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"What an odd thing to say. " I agree, almost offensive.. Room (npi) for all of us.. | |||
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"What an odd thing to say. I agree, almost offensive.. Room (npi) for all of us.." At a loss why this question was posted at all | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " Certainly would love fuller figure women they have more to explore and enjoy. But yeah this seems a silly question | |||
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"I think the amount of threads in praise of fuller figured ladies implies that the women would. " I agree!! | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one! | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one!" I think that's why he's asking. I think its a good idea in theory, unfortunately people would just lie about their size. | |||
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"The op is clearly coming from his point of view , that being a male . We all know that women of any size will never struggle for a meet . I imagine it’s a different story for men ....." I read it this way, too. He describes himself as large so you can see why he might ask. | |||
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"The op is clearly coming from his point of view , that being a male . We all know that women of any size will never struggle for a meet . I imagine it’s a different story for men ..... I read it this way, too. He describes himself as large so you can see why he might ask." I read it that way to! X | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one!" yes would defo go for me thats why i asked the question i was just wondering if people would choose the overweight category | |||
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"well I'm over weight and hasn't stopped meeting so kind of a judgemental question op" can i just say i am not being judgemental as i am overweight my self thats why i asked the question | |||
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"Another one of those (Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads) Some Shallow people On here and that’s what ruins the site!" quite the opposite i am a fat person you are all reading it wrong i am talking from a mans point of view would it change things for a man | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one! yes would defo go for me thats why i asked the question i was just wondering if people would choose the overweight category " It's very subjective. According to my BMI I am overweight by a stone or just over. I don't feel overweight nor do I think I particularly look it anymore. (I have lost 5 stone so I've been there) Personally would I seek out overweight people? I can't say I would, but again, it would depend on so many circumstances. | |||
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"Another one of those (Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads) Some Shallow people On here and that’s what ruins the site!" Lol. The poor guy says he's fat... He's clearly wanting to know if he'll get laid if there was a body size search xx | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one! yes would defo go for me thats why i asked the question i was just wondering if people would choose the overweight category " If I was browsing profiles I would filter out Women who describe themselves as overweight and I'm sure a lot of Women who do the same for Men who describe themselves as slim, I don't understand why fab has got this option in there search filters | |||
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"Another one of those (Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads) Some Shallow people On here and that’s what ruins the site! quite the opposite i am a fat person you are all reading it wrong i am talking from a mans point of view would it change things for a man " As I thought .... | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " And you ask why women won't meet you!! Pmsl!!! | |||
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"Why wouldn’t we? I have on my profile I’m plus size, I have the large box ticked for body type and I have pics up...I don’t hide I’m plus size so why would I suddenly not get meets, Am I missing something?" You are gorgeous loving the term panda meets! | |||
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"Why wouldn’t we? I have on my profile I’m plus size, I have the large box ticked for body type and I have pics up...I don’t hide I’m plus size so why would I suddenly not get meets, Am I missing something? You are gorgeous loving the term panda meets!
