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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a single lady or couple attend a greedy girls party, is there an expectation of some play to happen?

I've been to a few recently and I've noticed regulars attend these parties as though it's a normal night. Which is absolutely fine but they can't get pissed off when blokes keep approaching them or be rude to guys who dare to ask, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only expectation anyone should have is that they have an enjoyable time. It’s not all about the sex, it’s about the social side too.

I don’t get pissed off unless I feel my space is invaded or unless the same person keeps trying to join. I personally prefer it when a bloke stands back quietly and watches, I then invite them when I’m ready. I feel that they have respected my space then and non pushy, but that’s just my preference, it obviously isn’t going to be everyone else’s

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If a single lady or couple attend a greedy girls party, is there an expectation of some play to happen?

I've been to a few recently and I've noticed regulars attend these parties as though it's a normal night. Which is absolutely fine but they can't get pissed off when blokes keep approaching them or be rude to guys who dare to ask, surely? "

It’s polite to wait for an invite from the lady! You seem to be ‘expecting’ to play. Grow up as that will not happen if you pester for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a single lady or couple attend a greedy girls party, is there an expectation of some play to happen?

I've been to a few recently and I've noticed regulars attend these parties as though it's a normal night. Which is absolutely fine but they can't get pissed off when blokes keep approaching them or be rude to guys who dare to ask, surely?

It’s polite to wait for an invite from the lady! You seem to be ‘expecting’ to play. Grow up as that will not happen if you pester for sex "

Well said! I think too many blokes think well I’ve paid my entrance fee I’m entitled to something. They need to remember that they are clubs and not whore houses xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the individual to be honest. An experienced swinger probably not no, but someone new to the scene I would imagine that’s how they would feel, I can see where you’re coming from but as stated earlier, no one should expect anything

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

"

OP you need to remember that sex is never to be expected no matter what the venue! Just because it’s advertised as greedy girls night does not mean you will get sex. The lady may not find you attractive so will not invite you to play. Expect nothing at these events. Lose the expectation in your head before you attend! You’re sounding brattish OP chucking dummy out cos you can’t get sex from a greedy girl.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's interesting to know from a female perspective how you approach this.

It's only as I want to raise this issue with the club how they advertise it and manage people's expectations.

They have an open door/room policy and I think that causes part of the problem. It puts the ladies in a awkward situation, if they play then guys pile in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

"

Some people may be there to watch. I've found that the ones that are happy for anyone to join in are able to communicate that clearly.

Don't expect everyone there to play. Enjoy the social side. It can be more entertaining sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

OP you need to remember that sex is never to be expected no matter what the venue! Just because it’s advertised as greedy girls night does not mean you will get sex. The lady may not find you attractive so will not invite you to play. Expect nothing at these events. Lose the expectation in your head before you attend! You’re sounding brattish OP chucking dummy out cos you can’t get sex from a greedy girl..... "

Would like to make this perfectly clear I'm not talking about myself. And I don't appreciate being told to grow up or called a brat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

Some people may be there to watch. I've found that the ones that are happy for anyone to join in are able to communicate that clearly.

Don't expect everyone there to play. Enjoy the social side. It can be more entertaining sometimes. "

Agreed people watching can be great and very entertaining.

But I've seen no play happen, people then get frustrated and just ruins the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

Some people may be there to watch. I've found that the ones that are happy for anyone to join in are able to communicate that clearly.

Don't expect everyone there to play. Enjoy the social side. It can be more entertaining sometimes.

Agreed people watching can be great and very entertaining.

But I've seen no play happen, people then get frustrated and just ruins the night. "

Again because they are expecting play. Nobody can guarantee play at any club or party. So the expectation should always be just that and then it can only get better. Not the other way round.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's interesting to know from a female perspective how you approach this.

It's only as I want to raise this issue with the club how they advertise it and manage people's expectations.

They have an open door/room policy and I think that causes part of the problem. It puts the ladies in a awkward situation, if they play then guys pile in.

