FabSwingers.com forum: What size would you class a BBW?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all

This is my first chat and I am certainly not posting to cause any offence or upset..

I was just wondering if I'm classed as a BBW being 5'10 and a size 18?

I look at some BBW and see how beautiful and confident they are. I just wish I could have a fraction of what they have xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You certainly put the beautiful in bbw but not the big - fantastic figure, why worry about a label?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would avoid labels!

You are who you are.

You have clear body photos so people can choose whether or not they find your body attractive from that!

Try and love yourself - people find a confident woman attractive - whatever their body shape or size x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People message me saying they love bbws so who knows. If that's how you want to identify yourself then do it. Personally I was offended as I'm losing weight and am now only just overweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would avoid labels!

You are who you are.

You have clear body photos so people can choose whether or not they find your body attractive from that!

Try and love yourself - people find a confident woman attractive - whatever their body shape or size x"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You certainly put the beautiful in bbw but not the big - fantastic figure, why worry about a label?"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Openly shallow people label so avoid those types as fab is full of them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would avoid labels!

You are who you are.

You have clear body photos so people can choose whether or not they find your body attractive from that!

Try and love yourself - people find a confident woman attractive - whatever their body shape or size x"

Am trying, Fab is helping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op are u happy with your shape of so then don't worry about people's opinions x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

You'll be bbw to some, overweight to others...does it matter?

Take everything with a pinch of salt, not everyone is as confident as they first appear. We have to find that from within.

Besides, there's someone for everyone,so don't overthink/pigeon hole yourself, relax, welcome and have fun.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Honestly I’d say around size 18/20

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I would avoid labels!

You are who you are.

You have clear body photos so people can choose whether or not they find your body attractive from that!

Try and love yourself - people find a confident woman attractive - whatever their body shape or size x"

Preach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'll be bbw to some, overweight to others...does it matter?

Take everything with a pinch of salt, not everyone is as confident as they first appear. We have to find that from within.

Besides, there's someone for everyone,so don't overthink/pigeon hole yourself, relax, welcome and have fun."

Coulnd't have said it better myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW makes you sound fat when your not .

A sexy curvy size 18 sounds much nicer

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Openly shallow people label so avoid those types as fab is full of them!

People are here for their own fantasies. We will never have universal appeal therefore I think it unfair to label people shallow because they dont find everyone sexually attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say about size 17.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would avoid labels!

You are who you are.

You have clear body photos so people can choose whether or not they find your body attractive from that!

Try and love yourself - people find a confident woman attractive - whatever their body shape or size x

Am trying, Fab is helping

I agree it helps! Since re-joining as a single - and not having much luck in the ‘real world’ I have met some wonderful people on here who make me feel attractive all the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Openly shallow people label so avoid those types as fab is full of them!

People are here for their own fantasies. We will never have universal appeal therefore I think it unfair to label people shallow because they dont find everyone sexually attractive. "

Shallow being based on many factors

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your positive comments xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use labels...they suck!

OP you look great, you have a gorgeous figure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there such a thing as BBM?

I feel us men dont have enough labels hee hee

Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the term, it's over used and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But technically anyone "plus size" could be classed as a BBW

I'm just fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally hate labels I am what I am which is a big woman

you look great OP so enjoy fab

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I prefer 'FAF', fat and fabulous. I'm fat, I know I am so I don't really take offence to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask Google

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

To some a "bbw" is anyone over a size 12, to others it is larger.

I'm a size 18-20 and at 5'3 I look a lot larger than you because height makes a big difference.

Stop worrying about your size, you look great in your pictures and I'm sure there will be no shortage of people who find you sexy and attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i for one am enjoying looking at all you lovely ladies in this thread.

Gorgeous the lot of u!

Cheeky xxx

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By *asterofmaidsMan
over a year ago

Telford

Just had a look at your pics and what a lovely body you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am a size 16.I class myself as a bbw

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

I just like curves on a lady,is that ok?

I don't mean any offence.

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"I prefer 'FAF', fat and fabulous. I'm fat, I know I am so I don't really take offence to it. "

Wow delicious lips.I could lose myself kissing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm size 18 and curvaceous, I don't call myself a BBW but have been to BBW club nights where there are all shapes and sizes, it's a pretty useless label if you ask me

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"I'm size 18 and curvaceous, I don't call myself a BBW but have been to BBW club nights where there are all shapes and sizes, it's a pretty useless label if you ask me"

I had to take a look, fantastic curves and what a clevage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use labels...they suck!

OP you look great, you have a gorgeous figure!

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And the very same can be said about you

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I would avoid labels!

You are who you are.

You have clear body photos so people can choose whether or not they find your body attractive from that!

Try and love yourself - people find a confident woman attractive - whatever their body shape or size x

Am trying, Fab is helping

It does - I’m a size 20, but the swinging world definitely helps you to see the beauty in every shape & size!

And as for the ‘labels’, don’t worry about them! I don’t think of myself as a BBW, but I know ladies who are smaller sizes than me who do class themselves as BBW. I host a club event for curvier ladies & it’s all about how they perceive themselves & not what labels other people put on you! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't label yourself, you're you , you're human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see size I see the person as more important

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I prefer 'FAF', fat and fabulous. I'm fat, I know I am so I don't really take offence to it.

Wow delicious lips.I could lose myself kissing them

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

This is my first chat and I am certainly not posting to cause any offence or upset..

I was just wondering if I'm classed as a BBW being 5'10 and a size 18?

I look at some BBW and see how beautiful and confident they are. I just wish I could have a fraction of what they have xx"

As a lover of the more fuller figure on a woman your figure is something to drool over, you certainly have a thumbs up here.