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"Folks i think you are getting the op wrong here. From what I see if there was an overweight body type would a man get meets he's not saying anything about bbw!I hope I'm correct in this! "You are correct , he has said so . | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " Probably more than any other body type | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " Probably. I know I would; some guys don't care about body size and judge attractiveness by face instead. And I have one of those. | |||
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"Another one of those (Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads) Some Shallow people On here and that’s what ruins the site!" Errr! No actually. Some of us read it as a guy who describes himself as chubby asking an understandable question when you also read his status. | |||
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"How quick some are to jump on the defensive. Perfectly acceptable question I thought. I would use it to filter out the extremes at both ends of the scale. " It may impact the number of those making contact initially but don't think it would impact the number of meets necessarily. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Probably. I know I would; some guys don't care about body size and judge attractiveness by face instead. And I have one of those." You have a face? I have one too, wow - we have lots in common | |||
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"Another one of those (Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads) Some Shallow people On here and that’s what ruins the site!" He didn't say that I am shallow, I would only meet people if I fancied them | |||
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"Another one of those (Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads) Some Shallow people On here and that’s what ruins the site! quite the opposite i am a fat person you are all reading it wrong i am talking from a mans point of view would it change things for a man " It would still be the same answer for me, it is an odd question and my reasoning is, people fancy all shapes and sizes....so every shape and size would be in with a chance of a meet | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " Why wouldn't they? | |||
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"Attraction comes in all shapes, sizes, colour. I don’t like particularly skinny women, but a lot men do. If they had an ignorant or arrogant search, then some might people might get so lucky. " Not get so lucky* | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Probably. I know I would; some guys don't care about body size and judge attractiveness by face instead. And I have one of those. You have a face? I have one too, wow - we have lots in common "I know, right. What are the chances?! | |||
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"Another one of those (Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads) Some Shallow people On here and that’s what ruins the site! " Another one of those over sensitive posts that gets it all wrong. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " What a ridiculously childish thing to say, I’ve never had a problem and I’m a big girl. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced What a ridiculously childish thing to say, I’ve never had a problem and I’m a big girl. " Big girls have a different experience from big guys on here. | |||
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"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for. Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size "I totally do this as well its sad but i assume they are taking the piss and can sometimes ignore | |||
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"According to government guidelines, I'm obese "And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight. | |||
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"According to government guidelines, I'm obese
And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight. "Didn't say there was an and... | |||
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"According to government guidelines, I'm obese
And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.
Didn't say there was an and... "Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese? | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " I think they would. | |||
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"According to government guidelines, I'm obese
And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.
Didn't say there was an and...
Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese? "Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say. | |||
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"I'm very interested to see if any women will say they like bbm or curvy men! "I like men of all shapes and sizes. Personality has a lot to do with it. | |||
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"According to government guidelines, I'm obese
And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.
Didn't say there was an and...
Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?
Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say."What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. So yeah. Just because you think you aren't doesn't mean you aren't. | |||
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"According to government guidelines, I'm obese
And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.
Didn't say there was an and...
Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?
Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say.
What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. So yeah. Just because you think you aren't doesn't mean you aren't. "I didn't say I wasn't, but I am happy with how I am. Also the government do it based on bmi, not body fat and muscle. | |||
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"According to government guidelines, I'm obese
And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.
Didn't say there was an and...
Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?
Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say.
What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. So yeah. Just because you think you aren't doesn't mean you aren't.
I didn't say I wasn't, but I am happy with how I am. Also the government do it based on bmi, not body fat and muscle. "*shrugs* yep. Exactly. But you don't need worry. We don't have to declare it yet | |||
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"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for. Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size "Me too haha | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this.... 1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone.... 2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you.... i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness.... 3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them! i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!! I am the best "one man gang" in the world....
its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!! | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this.... 1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone.... 2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you.... i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness.... 3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them! i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!! I am the best "one man gang" in the world....
its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!!"Now that’s a great post | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this.... 1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone.... 2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you.... i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness.... 3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them! i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!! I am the best "one man gang" in the world....
its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!!"Everything in life depends on confidence. If you don’t have faith in yourself how can anyone else, common sense. | |||
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"Thanks to those people who sent helpful messages and everyone else i apologise if i upset or offended you was not ment that way " Don't worry about it, you didn't say anything wrong. Hope you find someone. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " Yes of course they would. However if they read this post I doubt any women local to you, would want to meet you. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Yes of course they would. However if they read this post I doubt any women local to you, would want to meet you. " Why's that? | |||
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"Thanks to those people who sent helpful messages and everyone else i apologise if i upset or offended you was not ment that way " Fuck 'em! They live to jump on their white horses whilst totally missing the point of the op.... | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Yes of course they would. However if they read this post I doubt any women local to you, would want to meet you. " Yeah why is that? | |||
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"According to government guidelines, I'm obese
And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.
Didn't say there was an and...
Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?
Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say.
What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. So yeah. Just because you think you aren't doesn't mean you aren't.
I didn't say I wasn't, but I am happy with how I am. Also the government do it based on bmi, not body fat and muscle. "You don't look obese to me far from it infact. | |||
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"According to government guidelines, I'm obese
And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.
Didn't say there was an and...
Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?
Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say.
What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. "Ouch | |||
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" I didn't say I wasn't, but I am happy with how I am. Also the government do it based on bmi, not body fat and muscle. " You don't look obese | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this.... 1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone.... 2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you.... i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness.... 3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them! i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!! I am the best "one man gang" in the world....
its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!!
Now that’s a great post "thanks... we don't tend to agree on much, but i appriate that.... sometimes it just grates on me the amount of "oh woe is me" that goes on here... you can sit back, complain, gripe about things... or you can do something about it and be proactive no such thing as sympathy sex.... go out and make yourselves as attactive as you can.... no one knows you better than you so sell your selling points!!! | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
"Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight. | |||
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"It was obvious the guy was referring too himself, people are hard work on here at times. Everyone has their own type but suppose beggars can’t be choosers " Not sure what you are saying there, comes across like you will fuck anyone whether you fancy them or not? | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight."Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
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"I’m a big lass, i manage to have loads of Fab fun. I’m a fan of a more substantial man as well, big beardy chunky guys especially. At the end of the day though regardless of size (of any bit of someone’s anatomy), if we don’t click and have a laugh it’s not going to go any further..." | |||
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"Oh yes .. of course ... we are such lovley people .... next burning question .. " yes BBW are beautiful people | |||
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"Oh yes .. of course ... we are such lovley people .... next burning question .. yes BBW are beautiful people " | |||
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"There's attraction in all areas. Just like everyone has their kink. I'm more into dad bod type of guys and not the male severely pumped up gym bunnies. Everyone has their preference "I bet you got even more swamped with messages than usual after this post didn't you
If size was an issue no one apart from the Ego Gym Bunnies would get meets on fabs.
As it is, there's certainly someone for everyone here on Fabs. I think personality matters more than how many times he/she's been to the gym this week. | |||
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"Some would get meets but I think most would get less meets than usual and people would also lie about their size just to appear in searches. I always assume that this is the reason there isn’t body search. I dropped my body description from Athletic to Average and noticed a difference (even though I’m not really average, I just dont feel like I’m in full athletic mode currently). " Good point. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
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"I'm not sure I'd use a body size/type search if there was one. Personality is more important to me than someone's size. I judge a person by reading their profile (yes I really do read them) and look at their pics, and if it doesn't spark my interest I move on. Plus as others have said a lot struggle with which 'label' they should wear including me." You must be insane. | |||
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"I'm not sure I'd use a body size/type search if there was one. Personality is more important to me than someone's size. I judge a person by reading their profile (yes I really do read them) and look at their pics, and if it doesn't spark my interest I move on. Plus as others have said a lot struggle with which 'label' they should wear including me. You must be insane. " Damn! What gave me away? | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " larger people are harder to steal | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced larger people are harder to steal "I've found it Better to roll them away | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem. "I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.
I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates "Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is. | |||
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"I don't think anyone should fear a search based on mens waist size or women's dress size. People who dont care wont use it. People who do care will. Surely we would all prefer to only have people looking at our profile who are happy with our size? If we can have a search based on ethnicity surely we can have the size option." A problem with that is people with the same dress or waist size look completely different because of body shape and height. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.
I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates
Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is."Obesity comes in different shapes and sizes too. | |||
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"What an odd thing to say. " Yes, it is. Swinging is successful for folk of all shapes and sizes. A brief look through fab would provide evidence for this and so would negate the need to ask. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.
I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates
Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is."Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.
I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates
Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.
Obesity comes in different shapes and sizes too. "I said that in my original post I was called obese at 10 and a half stone | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.
I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates
Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.
Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am"Obese and beautiful. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.
I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates
Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.
Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am
Obese and beautiful. "This is sounding more like star wars now OBW
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.
I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates
Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.
Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am
Obese and beautiful.
This is sounding more like star wars now OBW
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"I don't think anyone should fear a search based on mens waist size or women's dress size. People who dont care wont use it. People who do care will. Surely we would all prefer to only have people looking at our profile who are happy with our size? If we can have a search based on ethnicity surely we can have the size option. A problem with that is people with the same dress or waist size look completely different because of body shape and height. " That is not a problem because profiles already have height and body shape on them. The only thing missing is size. Too many see the negative instead of the positive that those who message you are more likely to be attracted to you. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box
Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it
You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude
Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.
Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact
I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite
I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.
I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates
Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.
Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am
Obese and beautiful.
This is sounding more like star wars now OBW
..... you look like you've already moved to the dark side.. "I don't hide that either there is no hope for me now | |||
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"I don't think anyone should fear a search based on mens waist size or women's dress size. People who dont care wont use it. People who do care will. Surely we would all prefer to only have people looking at our profile who are happy with our size? If we can have a search based on ethnicity surely we can have the size option. A problem with that is people with the same dress or waist size look completely different because of body shape and height. " Exactly! My sister and I are the same size: 24 but looking at us she looks like an 18 at most. At 5ft 10 she's also 3" taller. | |||
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"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for. Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size "Never think anyone is out your league! Be confident in yourself, some may like you some may not but never think like that! | |||
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"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for. Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size
Never think anyone is out your league! Be confident in yourself, some may like you some may not but never think like that! "well your right there but i think i outside most people league here even i working at it to better myself | |||
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"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for. Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size
Never think anyone is out your league! Be confident in yourself, some may like you some may not but never think like that! well your right there but i think i outside most people league here even i working at it to better myself "Why would you think anyone is better then yourself... everyone has diffrent tastes so to speak, if you think your out of someones league then you may aswell be, never put yourself down and always raise the bar. | |||
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"Technically I'm morbidly obese, I know it's bullshit but I do wonder how many women would see that and skip by as they'd assume I was fat." I'm at the halfway mark of being obese, on the nhs weight/height chart, and I look much fatter than you. | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " Yes if it was a woman, not so much if it’s a man | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " Yes they still would. All sorts do. | |||
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"Technically I'm morbidly obese, I know it's bullshit but I do wonder how many women would see that and skip by as they'd assume I was fat. I'm at the halfway mark of being obese, on the nhs weight/height chart, and I look much fatter than you. " I would be more than happy to have some playtime fun with you. Dont change a thing | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " i think ya overweight people would get more meets than some who were rude enough to assume otherwise | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced i think ya overweight people would get more meets than some who were rude enough to assume otherwise " How come? | |||
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"What an odd thing to say. I agree, almost offensive.. Room (npi) for all of us.." | |||
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"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for. Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size
Never think anyone is out your league! Be confident in yourself, some may like you some may not but never think like that! well your right there but i think i outside most people league here even i working at it to better myself
Why would you think anyone is better then yourself... everyone has diffrent tastes so to speak, if you think your out of someones league then you may aswell be, never put yourself down and always raise the bar. "i never put my self down since i lost a lot of weight in life i all happy go type of guy since moving back to the uk where i weight 24 stone now i weight 15 stone 9 pound which i lost in a year and a bit | |||
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"Fairly self explanatory. It comes across rude and not many people would knowingly meet rude people " How is the op rude in your opinion? | |||
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" I'm more into dad bod type of guys and not the male severely pumped up gym bunnies. " You're gonna need a bigger inbox! | |||
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"Fairly self explanatory. It comes across rude and not many people would knowingly meet rude people How is the op rude in your opinion? " I havnt said the op is rude | |||
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"Fairly self explanatory. It comes across rude and not many people would knowingly meet rude people How is the op rude in your opinion? I havnt said the op is rude" Ok, what did you mean when you said this then: "Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced " i think ya overweight people would get more meets than some who were rude enough to assume otherwise" ? | |||
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"Well this fatty has done alright. But then almost all my meets have been in a club where they have seen my fat arse before coming over and asking if I fancied a fuck " | |||
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"Exact as it reads. That ‘some’ assume otherwise " Oh! Sorry lol! I thought you were yet another person attacking the op! | |||
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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this.... 1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone.... 2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you.... i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness.... 3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them! i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!! I am the best "one man gang" in the world....
its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!!"Totally true, and if I may say so, you've been on my hotlist for months because of how your personality shines plus the fact I enjoy chunky guys
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