FabSwingers.com forum: people on this site i dont get it

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

dont no if its just me or not but when i recive a message from someone an they compliment you but you tell them your not intrested they then abuse you ?

i dont get the need for someone to be nasty

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

It’s a defence mechanism. They can’t cope with rejection, so they get angry, and convince themselves that they’re the ones doing the turning-down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it to OP some guys just can't handle even a polite no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its horrible an no need for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always just say thank you. Never has abuse for thanking someone for a lovely compliment xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i mass delete them as dont open them as get to many tho xx

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

If I compliment A lady and she replies with a thank you I may message again if no response move on be happy

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

OP - There's nothing on your profile to compliment apart from 2 very close up pictures of your genitals. There's some strange men out there.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"dont no if its just me or not but when i recive a message from someone an they compliment you but you tell them your not intrested they then abuse you ?

i dont get the need for someone to be nasty

They're attempting to repair their dented ego.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"dont no if its just me or not but when i recive a message from someone an they compliment you but you tell them your not intrested they then abuse you ?

i dont get the need for someone to be nasty

I'm assuming that what happened here is that you have messaged someone with a complement and they have messaged you back with abuse?

It's a little hard to make out who sent the original message in your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP - There's nothing on your profile to compliment apart from 2 very close up pictures of your genitals. There's some strange men out there."

Many men will compliment a black sack if it gets them laid.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I'm assuming that what happened here is that you have messaged someone with a complement and they have messaged you back with abuse?

It's a little hard to make out who sent the original message in your post."

I thought it was quite clear. It’s a fairly standard thing in these parts.

Man messages woman paying her compliments.

Woman responds saying thanks but no thanks.

Man with bruised ego responds with abuse. Often along the lines of, “I never wanted to fuck you anyway, it was a joke, you fat, ugly whore.”

It is, as the OP points out, a thoroughly unpleasant and unnecessary way to go about things, but it’s what happens when a man has insufficient blood to fuel his cock and brain at the same time, despite how tiny they both are.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Chances are these men never get meets, so every cloud...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the OP is bisexual, she could be referring to females as well. Some females can be very catty and unpleasant. XXX

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Really? Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always just say thank you. Never has abuse for thanking someone for a lovely compliment xx"

Im the same

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"dont no if its just me or not but when i recive a message from someone an they compliment you but you tell them your not intrested they then abuse you ?

i dont get the need for someone to be nasty

They fancied you until you said no, make your own mind up who's the dam idiot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

an no i opened my unread messeages my inbox was well over 80 so emptid my mail refreahed the page an had a few saying deleted my message ur ugly etc when they havent seen my facepic theres just no need for it xxxx

HAPPY EASTER YOU LOVELY GENUINE PEOPLE xxxx

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Perhaps they think you're a man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps they think you're a man?"

Its possible

Anything is possible on Fab

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"an no i opened my unread messeages my inbox was well over 80 so emptid my mail refreahed the page an had a few saying deleted my message ur ugly etc when they havent seen my facepic theres just no need for it xxxx

HAPPY EASTER YOU LOVELY GENUINE PEOPLE xxxx"

I don’t get it - why do they do it? It’s hardly gonna make you change your mind or anything.....

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

HAPPY EASTER YOU LOVELY GENUINE PEOPLE xxxx

I don’t get it - why do they do it? It’s hardly gonna make you change your mind or anything..... "

I think both responses from DubiousO.. sum it up perfectly. Easy for me to say as I'm thankfully not the target of horrible messages, but in my view people like that aren't worth wasting any time thinking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is there to compliment on your pics? I'm genuinely asking as all I can see is two very close up genital pics. What compliment could such pictures receive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just dont understand the need to put others down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just dont understand the need to put others down "

Nobody is putting you down.

I would like to know what compliments those pictures get you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im on about in general now why poeple have to be nasty

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By *igtoyMan
over a year ago

Sexytown

Its women too not just men!

I did a search for a lady based in the South East and a great profile came up. I sent a polite intro message and the abuse I got back...well I was staggered to be honest.

I then worked out shed put herself in the South East......and was'nt! But she called me some incredibly rude things....I hope shes realised her wee mistake.

As a result I wont be rejoining after this period expires. Im never rude to anybody!

....theres no need manners cost nothing

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By *hornyx69Man
over a year ago

down south and up north

I’m always getting turned down obviously because I’m not good looking enough.But I always reply back saying ok thanks happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its women too not just men!

I did a search for a lady based in the South East and a great profile came up. I sent a polite intro message and the abuse I got back...well I was staggered to be honest.

I then worked out shed put herself in the South East......and was'nt! But she called me some incredibly rude things....I hope shes realised her wee mistake.

As a result I wont be rejoining after this period expires. Im never rude to anybody!

....theres no need manners cost nothing"

Exactly manners cost nothing and there are so many on this site that are just rude and stuck up there own ass.

People need to realise we are all here for the same reason!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still intrigued as to what compliments can be paid to the Ops two pictures on profile.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm still intrigued as to what compliments can be paid to the Ops two pictures on profile. "

The same compliments males expect to receive about their plethora of cock pics?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm still intrigued as to what compliments can be paid to the Ops two pictures on profile. "

I'm intrigued by a lot of things on the ops profile.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

hero to zero

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

just block them and move on

never take anything personal on here

whilst this site is run quite well you can never prevent or stop trolls and billys

block block block and keep blocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still intrigued as to what compliments can be paid to the Ops two pictures on profile.

The same compliments males expect to receive about their plethora of cock pics?"

How enlightening. I was genuinely asking but hey you twisted it to suit your view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is there to compliment on your pics? I'm genuinely asking as all I can see is two very close up genital pics. What compliment could such pictures receive? "

Hahahahaha Brilliant Reply .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still intrigued as to what compliments can be paid to the Ops two pictures on profile.

