FabSwingers.com forum: Your first fab meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wanted to know how long it usually takes for people to get their first meet on the site ?

I’m relatively new and don’t mean to sound impatient I’m just curious to see what people say !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on how picky you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me three weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How picky were you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That seems pretty fast for a guy on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How picky were you ? "

Well as long as the girl drives a Ford diesel I am happy to fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week, and I’m very fussy. (And no they aren’t publicly displayed on my verifications).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A week !

From what I’ve seen so far on the site I thought men were meant to struggle for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can take forever in some cases

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Years and years and years sometimes it never happens

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The very first one took about 6-8 weeks,it wasn't on fab though

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"How picky were you ?

Well as long as the girl drives a Ford diesel I am happy to fuck her "

Ooooh which Charm school did you attend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why not on fab ? Any particular reason ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How picky were you ?

Well as long as the girl drives a Ford diesel I am happy to fuck her

Ooooh which Charm school did you attend?

The best of the country.

What car do you drive hun?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I planned to meet someone after 2 weeks. He stood me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know I drive a ford diesel?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Why not on fab ? Any particular reason ? "

If you mean me, no reason other than I started out on a different swingers site

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By *leasant passionate manMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Still waiting....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What a fool , don’t understand why you would agree to meet someone and not follow through with it

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"How picky were you ?

Well as long as the girl drives a Ford diesel I am happy to fuck her

Ooooh which Charm school did you attend?

The best of the country.

What car do you drive hun? "

Any car you want me to drive ‘hun’....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah I see , do you prefer the other site or is fab your preferred hunting ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I planned to meet someone after 2 weeks. He stood me up."

He must of been on crack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How picky were you ?

Well as long as the girl drives a Ford diesel I am happy to fuck her

Ooooh which Charm school did you attend?

The best of the country.

What car do you drive hun?

Any car you want me to drive ‘hun’...."

Stop that you are turning me on now ! I am bashing my bishop thinking of you properly holding the steering wheel of your vehicle of my choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

HOpe you don’t end up waiting too long !

Have you tried other ways of meeting people or are you patient enough to wait ?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is no hard and fast timing OP - just the same as there are no guarantees - for some guys they'll get a meet within days of joining, others will never get one.

It all comes down to having the right attitude, no expectations or sense of entitlement, all backed up by a decent profile and pics, the ability to be considerate and respectful and not get negative for being rejected- and even then there are no guarantees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took us three weeks.

There isn't really a set time, though. It can be hard for lots of single guys on here, so be prepared for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That seems like pretty sound advice to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s what the general consensus seems to be on here

I’m willing to be patient but , wouldn’t want to rush into anything stupid or anything silly like that

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

About 3 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Suprised it took that long look at you !

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If I'd wanted to open my legs to anyone it would have taken minutes after signing up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 2 months but i wasnt in a rush

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

2 weeks for a social, 6 for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I'd wanted to open my legs to anyone it would have taken minutes after signing up.

You must have had men queuing for you if that’s the case hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2 weeks for a social, 6 for a shag.

Did you meet with the same profile for both ?

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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood

"2 weeks for a social, 6 for a shag.

Hmm is that you being picky... or them just not up to scratch

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"If I'd wanted to open my legs to anyone it would have taken minutes after signing up.

You must have had men queuing for you if that’s the case hahaha "

Still have. 98% are out of luck tho

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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood

"About 3 weeks. "

You little devil you!!!!

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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood

"If I'd wanted to open my legs to anyone it would have taken minutes after signing up.

You must have had men queuing for you if that’s the case hahaha

Still have. 98% are out of luck tho "

Haha ... standard

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

236 years 3 months

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I'd wanted to open my legs to anyone it would have taken minutes after signing up.

You must have had men queuing for you if that’s the case hahaha

Still have. 98% are out of luck tho "

Can I join the que ? I have the luck of the Irish so at least that’s in my favour

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"If I'd wanted to open my legs to anyone it would have taken minutes after signing up.

You must have had men queuing for you if that’s the case hahaha

Still have. 98% are out of luck tho

Can I join the que ? I have the luck of the Irish so at least that’s in my favour "

You'll have a long wait kiddo, I don't meet under 30s

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"236 years 3 months"

My goodness poor you ! How are you able to cope !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I'd wanted to open my legs to anyone it would have taken minutes after signing up.

You must have had men queuing for you if that’s the case hahaha

Still have. 98% are out of luck tho

Can I join the que ? I have the luck of the Irish so at least that’s in my favour

You'll have a long wait kiddo, I don't meet under 30s "

I’ll message you back in 12 years and we can pick up things from there

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"2 weeks for a social, 6 for a shag.

Did you meet with the same profile for both ? "

No. The social didn't go any further, he slurped his coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A week !

From what I’ve seen so far on the site I thought men were meant to struggle for meets "
most do on due to the high number of men on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2 weeks for a social, 6 for a shag.

Did you meet with the same profile for both ?

No. The social didn't go any further, he slurped his coffee."

Hope that wasn’t the only reason , seems a bit harsh on the fella !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A week !

From what I’ve seen so far on the site I thought men were meant to struggle for meets most do on due to the high number of men on here

Yeah I recon it must be about 20 guys for every single girl

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"2 weeks for a social, 6 for a shag.

Did you meet with the same profile for both ?

No. The social didn't go any further, he slurped his coffee.

Hope that wasn’t the only reason , seems a bit harsh on the fella !

That is one of my pet hates but it wasn't the only reason!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We not had one yet

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We joined fabs after hearing about it in another site. We went to a club that weekend, met someone who was a member here, had some fun, got our first veri. 48 hours maybe.

However, we've met people on here who joined just to be verified as they'd attended a club, heard about the site and joined. For one of them it was literally hours to be verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For Us i think it’s about taking it slow. We went to a club last week it was very quiet 5 people including us there. But we went with no intention of doing anything. Hubby and I did have a bit of a play lol

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Yeah I recon it must be about 20 guys for every single girl "

And then some! I'd say a ratio of 20:1 on here is a very conservative estimate, which is exactly why you need to utilise all of your positive qualities to get noticed.

Use your intelligence and your common sense, be polite, be charming, be eloquent, be engaging, be honest, be respectful and be patient. Meets will come in their own time.

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