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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Musing this morning Fabsters, as usual.

Does anyone actually meet married people? I read on the forums people’s views on this. If you do why do you? If you don’t why don’t you?

No sinister reason for asking, just interested to hear your views on the subject.

Bhubaysi

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Musing this morning Fabsters, as usual.

Does anyone actually meet married people? I read on the forums people’s views on this. If you do why do you? If you don’t why don’t you?

No sinister reason for asking, just interested to hear your views on the subject.

Bhubaysi

"
do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musing this morning Fabsters, as usual.

Does anyone actually meet married people? I read on the forums people’s views on this. If you do why do you? If you don’t why don’t you?

No sinister reason for asking, just interested to hear your views on the subject.

Bhubaysi

I would lol couples are great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married, yes. Cheating, no.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if i can help it..

Its just not my thing..

Im here to meet likeminded singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musing this morning Fabsters, as usual.

Does anyone actually meet married people? I read on the forums people’s views on this. If you do why do you? If you don’t why don’t you?

No sinister reason for asking, just interested to hear your views on the subject.

Bhubaysi

"

Yes

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If they are married to each other yes, if playing away no. However, I won't meet the male half of a couple on his own even with his partners knowledge either, I'd rather meet a single guy.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Ones that do is because they want to those who don't, dont because they dont want to hope that helps

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I meet people who I like what their marital status is is none of my business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.... learn that lesson here the hard way.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes.

I find you know where you stand with each other from the word go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married, yes. Cheating, no.

C"

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and would again.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Haven't a clue if they are married or not...I never ask.Does it really matter if people are having nsa fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

I find you know where you stand with each other from the word go. "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet people who I like what their marital status is is none of my business "

I agree. I meet people that I have a good connection with, that I want to have sex with. It's between me, and them, and that's all. Status would be between them and their partner, and not my concern.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No I don't. I know the effect it had on myself and my children. I would never wish that on anyway,it's cruel beyond word's.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Besides I have no respect for someone who does cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and meeting without my husband consent. I find it funny how many profiles state don't meet married people but then mail me to ask if I'd be interested in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult to avoid on here

The vast majority of guys contacting me on here are married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if the other half knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet people that cheat. It's not something we want to be complicit in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet married men, my former FWB was married when we started meeting. My new FWB is also married. I have met other married men too. XXX

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Not with knowledge we don't, can't be arsed with the potential grief and don't agree with getting involved in other people's relationship issues.

Having said that if you are meeting singles how do you know, so probably have without knowing anyway.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I meet people who I like what their marital status is is none of my business "

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Yes.

I find you know where you stand with each other from the word go. "

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I meet married men, my former FWB was married when we started meeting. My new FWB is also married. I have met other married men too. XXX"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationship status isn't important to me. This doesn't make me unethical. Moralists bemoan the chaos cheats cause. But for every one example of this there are plenty of others where cheating either saved a good relationship or ended an awful one. Plus, even swinging with consenting couples together can lead to break ups if things were going that way anyway. As such, I prefer not to bother with crystal balls and just try to make sure the person/people I'm with are getting what they want from our meets and thoroughly enjoying themselves. The rest is in the hands of fate.

I would approach single women, couples, and cheats very differently though. They each have very different boundaries and criteria. I'd be deeply respectful of those boundaries.

I'm not interested in cheating. The minute I meet anyone I feel serious about, whether I meet them on here or not, I'll come off here. This is just play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well articulated

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I meet people who I like what their marital status is is none of my business "

This!

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By *rMrs Horny300Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Musing this morning Fabsters, as usual.

Does anyone actually meet married people? I read on the forums people’s views on this. If you do why do you? If you don’t why don’t you?

No sinister reason for asking, just interested to hear your views on the subject.

Bhubaysi

We do , it's great fun !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet people who I like what their marital status is is none of my business

I agree. I meet people that I have a good connection with, that I want to have sex with. It's between me, and them, and that's all. Status would be between them and their partner, and not my concern."