There is nothing written in stone to size and shape and certainly size is all but a number.

Be proud of your figure there are loads of people on here who just love to meet a woman " with a few more lbs " both men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see size I see big breasts and blood just flows out of my brain straight into one area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see size I see big breasts and blood just flows out of my brain straight into one area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see bbw termed as "beautiful breasted woman" .. which u are , and for me its about the person within not size or looks ... you do look very nice by the way you bbw you x

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"I prefer 'FAF', fat and fabulous. I'm fat, I know I am so I don't really take offence to it.

Wow delicious lips.I could lose myself kissing them

Thanks!"

Pleasure

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By *even inchesMan
over a year ago

nottingham

It’s not about the body it’s about the person inside

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Life’s too short for labels... you are you and that’s what is important....J x

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Everyone ideas and perceptions of ‘size’ are different. It’s down to the individual to decide what constitutes being a bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put myself in BBW category

I’m size 20/22 but I leave it to whoever is looking to decide

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Height has a lot to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

This is my first chat and I am certainly not posting to cause any offence or upset..

I was just wondering if I'm classed as a BBW being 5'10 and a size 18?

I look at some BBW and see how beautiful and confident they are. I just wish I could have a fraction of what they have xx"

OP... Welcome and you’re glorious! I’m the bi fem of our couple and I certainly would. In fact we both would. Be proud and confident in how you look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

This is my first chat and I am certainly not posting to cause any offence or upset..

I was just wondering if I'm classed as a BBW being 5'10 and a size 18?

I look at some BBW and see how beautiful and confident they are. I just wish I could have a fraction of what they have xx

OP... Welcome and you’re glorious! I’m the bi fem of our couple and I certainly would. In fact we both would. Be proud and confident in how you look

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

In answer to your question ;

Anybody who gets stuck in the door at Greggs bakery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a curvy girl and class myself as ‘Cherry’, up to others what labels they choose to put on people; just work what you’ve got girl!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Height has a lot to do with it"

Indeed! My sister and I are the same size and often share pictures of ourselves in our latest outfits which are often the same/similar from boohoo.

We are both "straight" no hips but she has a small bust, long limbs and 5ft 10.

I'm 5ft 7, top heavy with a big stomach and 20kg heavier.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I not one for labels or sticking people in to boxes (unless it's part of my play). But what I would say is dress size is only part of the story. Body build and proportionality are important factors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why do people have to put a label on people.

The fact is I am who I am and if people like me fantastic if they don't then it's there hardship not mine

life is to be lived no matter on size or shape

So drop your labels and go out and shine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a 20/22 and always honest about my size.. i hate the term bbw.. my size far from defines me. Theres much more to me than that! Your have an amazing figure.. embrace it and flaunt it! We all like what we like and im sure the fellas will be queuing up!

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

BBw here would love to drop a few dress sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here for the view... no need to lable me a perv or anything...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself and enjoy life,mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it difficult. I'm not ashamed of my body but I have been on dates/ meets with people who have commented on my weight in a negative way. I try to make it clear on my profile so I can avoid having contact with haters.

I notice a lot of people commented about proportions but not all larger ladies have big breasts. I don't have an hour glass figure as I'm quite narrow hipped and carry my weight around my middle.only certain types of bbw seem to be acceptable when it is discussed however, in practice at clubs I haven't noticed men seeming that bothered.

Also the term I know for the male equivalent is BHM (big heavy man)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for your positive comments xx"

You look slim to me in your pics hunny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call myself a BBW simply because I am fat (5'9, size 20/22) and it is just easier to stick it in my profile so people know what they are getting.

Personally I was so worried that when I met someone they would run away as soon as they saw me that I made it clear on my profile. Gotta love low self esteem!

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I find it difficult. I'm not ashamed of my body but I have been on dates/ meets with people who have commented on my weight in a negative way. I try to make it clear on my profile so I can avoid having contact with haters.

Also the term I know for the male equivalent is BHM (big heavy man) "

Big handsome man, that's the term I've read on other sites.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you for your positive comments xx

You look slim to me in your pics hunny x

Thank you!

Had so many positive comments just need to get on with the fun and stop worrying xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the term I know for the male equivalent is BHM (big heavy man)

Big handsome man, that's the term I've read on other sites."

That sounds better. I'll switch to that one.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Also the term I know for the male equivalent is BHM (big heavy man)

Big handsome man, that's the term I've read on other sites.

That sounds better. I'll switch to that one. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" People message me saying they love bbws so who knows. If that's how you want to identify yourself then do it. Personally I was offended as I'm losing weight and am now only just overweight

You're skinny, fuck I must just be a pig if you're a BBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't bbw just another name for a fat chick

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By *RealHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

It’s good to see other people talking about this. I get messages saying they love bbws and it’s not something I would call myself. I prefer thick and juicy or...too wide for narrow minds!

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By *heshirefungirlWoman
over a year ago

ammanford

"I prefer 'FAF', fat and fabulous. I'm fat, I know I am so I don't really take offence to it. "

Ow I might have to change from a BBW to FAF

The main thing is being comfortable and confident in the skin your in, before the world of swing society tells us we have to be slim to be lusted after

But believe me I go to BBW nights and in the early days I used to look at guys and think they wouldn't look twice at me yet they lust you more than you would think

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Any thing above a size 22 I would class' as a BBW ..

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Openly shallow people label so avoid those types as fab is full of them!

With the greatest of respect - if that’s the case how come we’re now on BBW thread 600+?

Some people like to take on a label and ‘own’ it - if it’s their choice I really don’t see the issue with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s good to see other people talking about this. I get messages saying they love bbws and it’s not something I would call myself. I prefer thick and juicy or...too wide for narrow minds!

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