"

I would be interested to hear about you contacting a club as to how they manage people’s expectations! The club would probably tell you not to expect anything and why is it up to them to manage your expectations? Ok greedy girl is the advertising but it’s up to her who she invites to get greedy with. It’s not a f**k fest! You are coming over as expecting things so maybe you should have chosen to use different words for the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been thinking that the name of the event can be very misleading, especially to those who haven't had a lot of experience of clubs. They think it's going to be hordes of women there waiting to jump the bones of any guy that comes through the door. And they don't want to listen when the club owners/website tells them that sex is not guaranteed. I think those men really need to grow up.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We attend gg events at clubs, we usually play with a lot of guys but certainly not all, they’re relaxed well run events, can only recall one occasion where a guy was very pushy (not with us) and the mgmt removed him very quickly. The ones we attend have a social vibe to start with so everyone can interact and then it moves to playrooms. We did have one occasion after th fact when a guy off here mailed to ask why we hadn’t played with him at an event but in general , guys at these are great

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

Im confused! " why are you bothered if folk get frustrated and their night is ruined! Let them get bothered & frustrated its not ur problem! Just because its a " greedy girls night" u can sit bk and not fuck anyone if u want! Just chill & forget about other folk

Some people may be there to watch. I've found that the ones that are happy for anyone to join in are able to communicate that clearly.

Don't expect everyone there to play. Enjoy the social side. It can be more entertaining sometimes.

Agreed people watching can be great and very entertaining.

But I've seen no play happen, people then get frustrated and just ruins the night. "

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

Im confused! " why are you bothered if folk get frustrated and their night is ruined! Let them get bothered & frustrated its not ur problem! Just because its a " greedy girls night" u can sit bk and not fuck anyone if u want! Just chill & forget about other folk

Some people may be there to watch. I've found that the ones that are happy for anyone to join in are able to communicate that clearly.

Don't expect everyone there to play. Enjoy the social side. It can be more entertaining sometimes.

Agreed people watching can be great and very entertaining.

But I've seen no play happen, people then get frustrated and just ruins the night. "

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"I have been thinking that the name of the event can be very misleading, especially to those who haven't had a lot of experience of clubs. They think it's going to be hordes of women there waiting to jump the bones of any guy that comes through the door. And they don't want to listen when the club owners/website tells them that sex is not guaranteed. I think those men really need to grow up."

Someone described them to me as ‘the wanking dead’

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By *aughtyboy79Man
over a year ago

North East

An interesting thread this as it gives me some insight into what to expect if I take the lady friend that is interested in attending one of these nights. We have been to clubs before so know what goes on in a way but I do get the OPs point in that some people may expect more to be going on due to the type of night it is. It hasn't put me off the idea either so thanks all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

OP you need to remember that sex is never to be expected no matter what the venue! Just because it’s advertised as greedy girls night does not mean you will get sex. The lady may not find you attractive so will not invite you to play. Expect nothing at these events. Lose the expectation in your head before you attend! You’re sounding brattish OP chucking dummy out cos you can’t get sex from a greedy girl..... "

What the hell?! He's just asking a question and you're inferring he's some kind of sex predator!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused as to why they are called Greedy Girls events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking it's a ploy to attract more men to generate more revenue. The title in itself insinuates men will get more opportunities than on another night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting to know from a female perspective how you approach this.

It's only as I want to raise this issue with the club how they advertise it and manage people's expectations.

They have an open door/room policy and I think that causes part of the problem. It puts the ladies in a awkward situation, if they play then guys pile in.

"

I totally agree with you. Some clubs DO infer that sex is guaranteed. There have been many threads on the forums where the organisers/ clubs have said the women are desperate for sex and the men would be doing them a favour.

I've been to club where the man on the door said my man friend would definitely be getting fucked that night as it was a greedy girls night.

The women and couples are naïve if they think otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting to know from a female perspective how you approach this.

It's only as I want to raise this issue with the club how they advertise it and manage people's expectations.

They have an open door/room policy and I think that causes part of the problem. It puts the ladies in a awkward situation, if they play then guys pile in.

I totally agree with you. Some clubs DO infer that sex is guaranteed. There have been many threads on the forums where the organisers/ clubs have said the women are desperate for sex and the men would be doing them a favour.

I've been to club where the man on the door said my man friend would definitely be getting fucked that night as it was a greedy girls night.

The women and couples are naïve if they think otherwise.

"

Which is why they are advertised as Greedy Girls events. The clue is there. I wouldn't go to one and sit in the corner watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting to know from a female perspective how you approach this.

It's only as I want to raise this issue with the club how they advertise it and manage people's expectations.

They have an open door/room policy and I think that causes part of the problem. It puts the ladies in a awkward situation, if they play then guys pile in.