I'm intrigued by a lot of things on the ops profile. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it's a minority that reply in an abusive manner. I would never let a bitter few affect my experience on here. Block and forget is my motto. It also helps the decent ones stand out that little bit more, in my opinion

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I'm still intrigued as to what compliments can be paid to the Ops two pictures on profile. "

Clearly. It does come across as a little bullying to keep asking, though.

I don’t like extreme close-ups of genitalia. Some men do. In fairness to the OP, the pictures are better than many. Not my cup of tea, but it’s not difficult to work out what people might say.

Unless, of course, you’re just being pedantic about the semantics of ‘compliment’, in which case I can’t help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still intrigued as to what compliments can be paid to the Ops two pictures on profile.

Clearly. It does come across as a little bullying to keep asking, though.

I don’t like extreme close-ups of genitalia. Some men do. In fairness to the OP, the pictures are better than many. Not my cup of tea, but it’s not difficult to work out what people might say.

Unless, of course, you’re just being pedantic about the semantics of ‘compliment’, in which case I can’t help you."

I wasn't asking you I was asking the OP.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I know. That doesn’t preclude you getting an answer from someone else; it’s a discussion forum, after all. If you only want a response from one person, message them.

Certainly don’t harass them until you get an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know. That doesn’t preclude you getting an answer from someone else; it’s a discussion forum, after all. If you only want a response from one person, message them.

Certainly don’t harass them until you get an answer."

The OP put it to forum and not to my inbox so I asked on the forum twice but if you find that to be harassment report me. Otherwise keep to the subject matter and don't come the white knight.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I’m not being a white knight, I’m just responding. Although, your choice of that phrase is interesting; an admission, perhaps, that you ARE trying to give the OP a hard time?

Btw, do you see the irony that you don’t like me responding to your question, but you have no problem taking the thread down a tangent you instigated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not being a white knight, I’m just responding. Although, your choice of that phrase is interesting; an admission, perhaps, that you ARE trying to give the OP a hard time?

Btw, do you see the irony that you don’t like me responding to your question, but you have no problem taking the thread down a tangent you instigated?"

You can respond to my posts in anyway you choose and likewise for me with others. Is that ironic too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not being a white knight, I’m just responding. Although, your choice of that phrase is interesting; an admission, perhaps, that you ARE trying to give the OP a hard time?

Btw, do you see the irony that you don’t like me responding to your question, but you have no problem taking the thread down a tangent you instigated?

You can respond to my posts in anyway you choose and likewise for me with others. Is that ironic too."

I think the biggest irony here is that both of you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"You can respond to my posts in anyway you choose and likewise for me with others. Is that ironic too."
No. I’ll add irony to the list of things you have difficulty understanding.

It is an odd response when, earlier, you took issue with me replying to your post.

"I think the biggest irony here is that both of you appear to be missing the blindingly obvious"
Go on, then.

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By *parklingGrey.xWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"What is there to compliment on your pics? I'm genuinely asking as all I can see is two very close up genital pics. What compliment could such pictures receive? "

You're extremely obnoxious. Compliments can be given regardless of what pictures are there, on her profile, her personality...

As for the pictures, she could be complimented on her use of toys, hair/hairless, etc.,

- she wasn't posting regarding compliments anyway, she was asking about unnecessary rude comments.

So what is your point except from being rude for no reason? That's like us asking what positive compliments do you expect to get back regarding your hairy chest photo..?

Likes and dislikes are subjective - no need to be rude about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is there to compliment on your pics? I'm genuinely asking as all I can see is two very close up genital pics. What compliment could such pictures receive?

You're extremely obnoxious. Compliments can be given regardless of what pictures are there, on her profile, her personality...

As for the pictures, she could be complimented on her use of toys, hair/hairless, etc.,

- she wasn't posting regarding compliments anyway, she was asking about unnecessary rude comments.

So what is your point except from being rude for no reason? That's like us asking what positive compliments do you expect to get back regarding your hairy chest photo..?

Likes and dislikes are subjective - no need to be rude about it. "

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The irony in this thread is strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is there to compliment on your pics? I'm genuinely asking as all I can see is two very close up genital pics. What compliment could such pictures receive?

You're extremely obnoxious. Compliments can be given regardless of what pictures are there, on her profile, her personality...

As for the pictures, she could be complimented on her use of toys, hair/hairless, etc.,

- she wasn't posting regarding compliments anyway, she was asking about unnecessary rude comments.

So what is your point except from being rude for no reason? That's like us asking what positive compliments do you expect to get back regarding your hairy chest photo..?

Likes and dislikes are subjective - no need to be rude about it.

Thank you."

Popcorn being consumed on this forum ,Brilliant.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm still intrigued as to what compliments can be paid to the Ops two pictures on profile.

The same compliments males expect to receive about their plethora of cock pics?

How enlightening. I was genuinely asking but hey you twisted it to suit your view. "

We twisted nothing. You just didn't like our reply. Like you said in another of your posts it's an "open forum" which is very hypocritical as you don't like replies that people are posting and you're repeatedly demanding a reply from just one person. Are they obliged to give you a personal reply just because you're pestering them? The answer is no. Not what you wanted to hear? Oh shucks, but that's what happens on an "open forum".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm still intrigued as to what compliments can be paid to the Ops two pictures on profile.

The same compliments males expect to receive about their plethora of cock pics?

How enlightening. I was genuinely asking but hey you twisted it to suit your view.

some of the things i hate about this site people pestering and bullying

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"dont no if its just me or not but when i recive a message from someone an they compliment you but you tell them your not intrested they then abuse you ?

i dont get the need for someone to be nasty

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Crazy if I receive rejection I just thank them and move on.

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