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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a guy requested he be allowed to wear a condom for a bj would if put you off. Valid reason for asking .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of ladies insist on this op so guessing they wouldn't be put off and u can buy flavoured condoms for this purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy requested he be allowed to wear a condom for a bj would if put you off. Valid reason for asking ."

Yes- condoms taste manky!

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds


"If a guy requested he be allowed to wear a condom for a bj would if put you off. Valid reason for asking ."

Has it put you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like eating a sweet with the wrapper on

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By *inandRussianCouple
over a year ago

lymm

Yes disgusting without anyday of the week

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

If a man requested it themselves then I would be very suspicious that they have some sort of sti

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By *oofyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Personally it'll feel weird. Iv tried on once myself and to brutally honest it just didn't do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of ladies insist on this op so guessing they wouldn't be put off and u can buy flavoured condoms for this purpose"

Never had a lady ever request this. Seen a few say so on the forums. Like anything if you don't know someone well enough before playing then more care is needed.

Be interested to know how many insist in using them at clubs where many join in and often without knowing them before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yuck, au naturelle please!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I have had a few requests for this, my hunch is this is often a result of'sexual guilt' brought on by fear/guilty conscience from cheating on their partners..

I always send them packing along with the paranoia/ocd etc..

After many years of active sex I have reached the conclusion that oral sex is a form of safer sex and unless you get off on the taste of rubber.I prefer the taste of cock.

It's a big NO from me.

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By *ancgent74Man
over a year ago

Denton, Manchester


"It’s like eating a sweet with the wrapper on "

This

Just like people using a dental dam for oral on a lady - I'd rather not bother.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Yuk a deffo no - Fi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy requested he be allowed to wear a condom for a bj would if put you off. Valid reason for asking ."

Yes, I would be put off. I don't like the texture of it in my mouth even if there are flavoured ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't keep your socks on to take a shower

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I know a joke about this. A guy bought assorted flavour condoms and arranged to play a game with his wife to guess the flavour. He was excited when he got home to see lights dimmed and candles lit. She came down the stairs in sexy lingerie. Greeted him with a kiss then went down on him. She came up licking her lips and said “cheese and onion?”

“Hang on” he replied, “I haven’t put one on yet”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a few requests for this, my hunch is this is often a result of'sexual guilt' brought on by fear/guilty conscience from cheating on their partners..

I always send them packing along with the paranoia/ocd etc..

After many years of active sex I have reached the conclusion that oral sex is a form of safer sex and unless you get off on the taste of rubber.I prefer the taste of cock.

It's a big NO from me."

The info I've read shows you can get as much from bareback bjs as you can from unprotected vaginal sex. But yes, no one likes the taste of a latex condom. As an experiment I tried one with a non latex Skyn the other week and it was fine. Totally neutral and no weird taste. Would be an option for those wanting to reduce risk.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I have had a few requests for this, my hunch is this is often a result of'sexual guilt' brought on by fear/guilty conscience from cheating on their partners..

I always send them packing along with the paranoia/ocd etc..

After many years of active sex I have reached the conclusion that oral sex is a form of safer sex and unless you get off on the taste of rubber.I prefer the taste of cock.

It's a big NO from me.

The info I've read shows you can get as much from bareback bjs as you can from unprotected vaginal sex. But yes, no one likes the taste of a latex condom. As an experiment I tried one with a non latex Skyn the other week and it was fine. Totally neutral and no weird taste. Would be an option for those wanting to reduce risk."

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have had a few requests for this, my hunch is this is often a result of'sexual guilt' brought on by fear/guilty conscience from cheating on their partners..

I always send them packing along with the paranoia/ocd etc..

After many years of active sex I have reached the conclusion that oral sex is a form of safer sex and unless you get off on the taste of rubber.I prefer the taste of cock.

It's a big NO from me.

The info I've read shows you can get as much from bareback bjs as you can from unprotected vaginal sex. But yes, no one likes the taste of a latex condom. As an experiment I tried one with a non latex Skyn the other week and it was fine. Totally neutral and no weird taste. Would be an option for those wanting to reduce risk."