I totally agree with you. Some clubs DO infer that sex is guaranteed. There have been many threads on the forums where the organisers/ clubs have said the women are desperate for sex and the men would be doing them a favour.

I've been to club where the man on the door said my man friend would definitely be getting fucked that night as it was a greedy girls night.

The women and couples are naïve if they think otherwise.

Which is why they are advertised as Greedy Girls events. The clue is there. I wouldn't go to one and sit in the corner watching. "

There's a difference between greedy and guaranteed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I went to a greedy girl's night I would be going with the mindset of wanting a gangbang. Otherwise I'd choose to attend on a different night. That being said, I'd still expect consent to be sought, and wouldn't take kindly to men being pissed off if I said no to them.

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By *aughtyboy79Man
over a year ago

North East


"If I went to a greedy girl's night I would be going with the mindset of wanting a gangbang. Otherwise I'd choose to attend on a different night. That being said, I'd still expect consent to be sought, and wouldn't take kindly to men being pissed off if I said no to them."

My thoughts are similar to this, coupled with the club running the night enforcing the usual rules, all about the consent which is easily given?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting to know from a female perspective how you approach this.

It's only as I want to raise this issue with the club how they advertise it and manage people's expectations.

They have an open door/room policy and I think that causes part of the problem. It puts the ladies in a awkward situation, if they play then guys pile in.

I totally agree with you. Some clubs DO infer that sex is guaranteed. There have been many threads on the forums where the organisers/ clubs have said the women are desperate for sex and the men would be doing them a favour.

I've been to club where the man on the door said my man friend would definitely be getting fucked that night as it was a greedy girls night.

The women and couples are naïve if they think otherwise.

Which is why they are advertised as Greedy Girls events. The clue is there. I wouldn't go to one and sit in the corner watching.

There's a difference between greedy and guaranteed. "

I know but I would expect the women attending to be less likely to say no and not go for the social life.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's interesting to know from a female perspective how you approach this.

It's only as I want to raise this issue with the club how they advertise it and manage people's expectations.

They have an open door/room policy and I think that causes part of the problem. It puts the ladies in a awkward situation, if they play then guys pile in.

I totally agree with you. Some clubs DO infer that sex is guaranteed. There have been many threads on the forums where the organisers/ clubs have said the women are desperate for sex and the men would be doing them a favour.

I've been to club where the man on the door said my man friend would definitely be getting fucked that night as it was a greedy girls night.

The women and couples are naïve if they think otherwise.

Which is why they are advertised as Greedy Girls events. The clue is there. I wouldn't go to one and sit in the corner watching.

There's a difference between greedy and guaranteed.

I know but I would expect the women attending to be less likely to say no and not go for the social life.

"

The women are allowed to say no! Sex is not guaranteed! I imagine before the activities begin she will know which men she will consent to have sex with which will probably be a fair few but there will be men she will not be interested in hence the OPs initial post. It’s not a ‘f**k fest’, it’s about having fun with mutual consent all down to the lady in question which is the rules at clubs anyway. Not sure how a club can manage expectations except for saying sex is not guaranteed albeit it’s a greedy girls night and some men will not understand why they are refused sex.?

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

I think it is the title "Greedy Girl" that gives some guys the wrong impression, especially if it is really just a normal swinger night.

In the German clubs we go to we've never seen an event labelled as "Greedy Girls"

There are quite a few variations to these these type of events and they all have subtle differences.

"Gangbang" is one label and that is just a full on fuckfest. Every pussy gets filled and every cock finds a hole.

"Herrenubeschuss" or HU for short pretty much translates as surplus men. Normal swinger rules apply but there is usually one room (or more) that is a free for all. However many couples just go to socialise and maybe pick one or two guys to take private.

"Fuck My Wife" (yes they do it in English) is similar to the HU with lots of guys but usually without the free for all room. Couples and singles can chat at the bar and if all is well go private.

Maybe the UK clubs could try to vary the titles a bit.

Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting to know from a female perspective how you approach this.

It's only as I want to raise this issue with the club how they advertise it and manage people's expectations.

They have an open door/room policy and I think that causes part of the problem. It puts the ladies in a awkward situation, if they play then guys pile in.