I agree too. I don't care about people's marital status, it's their business. It is easier for me as I know they only want good time and not a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Relationship status isn't important to me. This doesn't make me unethical. Moralists bemoan the chaos cheats cause. But for every one example of this there are plenty of others where cheating either saved a good relationship or ended an awful one. Plus, even swinging with consenting couples together can lead to break ups if things were going that way anyway. As such, I prefer not to bother with crystal balls and just try to make sure the person/people I'm with are getting what they want from our meets and thoroughly enjoying themselves. The rest is in the hands of fate.

I would approach single women, couples, and cheats very differently though. They each have very different boundaries and criteria. I'd be deeply respectful of those boundaries.

I'm not interested in cheating. The minute I meet anyone I feel serious about, whether I meet them on here or not, I'll come off here. This is just play. "
Great response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I meet people who I like what their marital status is is none of my business

This! "

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I agree. I meet people that I have a good connection with, that I want to have sex with. It's between me, and them, and that's all. Status would be between them and their partner, and not my concern.

I agree too. I don't care about people's marital status, it's their business. It is easier for me as I know they only want good time and not a relationship"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet people who I like what their marital status is is none of my business

This! "

Yep this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t feel comfortable knowing that they’re married... but I can see the attraction of knowing where you stand, and that emotions have to stay out of it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes you just cant help who you get a connection with.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Only if they're together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my play is in clubs so I neither know nor care what someone’s marital status is. I’ve met married or attached people away from clubs too. It’s none of my business really

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"sometimes you just cant help who you get a connection with. "

That's very true but you can help how you choose to act on the connection.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

No we wouldn't due to the carnage caused by previous cheating partners. I know this is a bit of a generalisation but seen it many times, someone who's cheating is often looking to get out of a relationship and move on to the next partner rather than making a clean break of it so I would guess it's often not NSA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often it’s difficult to tell - from my experience most ‘single’ guys on here are attached - some are honest and others don’t mention it all. I just don’t like it when you arrange a meet and then suddenly they have very limited time or they start to panic about getting caught - I feel a bit used then!

Also I worry about an angry wife following them one day and turning up at my door! So I try to avoid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here to have fun not judge others for being here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love Married Women

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They know what want what don't

....Yeah Married women I list. YOU.XXX

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No. I simply can't be arsed with the scheduling issues and the angry wives.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't meet married men for no other reason they don't meet me.

Hard to explain returning home sans pubes, whipped marks and "property of Miss Vee" temporary tattoo on your arse to the wife. I remember years ago a man turning up with shampoo, shower gel, deodorant and perfume. They were the brand's his wife used and didn't want me to leave a scent trail.

Who the fuck has time for that? Nah...uncomplicated drama free singles ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t usually meet the same guys more than once so we don’t really ask if they are married .. but if they have on their profile that they are married but cheating we avoid ..

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By *layfulexplorers2Couple
over a year ago

Bath

What they said.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Musing this morning Fabsters, as usual.

Does anyone actually meet married people? I read on the forums people’s views on this. If you do why do you? If you don’t why don’t you?

No sinister reason for asking, just interested to hear your views on the subject.

Bhubaysi

"

Yes a large percentage of Fab members are married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most couples i meet are married

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Doesn't bother us. An attached man will almost certainly be more discrete and there'll be little chance of him being a pain in the arse. That's not to say all single guys are a pain in the arse, but it is an extra layer of safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the ‘single’ ladies I’ve met off here have been married, just people having fun that they’re not getting at home, all of them have said it actually keeps their marriage going. As long as it’s all upfront and honest and NSA then there’s no problem with me.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No we don't meet people playing away

It's not worth the potential hurt that it would cause the unknowing partner.Plus would hate it done to me .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most certainly not if their partner doesn’t know. I would never want to be the cause to destroy someone’s life.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Musing this morning Fabsters, as usual.

Does anyone actually meet married people? I read on the forums people’s views on this. If you do why do you? If you don’t why don’t you?

No sinister reason for asking, just interested to hear your views on the subject.

Bhubaysi

"

We rarely meet singles through FAB but we have never asked the singles we've played with at clubs what their marital status.

Cal

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

I am married man,my wife has a fwb,and has no problem if I want to see anyone alone,and my next party is just me going.as long as both halves know I don't see it would be a problem.

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Our view and one of rules is that no one gets hurt by us living this "lifestyle".

