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By *olfish OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Okay folks picture this..... I arrived for a meet after a long journey and I was pleasantly surprised. She looked lovely in her understated dress, black stockings and nice shoes, we had a nice cup of coffee as we sat on the sofa together and chatted, I felt comfortable in her company. Hands were soon resting on legs, I thought how perfect. However when I went down on her she wasn't clean. My question is should I tell her this? I quite fancy her and risk offence with such a revelation.... or not see her again and leave her wondering why? is there another way I can get around this ? Help please, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo that’s a hard one!

Maybe if you see her again, suggest a nice shower together and soap each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was she not just wet and excited .

Its best to be honest though if she was a bit stinky

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Tell her you have a particular fetish.... ask her if she would allow you to shave her?

If she says ok? Then "Bingo", problem solved cos you get to wash it before play also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may have BV x

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"She may have BV x"

Should I know what BV is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She may have BV x

Should I know what BV is?"

yes, its extremely common, its not an sti..

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By *urSurveySaysMan
over a year ago

London/Chichester


"She may have BV x"

I slept with someone who I'm sure had that. Literally was an unbearable stench even though she was fresh out of the bath. Twice it happened. Couldn't go back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She may have BV x

Should I know what BV is?"

Yes.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkley

You write about it in a forum thread where she will read it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She may have BV x

Should I know what BV is?

yes, its extremely common, its not an sti.."

And it's easily treatable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep her sitting on the sofa, open her legs wide , bend at knees so her feet are on sofa as well , basically she has the best view right .

kneel on the floor in front of her , take a deep breath , hold your nose , go down on her .

i know its subtle but might give her a clue ..

one has to have a sense of humour ..

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Was it supposed to be just a social? As in she wasn't expecting it to get to the point of you licking her lady bits and thought she wouldn't need to be fresh and clean? Or.... She genuinely didn't care In which case I'd be slightly offended she thought that little of the meet she couldn't be bothered to wash her fanny! Also... Always use the finger test.. If they come up stinking you know not to get you tongue down there! ??

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By *urSurveySaysMan
over a year ago

London/Chichester


"She may have BV x

Should I know what BV is?"

Bacterial vaginosis.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Okay folks picture this..... I arrived for a meet after a long journey and I was pleasantly surprised. She looked lovely in her understated dress, black stockings and nice shoes, we had a nice cup of coffee as we sat on the sofa together and chatted, I felt comfortable in her company. Hands were soon resting on legs, I thought how perfect. However when I went down on her she wasn't clean. My question is should I tell her this? I quite fancy her and risk offence with such a revelation.... or not see her again and leave her wondering why? is there another way I can get around this ? Help please, thanks. "

Perhaps she might read this post

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You write about it in a forum thread where she will read it?"

No-one reads the forum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it supposed to be just a social? As in she wasn't expecting it to get to the point of you licking her lady bits and thought she wouldn't need to be fresh and clean? Or.... She genuinely didn't care In which case I'd be slightly offended she thought that little of the meet she couldn't be bothered to wash her fanny! Also... Always use the finger test.. If they come up stinking you know not to get you tongue down there! ?? "

it's possible she had BV in which case it's perfectly possible she was unaware of it.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Small balls of cotton wool up your nostrals Op.

Im good me, im impressing myself here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If shes on here she may know now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If meeting that area is pristine that's how it should be not expected on going down on a cheesy cock lol a bit of decorum please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Small balls of cotton wool up your nostrals Op.

Im good me, im impressing myself here lol "

Or tampons lol x

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton


"Small balls of cotton wool up your nostrals Op.

Im good me, im impressing myself here lol

Or tampons lol x"

Quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does sound like BV. Personally if it was me I would hope someone would tell me (in a tactile way!!) so I can go and get treated. It's easily treated at a sexual health clinic and it's actually caused from too much washing, douching, washing with perfume products and tampons. I had a ex where when he cum in me my body didn't like the PH of his sperm and I would get a bout of bv. It's very common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what I'd do...