I totally agree with you. Some clubs DO infer that sex is guaranteed. There have been many threads on the forums where the organisers/ clubs have said the women are desperate for sex and the men would be doing them a favour.

I've been to club where the man on the door said my man friend would definitely be getting fucked that night as it was a greedy girls night.

The women and couples are naïve if they think otherwise.

Which is why they are advertised as Greedy Girls events. The clue is there. I wouldn't go to one and sit in the corner watching.

There's a difference between greedy and guaranteed.

I know but I would expect the women attending to be less likely to say no and not go for the social life.

The women are allowed to say no! Sex is not guaranteed! I imagine before the activities begin she will know which men she will consent to have sex with which will probably be a fair few but there will be men she will not be interested in hence the OPs initial post. It’s not a ‘f**k fest’, it’s about having fun with mutual consent all down to the lady in question which is the rules at clubs anyway. Not sure how a club can manage expectations except for saying sex is not guaranteed albeit it’s a greedy girls night and some men will not understand why they are refused sex.? "

I know sex isn't guaranteed ever, I'm not an idiot. That is why I wouldn't attend a greedy girls event because the title wouldn't suit my way of finding sex. A greedy person wants a lot of something.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

"

At no point at a club should there be an expectation that there will be play.

We always go in the hope there will be play, but on a number of occasions we have had a nice night out without playing, since either no one took our fancy, or we didn't take anyone else's.

Essentially, greedy girl nights are just a club night. It's not a free for all, and the 'greedy girl' is under obligation to play at all, never mind with anybody who decides they want to jump in - they do not waive their rights to say no!!

We've been to greedy girl nights. At some we've played, at others we've not.

On another note, we also pay entry into these venues as well as the single guys, yet we don't insist on guys joining us if they don't want to.

There's nothing wrong with being a picky greedy girl. I'm sure you would only want to fuck someone you found attractive, rather than being obliged to fuck someone because they've paid entry and expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's interesting to know from a female perspective how you approach this.

It's only as I want to raise this issue with the club how they advertise it and manage people's expectations.

They have an open door/room policy and I think that causes part of the problem. It puts the ladies in a awkward situation, if they play then guys pile in.

I totally agree with you. Some clubs DO infer that sex is guaranteed. There have been many threads on the forums where the organisers/ clubs have said the women are desperate for sex and the men would be doing them a favour.

I've been to club where the man on the door said my man friend would definitely be getting fucked that night as it was a greedy girls night.

The women and couples are naïve if they think otherwise.

Which is why they are advertised as Greedy Girls events. The clue is there. I wouldn't go to one and sit in the corner watching.

There's a difference between greedy and guaranteed.

I know but I would expect the women attending to be less likely to say no and not go for the social life.

"

Ok I see what you mean. Fair point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wise thing to do would be read up and make enquiries to the club/party organisers to find out what to expect. Some sites will practically tell you that if you attend you will be getting fucked. If that's not for you, don't come.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The wise thing to do would be read up and make enquiries to the club/party organisers to find out what to expect. Some sites will practically tell you that if you attend you will be getting fucked. If that's not for you, don't come. "

Really? Some sites tell you that?

I get your points about these kind of events but consent has to surely be given by the women. I doubt clubs will want to be dragged through the courts if someone was to make a complaint to the Police about inappropriate behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wise thing to do would be read up and make enquiries to the club/party organisers to find out what to expect. Some sites will practically tell you that if you attend you will be getting fucked. If that's not for you, don't come.

Really? Some sites tell you that?

I get your points about these kind of events but consent has to surely be given by the women. I doubt clubs will want to be dragged through the courts if someone was to make a complaint to the Police about inappropriate behaviour "

Yes they do. Have a look through the threads on the club section. Some 'greedy girl' events or parties infer men will get sex. They are just careful how they word it.

I've challenged them before but got shot down so now I don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

"

No, no matter what the evening is called there is Never an expectation to play

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The wise thing to do would be read up and make enquiries to the club/party organisers to find out what to expect. Some sites will practically tell you that if you attend you will be getting fucked. If that's not for you, don't come.

Really? Some sites tell you that?

I get your points about these kind of events but consent has to surely be given by the women. I doubt clubs will want to be dragged through the courts if someone was to make a complaint to the Police about inappropriate behaviour

Yes they do. Have a look through the threads on the club section. Some 'greedy girl' events or parties infer men will get sex. They are just careful how they word it.

