FabSwingers.com forum: No Photos

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why do some people on here think they are more important than the rest of us. why do they think they do not need to show any pics. they say they have good jobs and are professionals. we all need the same amount of trust and privacy. we have stopped replying to people if they have no pics. we found chasing people for pics became to time consuming and we decided it was to much effort. what do you think?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It would have to be a hell of a message to get me to reply if they don't attach a photo or have pics on their profile. If the message is good and has no pic I ask for one. If I don't get one then it's a no from me.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I couldn't agree more.

I don't think any of us would like our Gran, boss or milkman to see us on here and I feel that those without pics are just swooping on those who have. Afterall, I'd think twice about messaging someone with no pics - it's too much of a lucky dip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got fed up with people contacting me, who had no face pics, so i put, men with face pics at the top of my profile. There are plenty of people who do have face pics so why bother with people who dont.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I think it is up to them.

I wouldn't assume they think they are better than anyone.

I just wouldn't be interested, but that's my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good pictures attract me and non don't but its up to each person i think.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

why do people think its their place to judge others in regards to what personal information and pictures they want splashed all oer the internet?? who made them gods of everything??? i have decided that people like this are nosey picture collectors so dont bother mesaging them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone see's them in here, it's because they are in here for the same reasons.

Just ask and if you don't get one it's bye bye...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its simple if they have no face or dont attach one to the message i dont reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want contact from people who don't display public pics then using the message filter that stops them will help.

If you want to avoid them whilst browsing profiles then tick the box that excludes profiles that don't display photos... other stress reducing site tools are available

3rd time lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way we see it, there are that many profiles with pics on here to choose from that there's little point in wasting time on the ones without.

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By *ockinafrockCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We have bodily pics on our profile, but have decided against sending facial pics to anyone.

Decided a long time ago a body pic showing shape is more important than seeing someones face, which may be a really bad pic anyway!

If we are gonna have fun then its not the face we will be having fun with...

well....

AND, a facial pic in the wrong hands can destroy a life and a career

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By *ancsMan
over a year ago

_ancs

I cant understand those who have no pics on profile yet insist on only contacts from those with pics!

the mind boggles

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

Well i have face pics and body pics,i dont see the problem as every body is here for the same thing lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Well i have face pics and body pics,i dont see the problem as every body is here for the same thing lol"

ahhhh but sometimes when people get rejected that same thing changes and can, as stated a couple of posts above, ruin lives and careers

if eeryone was abe to take rejection on the chin then openly available face pics etc would be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have bodily pics on our profile, but have decided against sending facial pics to anyone.

Decided a long time ago a body pic showing shape is more important than seeing someones face, which may be a really bad pic anyway!

If we are gonna have fun then its not the face we will be having fun with...

well....

AND, a facial pic in the wrong hands can destroy a life and a career"

I like to see the face im facialling...

as for having no face pics regarding ur jobs?-sorry that doesnt work...the ONLY pics that can be deemed innapropriate to any job would be ones in sexual acts wiha recogniseable face.After all...I could download ur facebook pic and then claim I recieved it on a swinging site.And of course If the pics just a naked pic of lets say a couple...besides the embarrassment, thats a personal pic that could have been stolen easily enough by those in the know. sorry just my opinion.

but 9times ou t of 10... I'd rather see a facepic a some point

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By *ockinafrockCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

am so sure I wouldny want my grown up sons to gbe trawling thro here, as youngsters do, and find their mum and dads looking for sex wi strangers.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have bodily pics on our profile, but have decided against sending facial pics to anyone.

Decided a long time ago a body pic showing shape is more important than seeing someones face, which may be a really bad pic anyway!

If we are gonna have fun then its not the face we will be having fun with...

well....

AND, a facial pic in the wrong hands can destroy a life and a career

I like to see the face im facialling...

but 9times ou t of 10... I'd rather see a facepic a some point"

my point on this is are they going to turn up on a play meet with a plastic bag over there head so you carnt see them

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"...we found chasing people for pics became to time consuming and we decided it was to much effort..."

You'll find that pic-chasers are some of the least liked people on here. Most of us have been chased for pics for the sole purpose of adding to someone's collection. Act like a pic chaser and you'll be treated like one.

Look at people's verifications. If they have a number of people who have verified them, then these reviewers will have been happy with what they have seen. Far better to trust these people who have already met who you are interested in than to trust a JPG file which could have been copied off any website, including amateur porn sites.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

That's spooky, I thought I recognized my "Holiday Hat". grrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at people's verifications. If they have a number of people who have verified them, then these reviewers will have been happy with what they have seen. Far better to trust these people "

That won't work for all. I don't know you from a hole in a wall so why would I believe anything you say about another person I don't know? Verifications mean absolutely nothing to me.

