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Not cumming from blowjob - Anyone else?

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By *pace_Cowboy_Brum OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.

No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.

I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.

Any tips or is this quite common?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.

No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.

I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.

Any tips or is this quite common? "

To be fair I've had a lot over the years and some were just plain awful, I doubt many would have popped a cork with those techniques.

To do something a little more personal, how often do you wank? Maybe you're somewhat desensitized? Maybe abstain for a few days beforehand.

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin


"Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.

No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.

I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.

Any tips or is this quite common? "

Would have said the same until recently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am rarely able to cum with a bj. Only 2 ladies have ever managed it . Many have said they've no complaints but do any guys every tell them otherwise? They'd never get a repeat meet. There's far more fun than having a bj. For me it's just foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess its how its done

some hold the cock and wank it so its not really a blow job

some only suck on the tip which can be sensitive and stop you

hands free is best , balls being massaged at the same time

and if possible treat it like a pussy , but gently , have a little hip movement.

but dont have to go to deep unless she likes it ..

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I've only ever had 1 person make me cum fromna bj, I always feel bad because every girl takes it as a reflection of their skill no matter if I was enjoying it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, can't relate, I orgasm everytime from head, it's simply incredible.

Perhaps I've just been lucky with the ladies that have done it?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Men do it better. I’ve cum every time a guy has sucked me

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I suffer a similar plight, but have cum from oral in the past.

I just have to find the right woman with BJ mastery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same boat. Jealous of a few things. No cumming from bj and no deep throating. Just can't find anyone capable.

I don't even expect it anymore so all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m with bill Logan this is alien to me always cum with a bj

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

I hardly ever come from a bj

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne


"Men do it better. I’ve cum every time a guy has sucked me"

Best are from guys.

Still hardy ever come from this alone

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By *ake5176Man
over a year ago

City

Depends on the blow, I’ve had some absolutely mind blowing ones that leave me shaking, and some where I’m sat thinking what’s the point in this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I've been very lucky when it comes to girls or they have been very determined, they always make me cum , holding the balls kicking the tip and deep throating are the best ways for me , and hearing them moan makes me cum is a real turn on

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I've never cum from a blow job in my life.

Come close with a guy, but still no cigar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in the same boat. I’ve only cum a handful of times from a bj. Don’t get me wrong I do love them and it feels great but to me it is just part of foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, can't relate, I orgasm everytime from head, it's simply incredible.

Perhaps I've just been lucky with the ladies that have done it? "

No, you're just very horny and have no control ...

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By *aleandbonnieCouple
over a year ago

bishop auckland

I don't cum from blow jobs but the wife does from giving them! Win win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely cum from oral or hand work by a woman.... nothing to do with the skills of the lady either.... I've had a few amazing mouths around my cock.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Have I cum from blowjobs? Many times. All about the technique and variety during the act.

I find licking, flicking of the tongue, kissing the shaft, stroking with the hands, focusing on the tip, cupping my balls, all contribute to a great BJ session.

There was a time in my late teens and early twenties when I thought it was impossible for me to cum from BJ pinky until a slightly older woman showed me it can be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I am exactly the same

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By *ainer09Man
over a year ago

Banff

I am the same, I enjoy them but have never cum with one.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Sometimes have, sometimes haven’t. All depends on the technique used I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 for me, but I definitely find it harder to cum from a bj than intercourse

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Have I ever cum from blow jobs? Hell yeah! More times than I can remember. There's always a delicious element of guilt as you do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one woman make me cum from giving me a BJ, however my last FB got absolutely soaking wet just from giving them and she wasn't bad at giving them, considering I don't normally go out of my way to receive oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a rarity for me. If it goes on too long I just get too sensitive and it kills my erection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a real problem for my girlfriend, i always tell her I can't cum during a bj, Then BOOMMMMMM shes got a mouth full of cream of sumyounguy,

The weird thing about it is that she falls for it every time.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Men do it better. I’ve cum every time a guy has sucked me

Best are from guys.

Still hardy ever come from this alone "

I had rarely cum from a blowjob until I met a guy with a technique that made my toes curl and gave me wobbly legs! In about two minutes of him working on my cock I had a shuddering orgasm and he had a mouthful of jizz lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.

