70 replies a day including winks.

Its probably a futile excersise for a guy to wink or send friend invites as couples & single females literally get swamped.

What is the most you have had in a day !!! i would think as a newbie on here it must be horrendous.

The day I joined I had 0 filters on. I received 500 messages in 30 minutes which meant 16 men per second messaged me which was SCARY. I soon learnt about filters

Couldnt have put it better......filters do help even I as a man have had to block males asking stupid questions like" if you get a female how about sharing her"....... "

Really? Really? Like us women are objects? Shocking and men like that should be reported to and dealt with by Admin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 or 5 i think but i dont consentrate on chasing the lassess i just send based on status updates i see just try get a bit of good banter going first get an idea of what there like

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I was last on the site about 11 hours ago and since then we have had 32 winks,25 messages and 13 friends requests

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was last on the site about 11 hours ago and since then we have had 32 winks,25 messages and 13 friends requests"

Seems about average for a couple.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm we think 2 or 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular from friends obviously,but I must admit a few from new people

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