FabSwingers.com forum: Repeated subjects are boring

By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

For over 3 years we have been on this site. The people that post forum subjects, we have found, continuously appear to post the same old nonsense! Ie prefer anal or vaginal, straight or curved cock, etc etc getting soooo bloody boring, even where people are asking on the forums about peoples breakfasts... wtf?

Then on personal contact messages, people just chat shit. Is this a site which facilitates swingers to hook up or a bunch of fantasists?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'm sure you can ignore the threads you don't enjoy.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I think a lot of people on here are just a little bit dull and unimaginative.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's not too difficult to avoid posts you find boring. Maybe you could start a couple on subjects that interest you

The site does facilitate swingers I think. Most of the people who use it never access the fora.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"For over 3 years we have been on this site. The people that post forum subjects, we have found, continuously appear to post the same old nonsense! Ie prefer anal or vaginal, straight or curved cock, etc etc getting soooo bloody boring, even where people are asking on the forums about peoples breakfasts... wtf?

Then on personal contact messages, people just chat shit. Is this a site which facilitates swingers to hook up or a bunch of fantasists?

For the most part , the latter I’m afraid

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think the site is used for different reasons by different people. I know the same subjects pop up in the forum reasonably regularly but I think that’s more a product of new people asking things than the same people asking the same thing over and over - saying that, that happens too - tends to be profile advice and when it’s given they don’t take it.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Then on personal contact messages, people just chat shit. Is this a site which facilitates swingers to hook up or a bunch of fantasists?

It's a site that can be used however people like

Some talk shit

Some post informative threads

Some swap cooking recipes

Some people actually fuck

But a lot of people moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the most annoying ones so far for me are kiss fuck avoid ones who cares and can you check my profile ones there getting annoying to ok mine may not be great but I will change it every so often

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Then on personal contact messages, people just chat shit. Is this a site which facilitates swingers to hook up or a bunch of fantasists?

Agreed. What’s the solution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of those more interesting posts. Most unusual subject matter too. Love it.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

"I'm sure you can ignore the threads you don't enjoy. "

Well, we may as well forget about checking the site out, cos it's full of the same old nonsense,tbh.... just wish more genuine people was on here!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

You wouldn't believe how often people start a thread about all the repeat threads...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It's not too difficult to avoid posts you find boring. Maybe you could start a couple on subjects that interest you

The site does facilitate swingers I think. Most of the people who use it never access the fora."

If I start 3 on flowers, they could be Flora fora.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then on personal contact messages, people just chat shit. Is this a site which facilitates swingers to hook up or a bunch of fantasists?

Can’t really do much about the repeated forum posts but it takes at least 2 parties to have a conversation.....just saying

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Create some new topics then rather than complaining about others. I like a good discussion.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm sure you can ignore the threads you don't enjoy.

Well, we may as well forget about checking the site out, cos it's full of the same old nonsense,tbh.... just wish more genuine people was on here!

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genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the most annoying ones so far for me are kiss fuck avoid ones who cares and can you check my profile ones there getting annoying to ok mine may not be great but I will change it every so often

As already stated elsewhere you can always ignore the ones you dont like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone already posted this before!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I'm sure you can ignore the threads you don't enjoy.

Well, we may as well forget about checking the site out, cos it's full of the same old nonsense,tbh.... just wish more genuine people was on here!

The forum is a tiny part of the site though, and the last place I'd look to find a meet, so I don't really understand the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm original, I posted about dickgeese running after young ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See! https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/736051

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

Then on personal contact messages, people just chat shit. Is this a site which facilitates swingers to hook up or a bunch of fantasists?

Er....could it be that a) it's not actually compulsory to read posts you don't like plus a mix of b)that subjects come up again and again because the original post has disappeared into "history" on a page many, many pages back so a new poster has no idea his/her post has already been covered c) repetitive posters are looking to see if new replies are more interesting/ different than before/reinforce the view the poster holds etc etc

If a poster wants to just hook up then it seems simple enough for them to either search via browse for suitable people to message and/or post a message to the forum such as "We wish to meet xxxx/zzzz type people for full on fun in the next week or so, please reply to see if we click".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure you can ignore the threads you don't enjoy.

Well, we may as well forget about checking the site out, cos it's full of the same old nonsense,tbh.... just wish more genuine people was on here!

The forum is a tiny part of the site though, and the last place I'd look to find a meet, so I don't really understand the issue. "

I read a few places that it amounts to about 2-3% of fab users. If these figures are true then they certainly don't give a reflection of real opinions.... only those of forum users which seem to be a certain breed.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Its just nonsense.... simples!!!! Single guys... DONT WASTE YOUR MONEY!!!! Go to a club and chat to people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has an ironic ring.

It will keep coming up and the upshot will be that people will continue to use the site in whatever way they choose to which is unlikely to match the expectations of others.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Its just nonsense.... simples!!!! Single guys... DONT WASTE YOUR MONEY!!!! Go to a club and chat to people! "

You're a couple of days late.

Thursday is rant day....

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

There's only so many conversations people can have about sex so of course the same topics will be repeated. If the forum bores you don't read it, problem solved.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Just a thought.... which i thought we was ALL entitled to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum threads are like rich tea biscuits; fucking boring but inexplicably moreish.

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

When the threads become boring one can always go to Facebook instead and have one's data mined...Oooerrr!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Then on personal contact messages, people just chat shit. Is this a site which facilitates swingers to hook up or a bunch of fantasists?

For the most part , the latter I’m afraid

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most users aren't forum users, who probably have a different personality profile and needs.

If you mainly to meet and get to know people, focus your attention and efforts accordingly.

There is a huge spectrum of people here, as with life outside, some of them you'll feel more attuned with than others.

Use the forum to spot those who may be good matches, idle your time away or get help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is one of those more interesting posts. Most unusual subject matter too. Love it.

I've seen this kind of thread countless times and the OP's never start an interesting thread of their own.

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By *aptain BangalotMan
over a year ago

SW London

I think sausages and two eggs. But that’s not all I think. Sometimes I think outside the box. But I have to get into the box first to do that. Life is sometimes perspex and sometimes perplex. It’s easy to get bored of you always have the sausages on the same side of the plate. I think Sartre said that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think sausages and two eggs. But that’s not all I think. Sometimes I think outside the box. But I have to get into the box first to do that. Life is sometimes perspex and sometimes perplex. It’s easy to get bored of you always have the sausages on the same side of the plate. I think Sartre said that. "

I prefer sausages over bacon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the site to meet people.

I use the site to see what’s happening at clubs which might interest me.

I use site forums to engage in entertaining waffle and frippery.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

We like to read the forums and often use them as another screening tool, it's easy to see if posters are capable of interacting intelligently with others, or just being a twat, often adds to our block list, mostly for arrogance, or drug use.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh my!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

There are lots of repetitive ones but just ignore the ones that you don't like.

Some people who don't use the forums often will post similar things ,and if we want new posters it's not for us to sneer at etc.

Just my thoughts .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most users aren't forum users, who probably have a different personality profile and needs.

If you mainly to meet and get to know people, focus your attention and efforts accordingly.

There is a huge spectrum of people here, as with life outside, some of them you'll feel more attuned with than others.

Use the forum to spot those who may be good matches, idle your time away or get help."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them.

They who must not be named

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