Suggest that it's a huge turn on t shower her, watch all the water run over her whole body. Get her to stand in the shower with her hands against the wall and feet apart. Then using her favourite shower gel, massage all her body in a sexual way paying particular attention to her pussy ass and tits. Then when she is clean, pat her dry (never rub) kissing her body as I dry her, then lick and finger her pussy good while she is stil standing. After, she b non the wiser and I'm sure would appreciate every second I know I would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what I'd do...

Suggest that it's a huge turn on t shower her, watch all the water run over her whole body. Get her to stand in the shower with her hands against the wall and feet apart. Then using her favourite shower gel, massage all her body in a sexual way paying particular attention to her pussy ass and tits. Then when she is clean, pat her dry (never rub) kissing her body as I dry her, then lick and finger her pussy good while she is stil standing. After, she b non the wiser and I'm sure would appreciate every second I know I would lol "

i'd avoid getting shower gel anywhere near her genitals, thats possibly the casuse of it if its BV..

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By *llie_worcMan
over a year ago

bristol


"She may have BV x

Should I know what BV is?

Bacterial vaginosis. "

Aww man we know, things are abbreviated for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female fresh x

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"It's very common "

Are we talking a smell like she didn’t launder her knickers since the last time she got excited?

Not that I’ve ever experienced that, obviously...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very common

Are we talking a smell like she didn’t launder her knickers since the last time she got excited?

Not that I’ve ever experienced that, obviously..."

if you're referring to BV, then no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You write about it in a forum thread where she will read it?

No-one reads the forum... "

Except us saddos

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By *hazzer69Man
over a year ago

lancs

If it smells like Chicken..keep on lickin..if it smells like trout ..get the fook out

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton


"If it smells like Chicken..keep on lickin..if it smells like trout ..get the fook out"

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

OP my mother always used to say "Always try and make a good situation, out of a bad one".

So on that note, before next meet. Get yourself to your local chippy and pick up a bag of chips and some vinegar.... itl make a lovely meal for one, with the added Trout!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get down the army surplus store and buy a gas mask....subtle hint which she should pick up...then again you went for a social and that's what you get for sweet talking to her lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them the truth. You don't have to be an ass about. It might be a tad embarrassing but I'd imagine most women would want to know. Then they have the option to sort it

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So unless the lady in question has no sense of smell , how is it possible she doesn’t know ? It’s sounds like it’s more than just a bit fishy ....

Anyway , assuming it’s bv , she really should treat it , and if she isn’t able to smell , be told it’s not nice . Personally , if she has a sense of smell and ignores it , I wouldn’t wanna go there again .

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

So what I'm wondering is.....did you carry on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So unless the lady in question has no sense of smell , how is it possible she doesn’t know ? It’s sounds like it’s more than just a bit fishy ....

Anyway , assuming it’s bv , she really should treat it , and if she isn’t able to smell , be told it’s not nice . Personally , if she has a sense of smell and ignores it , I wouldn’t wanna go there again ."

plenty of women dont realise they have it until its mentioned, thats a very common occurrence, nothing to do with being unwashed...in fact thats often where the problem has started, soap, shower gel etc affecting the pH..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn’t want someone I don’t know very well telling me this. So my view is best leavevthat one until you feel more comfortable to have that conversation with her. If you don’t like going down on her at this moment in time then don’t do it. If you like having sex with her and enjoy her company then there is plenty of other fun to have sexually without oral sex. Or is that easy for me to say as I’m not too bothered if a man goes down on me?

Mrs

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Fuck it.... just Bang it again to make sure you didnt make a mistake

*Sorry,im terrible! Wifey will drag me off here soon lol

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what she smelt Like, she may have been unclean or may have bv like others have suggested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what they do in a mortuary, out some Vic sinus under your nose

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Like people have said on here. Are you sure you didn't turn her on and she got wet? Girls do produce a smell when they're both wet and it does have a taste to it. Perfectly normal

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