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By *ANILLA.IS.FOR.ICE.CREAM OP   Man
over a year ago

Salisbury

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Why do you think it's your lack of verification that is your problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look around at guys that seem to be doing well.

Then think about putting in some effort into your profile.

Maybe rethink your messaging style too

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

What was wrong with the advise you were given on the other thread?

Maybe you could go to a social or a club. Maybe you could buy a webcam and go onto the chat rooms.

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By *ANILLA.IS.FOR.ICE.CREAM OP   Man
over a year ago

Salisbury

Yep done all that. been on and off here for years never had 1 meet, on the feed the locals post daily about "no verify no chat" can't win

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Some how don't think the lack of verification is holding you back. Try putting a bit more effort into your profile write up, a few more photos (not cock shots) and I am sure I will not be the only one to suggest that if you are desperate to get a verification try going to a club or a social.

Not sure where you hail from but you have two weeks leave coming up so time isn't going to be a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want advice or sympathy

I'm nothing special but I'm willing to help if I can

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's definitely not the lack of verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In your profile, write something more about yourself. Don't just write about wanting to play with a woman blah blah blah, actually put some more pics up, write something about yourself, show some personality and just make it fun. You have to stand out from the 1000's of other men on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's definitely not the lack of verifications. "

This .

Seems to me like you're not willing to put in the effort.

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By *ANILLA.IS.FOR.ICE.CREAM OP   Man
over a year ago

Salisbury

Over the years I've had an essay on my profile, no text at all, public photos, face pics, no pics, upgraded/downgraded the lot still nothing. not even views, as I say round here "no verify no chat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the years I've had an essay on my profile, no text at all, public photos, face pics, no pics, upgraded/downgraded the lot still nothing. not even views, as I say round here "no verify no chat" "

Going to some clubs or use the chat rooms, there's not much else you can do if putting info and photos haven't worked in the past, no loss in putting some up anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the years I've had an essay on my profile, no text at all, public photos, face pics, no pics, upgraded/downgraded the lot still nothing. not even views, as I say round here "no verify no chat" "

I find if you read profile and approach people based on joint interests then this can go a long way. Make your message stand out and be different. Don't copy and paste under any circumstances!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Over the years I've had an essay on my profile, no text at all, public photos, face pics, no pics, upgraded/downgraded the lot still nothing. not even views, as I say round here "no verify no chat" "

Accept that it can be frustrating but ultimately you need to at least make an effort. No body is going to shag you out of sympathy (if your looking for that it is between S**t and Syphilis in the dictionary)

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By *ANILLA.IS.FOR.ICE.CREAM OP   Man
over a year ago

Salisbury

Haha, trust me I'm not looking for sympathy, if you knew me you'd know I'm not that type of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look at our profile.

Though I'm sure many could criticise, you'll see we've tried to put in some effort in order to attract what we seek.

A profile with a similar amount of effort may well appeal to us. But not the bog standard one you currently have.

Sell yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you’re willing to prize yourself away from your computer and actually meet real life people, you’re unlikely to achieve your quest for a veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the years I've had an essay on my profile, no text at all, public photos, face pics, no pics, upgraded/downgraded the lot still nothing. not even views, as I say round here "no verify no chat" "

We all started off as one of the great unverified.

Plus we are very sad to inform you that a verification, contrary to popular believe, is not a golden ticket that suddenly opens up the fab floods gates to unlimited sex.

If you are having trouble getting replies and meets without a verification, trust us, you will still struggle with one. Listen and take heed of the advice people are giving you here, it is good advice and they are taking the time to try and help you, don't just dismiss it off hand with a "I've tried that before and it didn't work"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep done all that. been on and off here for years never had 1 meet, on the feed the locals post daily about "no verify no chat" can't win "

Maybe the site isn’t for you then OP

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By *ANILLA.IS.FOR.ICE.CREAM OP   Man
over a year ago

Salisbury

Well cheers for the advice guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If you feel verification is holding you back then go to a club social.

There the people can see and here exactly who you are for what you are so you have the opportunity to sell yourself directly to other people with out the need for profiles or verifications

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Same as what I said in the other thread

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hey Steve brilliant to see you back.

Hey OP, hope you don’t find it odd that if you walk down the same path you always end up at the same place.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Haha, trust me I'm not looking for sympathy, if you knew me you'd know I'm not that type of guy "

We only have what you post on here to go on and at the moment based on your profile and threads you are coming across badly. You have fixated on one possible cause and ignored everything else. You need to act on the advice given or maybe this site is just not for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social, get 4 or 5 verifications. That's my experience.

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