I've challenged them before but got shot down so now I don't bother. "

Thank you and I did not know this, I’ll take a look, purely for research purpose.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

At no point at a club should there be an expectation that there will be play.

We always go in the hope there will be play, but on a number of occasions we have had a nice night out without playing, since either no one took our fancy, or we didn't take anyone else's.

Essentially, greedy girl nights are just a club night. It's not a free for all, and the 'greedy girl' is under obligation to play at all, never mind with anybody who decides they want to jump in - they do not waive their rights to say no!!

We've been to greedy girl nights. At some we've played, at others we've not.

On another note, we also pay entry into these venues as well as the single guys, yet we don't insist on guys joining us if they don't want to.

There's nothing wrong with being a picky greedy girl. I'm sure you would only want to fuck someone you found attractive, rather than being obliged to fuck someone because they've paid entry and expect it.

"

This was the best reply to the initial OP, and thank you for making the concept of a GG event clearer, not just for me, but others. I had a different perception of how these play out, and perhaps I should attend one to see for myself

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

At no point at a club should there be an expectation that there will be play.

We always go in the hope there will be play, but on a number of occasions we have had a nice night out without playing, since either no one took our fancy, or we didn't take anyone else's.

Essentially, greedy girl nights are just a club night. It's not a free for all, and the 'greedy girl' is under obligation to play at all, never mind with anybody who decides they want to jump in - they do not waive their rights to say no!!

We've been to greedy girl nights. At some we've played, at others we've not.

On another note, we also pay entry into these venues as well as the single guys, yet we don't insist on guys joining us if they don't want to.

There's nothing wrong with being a picky greedy girl. I'm sure you would only want to fuck someone you found attractive, rather than being obliged to fuck someone because they've paid entry and expect it.

This was the best reply to the initial OP, and thank you for making the concept of a GG event clearer, not just for me, but others. I had a different perception of how these play out, and perhaps I should attend one to see for myself "
you should, being in the north west there’s an excellent daytime event at Townhoue we would heartily recommended to you

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

At no point at a club should there be an expectation that there will be play.

We always go in the hope there will be play, but on a number of occasions we have had a nice night out without playing, since either no one took our fancy, or we didn't take anyone else's.

Essentially, greedy girl nights are just a club night. It's not a free for all, and the 'greedy girl' is under obligation to play at all, never mind with anybody who decides they want to jump in - they do not waive their rights to say no!!

We've been to greedy girl nights. At some we've played, at others we've not.

On another note, we also pay entry into these venues as well as the single guys, yet we don't insist on guys joining us if they don't want to.

There's nothing wrong with being a picky greedy girl. I'm sure you would only want to fuck someone you found attractive, rather than being obliged to fuck someone because they've paid entry and expect it.

This was the best reply to the initial OP, and thank you for making the concept of a GG event clearer, not just for me, but others. I had a different perception of how these play out, and perhaps I should attend one to see for myself you should, being in the north west there’s an excellent daytime event at Townhoue we would heartily recommended to you "

In my rather chequered experience of swingers' clubs, time and again Townhouse is recommended to me, but it is disappointingly out of reach for me, due to location and time restraints

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

At no point at a club should there be an expectation that there will be play.

We always go in the hope there will be play, but on a number of occasions we have had a nice night out without playing, since either no one took our fancy, or we didn't take anyone else's.

Essentially, greedy girl nights are just a club night. It's not a free for all, and the 'greedy girl' is under obligation to play at all, never mind with anybody who decides they want to jump in - they do not waive their rights to say no!!

We've been to greedy girl nights. At some we've played, at others we've not.

On another note, we also pay entry into these venues as well as the single guys, yet we don't insist on guys joining us if they don't want to.

There's nothing wrong with being a picky greedy girl. I'm sure you would only want to fuck someone you found attractive, rather than being obliged to fuck someone because they've paid entry and expect it.

This was the best reply to the initial OP, and thank you for making the concept of a GG event clearer, not just for me, but others. I had a different perception of how these play out, and perhaps I should attend one to see for myself you should, being in the north west there’s an excellent daytime event at Townhoue we would heartily recommended to you

In my rather chequered experience of swingers' clubs, time and again Townhouse is recommended to me, but it is disappointingly out of reach for me, due to location and time restraints "
that’s a shame but it’s a very well run relaxed event and well attended

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

At no point at a club should there be an expectation that there will be play.