So no, we wouldn't meet a married person without their spouses knowledge.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"No we don't meet people playing away

It's not worth the potential hurt that it would cause the unknowing partner.Plus would hate it done to me .

Miss"

Well now here’s the thing ..... men and women will play away , it’s the nature of the human race .

So when we play with married men or women , we figure it’s more likely they will stay together if they play away with us than if they undertake an affair .

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

No I try not too as I can't be arsed with the complications and requests don't wear make up or no perfume and one meet we'd only just got our clothes off when she rang him and he had to scurry home cos he was out on his day off!!!! That was a waste of a hotel and new lingerie .. so no I don't wish to meet married people ....

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"No we don't meet people playing away

It's not worth the potential hurt that it would cause the unknowing partner.Plus would hate it done to me .

Miss

Well now here’s the thing ..... men and women will play away , it’s the nature of the human race .

So when we play with married men or women , we figure it’s more likely they will stay together if they play away with us than if they undertake an affair .

"

Some will I agree,no matter what they have at home.

It's not something I want on my conscience though and partners do find out .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to say no.

On here i aim not to and will always ask

But sometimes you end up in a situation where couldnt be controlled (when your drawn to someone and they are it makes it 100 times worse)

And not just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet married people.

I won't meet one half of a swinger couple though.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We don't do many private meets so it isn't something that we think about much.

However should we agree to meet someone privately we would have to be confident that he wasn't married and cheating. It would just be too much trouble and could potentially lead to a lot more.

Inside a swinger club we don't ask and don't really care. He/she has made the decision to go into the place and whatever happens stays inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No I try not too as I can't be arsed with the complications and requests don't wear make up or no perfume and one meet we'd only just got our clothes off when she rang him and he had to scurry home cos he was out on his day off!!!! That was a waste of a hotel and new lingerie .. so no I don't wish to meet married people ...."

Aah...you had the "no leaving scent trail" type too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. I don't judge.

Besides, it can be lots of fun. One might get their kicks from doing something that one isn't meant to do. Just like having sex in a public place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do meet married guys. We also meet single guys. We don't mind which they are

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Yes. We are all consenting adults.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I meet more married guys than single. I find it suits me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if I can help it, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am married and meeting without my husband consent. I find it funny how many profiles state don't meet married people but then mail me to ask if I'd be interested in meeting."

Yeah I get that too!!!

Some message bashing the fact I’m here without my husband knowing yet others will have it written in their bio and still ask for a quick cheeky meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do. I don't judge.

Besides, it can be lots of fun. One might get their kicks from doing something that one isn't meant to do. Just like having sex in a public place. "

Agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, absolutely. Sometimes with their partner's consent, sometimes with complete discretion becuse their partner is unaware of their extra-curricular activities.

We're all grown up enough to realise that we all have our own reasons for being here and I have no interest in anything other than my partner's enjoyment of our time together.

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith

Yes I have. Someone's marriage is none of my business, whatsoever. A large percentage of the men whom have shown an interest in me or I have met, have had a wife.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hope so, L would have no fun if they didn’t!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather not meet anyone that's cheating.

It's none of my buisness what peoples relationship statuses are - but if I want to have fun with someone it's usually at a weekend and I don't accomodate - so it makes it too difficult or expensive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet two couples who are very happy married.So yes, I also have meet other people over the years who have been married.x

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By *arkaCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Haven't a clue if they are married or not...I never ask.Does it really matter if people are having nsa fun? "

Same for us!

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Most of the guys I meet are married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will happily meet married men. None of my business if they are meeting with their partners consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't. I know the effect it had on myself and my children. I would never wish that on anyway,it's cruel beyond word's."

I couldnt agree more!

We are married yes....cheating, no!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Moelfre

Probably ')

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

I am married with Fab being an occasional extra curricular activity.

I have enjoyed meets with women who are single, married couples, wives playing with their husband's knowledge and those playing away.

We are adults making our own decisions.

People who aren't interested because I'm married either tell me or block me.

Of course, there are countless other reasons that they might block me

I have, very occasionally had abuse about it, but always from people who get annoyed with me on the politics forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am married with Fab being an occasional extra curricular activity.

I have enjoyed meets with women who are single, married couples, wives playing with their husband's knowledge and those playing away.

We are adults making our own decisions.

