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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

gents, are you a grower or a shower? I think I’m a grower ha

Ladies (or gents) do you have a sexual preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower here but V seems to be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A shower?? Is that an electric shower or a power shower!! I will confess it has come out of me like a power shower before. It can be lethal at times as I don't have a great aim

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"gents, are you a grower or a shower? I think I’m a grower ha

Ladies (or gents) do you have a sexual preference? "

Definitely a grower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure, I haven't seen my willy in years

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Definitely a grower, dramatically! I actually don't know where it all comes from compared to it's appearance on the slack lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think am a grower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a grower, dramatically! I actually don't know where it all comes from compared to it's appearance on the slack lol "

I feel you there.

Gives the girls a good shock.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Definitely a grower, dramatically! I actually don't know where it all comes from compared to it's appearance on the slack lol "

On the slack is practically non existent here lol

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

Definitely a grower

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

OK, so am I the only one here who wonders exactly what constitutes a grower vs a shower? ie--is a shower more than.....3, 4, 5 whatever inches and a grower the kind with a tiny nub who suddenly turns into....5 inches?

What's your definition?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, so am I the only one here who wonders exactly what constitutes a grower vs a shower? ie--is a shower more than.....3, 4, 5 whatever inches and a grower the kind with a tiny nub who suddenly turns into....5 inches?

What's your definition?"

A shower hardly grows (maybe a inch or 2) just gets hard mainly.

Growers double or tripple their soft size.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"OK, so am I the only one here who wonders exactly what constitutes a grower vs a shower? ie--is a shower more than.....3, 4, 5 whatever inches and a grower the kind with a tiny nub who suddenly turns into....5 inches?

What's your definition?"

Grower is someone who vastly increases in size from flaccid to erect - like me (shrivelled mess when flaccid and about 5-6” when erect)

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"Definitely a grower, dramatically! I actually don't know where it all comes from compared to it's appearance on the slack lol "

Yep, that's me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a grower for sure.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower!

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Aye! Grower here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo grower especially in the cold lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a grower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a grower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower at best, definitely not a shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much a grower in this weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, so am I the only one here who wonders exactly what constitutes a grower vs a shower? ie--is a shower more than.....3, 4, 5 whatever inches and a grower the kind with a tiny nub who suddenly turns into....5 inches?

What's your definition?

Grower is someone who vastly increases in size from flaccid to erect - like me (shrivelled mess when flaccid and about 5-6” when erect)"

Kind of this; not sure about shrivelled Ness though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, so am I the only one here who wonders exactly what constitutes a grower vs a shower? ie--is a shower more than.....3, 4, 5 whatever inches and a grower the kind with a tiny nub who suddenly turns into....5 inches?

What's your definition?

Grower is someone who vastly increases in size from flaccid to erect - like me (shrivelled mess when flaccid and about 5-6” when erect)

Kind of this; not sure about shrivelled Ness though "

*Mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely grower, between 1 and 2 soft and 8 or so stood to attention lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gents, are you a grower or a shower? I think I’m a grower ha

Ladies (or gents) do you have a sexual preference? "

LOVE a grower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I starred out very small, but as I grew older i am now 6ft tall.

A grower with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a grower, dramatically! I actually don't know where it all comes from compared to it's appearance on the slack lol "
same fella

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm a grower too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told I’m a grower I then had to ask what the hell she was on about

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By *nnocent and RaunchyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester /London

Definitely a grower.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I'm a grower

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Definitely a grower, dramatically! I actually don't know where it all comes from compared to it's appearance on the slack lol "

Now you’re being a tease lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower i have a tiny cock when not hard ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a grower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm both xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im neither lol 1.5 when really shrunk and only 5 3/4 hard

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

A grower

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"gents, are you a grower or a shower? I think I’m a grower ha

Ladies (or gents) do you have a sexual preference? "

Why is it important? As long as the end result is to satisfaction...

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Definitely a grower, dramatically! I actually don't know where it all comes from compared to it's appearance on the slack lol "

Well now I'm curious.. Before and after pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower for sure lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower. Happy to show before and after the horn hits lol

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"gents, are you a grower or a shower? I think I’m a grower ha

Ladies (or gents) do you have a sexual preference?

Why is it important? As long as the end result is to satisfaction...

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Although if I didn’t “grow” there wouldn’t be any satisfaction...

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By *artinfreeMan
over a year ago

Near Doncaster

GROWER!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower definitely, I hate the cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like growers, like seeing it grow for me and stand nicely to attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I have a preference, unless it's that a cock comes attached to a man who has lovely personality, good sense of humour and reasonable level of intelligence.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gents, are you a grower or a shower? I think I’m a grower ha

Ladies (or gents) do you have a sexual preference? "

Am I the only who is both a shower, about 5 inches, and a grower, about 8 inches, maybe I'm a freak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def a grower only wish it would grow more lol. Although at my age only thing growing is waistline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people seem to miss the understanding of these definitions?

you aren’t a grower Cos big when it’s hard, it’s a grower if it GROWS a lot ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another grower to add to the list

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

There are times when you hope that he’s a grower and not a shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The definition someone’s give makes me difficult to differentiate

Would have to lean towards grower as it around about doubles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont understand the growers who put up the embarrassed emoji ... do people really care what its like when its soft? As long as it does the job when hard

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

God yes im definitely a grower

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth


"I dont understand the growers who put up the embarrassed emoji ... do people really care what its like when its soft? As long as it does the job when hard "

Exactly, I’m a grower and not had any complaints.

