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"Omg. Not another one god bless her poor soul x"  | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. " I agree Sounds like a meet,a 24* year old guy and 17 year old girl arrested. Be safe everyone | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. " I thought possibly the same thing. Terrible tragedy and all too common | |||
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"Sick. Let’s all have a drink in Naomi’s name tonight. " 100% | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. I thought possibly the same thing. Terrible tragedy and all too common" Is it common? Very scary if it is | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. I thought possibly the same thing. Terrible tragedy and all too common Is it common? Very scary if it is" Trans people being attacked or murdered? Yes, incredibly common | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. I thought possibly the same thing. Terrible tragedy and all too common Is it common? Very scary if it is" Me and priya were in Norwich last year and we saw signs about an army lad who went missing who apparently was on fab etc | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. I thought possibly the same thing. Terrible tragedy and all too common Is it common? Very scary if it is Trans people being attacked or murdered? Yes, incredibly common " Very very sad. R I P Naomi. | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. I thought possibly the same thing. Terrible tragedy and all too common Is it common? Very scary if it is Trans people being attacked or murdered? Yes, incredibly common Very very sad. R I P Naomi. "Heartbreaking tragic price to pay for fun | |||
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"genuine feeling though. If I got murdered via fab I’d want a ‘swingers community funeral’... all come in your wigs and your nipple tassels etc. I believe in the celebration of life rather than the mourning. I’d be gone and you Can’t change that but you people, as a community, make it all it for me. Let’s be thankful for this ladies fun times and all the friends she made. Naomi.... hope you’re having a party at that cheesy gay bar in the sky. Xx" Yes. Quite so. Brilliantly put | |||
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.....hope she is having a party in sky bless her . Xx
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"genuine feeling though. If I got murdered via fab I’d want a ‘swingers community funeral’... all come in your wigs and your nipple tassels etc. I believe in the celebration of life rather than the mourning. I’d be gone and you Can’t change that but you people, as a community, make it all it for me. Let’s be thankful for this ladies fun times and all the friends she made. Naomi.... hope you’re having a party at that cheesy gay bar in the sky. Xx" I love this idea! Perhaps we could hold a memorial social in her name? There are several charities that help trans people recover from attacks, perhaps we could raise some money? | |||
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"genuine feeling though. If I got murdered via fab I’d want a ‘swingers community funeral’... all come in your wigs and your nipple tassels etc. I believe in the celebration of life rather than the mourning. I’d be gone and you Can’t change that but you people, as a community, make it all it for me. Let’s be thankful for this ladies fun times and all the friends she made. Naomi.... hope you’re having a party at that cheesy gay bar in the sky. Xx I love this idea! Perhaps we could hold a memorial social in her name? There are several charities that help trans people recover from attacks, perhaps we could raise some money? " OMG YESSSSSSS | |||
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"I am very sad to read this. Why do people feel it is fab related? My condolences to her and those who are missing her." I think it’s more that she was meeting a couple in a hotel for sex. It just screams ‘meet’ to me xx | |||
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"I am very sad to read this. Why do people feel it is fab related? My condolences to her and those who are missing her. I think it’s more that she was meeting a couple in a hotel for sex. It just screams ‘meet’ to me xx" the last veri was from 2015, probably not fab releated rip. | |||
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"Very sad, and again in London, how do we know this person was on fab?" She has/had a profile on here | |||
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"I hope fab take her profile soon. To protect her and her families privacy xxxxx" | |||
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"I hope fab take her profile soon. To protect her and her families privacy xxxxx" 100% | |||
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"I hope fab take her profile soon. To protect her and her families privacy xxxxx "Just saw her profile. She seems like a geniunely good outgoing person which makes this more tragic. I hope there is justice for her. Aggreed it should be removed so not used malicously but some kinda tribute somewhere would be good. | |||
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"I hope fab take her profile soon. To protect her and her families privacy xxxxx
Just saw her profile. She seems like a geniunely good outgoing person which makes this more tragic. I hope there is justice for her. Aggreed it should be removed so not used malicously but some kinda tribute somewhere would be good."I'm on it! Going to arrange a social in her memory! Already contacted a venue! | |||
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"I hope fab take her profile soon. To protect her and her families privacy xxxxx" Couldn't agree more xx | |||
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"unless you knew her directly I don't think you should be making any sort of arrangements in her name " Care to explain why? | |||
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"unless you knew her directly I don't think you should be making any sort of arrangements in her name Care to explain why? " yes, how do you know it's what she would have wanted if you don't know her? | |||
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"unless you knew her directly I don't think you should be making any sort of arrangements in her name Care to explain why? yes, how do you know it's what she would have wanted if you don't know her?" No one knows, she's not here anymore to tell us. I honestly can't imagine anyone having an issue with a social event to raise money for a charity that helps other people like her tho...I'll stick with my plan to arrange an event to remember her. | |||