It's all opinions ..

I think half the world would be wiped out if this were the case!!

I did say safer sex and lower risk..

kissing is prob in the same category..

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I wouldn’t do a bj with a condom on but I wouldn’t mind someone asking - I would just say it’s not for my thing and let them move along to someone else

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"You wouldn't keep your socks on to take a shower "

Indeed, and yet there is much evidence of men doing so when having sex??

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"You wouldn't keep your socks on to take a shower

Indeed, and yet there is much evidence of men doing so when having sex?? "

No, surely not? Come on guys, we all learnt at a young age, socks off before dropping the trousers.

Says the guy sitting at home wearing two pairs due to cold feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yuk!!!! Sandy x

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"If a man requested it themselves then I would be very suspicious that they have some sort of sti"

My thoughts too. Surely a blow job with a condom on is pretty poor feeling wise for a guy and taste revolting for those doing the sucking, so why choose to make it that bad unless the guy was hiding something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy requested he be allowed to wear a condom for a bj would if put you off. Valid reason for asking ."

Why would you want a Bj with a condom ? Might as well just go have a wank.. the best bit about a bj is feeling the hot wet tongue and the lips around your bellend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You wouldn't keep your socks on to take a shower "

No but I'd keep them on during sex hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think half the world would be wiped out if this were the case!!

I did say safer sex and lower risk..

kissing is prob in the same category.."

Useful chart showing what you can get from the various types of oral sex, including kissing:

https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Oral-Sex-Table-v3.png

From the British Columbia Centre for Disease Control. Less alarmist than many other resources.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't give a bj to a condom covered cock. X

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By *ockhungrywifeWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

nope would never suck a condom covered cock they can jog on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I wouldn't. It's a horrible feeling a d taste. Give me a bare cock any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man requested it themselves then I would be very suspicious that they have some sort of sti"

On the contrary, they might just be cautious so they don't get any and they don't pass it on.

Many believe that STDs are just passed from dick to mouth but one can also get infected by receiving oral sex.

It's a shame but that's the reality of life and STI normally go in a pack. One doesn't just get one but a few together.

Quite often I meet infected people at work, they look clean and I'd never suspect.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Not a chance of me giving a blow job ti condom covered cock.... I have turned guys away who ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all seems a bit pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a girl who gave a bj with a condom on in school and the condom got stuck in her brace hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would make me throw up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy requested he be allowed to wear a condom for a bj would if put you off. Valid reason for asking ."

Bare bj, or the doors over there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily use a flavoured condom if requested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask those who insist on the condemned is it because I don't want spunk in your mouth

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!


"It’s like eating a sweet with the wrapper on "

I was about to say it's like eating an ice lolly with the wrapper on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a few requests for this, my hunch is this is often a result of'sexual guilt' brought on by fear/guilty conscience from cheating on their partners..

I always send them packing along with the paranoia/ocd etc..

After many years of active sex I have reached the conclusion that oral sex is a form of safer sex and unless you get off on the taste of rubber.I prefer the taste of cock.

It's a big NO from me."

Wow!! Such a negative look upon some peoples preference!

Not a problem for me personally. If that's their preference. I wouldn't expect a guy to tell me he wasn't prepared to wear a condom for vaginal sex.

If you've ever had a throat swab taken then you'd know how uncomfortable that can be. Had a sore throat for a couple of days after the last one.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"You wouldn't keep your socks on to take a shower

Indeed, and yet there is much evidence of men doing so when having sex?? "

It's a bugbear of ours, grrr!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I have had a few requests for this, my hunch is this is often a result of'sexual guilt' brought on by fear/guilty conscience from cheating on their partners..

I always send them packing along with the paranoia/ocd etc..

After many years of active sex I have reached the conclusion that oral sex is a form of safer sex and unless you get off on the taste of rubber.I prefer the taste of cock.

It's a big NO from me.

Wow!! Such a negative look upon some peoples preference!

