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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For the chaps, do you e ever ask for feedback when your mails get deleted? Does anyone ever give you any?

For the girls and the couples, are you ever asked for feedback? do you ever reply if asked?

I have asked a few times, sometimes i get blanked (of course) but others I get comentry (and I thank the person/people involved). Indeed, one of my best friendships came from a request for feedback/advice.

I just wondered what people thought.....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

not sure what you mean....do you mean veris or asking someone why they dont want to meet you?

If the latter it would have to be worded very carefully as i block anyone who tries to get into a debate about my preferences.

However i have received quite a few pms after advice i have given on the forum,and am always willing to try and help.

If you mean veris,i offer to give them...good single guys deserve them

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Yes we do if asked.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"not sure what you mean....do you mean veris or asking someone why they dont want to meet you."

I think what the chap means is that if he is one of the guys who takes time over the messages that he writes out to people, and isn't just one of the one line cowboys, only to find that his message has been deleted (in "Sent Messages") whether a second letter asking why the first was deleted will result in an explaination for that deletion.

I somehow suspect that those who delete won't be inclined to respond to a second message, and asking for feedback will be a waste of time. More likely that a forum like this exploring how and why people delete messages will be more fruitful.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"not sure what you mean....do you mean veris or asking someone why they dont want to meet you.

I think what the chap means is that if he is one of the guys who takes time over the messages that he writes out to people, and isn't just one of the one line cowboys, only to find that his message has been deleted (in "Sent Messages") whether a second letter asking why the first was deleted will result in an explaination for that deletion.

I somehow suspect that those who delete won't be inclined to respond to a second message, and asking for feedback will be a waste of time. More likely that a forum like this exploring how and why people delete messages will be more fruitful.

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i have to agree,as i said any request for feedback would have to be very carefully worded not to appear to be questioning someones preferences.The forum is a far better place to ask for this acvice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was sending out messages i did put a lot of thought and effort into it. as it just gets deleted i stopped . as for feedback or comments no i never asked ,as way i seen it was if they not going to even read the message then their very unlikely to explain anything .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think people got the gist of the post. I do put a lot of thought into (most) of my messages and so if the person deletes and doesn't look at my profile it does make me wonder why.

Perhaps I have not thought enough, been a little too risque (suprising, but) or not naughty enough......

I never pester for feed back, but I have got meets from asking for advice, putting that advice into place and getting recognition (for being the sexy mofo I am )

I take it that you chaps don't ask then? And that you girls wouldn't usually reply if you were asked?

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when i was sending out messages i did put a lot of thought and effort into it. as it just gets deleted i stopped . as for feedback or comments no i never asked ,as way i seen it was if they not going to even read the message then their very unlikely to explain anything . "

In defence of deletes, I would expect that those people have read the message, not liked it and deleted without replying. It must be exhausting for most women (let alone the very attractive ones) to read, let alone reply to all the mail that they get......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason many people don't reply to messages our block or don't give feedback is that a polite thanks but no thanks is often met with abuse or the start of a negotiation trying to persuade us to meet when we've already said we're not interested. It's not too bad on our couples profile as any no thanks messages are sent by Mr and for some reason guys don't pursue it but when I had a single female profile it was much worse. if we're asked for feedback we'll give it but won't get drawn into a long game of message ping pong. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a great verification/feedback can come back to haunt you. I have taken some of mine off from show, as it is not how I want to be seen by others. You become branded by others. Different stokes for different fokes I would say.

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