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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...or is it just one of those ticks you add to your profile?

I don't mean, "Sure I'll slap an arse if it's bent over in front of me".

I mean - they walk into the room, you are sitting in an arm chair. You tell them to bend over your knee. You lift their skirt, edge their panties down and slowly spank that sweek spot til they squirm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy spanking as part of a regular healthy and balanced sexual lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being spanked, dont mind giving a bottom a playful spank but receiving is what does it for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love being spanked, dont mind giving a bottom a playful spank but receiving is what does it for me "

Isn't it just better when the spanker is really into it though - you can tell when they're just 'giving it a go' right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My master is a very good spanker we both love all aspects of discipline play it’s so much more than just a tick in the box for us

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"...or is it just one of those ticks you add to your profile?

I don't mean, "Sure I'll slap an arse if it's bent over in front of me".

I mean - they walk into the room, you are sitting in an arm chair. You tell them to bend over your knee. You lift their skirt, edge their panties down and slowly spank that sweek spot til they squirm..."

I am a bum man, and I enjoy the feel of a good bum. I love to squeeze and caress, then spank said bum, and squeeze and caress again to soothe said bum. The sound of a bum being spanked, it's music to my ears!

But just because I like it, it doesn't mean I need to spank every bum I see!

Definitely not just a 'tick'.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I love being spanked, dont mind giving a bottom a playful spank but receiving is what does it for me

Isn't it just better when the spanker is really into it though - you can tell when they're just 'giving it a go' right?"

Strangely enough the "spanker" is driven by the response he/she sees... the change n colour, the breathing, the wetness, all these lead to more intense spanks...nothing turns on more than a masochist.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

My flogger and paddle would suggest so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My flogger and paddle would suggest so "

So as your pink bottom

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"My flogger and paddle would suggest so

So as your pink bottom "

Possibly that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to be spanked. Love the stinging felling followed by the hotness in my ass. Then of course comes the wetness between my legs.

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"I love to be spanked. Love the stinging felling followed by the hotness in my ass. Then of course comes the wetness between my legs."

And that bum is very spankable. Would love to to hear that music!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love spanking!! And paddling and flogging!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be a skilled spanker to be a good spank!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

One of my little gripes is when a guy smacks my arse when he's fucking me from behind, it does absolutely nothing for me.

Much prefer otk or face down on the bed as a bit of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being spanked xx

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"One of my little gripes is when a guy smacks my arse when he's fucking me from behind, it does absolutely nothing for me.

Much prefer otk or face down on the bed as a bit of foreplay "

Otk is so horny. And dirty at the same time. Or in your case, over the black leather sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I truly love spanking, both giving and receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being spanked, dont mind giving a bottom a playful spank but receiving is what does it for me

Isn't it just better when the spanker is really into it though - you can tell when they're just 'giving it a go' right?

Strangely enough the "spanker" is driven by the response he/she sees... the change n colour, the breathing, the wetness, all these lead to more intense spanks...nothing turns on more than a masochist. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a belt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to be spanked. Love the stinging felling followed by the hotness in my ass. Then of course comes the wetness between my legs.

And that bum is very spankable. Would love to to hear that music!"

Thank you

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I will take whatever spanking you give me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I scratch the ass, massage it, spank with palm, spank with back hander, kiss the cheeks and repeat with variation and intensity. I'm new to it though. I do enjoy it.

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"I love to be spanked. Love the stinging felling followed by the hotness in my ass. Then of course comes the wetness between my legs.

And that bum is very spankable. Would love to to hear that music!

Thank you "

You're welcome.

Amd so is that bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a tick for us either!

I love being pushed onto a bed on all fours and spanked with various different things riding crop is my favorite at the moment i think!

Louise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a tick for us either!

I love being pushed onto a bed on all fours and spanked with various different things riding crop is my favorite at the moment i think!

Louise x "

Exactly! I love a hand, riding crop, and flogger... giving and receiving.

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I love it

Firm hand on a nice round arse, make it nice and red then kiss and lick it better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it

Firm hand on a nice round arse, make it nice and red then kiss and lick it better "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a tick for us either!

I love being pushed onto a bed on all fours and spanked with various different things riding crop is my favorite at the moment i think!

Louise x

Exactly! I love a hand, riding crop, and flogger... giving and receiving. "

Nice red print from a hand is great

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


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Nice red print from a hand is great "

I've always wanted a pic of a perfect hand print on my bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just a tick by any stretch, it’s one of my biggest kinks and an absolutely love. Mostly my hand but enjoying using a belt in the recent past, it’s all about pushing what a lady enjoys though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nice red print from a hand is great

I've always wanted a pic of a perfect hand print on my bum "

More than happy to help?!

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By *ligible GentMan
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Don’t like whipping, but love spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I own two paddles, a flogger and a riding crop. You can decide for yourself what that means.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I may have been known to enjoy a "ritual" spanking on occasion - the additional factors such as being placed, having pants lowered, feeling and seeing my warmed cheeks after, all add to the overall experience. That said it's also nice to receive the odd spank during play too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hell yes

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By *averingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

romford

Discipline is a great form of dominance! Slut is not a big fun of a proper spanking but male part of us is. Connectiom during spanking, belting, canning and paddling is unbelievable. Emotions and endorphins are giving great kick. Behaviour modification is also a plus! However its really hard to find female spankers for long term relation. Both giving and receiving is a great fun. Definitely not just a tick... and the warm glow of a spanked ass reminds aboht it for hours! Yes!

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

Guilty as charged lol and OTK xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve received many spankings in my time. An utter joy. Unfortunately the tick boxes of SM and Spanking don’t cover the rich multitude of types and dynamics but I guess that’s for another place.