We always go in the hope there will be play, but on a number of occasions we have had a nice night out without playing, since either no one took our fancy, or we didn't take anyone else's.

Essentially, greedy girl nights are just a club night. It's not a free for all, and the 'greedy girl' is under obligation to play at all, never mind with anybody who decides they want to jump in - they do not waive their rights to say no!!

We've been to greedy girl nights. At some we've played, at others we've not.

On another note, we also pay entry into these venues as well as the single guys, yet we don't insist on guys joining us if they don't want to.

There's nothing wrong with being a picky greedy girl. I'm sure you would only want to fuck someone you found attractive, rather than being obliged to fuck someone because they've paid entry and expect it.

This was the best reply to the initial OP, and thank you for making the concept of a GG event clearer, not just for me, but others. I had a different perception of how these play out, and perhaps I should attend one to see for myself you should, being in the north west there’s an excellent daytime event at Townhoue we would heartily recommended to you

In my rather chequered experience of swingers' clubs, time and again Townhouse is recommended to me, but it is disappointingly out of reach for me, due to location and time restraints that’s a shame but it’s a very well run relaxed event and well attended "

Believe me; I have looked at the 2 hour 13 minute projected drive time on many occasions, and tried to convince myself 'It's not that bad'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't expect anything from anyone. I know who to avoid and sit back a little.

But what I'm asking is on specific greedy girls nights that are advertised, this creates an expectation they will be play, correct?

At no point at a club should there be an expectation that there will be play.

We always go in the hope there will be play, but on a number of occasions we have had a nice night out without playing, since either no one took our fancy, or we didn't take anyone else's.

Essentially, greedy girl nights are just a club night. It's not a free for all, and the 'greedy girl' is under obligation to play at all, never mind with anybody who decides they want to jump in - they do not waive their rights to say no!!

We've been to greedy girl nights. At some we've played, at others we've not.

On another note, we also pay entry into these venues as well as the single guys, yet we don't insist on guys joining us if they don't want to.

There's nothing wrong with being a picky greedy girl. I'm sure you would only want to fuck someone you found attractive, rather than being obliged to fuck someone because they've paid entry and expect it.

"

Do you find you get more hassle/unwanted attention of a gg night?

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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There's almost always unwanted attention. It's how you deal with it that's important.

It's also how the club deals with it. A club should make it very clear that you are not to assume anything just because you've paid entry.

And if someone does try anything without consent then that is illegal and will lead to broken limbs, or prosecution or something like that.

To be fair attention is one thing, hassling is something else. Shy bairns get nowt, but you should only have to tell them once.

Any more than that, and it can be annoying. But if you don't strike up conversation, you're not likely to be invited along for the ride.

We tend to get hassled more by couples. Some seem to think that because they're a couple they're irresistible to you.

For the most part, genuine guys are respectful enough. At the end of the day, if you get bad rep at a club, you're not going to last long. So it's in their best interests to behave.

We have had issues in the past with people expecting they can jump in uninvited, but they never last long in the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience of G/G events is that it can tend to attract a certain breed of guys who assume that the women in attendance should definitely be going to play with them. Some of these guys, again, in my experience, are not particularly au fait with the need to strike up a rapport/speak to a woman before attempting to touch her. Some of them 'sulk' if they don't get sex.

I have no problem whatsoever with smacking a hand away if I experience unwanted touching. Sulky men are a complete turn off where-ever they are!

In my opinion, some of the men who have this attitude at G/G events would be better going to a sex worker establishment rather than a swinger's club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a case of pick the right event for your needs.

There's a couple of 2/3 couples that attend the club virtually all the time, I think more for the social but they still come to G/G nights.

They really have no interest in playing other than with partners which is totally their decision. It's the rudeness and aggressive responses I've seen towards single guys who dare to attempt to strike up a conversation that baffle me as to why they go.

I mean you get cock-teasers but that's a whole other subject. These guys just aren't suitable for the event and they don't handle it well, then it's just a vicious circle of an unpleasant and wholly avoidable situation.

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By *ackhammerJay30Man
over a year ago

walsall /Aldridge

Most single guys that attend are normally very polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a case of pick the right event for your needs.

There's a couple of 2/3 couples that attend the club virtually all the time, I think more for the social but they still come to G/G nights.

