FabSwingers.com forum: Fab Truths

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If u had to tell a newbie what the truths of fab are... where would you start?

Me?

A large number of play veris does not mean that someone is good in bed.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Just because it says someone Is ‘online’ doesn’t mean you have to send them 50 messages carrying on.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

If you are an average bloke with average social skills you are wasting your time on here.

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By *artinfreeMan
over a year ago

Near Doncaster

Please please please do not! Post repulsive photos...

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Smoke and mirrors... Don't believe everything you see and read.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Don’t message any without reading thier bio first. Most genuine swingers will have the answer to all your questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange a meet and at some point you will get stood up

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By *iger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Cloud 9

A large number of veris doesnt mean someone will play with just anyone.

Ordinary single guys are wasting their time just on here, get out to clubs and socials and meet people if they want to get anywhere on here.

The social side is just as important for most swingers that have been on the scene for a few years

Going into a club isnt like just being in a mass orgy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If u had to tell a newbie what the truths of fab are... where would you start?

Me?

A large number of play veris does not mean that someone is good in bed.

A lot of the 'women' are really guys wanking over ur dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because we are on a swinging/sex site dont assume we have fun with anyone with a pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't assume when you see something you don't match on someone else's profile that you are exempt from their preferences.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Some people actually have lives to lead and won't change their commitments, working hours or family time just because you want to meet them when it suits you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on fab is looking for easy nsa sex so come and join the fun, fill your boots but be nice... that’s what everyone thinks the reality is ... your better of trying to meet someone in a pub or a bar it’s far easier and those old fashioned values never die out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please please please do not! Post repulsive photos..."

Don't steal photos either like this guy is doing

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

If you are unable to pull in the real world, joining fab won't automatically make you a fanny magnet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take a photo of your cock whilst its strategically positioned over the toilet xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All single women, and hotwife couples on here are fakes. Except the ones that aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi doesn’t mean gay for the viewing pleasure of the straight partner.....

(Unless it’s that kind of play agreed by all involved first of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because it says someone Is ‘online’ doesn’t mean you have to send them 50 messages carrying on. "

very good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please please please do not! Post repulsive photos...

Don't steal photos either like this guy is doing

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never forget you're using an anonymous Internet service where your greatest asset is your common sense.

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By *r_BigHeadMan
over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

80% of the people are time wasters, but the other 20% make it all worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please please please do not! Post repulsive photos...

Don't steal photos either like this guy is doing

Haha

Touche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.

The wife usually knows nothing about this.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.

The wife usually knows nothing about this."

Do you think that's us?

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

You can be getting on great with someone and then for no apparent reason they just stop communication. Don't over think it , it's them that has bad manners , not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.

The wife usually knows nothing about this."

Bollox, you've blown my cover!

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

"80% of the people are time wasters, but the other 20% make it all worth it.

Only 80 ? You're generous

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Be nice. But don't expect any in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't expect "Instant" fun

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.

The wife usually knows nothing about this.

Do you think that's us? "

Or us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though you have taken time out of your hectic schedule to message someone “hi love your pics you free now?” Or similar garbage. This doesn’t mean you are entitled to a meet, or even a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't that hard to get a meet on here despite what a lot of people say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are playing a long long game.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Put your cock away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can be getting on great with someone and then for no apparent reason they just stop communication. Don't over think it , it's them that has bad manners , not you

I could've written this myself,had a great meet with a guy last week,was quite willing to explore a lot of new things with him(ahem lol) however communication with him since then has been sketchy to say the least lol.

I've already moved on,his loss and all that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Be yourself - don’t copy other people’s profile wording or nick chunks off the internet - doing things like that is easily spotted and makes you look like a loser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think class not crass. Sometimes not showing much is a bigger turn on than showing everything.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"If you are unable to pull in the real world, joining fab won't automatically make you a fanny magnet

All good advice on this thread, but your's is probably closest to the heart of the matter.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Be yourself - don’t copy other people’s profile wording or nick chunks off the internet - doing things like that is easily spotted and makes you look like a loser. "

Especially when their private message is poorly written when they profile is well written.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.

The wife usually knows nothing about this."

Most couples?

Not having much luck eh fella?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers do not all have dirty minds.

Do not expect bi women to jump at the chance of licking your wife's clit while you watch and wank.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Women and couples just love generic copy and paste messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not a free version of AW.

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By *artinfreeMan
over a year ago

Near Doncaster

[Removed by poster at 29/03/18 16:59:56]

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.

The wife usually knows nothing about this."

We're sure with this comment your meet success is going to go through the roof...

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By *artinfreeMan
over a year ago

Near Doncaster

"If u had to tell a newbie what the truths of fab are... where would you start?

Me?

