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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a couple contacted you (especially as a single male) complimented you on your profile and asked you to take a look at theirs - would it be reasonable to assume that they have showed an interest?

Well, it just happened to me, so I sent a nice long note, with photos, explaining how I enjoy the hotwife scenario (they make it clear they want "separate room" swapping) and how important it is that we all take some pleasure from this scenario.

I have just received a fairly abusive message back, the gist of which is: "Can't you read? It says NO SINGLE MALES".

Admittedly, it did also say "no single males" on their profile - but it isn't the first time a couple have approached me, contrary to what it says on their profile - and I do enjoy the hotwife scenario.

The site wasn't Fab, it was one that is purportedly more heavenly for swingers - but it has left me somewhat flabberghasted...

Was I wrong to believe an approach had been made? Did I deserve the abusive response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The male of the couple wants a piece of you...the female read your reply

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

One half message you, and the other half wasn't aware possibly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you didn't deserve an abuse message. Don't worry alot of people on this site think they are above everyone else and are something special. I guess be thankful you are not meeting them and move on to the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its damn rude.... u can see the convo thread on the message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your right to be confused. We would only approach someone we may be interested in getting to know better. There is never really an excuse to get nasty and abusive with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No & no. I would have done the same as you. I've had similar things happen to me. Don't worry about it there's pleanty of decent swingers out there,admittedly as a solo man it can be hard work to get taken seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One half message you, and the other half wasn't aware possibly? "

This I'd imagine

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"If a couple contacted you (especially as a single male) complimented you on your profile and asked you to take a look at theirs - would it be reasonable to assume that they have showed an interest?

Well, it just happened to me, so I sent a nice long note, with photos, explaining how I enjoy the hotwife scenario (they make it clear they want "separate room" swapping) and how important it is that we all take some pleasure from this scenario.

I have just received a fairly abusive message back, the gist of which is: "Can't you read? It says NO SINGLE MALES".

Admittedly, it did also say "no single males" on their profile - but it isn't the first time a couple have approached me, contrary to what it says on their profile - and I do enjoy the hotwife scenario.

The site wasn't Fab, it was one that is purportedly more heavenly for swingers - but it has left me somewhat flabberghasted...

Was I wrong to believe an approach had been made? Did I deserve the abusive response?"

Bit like when you receive a wink and say thanks. They reply so you try to find out more then they don’t reply anymore...... hmmmmm

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Its damn rude.... u can see the convo thread on the message!"

Isn't it only site supporters who can see that? Either way, it didn't deserve such a rude reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks - you're making me feel a lot better; its funny the things that shock you, isn't it?

I suppose I was expecting to open a nice reply and the possibility of a meet.

I asked them not to contact me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One half message you, and the other half wasn't aware possibly? "

Agreed. Most likely the outcome. You did not deserve the abuse.

Block and move on.

Mistress Amelia x

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Feel sorry for you mate as you didn't insinuate it!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Feel sorry for you mate as you didn't insinuate it!"

Its either the guy of the couple who didnt like what the fem was doing or its a single guy pretending to be a couple - there are far to many on here.

Its the downside of being a free/cheap site. I would just decide your better off without them, and move on to a real (genuine swinging) couple who actually want to play. They do exist here and are well worth the effort when you find them. Dont loose faith mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this, I think some have so many messages, they have an auto response rude reply, and couldn't be bothered to look at the message trail to see they started it.

Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have experienced this to.....it seems to be common....

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