They really have no interest in playing other than with partners which is totally their decision. It's the rudeness and aggressive responses I've seen towards single guys who dare to attempt to strike up a conversation that baffle me as to why they go.

I mean you get cock-teasers but that's a whole other subject. These guys just aren't suitable for the event and they don't handle it well, then it's just a vicious circle of an unpleasant and wholly avoidable situation."

Good point. Shame they can't be banned from going. No need for rudeness. Many couples think they are untouchable.

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By *lirty_dirty69Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

We are due to attend our very first GG event at VA in April.

It's been a long time coming, and frankly we are both as hot as hell at the thought of flirty fucking lots of guys in one night, however we just do not know what to expect.

I'm hoping the guys will be respectful and enjoy watching and playing if asked....but it is a concern that one or two may try it on without permission.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"It's a case of pick the right event for your needs.

There's a couple of 2/3 couples that attend the club virtually all the time, I think more for the social but they still come to G/G nights.

They really have no interest in playing other than with partners which is totally their decision. It's the rudeness and aggressive responses I've seen towards single guys who dare to attempt to strike up a conversation that baffle me as to why they go.

I mean you get cock-teasers but that's a whole other subject. These guys just aren't suitable for the event and they don't handle it well, then it's just a vicious circle of an unpleasant and wholly avoidable situation.

Good point. Shame they can't be banned from going. No need for rudeness. Many couples think they are untouchable. "

To be fair, we go to gg nights to play with singles. And we get more hassled from other couples wanting to join in our play. If we want couples play, we'll go on a different night. We've been followed around by couples we clearly had no interest in. And they have even tried to just join in the play without asking.

At that point we have stopped play and asked them to leave, if any of the guys want to play with them instead, they're more than welcome to leave with them.

When we go to gg nights, XX goes to be greedy, we want single guys to join us. Not couples, and not every single guy, only the ones we want, and even then, they need to want to join us too.

You can spend time telling some guys too that they're not invited to play, after all - there needs to be an attraction.

Best advice here, if you're told no, it's not going to happen. So move on and concentrate your efforts elsewhere.

There's nothing more unattractive or annoying than a guy who wants to know why they're not invited, or the one who tries to join in but from another side.

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By *layfulAussieMan
over a year ago

Sydney


"It's a case of pick the right event for your needs.

There's a couple of 2/3 couples that attend the club virtually all the time, I think more for the social but they still come to G/G nights.

They really have no interest in playing other than with partners which is totally their decision. It's the rudeness and aggressive responses I've seen towards single guys who dare to attempt to strike up a conversation that baffle me as to why they go.

I mean you get cock-teasers but that's a whole other subject. These guys just aren't suitable for the event and they don't handle it well, then it's just a vicious circle of an unpleasant and wholly avoidable situation.

Good point. Shame they can't be banned from going. No need for rudeness. Many couples think they are untouchable.

To be fair, we go to gg nights to play with singles. And we get more hassled from other couples wanting to join in our play. If we want couples play, we'll go on a different night. We've been followed around by couples we clearly had no interest in. And they have even tried to just join in the play without asking.

At that point we have stopped play and asked them to leave, if any of the guys want to play with them instead, they're more than welcome to leave with them.

When we go to gg nights, XX goes to be greedy, we want single guys to join us. Not couples, and not every single guy, only the ones we want, and even then, they need to want to join us too.

You can spend time telling some guys too that they're not invited to play, after all - there needs to be an attraction.

Best advice here, if you're told no, it's not going to happen. So move on and concentrate your efforts elsewhere.

There's nothing more unattractive or annoying than a guy who wants to know why they're not invited, or the one who tries to join in but from another side."

Would love to know the next gg night you have lined up

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I would love to be a recipient in a greedy girls(cd)night. Dreamy

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By *ackhammerJay30Man
over a year ago

walsall /Aldridge


"We attend gg events at clubs, we usually play with a lot of guys but certainly not all, they’re relaxed well run events, can only recall one occasion where a guy was very pushy (not with us) and the mgmt removed him very quickly. The ones we attend have a social vibe to start with so everyone can interact and then it moves to playrooms. We did have one occasion after th fact when a guy off here mailed to ask why we hadn’t played with him at an event but in general , guys at these are great "

That's terrible asking you that question end of the day you play you play with who you want hope to see you both soon in Angles & Sinners

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