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"Please let's just keep the thread respectfull. No bitching or arguing, or queuering each others posts. A girl has lost her life, be respectfull for a day to her xxxxx Thank you xxxxx" | |||
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"Don't keep posting the link to the profile please" Rugby...... Can I ask, will fab be able to hide the profile in such cases. Just wondering, as I know it will be needed for investigative purposes xxxxxx | |||
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"Admin have already sorted it just incase her family doesn't know x" Thank you Rugby. They need privacy and respect now xxxx | |||
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"Everyone should be mindful to the fact that, when arranging meets, no matter how genuine they sound in messages or by phone. Safety is paramount. And unfortunately in some cases things go wrong, as has possibly been so in this was case. We are all presuming she was on a meet. She may not have been, she may have already known these people. And a sad tragedy ensued, we don't know. But, we should all be mindful of where our meets take place and with whom. Safety is never guaranteed in life, but extra vigilance should be considered when meeting, wether that be as a couple of as a singl , make it female, or as in this case Tgirl . Stay safe everyone mwahhhh x Suzi" There is a section on safety for meeting on the fab faq section, some great advice | |||
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"RIP. This is why clubs, organised socials and socials in public places definitely are the best way forwards before private meets. " I disagree. All my meets have been inside the guys private home. All been a social first. Socials can show up alot. Thankfully there's still so many decent guys left on this site. The horrid ones who looked nothing like their pics or who I just felt uncomfortable with, I never saw them again. Going straight to a meet without a social first is ridiculous in my opinion. Socials are NOT dates. If a guy can't be bothered to spend 1 hour or less having a coffee etc with me, then he clearly isn't the sort to show respect and effort in any other area. Anyone can book a hotel using anyone's bank card or cash etc. You have no real way of knowing who is going to be waiting for you in that hotel. If a person is dodgy or just perverse, he isn't going to give out his home address. I take a copy of his face pic along with his number and address, i leave it with my best friend. If she doesn't hear from me within an hour or two, or even the next morning, she knows where to send the police! I make my meet aware I'm doing this. Every one of my meets have gone this way except one. I felt more comfortable and at ease inside a meets home then any hotel! | |||
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"RIP. This is why clubs, organised socials and socials in public places definitely are the best way forwards before private meets. I disagree. All my meets have been inside the guys private home. All been a social first. Socials can show up alot. Thankfully there's still so many decent guys left on this site. The horrid ones who looked nothing like their pics or who I just felt uncomfortable with, I never saw them again. Going straight to a meet without a social first is ridiculous in my opinion. Socials are NOT dates. If a guy can't be bothered to spend 1 hour or less having a coffee etc with me, then he clearly isn't the sort to show respect and effort in any other area. Anyone can book a hotel using anyone's bank card or cash etc. You have no real way of knowing who is going to be waiting for you in that hotel. If a person is dodgy or just perverse, he isn't going to give out his home address. I take a copy of his face pic along with his number and address, i leave it with my best friend. If she doesn't hear from me within an hour or two, or even the next morning, she knows where to send the police! I make my meet aware I'm doing this. Every one of my meets have gone this way except one. I felt more comfortable and at ease inside a meets home then any hotel! " I didn't mention hotels, I was highlighting the fact that to do a social meet in a public place is always best first.  | |||
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"RIP. This is why clubs, organised socials and socials in public places definitely are the best way forwards before private meets. I disagree. All my meets have been inside the guys private home. All been a social first. Socials can show up alot. Thankfully there's still so many decent guys left on this site. The horrid ones who looked nothing like their pics or who I just felt uncomfortable with, I never saw them again. Going straight to a meet without a social first is ridiculous in my opinion. Socials are NOT dates. If a guy can't be bothered to spend 1 hour or less having a coffee etc with me, then he clearly isn't the sort to show respect and effort in any other area. Anyone can book a hotel using anyone's bank card or cash etc. You have no real way of knowing who is going to be waiting for you in that hotel. If a person is dodgy or just perverse, he isn't going to give out his home address. I take a copy of his face pic along with his number and address, i leave it with my best friend. If she doesn't hear from me within an hour or two, or even the next morning, she knows where to send the police! I make my meet aware I'm doing this. Every one of my meets have gone this way except one. I felt more comfortable and at ease inside a meets home then any hotel! I didn't mention hotels, I was highlighting the fact that to do a social meet in a public place is always best first. "I agree, a public place for a social is best. I had a nasty experience at a social last year with a chap who raised a fist at me, because there were public around us he ran off when I got my phone out to ring the Police! Keep safe peeps  | |||
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"Think we are losing sight of the purpose of this thread. It was just sad news and a reality check for everyone to be safe. Lets not bicker and just show the poor girl some respect ? " | |||
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"Think we are losing sight of the purpose of this thread. It was just sad news and a reality check for everyone to be safe. Lets not bicker and just show the poor girl some respect ? " | |||