People who aren't interested because I'm married either tell me or block me.

Of course, there are countless other reasons that they might block me

I have, very occasionally had abuse about it, but always from people who get annoyed with me on the politics forum "

As you say "we are adults making our own decisions", pity there's too much hypocrisy and double standards on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and lots of people do, be it knowingly or unknowingly. It's those on here who judge harshly without knowing facts, and harp on that no they would never meet cheats on here, but then the same people will happily have sex with others in clubs without even asking the questionabljt a persons relationship status. Apparently though, that's 'different' and 'acceptable'. Hmmm....double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, and lots of people do, be it knowingly or unknowingly. It's those on here who judge harshly without knowing facts, and harp on that no they would never meet cheats on here, but then the same people will happily have sex with others in clubs without even asking the questionabljt a persons relationship status. Apparently though, that's 'different' and 'acceptable'. Hmmm....double standards."

*without even asking the question about a persons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, and lots of people do, be it knowingly or unknowingly. It's those on here who judge harshly without knowing facts, and harp on that no they would never meet cheats on here, but then the same people will happily have sex with others in clubs without even asking the questionabljt a persons relationship status. Apparently though, that's 'different' and 'acceptable'. Hmmm....double standards."

Worse is the difference between the treatment metered out to men and women on the Forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, and lots of people do, be it knowingly or unknowingly. It's those on here who judge harshly without knowing facts, and harp on that no they would never meet cheats on here, but then the same people will happily have sex with others in clubs without even asking the questionabljt a persons relationship status. Apparently though, that's 'different' and 'acceptable'. Hmmm....double standards.

I've seen both men and women get slated on these forums for admitting to cheating.

Worse is the difference between the treatment metered out to men and women on the Forum."

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Yes, and lots of people do, be it knowingly or unknowingly. It's those on here who judge harshly without knowing facts, and harp on that no they would never meet cheats on here, but then the same people will happily have sex with others in clubs without even asking the questionabljt a persons relationship status. Apparently though, that's 'different' and 'acceptable'. Hmmm....double standards."

We don't think it is double standards at all, and yes it is very different.

Inside a club it is usually (for us anyway) anonymous. We don't even know the names of most of the guys that Mrs H has fucked and that is what we prefer.

To set up a private meet you will have exchanged messages on here (or elsewhere) met for a drink somewhere, then back to yours or theirs (unlikely but not impossible) or booked a hotel.

Then it becomes very personal and, as I said above, the potential for trouble is very real.

We do very few private meets but, on the rare occasion that we do, we would have to be confident that any single guy (or girl) really was.

Then again they would probably lie about it so better not to do private meets at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Musing this morning Fabsters, as usual.

Does anyone actually meet married people? I read on the forums people’s views on this. If you do why do you? If you don’t why don’t you?

No sinister reason for asking, just interested to hear your views on the subject.

Bhubaysi

"

No I will never meet married singles, I tend to really piss them (men) off by reminding them how they would feel if I was fucking their wife and they found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would its there choice to meet if it wasnt me someone else morality has no say

He who hesitates matrerbates

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Besides I have no respect for someone who does cheat."

Agree xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Besides I have no respect for someone who does cheat.

Agree xxx "

Ditto. If they can't grasp the concept of their partner not consenting to what is happening behind their back, then I wouldn't trust them to understand consent with me. Would never (knowingly) facilitate cheating.

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By *rCandPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Yes.

I find you know where you stand with each other from the word go. "

Agree

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London


"Musing this morning Fabsters, as usual.

Does anyone actually meet married people? I read on the forums people’s views on this. If you do why do you? If you don’t why don’t you?

No sinister reason for asking, just interested to hear your views on the subject.

Bhubaysi

No I will never meet married singles, I tend to really piss them (men) off by reminding them how they would feel if I was fucking their wife and they found out. "

Why assume that would piss all of us off?

The sweeping generalisation is a little overused.

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By *etsplay200Couple
over a year ago

Hagley


"Yes.

I find you know where you stand with each other from the word go.

Agree "
agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, and lots of people do, be it knowingly or unknowingly. It's those on here who judge harshly without knowing facts, and harp on that no they would never meet cheats on here, but then the same people will happily have sex with others in clubs without even asking the questionabljt a persons relationship status. Apparently though, that's 'different' and 'acceptable'. Hmmm....double standards.