When receiving I love the anticipation and the warmth, the nails being dragged down my cheeks and my balls, the stinging, the fur glove afterwards if I’m lucky.

When giving it’s the change in colour, reaction, cute moans and gasps. Oh I love spanking!

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By *ibertine_mindsCouple
over a year ago

Staffs/ Derbys/ Peak District

Hopefully our profile and images give a strong hint on how we both feel about this subject . . .

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading


"...or is it just one of those ticks you add to your profile?

I don't mean, "Sure I'll slap an arse if it's bent over in front of me".

I mean - they walk into the room, you are sitting in an arm chair. You tell them to bend over your knee. You lift their skirt, edge their panties down and slowly spank that sweek spot til they squirm..."

The quiver of anticipation, the wriggle as you stroke the target, reminding them what's ahead. The crack as the first blow lands, and the ripple as the shockwaves spreads out. Building a ryrhum as you spread the spanks out, getting an even coverage for that all over rosy glow effect......

That'll be a yes here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore being a naughty girl so I get a good spanking

Prefer a hand but don't mind a cat o nine or a crop.

Definitely over the knee is best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be bratty so spankings are awarded

Prefer a hand but don't mind crop, belt, flogger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. As part of a complete session .

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes luckily as my girl is a right brat and keeps me very busy. She is such a little shit at times, so cheeky and insubordinate. She cant help her self. She'll wind me up when we are apart but forgets I keep score. I love the moment we are together and the chickens come home to roost. It's so hot when I take her and I see the 'Oh shit' look in her eyes as she realises it time to pay.

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By *r and mrsjonesCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Mrs Jones enjoys a spanking every now and again

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I absolutely am x

In fact if there is anyone in the NW who has been naughty and needs their bottom spanned on Monday morning x then please get in touch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I absolutely love over the knee spanking (giving of course) and Jane has found herself in that position many times, in fact one of my profile pics is of my favourite belt in hand.

So it's not just a tick in our profile, it's a real desire and something we play together, however Jane won't take a spanking from just anyone, so sadly not ticking any wannabe dom lists here.

Someone offering themself, standing next to me and waiting to be instructed in how they should present themself is an incredible feeling. It's a slow and deliberate build up to something that invite a my desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking, whipping, caning...I get off testing my limits and Fuzz gets off applying them

I love the build up as he warms my arse with the flogger or paddle, by the time he's moved onto the whip or his eye watering home made weapons I'm dripping!

Peach x

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Extreme spanking is an occasional pleasure for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We enjoy spanking as part of a regular healthy and balanced sexual lifestyle."

One of your five a days right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking’s people do love, I know when I do demos their always seems to be a queue!

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Always show them the shade of red where you want them to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simply...yes.

The anticipation of waiting for the next spank is what I love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully our profile and images give a strong hint on how we both feel about this subject . . . "

Amazing pics...

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"My flogger and paddle would suggest so "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love spanking women but something about it when I get my ass spanked too not gonna lie I do enjoy it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last FWB absolutely loved it and quite clearly got more and more excited when being spanked....set the tone for the rest of the session then

Spreader bar, hand, flogger, paddle and whip = perfect session

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"I prefer a belt."

Oh yes, there's something very erotic about the ritual of slowly removing one's belt, doubling it over and making the two halves crack together - the spankee ceremonially pulls down her knickers, lifts up her skirt and bends over in anticipation.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, absolutely love it!!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I enjoy giving and receiving a spanking. Seeing how he reacts when he’s on all fours and cuffed. I’m just beginning to find a Domme side and he’s loving it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's like saying 'do you like flowers?'

So many varieties.

It's not an easily answered Q

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I love a good spanking and my ass gives plenty to aim for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a woman over my knee for a hand spanking. Slowly pulling the knickers down over her glorious cheeks in readiness

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Rather partial to a good cunt spanking every now and then.

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By *afeconLecheMan
over a year ago

Stoke

Like to give a good spanking

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By *cotGirlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"One of my little gripes is when a guy smacks my arse when he's fucking me from behind, it does absolutely nothing for me.

Much prefer otk or face down on the bed as a bit of foreplay "

I agree! I love a proper spanking/flogging/caning but it should be completely separate to fucking me

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

Definitely not just a tick here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...or is it just one of those ticks you add to your profile?

I don't mean, "Sure I'll slap an arse if it's bent over in front of me".

I mean - they walk into the room, you are sitting in an arm chair. You tell them to bend over your knee. You lift their skirt, edge their panties down and slowly spank that sweek spot til they squirm..."

I spanked a tgurl so hard that I set of the intrusion alarm in my flat, you should have seen her face!

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Rather partial to a good cunt spanking every now and then."

Another great thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...or is it just one of those ticks you add to your profile?

I don't mean, "Sure I'll slap an arse if it's bent over in front of me".

I mean - they walk into the room, you are sitting in an arm chair. You tell them to bend over your knee. You lift their skirt, edge their panties down and slowly spank that sweek spot til they squirm..."

that sounds awessssssssssooommmmeeeee sorry the phone was getting moved up and down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first met Cute he was scared of spanking me. We went to Cuid's and someone gave him a horse whip and showed him how to use it, I barely felt it, then later that evening in our hotel room I was bent over his knees and he spanked me for a first time still afraid of hurting me.

Now a few months later he really enjoys "Thank you Sir" after each slap on my bum and I love to see his handprints and bruises there

Kitten

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Wife love my spanking her bum after a few smacks of her bum gently run my fingers over her bum cheeks then carry on spanking till her little bums red and tingles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely love to be spanked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the greatest turn on, a woman who enjoys being spanked. The sound, the physical feeling, the sight. You can probably tell I'm a fan lol.

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