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"Think we are losing sight of the purpose of this thread. It was just sad news and a reality check for everyone to be safe. Lets not bicker and just show the poor girl some respect ? " We are all very sad and it’s terrible news. I just want all to be safe, I’m certainly not ‘bickering’ dear | |||
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"And guys get angry when I tell them I won’t meet unverified guys for safety reasons,you just have to be so carful , rip Angel " Hope you block these angry guys? Safety is first always.... | |||
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"Unsure if others have posted this But this tgirl was on this site She has been found stabbed https://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/tributes-paid-to-victim-found-stabbed-to-death-in-hotel-near-heathrow-a3796261.html Rip." Very sad, but not sure how you are making connection with fab, she was using whatsapp but no mention of fab or swinging. | |||
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"And guys get angry when I tell them I won’t meet unverified guys for safety reasons,you just have to be so carful , rip Angel " How does being verified make them a safe person? | |||
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"Unsure if others have posted this But this tgirl was on this site She has been found stabbed https://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/tributes-paid-to-victim-found-stabbed-to-death-in-hotel-near-heathrow-a3796261.html Rip. Very sad, but not sure how you are making connection with fab, she was using whatsapp but no mention of fab or swinging." Her profile was linked to earlier but we’ve been asked not to now. She was definitely on here. | |||
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"A lot are assuming she met the person from here, one suggesting you should all share names of nasty people, it may or may not be someone from this site who has been arrested" A Trans women meets a couple at a hotel certainly sounds like a meet. Does it matter whether its from here or from another site? We would rather be safe, than sorry! | |||
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"A lot are assuming she met the person from here, one suggesting you should all share names of nasty people, it may or may not be someone from this site who has been arrested A Trans women meets a couple at a hotel certainly sounds like a meet. Does it matter whether its from here or from another site? " No. I was just commenting if that is ok | |||
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"A lot are assuming she met the person from here, one suggesting you should all share names of nasty people, it may or may not be someone from this site who has been arrested A Trans women meets a couple at a hotel certainly sounds like a meet. Does it matter whether its from here or from another site? We would rather be safe, than sorry!" It is reasonable to clarify that there is no Fab or other site link at this time. All too often these tragedies involve people who the victim knows and has known for some time. We don't know. We can all make assumptions but now is probably a time to just pass on best wishes for a sad loss. | |||
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"1 more reason for me to delete fab.... good thing I haven't met anyone yet.... fab is a weird place " I haven't read all posts, but I don't think there has been any confirmation that she arranged the meet on here. Fab is not a weird place, it's some people that are weird. | |||
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"Tragic. I hope they catch the people responsible. Just horrible "Think they have caught them. | |||
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"Tragic. I hope they catch the people responsible. Just horrible "They've arrested two | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. I thought possibly the same thing. Terrible tragedy and all too common" I'm a bit doubtful. She used to only accommodate and used to say she wouldn't travel. I hope they catch the assholes soon | |||
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"A lot are assuming she met the person from here, one suggesting you should all share names of nasty people, it may or may not be someone from this site who has been arrested A Trans women meets a couple at a hotel certainly sounds like a meet. Does it matter whether its from here or from another site? No. I was just commenting if that is ok" | |||
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"In the article it says a girl was been arrested. Does anyone think it could have been a gf of someone from here setting her up for this aweful act? " Probably best not to guess what happened. Whatever the situation, it's tragic and sad | |||
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"Poor girl. Rip hope the culprit is given the sentence they deserve" The only sentence they deserve is the one that ruth ellis had the last one too back in the 50,s .. A life for a life. | |||
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"Poor girl. Rip hope the culprit is given the sentence they deserve The only sentence they deserve is the one that ruth ellis had the last one too back in the 50,s .. A life for a life." R I P Naomi. | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. I thought possibly the same thing. Terrible tragedy and all too common I'm a bit doubtful. She used to only accommodate and used to say she wouldn't travel. I hope they catch the assholes soon" Two people have been arrested. | |||
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"Sounds like a meet maybe from here too. Poor thing. I thought possibly the same thing. Terrible tragedy and all too common Is it common? Very scary if it is" Some guys can not handle there emotions with TV/CD or even when exploring there by curious side. That's why I prefer to meet gay men only and not bicurious men. See the film Tracey's Stories starring Sean Bean sums up the risks out there | |||
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"A lot are assuming she met the person from here, one suggesting you should all share names of nasty people, it may or may not be someone from this site who has been arrested A Trans women meets a couple at a hotel certainly sounds like a meet. Does it matter whether its from here or from another site? No. I was just commenting if that is ok "So was i....  | |||
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