A large number of play veris does not mean that someone is good in bed.

Realy?

A lot of the 'women' are really guys wanking over ur dick pics"

Realy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most couples are just the husband pimping out private pix of their wives to either swap pix with other couples or fems or they're fantasising about guys having sex with their partners.

The wife usually knows nothing about this.

Most couples?

Not having much luck eh fella?"

Hit the nail on the head I think

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Do not assume because someone is showing online,that they are free right there and then and will meet you after 1 or 2 messages.

Miss

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

There is no such thing as truth on fab lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re talking to someone over 40, there’s a 50/50 chance they’re using photos from the early 2000’s

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Your best friend on here is the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to be genuine in your messages. Nothing clichéd, don’t copy and paste. Try to pick up on certain things in their profile and comment on them.

Chances are your message won’t get read or maybe even deleted but on the offchance it is then you’ve started on the right foot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, this website is not fuckin easy to get laid for fellas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That many people will say you're wrong, but as long as you're happy it doesn't matter what other people think.

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

Patience is the most important thing. Don’t think I’ve been on here a week and no one wants to meet me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Unfortunately, this website is not fuckin easy to get laid for fellas!

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good job we’re not eggs then.

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By *izzlemoonMan
over a year ago

Bath

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By *izzlemoonMan
over a year ago

Bath

opinions are like assholes as they saying goes.

that said you'd be better off just focusing on your chances and bettering your own profile rather than pandering to the egotisical or superfical on here. then not worrying about it after.

there's probably a ring of truth to the common themes. if you have no game, aren't attractive have only dick pics... these and are male you're wasting your time unless you like chance or a challenge. and all that effort for wait is most likely a mirage or clickbait.

i guess i'm saying be reflective and confident enough to not a mule for others and play your own game. you'll be better off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For single female friend I'd say grow a thick skin, have a sackful of salt for the numerous pinches you'll need to take and have fun!

A male friend....good luck! And always flush the loo..

To couples I'd say don't ever stop talking and go enjoy your fantasies

Peach x

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

Coventry/Bedworth

Cynicism Is your best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always trust your gut instinct. If you get the feeling something is not quite right other it probably isn't.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Add five/ten years to everyone's ages & you've probably a better than 50% chance of being right.

Don't mistake what people say they'll do with what they actually do.

It takes more effort to get a meet on here than in the real world of pubs & clubs (not swingers clubs).

So if you struggle there, good luck here!!

If a single unverified by meets woman makes first contact there's a more than 85% probability its a bloke.

If a couple contact you there's a good chance again that its a bloke. Or at least a bloke that will do all the talking.

Socials are just that unless anything else has been agreed prior to the meet.

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

Seeing is believing!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Cynicism Is your best friend"

I thought that was Tineye & Google Image Search

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By *heEpicureanMan
over a year ago

Warminster

Single guys assuming they’ll get a meet because they own a cock and internet connection will never get a meet.

Single guys with no meets will always whinge in forums and ask others to judge their profile/pictures/bio and ask why some women only want BBC.....the pity party will be the red flag to nearly all and they’ll continue to get no meets.

Single men joining thinking everyone just wants sex because they’re on a swingers site...you’ll not get any meets.

Single men offering money/drugs for meets...will never get meets.

Single females are like unicorns so even if you’re physically repulsive you will get meets.

Single females will no doubt end up leaving or just blocking single males because the constant bombardment/stalking.

Some “couples” are just single guys jerking off pretending they’ll meet as that is some how fun for them.

Some couples one will be amazing the other hideous and they’ll wonder why they don’t get past social meets.

Couples get bombarded with messages from males saying “wanna fuck” so block all males.

This is just from my experience of being on here as a single male and a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people on fab don’t play

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

As a single male don’t get conned into going to a club with promise of the same amount of women. Find a partner and go to couples nights.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"There is no such thing as truth on fab lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no such thing as truth on fab lol!

There is only the story people put forward, it’s really all a big “I wanna get laid” PR exercise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared for a lot of rejections, don't take it personally, and be careful what you say to someone as it may be misconstrued and you may end up being blocked and not know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re talking to someone over 40, there’s a 50/50 chance they’re using photos from the early 2000’s"

That isn’t true in our case our pics are all taken in the last year .

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By *igtoyMan
over a year ago

Sexytown

"If you are an average bloke with average social skills you are wasting your time on here. "

Could'nt agree more

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Don't assume that fab will ever come ahead of real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re talking to someone over 40, there’s a 50/50 chance they’re using photos from the early 2000’s

That isn’t true in our case our pics are all taken in the last year . "

Mmm ours are generally uploaded the day they are taken

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Be wary of just head shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be wary of just head shots. "

Or no head at all

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