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By *Dan169 OP   Man
over a year ago

nottinghsmshire

On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send 5 unsolicited cock pictures to 5 ramdomly picked users.

Part of my 5 a day good resolution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By reading profiles and looking at statuses from women and couples, I’d say NNNOOOOOOOOOO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve no issue with cock pics .... just not on the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone wants to see it, they will ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no issue with them but should wait a couple of messages

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd rather have a face pic attached to the first message at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather have a face pic attached to the first message at least."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no issue with them but should wait a couple of messages "

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Absolutely pointless. Most profiles already have pictures of cocks. If you are reaching out to someone with the intention of meeting them then a face picture is an absolute must. For people (mainly ladies) that get alot of messages they probably won't be bothered to reply or start asking for a face picture if you hadn't already included one. Once you've got a reply you might be asked for a cock picture but that's highly improbable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely pointless. Most profiles already have pictures of cocks. If you are reaching out to someone with the intention of meeting them then a face picture is an absolute must. For people (mainly ladies) that get alot of messages they probably won't be bothered to reply or start asking for a face picture if you hadn't already included one. Once you've got a reply you might be asked for a cock picture but that's highly improbable. "

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By *Dan169 OP   Man
over a year ago

nottinghsmshire

I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always send 5 unsolicited cock pictures to 5 ramdomly picked users.

Part of my 5 a day good resolution. "

Haha!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x "

in my opinion yes you should only send cock pics when asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x "

Yes... only IF requested IMO

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended "

I only ever send if asked. I did partake in one of these send a private pic threads and sent one to a lady who has since left the site. She made it clear in no uncertain terms that it was a mistake of me to do so. I have never felt so small and learned my lesson and play absolutely safe now.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended

I only ever send if asked. I did partake in one of these send a private pic threads and sent one to a lady who has since left the site. She made it clear in no uncertain terms that it was a mistake of me to do so. I have never felt so small and learned my lesson and play absolutely safe now."

Sorry i meant that about cock pics. I have no idea why i replied to that particular post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t offend me getting a cock pic, but I’d much rather a sexy torso pic. I understand why sending a face pic with the first message might not appeal (but I’d want to see one before having long chats).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x "

A nice clear photo of your face goes along way in at least you receiving a message back, seeing a cock pick on a 1st message is like opening up your Christmas presents in July. Most females prefer to have an intelligent conversation in order to see if you both click with each other, you could have the biggest cock in history but if you can't hold a decent convo then what chance do you have off showing her your record breaking penis lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended "

Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.

But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"By reading profiles and looking at statuses from women and couples, I’d say NNNOOOOOOOOOO "

That's not strictly true...Some couples profiles ask for them to be included with the face pic with the first message

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I prefer they didn't

Especially when they send the same ones on display on their profile.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended

Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.

But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t send cock photos, only several (different angles) of my thrust-weapon-pussy-widener called Saxon Deepener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended

Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.

But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us. "

Was your reply meant to be a thumbs up?

I sometimes use a Fab emoji and it goes weird on my phone and deletes my emoji and response and just posts the quoted text bit. No idea why.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended

Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.

But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us.

Was your reply meant to be a thumbs up?

I sometimes use a Fab emoji and it goes weird on my phone and deletes my emoji and response and just posts the quoted text bit. No idea why.. x"

Yes, sorry!!! But yes, a big x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I’ve no issue with cock pics .... just not on the first message "

I only read the first part of your sentence before sending that message

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By *homCrownMan
over a year ago

West Fife

By request only - always a face pic by way of introduction as long as I feel safe disclosing...

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By *lubitMan
over a year ago

Telford

No don't send it.

Even if you've exchanged a couple of messages, and they ask for it. Because sometimes you'll still get abuse for sending a cock shot. Even when responding to a message saying "Can you send a pic of you cock".

Yep...some real weirdos float around these parts.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

We like a nice face pic to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x "

I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x

I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?

Mrs"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended

Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.

But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us.

Was your reply meant to be a thumbs up?

I sometimes use a Fab emoji and it goes weird on my phone and deletes my emoji and response and just posts the quoted text bit. No idea why.. x

Yes, sorry!!! But yes, a big x"

Thank you, I thought it was just me that it happened to! Thought I had a dodgy phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x

I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?