Not a problem for me personally. If that's their preference. I wouldn't expect a guy to tell me he wasn't prepared to wear a condom for vaginal sex.

If you've ever had a throat swab taken then you'd know how uncomfortable that can be. Had a sore throat for a couple of days after the last one. "

I don’t know where you get your throat swabs done , but we both have had them done at our local clinic every couple of months for seven years . Never even a tickle , and certainly no sore throats .

Now we do our own swabs and so at home and send them off , and still no problems .

So are you suggesting that sucking cock with a condom means you don’t need to have throat swabs ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had better offer an explanation and see what you guys think. I had my prostate out 4 weeks ago and it will take about 6 months to retrain my muscles. Up shot is I still leak a small am out of urine during sex. Now obviously I would be wearing a condom for sex but wouldn't want to leak during a bj. Maybe I would be better off not having a bj till I'm sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had better offer an explanation and see what you guys think. I had my prostate out 4 weeks ago and it will take about 6 months to retrain my muscles. Up shot is I still leak a small am out of urine during sex. Now obviously I would be wearing a condom for sex but wouldn't want to leak during a bj. Maybe I would be better off not having a bj till I'm sorted."

Sounds the better option.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"If a guy requested he be allowed to wear a condom for a bj would if put you off. Valid reason for asking ."

It would put me off.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"You wouldn't keep your socks on to take a shower "

some might it could save an washing powder for socks!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never pull it off. If he insisted on anything then it's for a reason and totally his choice and I certainly wouldn't take that away from him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had better offer an explanation and see what you guys think. I had my prostate out 4 weeks ago and it will take about 6 months to retrain my muscles. Up shot is I still leak a small am out of urine during sex. Now obviously I would be wearing a condom for sex but wouldn't want to leak during a bj. Maybe I would be better off not having a bj till I'm sorted."

That would be the better option, I would be put off by sucking with a condom on never mind having one and seeing/feeling urine leak out

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"You wouldn't keep your socks on to take a shower

No but I'd keep them on during sex hahaha "

For a girl this is acceptable behaviour - especially if they have little pompoms on the back...for a man it is quite simply WRONG

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By *ango0505Woman
over a year ago

Dumfries


"If a guy requested he be allowed to wear a condom for a bj would if put you off. Valid reason for asking .

Yes- condoms taste manky!"

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Not for me x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man requested it themselves then I would be very suspicious that they have some sort of sti"

Or he might be suspicious that the person giving the BJ has some sort of sti?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"If a man requested it themselves then I would be very suspicious that they have some sort of sti

Or he might be suspicious that the person giving the BJ has some sort of sti?

"

If that were the case he surely wouldn’t be going there anyway .

I know so many say on these type of threads that they assume everyone is diseased , but let’s be honest .... no one in their right mind would go there with someone they actually thought may have an sti .

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Last time I sucked a cock after he had removed the condom....nearly vommed tbh. I won't be doing that again!!

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I’

If anyone decide they want their meet to wear a condom you should respect their wish...if you check sti are on the increase

So I believe in health over fun with someone I may never see again..regular partners ok once had all checks

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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood


"Last time I sucked a cock after he had removed the condom....nearly vommed tbh. I won't be doing that again!!"

Expand!! Smell taste sight????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yuck, natural dick for me

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Last time I sucked a cock after he had removed the condom....nearly vommed tbh. I won't be doing that again!!

Expand!! Smell taste sight???? "

Taste mainly.

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"If a man requested it themselves then I would be very suspicious that they have some sort of sti"

Just what i was thinking. X

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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood


"Last time I sucked a cock after he had removed the condom....nearly vommed tbh. I won't be doing that again!!

Expand!! Smell taste sight????

Taste mainly."

Ye I can see that ... synthetic greasy cum... hmmm just isn't the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not give a blow job without a guy wearing a condom, unless I was in a serious relationship. There are flavoured condoms anyway which don't have a vile taste

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By *enrydarrenMan
over a year ago

Harrow Weald

It's a no from me,would never get a BJ wearing one of them

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