No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.

I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.

Any tips or is this quite common? "

The only advice I could offer, would be to let your partner know when they are doing something that works for you, encourage them to keep touching that particular spot, and hopefully this will give you your desired result? I have only met one woman who could consistently bring me to orgasm by oral stimulation. It’s the same as not every guy can lick pussy ‘properly’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many guys can bring me off from a blowjob, but when a guy has a great technique, i'll let him know he's doing the right thing and carry on doing it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I the same given up worrying now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s all rubbish every man I’ve ever been with says they can’t cum from a blow job and then do within seconds!! I think it’s their way of making a woman want to do it a prove she can do something no one else has managed, thus trying hard to make it perfect and giving the man exactly what he wanted. I don’t fall for it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one women has ever made me cum just by blow job alone and the feeling inside her mouth was completely different from the others. Her tongue action was incredible.

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.

No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.

I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.

Your not alone I'm afraid fella....never been sucked to orgasm

Any tips or is this quite common? "

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"I think it’s all rubbish every man I’ve ever been with says they can’t cum from a blow job and then do within seconds!! I think it’s their way of making a woman want to do it a prove she can do something no one else has managed, thus trying hard to make it perfect and giving the man exactly what he wanted. I don’t fall for it anymore "

Damn it! You’ve found us out. I’ve been getting away with it for years

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I think it’s all rubbish every man I’ve ever been with says they can’t cum from a blow job and then do within seconds!! I think it’s their way of making a woman want to do it a prove she can do something no one else has managed, thus trying hard to make it perfect and giving the man exactly what he wanted. I don’t fall for it anymore "

Haha you are so cynical and suspicious,,,, but ,,, probably right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find men better than women but find I cum more from bj's with guys.. for me it's the kink of looking down and seeing another man sucking my cock, so horny!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've can't say I've come from a blow job. I've come pretty close tho, I fucking love giving them to the right person.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I've only ever had 1 person make me cum fromna bj, I always feel bad because every girl takes it as a reflection of their skill no matter if I was enjoying it or not"

When I realise I'm not going to cum from a bj, but the lady seems determined to keep going until I do cum, I'll just say something like "Mmmmmmm, I really need to fuck you now" and move on..........

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Some times it happens, some times it doesn't.

But it's always good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely ever cum from oral or sex, it's so frustrating and at times embarrassing.

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By *ants_Nerdy_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Havant

It's never happened for me yet. I've always wanted to bust a load down Mrs Nerdy's throat but as yet it remains a pipe dream. One day.

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By *harmanMan
over a year ago

Living Abroad

My rate of Cumming with bj’s are something around 10/1, it’s rarely and has a lot of things to happen at the moment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange one im the same from a blowjob but have no issues cumming from blowjob in a 69!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem cumming from a bj.

Guidance may help? Direct your partner what you like and flicks the switch.

I like them to take there time and play with it.

Teasing it ect.

Nothing like cumming in the mouth and her showing you what you have given her before she swallows and licks her lips.

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By *pace_Cowboy_Brum OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thanks all. Thought it was just me. Guess I'll just have to persevere

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Guess it’s all about technique same as some men can make me squirt licking my clit while others can’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anything... some people dont get enough stimulation from it. Its rare that you really cant, ive met two guys now that despite my best efforts, cannot get there. Ir may be a mental block or perhaps overstimulation from hard masturbation.

Patience and "retraining" . I used to find it very difficult to orgasm lying on my back and still find it MUCH harder still in a face sitting scenario.

So...fool around, practice, find the best position and dont beat yourself up. The lady may need some reassurance too or conversely, accept that its the guy who has the blockage and to find a way of ceasing the activity without either person feeling bad.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Very hard for me too, I look on BJs as foreplay and need to fuck afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do come when Hillie gives me a BJ but she knows exactly where to put her tongue. I guess that's what becomes of being together for 30 years does. The average club gob-job whilst being most welcome and pleasant will tend not to send me over the edge. On the other hand Hillie will not cum with penetrative sex. She likes plenty of oral and expert fingers. That said she has no trouble in getting gentlemen to help out there lol.

I love watching wanking and joining in from time to time

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