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By *neplusserMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I like being a grower... especially seeing the look on a meets face when they don't expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've got out a nice hot shower I'm a 'shower', any other time I'm somewhere in the middle. It's not massive anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine most guys are growers

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"I dont understand the growers who put up the embarrassed emoji ... do people really care what its like when its soft? As long as it does the job when hard "

That's a good point. Mine's quite different between soft and hard and I suppose I worry she'd be thinking "is that it?", when that's actually a stupid way of looking at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at you certainly causes growth xx

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"I'd imagine most guys are growers "

Well if this survey is anything to go by, it's an overwhelming majority! I must admit, I know this isn't a scientific poll, but I expected more showers.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Weather related

Hot = shower

Cold = grower

I'm thinking of getting a job as a weatherman on tv so the ladies can get today's weather based in what my cock is doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower here. On a very cold day, contracted sleepy-cock, can resemble a walnut

Good job there's plenty of expansion room, for when things warm up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think showers have the advantage of being more confident when naked and soft too. I always try to get a bit of blood in the old boy before getting naked

Showers don’t have that problem.

I’ve also wondered what women think when they first see a guys dick and it’s small and soft hoping they grow substantially ha

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By *even inchesMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Definitely a grower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm more of a shower but there's still a bit of growing to do

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A grower

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I like a bit of both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd imagine most guys are growers

Well if this survey is anything to go by, it's an overwhelming majority! I must admit, I know this isn't a scientific poll, but I expected more showers."

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More of a grower then shower small untill you take it on then it like hello do you want me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think showers have the advantage of being more confident when naked and soft too. I always try to get a bit of blood in the old boy before getting naked

Showers don’t have that problem.

I’ve also wondered what women think when they first see a guys dick and it’s small and soft hoping they grow substantially ha "

In my experience if the build up is right its usually hard before anyone gets naked

And as for confidence when naked and soft ... usually by that point weve already had sex and if itbwas good sex i would think that should be enough to strut about confidently no matter what size their cock is

I have been with guys that you can tell are shy about their soft cock and straight back on with the boxers after but i dont think they should be since it not like im gonna think ooh he has a small dick ... ive already seen how hard it can get and what it can do by that point

its a bit like me being self concious about my body ... it takes me a while to be confident to take my clothes off ... but after sex i love lying about naked ... thy already saw everything there is too see and still foubd me sexy so whats to be embarassed or shy about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think showers have the advantage of being more confident when naked and soft too. I always try to get a bit of blood in the old boy before getting naked

Showers don’t have that problem.

I’ve also wondered what women think when they first see a guys dick and it’s small and soft hoping they grow substantially ha

In my experience if the build up is right its usually hard before anyone gets naked

And as for confidence when naked and soft ... usually by that point weve already had sex and if itbwas good sex i would think that should be enough to strut about confidently no matter what size their cock is

I have been with guys that you can tell are shy about their soft cock and straight back on with the boxers after but i dont think they should be since it not like im gonna think ooh he has a small dick ... ive already seen how hard it can get and what it can do by that point

its a bit like me being self concious about my body ... it takes me a while to be confident to take my clothes off ... but after sex i love lying about naked ... thy already saw everything there is too see and still foubd me sexy so whats to be embarassed or shy about "

Very good point. It’s just if your not hard before she takes your pants off that’s the scary part unless your a shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a grower.. mine is small flaccid... tiny if nervous... 7-8 inch when erect. Funny though that cock size has never been an issue for me, I enjoy cocks regardless of size. It's not something to get hung up about

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"I'm definitely a grower.. mine is small flaccid... tiny if nervous... 7-8 inch when erect. Funny though that cock size has never been an issue for me, I enjoy cocks regardless of size. It's not something to get hung up about "

It’s certainly not a case of ‘you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all’ - it would be a boring old world if everyone had the same type of cock

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By *ooncat123Woman
over a year ago

Sutton


"I'm not sure, I haven't seen my willy in years "

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By *heoralexpertMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough/Helmsley NY


"A shower?? Is that an electric shower or a power shower!! I will confess it has come out of me like a power shower before. It can be lethal at times as I don't have a great aim"
haha ?? I thought that too

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By *heoralexpertMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough/Helmsley NY


"I think showers have the advantage of being more confident when naked and soft too. I always try to get a bit of blood in the old boy before getting naked

Showers don’t have that problem.

I’ve also wondered what women think when they first see a guys dick and it’s small and soft hoping they grow substantially ha

In my experience if the build up is right its usually hard before anyone gets naked

And as for confidence when naked and soft ... usually by that point weve already had sex and if itbwas good sex i would think that should be enough to strut about confidently no matter what size their cock is

I have been with guys that you can tell are shy about their soft cock and straight back on with the boxers after but i dont think they should be since it not like im gonna think ooh he has a small dick ... ive already seen how hard it can get and what it can do by that point

its a bit like me being self concious about my body ... it takes me a while to be confident to take my clothes off ... but after sex i love lying about naked ... thy already saw everything there is too see and still foubd me sexy so whats to be embarassed or shy about "
you just can't beat lying around naked after sex I agree x

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By *rower1977Man
over a year ago

IOW

Definitely a grower here!

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

grower here. At times next to nothing, but around 6 when erect.

Biggest issue from that (and being overweight) is that cock-and-ball rings are out of the question for any extended time, because when I'm not aroused and especially if I sit down the thing keeps popping off

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