Mrs"

I think it's because they see all the other genital pics on the site and they assume that's what swingers want to see. It's a fair assumption.

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By *lubitMan
over a year ago

Telford


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x

I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?

Mrs"

Just look at the number of profiles where the size of the cock is the most important thing apparently.

Sometime I imagine what women would say if men's profiles read "must have a tight pussy and be able to prove it before meeting, nothing else matters"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x

I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?

Mrs

Just look at the number of profiles where the size of the cock is the most important thing apparently.

Sometime I imagine what women would say if men's profiles read "must have a tight pussy and be able to prove it before meeting, nothing else matters" "

I would say it’s a fair assumption that a profile requiring, not only a big cock, but proof of a big cock, is likely to appreciate a picture. But I’ve never understood why it would be assumed that I would need a picture of a cock to help me decide if I want to sleep with someone.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x

I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?

Mrs

I think it's because they see all the other genital pics on the site and they assume that's what swingers want to see. It's a fair assumption. "

Sort of a case of monkey see monkey do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a site where there are 1000’s of naked pics should you only send pics of the penis on request, opinions of both sexes and experienced fabsters x

I’ve always found it a total enigma why any guy would assume that a woman needs or wants to see a picture of a dick when introducing himself for the first time. Is it supposed to help me decide if the guy is worth fucking?

Mrs

I think it's because they see all the other genital pics on the site and they assume that's what swingers want to see. It's a fair assumption.

Sort of a case of monkey see monkey do "

Yep.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Just look at the number of profiles where the size of the cock is the most important thing apparently "

I’m sending close-up photos and hoping nobody has seen the Father Ted episode where he’s explaining the difference between big and far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just look at the number of profiles where the size of the cock is the most important thing apparently

I’m sending close-up photos and hoping nobody has seen the Father Ted episode where he’s explaining the difference between big and far away "

Ha! Do a cock pic with a church spire alongside for perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By reading profiles and looking at statuses from women and couples, I’d say NNNOOOOOOOOOO

That's not strictly true...Some couples profiles ask for them to be included with the face pic with the first message "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended

I only ever send if asked. I did partake in one of these send a private pic threads and sent one to a lady who has since left the site. She made it clear in no uncertain terms that it was a mistake of me to do so. I have never felt so small and learned my lesson and play absolutely safe now.

Sorry i meant that about cock pics. I have no idea why i replied to that particular post."

Oh dear Pieman, before I read that follow up I WAS thinking "jeez that's a bit much " i even looked at your pics to see if I'd missed some hideous reflection somewhere

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never sent or requested this type of picture and although not offended, would rather not receive them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To true. We have come to the opinion that those guys sending only cock pics have little else to offer. What are they thinking ? That a woman is going to say ' wow ...I'll have that' - regardless of the looks of the guy? Living in cloud cuckoo land some people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and then we had one git who used such offensive language 'cumdump etc' in his first message....and seriously thought he'd get an invite. He was told off and blocked!

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By *penminded respectableMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I will only send one if requested during a conversation as if you met someone even in a swingers club you wouldn't whip your cock and say hi would you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only of they are asked for as that what I do is wait and see if they ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I have never sent a cock pic. In fact I’ve never even taken a picture of my cock.

The only time I’ve ever been asked to send a cock pic on here is by the male half of a couple. If he is interested, I’m probably not, so that’s the end of the conversation.

Undoubtedly, sending cock pics must work for a lot of guys. If they didn’t, why would they do it??!

If you look at the verifications of the people you are about to message it’s incredible how many times these are just a cock pic and a near empty profile.

So. For those women and couples who don’t like them, have you ever considered directing the blame at those who use a cock picture as their only discrimator before meeting...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree a face pic should be sent with all messages I wondered how many ladies actually would be offended

Not sure offended is the right word but it puts me off ever meeting them. Whether they have a public cock pic or send one.

But that's good because I'm not the type of woman they're looking for, so no time wasted for either of us. "

I feel the same as you.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Face pic with a first message is best. I tire of talking to the invisible man.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Cock pics only if asked for....just my opinion obviously.

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