We don't think it is double standards at all, and yes it is very different.

Inside a club it is usually (for us anyway) anonymous. We don't even know the names of most of the guys that Mrs H has fucked and that is what we prefer.

To set up a private meet you will have exchanged messages on here (or elsewhere) met for a drink somewhere, then back to yours or theirs (unlikely but not impossible) or booked a hotel.

Then it becomes very personal and, as I said above, the potential for trouble is very real.

We do very few private meets but, on the rare occasion that we do, we would have to be confident that any single guy (or girl) really was.

Then again they would probably lie about it so better not to do private meets at all.

"

It's still very much double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

I find you know where you stand with each other from the word go.

Agree agree"

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me one iota.

People don't like marrieds the same way they don't like overweights, baldies, hairies etc.

It's a choice. I read a profile and if there is something I don't like in there, I block. Why have a news feed of people you have no interest/connection with?

I won't like everybody and everybody won't like me - Move on and find those you want to have fun with.

None of us are getting off this ride alive....

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley

I do, really enjoy spending time with a married couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If Lisa fancies them she will fuck them regardless if they are married or not.

We are here for sex at the end of the day.

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

I’ve been told that I was chosen because of that fact. Apparently less likely to be clingy and difficult after etc ..

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I’ve been told that I was chosen because of that fact. Apparently less likely to be clingy and difficult after etc .."

Same here - have been selected on more than one occasion specifically because I'm married...

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I met many married guys, it is good feeling to send them back to their family with cum filled mouth

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Yes, and lots of people do, be it knowingly or unknowingly. It's those on here who judge harshly without knowing facts, and harp on that no they would never meet cheats on here, but then the same people will happily have sex with others in clubs without even asking the questionabljt a persons relationship status. Apparently though, that's 'different' and 'acceptable'. Hmmm....double standards.

We don't think it is double standards at all, and yes it is very different.

Inside a club it is usually (for us anyway) anonymous. We don't even know the names of most of the guys that Mrs H has fucked and that is what we prefer.

To set up a private meet you will have exchanged messages on here (or elsewhere) met for a drink somewhere, then back to yours or theirs (unlikely but not impossible) or booked a hotel.

Then it becomes very personal and, as I said above, the potential for trouble is very real.

We do very few private meets but, on the rare occasion that we do, we would have to be confident that any single guy (or girl) really was.

Then again they would probably lie about it so better not to do private meets at all.

It's still very much double standards."

In your opinion, not ours.

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By *owthen99Man
20 weeks ago

Attenborough

If anyone my way is interested message me ask away if you have any questions thank you

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds

We'd meet a married woman if the husband was aware and happy for her to meet.

I wouldn't meet a cheat.

Mrs

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By *oxy jWoman
20 weeks ago

somerset

if your a swinger then 100% you will have met or will meet married so even if you dont want to meet married chance are you have 100% ... yes you can read alot and alot of tell tell signs but some will slip thru ...

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By *inkyguyUKMan
20 weeks ago

worcester

Some women love a married man

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By *oppet22TV/TS
20 weeks ago

huddersfield

Yes no problem with it

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By *OYFBWoman
20 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

Marital status is irrelevant to me

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By *elboy1978Man
20 weeks ago

Jarrow

Yes it is no problem with me

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"if your a swinger then 100% you will have met or will meet married so even if you dont want to meet married chance are you have 100% ... yes you can read alot and alot of tell tell signs but some will slip thru ...

"

Exactly this has happened to me ... got better at spotting them.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
20 weeks ago

Herts

Well I stick my thing in the odd married lady. Not always with their hubby knowing. But most of the time they do

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By *ensman100Man
20 weeks ago

Hounslow

Yep happy to do so.

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
20 weeks ago

North East leicestershire

Not knowingly, we don't need the hassle if/when the other half finds out.

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By *mooth shaftMan
20 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes happy too if we both agree

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Yep- if they are interested. What they do when in a relationship is there business not mine so I would

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By *TinRedCouple
20 weeks ago

Reading

Wouldn't meet a cheat, but married yeah, and partner aware for sure...

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