Likewise looks are subjective. Some people describe themselves as good looking and all I think is oh dear, there must have been a sale of talking mirrors. Most think Brad Pitt is handsome...he does nothing for me.

If someone doesn't have a picture it doesn't bother me...I simply ignore.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

I usually ask for a face pic if I intend to meet the person if they have none on public display. I also point out that no matter what their jobs they can add them in private to attach to messages once they feel they can trust the person.

I choose not to display my face pic on main profile page after being hassled by a guy, who I refused to meet with, he kept saying he saw me down the local high street umpteen times when I was with family members and was telling me he was going to come up to me and tell them where he had seen me.

So not everyone handles rejection well and can become vindictive.Luckily they are in the minority and most folks genuinely want to see your pic so they know who they are talking to and want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant understand those who have no pics on profile yet insist on only contacts from those with pics!

the mind boggles

That's the 1 that gets me seen it on a cpl of single girls profiles , it maybe the way it's written as in will delete if no face pic and words to effect it's not blind date and they havnt got a single face pic then I thought about it and thought do you know what it may get right on my tits but it works for them and seeing as how I wouldn't meet them why am I bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah what a wanker I am?? Never will any of you had a message off me asking for aert or any photos!! And I thought I got on with the folk in the forums!! Goes to show eh smallinded nation syndrome lol I'm married and so don't post plus I'm not exactly sure how to get photos of my iPhone onto ere, the couple of time I have seen someone I'm gonna meet I go on cam (on laptop) plus I don't like my photos I take!! Obviously the op has a hang up on us silouhettes but like was mentioned just block us n get on with ur fun or u need summat to moan about??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think its about feeling more important or better than anyone else,its ppls choice,if they dont want to put a face pic in public on there profile then its upto them,just have your own prefrence not to contact ppl without face pics and then you will be happy,some ppl have them in private and will send them like that,everyone has a choice,and just because you do something doesnt mean everyone has to follow,everyone has there reasons,accept it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's a case of feeling more important, more a case of, 'It's their profile, their membership and their choice what to do with it'

Much the same as it's your (OP) choice not to look at it.

Live and let live eh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we get a message or wink with no photos we ask for them, if they don't send them hey ho they get blocked.

We think it's just as bad with cpls only showing photo's of the females and the males no where to be seen. But suppose its their choice and its up to you if you respond or not.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I don't think it's a case of feeling more important, more a case of, 'It's their profile, their membership and their choice what to do with it'

Much the same as it's your (OP) choice not to look at it.

Live and let live eh ?"

Thanks saved me some typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can uderstand not having pics in public, but we always insist on an early face pic, we arent going to meet anyone we havnt seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the niavety of people who use the internet is amazing, public pics or private pics sent to others can be used to ruin peoples lifes and careers and if someone genuinely wants to lead a swinging lifestyle but wants to protect their income they should be allowed to do so without critisicm from others.

If its not for you then dont engage in people who dont have pics, use the filters but respect the people who have a geniune need to keep things private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt really bother me if people (mostly seems to be single guys)dont have any pics on their profile.

I wouldnt reply to them, as there are so many other people who do have pics.

But it does make me wonder, with so much competition as single guys are a plenty on here, why they would hamper their chances of getting meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would have to be a hell of a message to get me to reply if they don't attach a photo or have pics on their profile. If the message is good and has no pic I ask for one. If I don't get one then it's a no from me."

yep

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"We have bodily pics on our profile, but have decided against sending facial pics to anyone.

Decided a long time ago a body pic showing shape is more important than seeing someones face, which may be a really bad pic anyway!

If we are gonna have fun then its not the face we will be having fun with...

well....

AND, a facial pic in the wrong hands can destroy a life and a career"

I have to dissagree with the first bit, to me i have to have a attraction and that includes the face i have to look at when they are fucking me lol. I have to be attracted to the whole package which includes the face. x

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"We have bodily pics on our profile, but have decided against sending facial pics to anyone.

Decided a long time ago a body pic showing shape is more important than seeing someones face, which may be a really bad pic anyway!

If we are gonna have fun then its not the face we will be having fun with...

well....

AND, a facial pic in the wrong hands can destroy a life and a career

I like to see the face im facialling...

but 9times ou t of 10... I'd rather see a facepic a some point"

Couldnt agree more, if we aint seen a face pic, then we aint meeting lol x Dont have to have it on your profile so its not that risky x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

If I get to the point of wanting to meet another member/s....then that is the point that I feel the need to exchange face photos.

I don't feel the need to see them on display on everyones profile as I respect the privacy of others and hope they respect mine.

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

I agree that it is annoying when profiles have no pictures whatsover. I think its fine having no face pics - i can understand that(i dont myself), but dont see why you cant have a body shot as no-one is going to recongise that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i still cant understand y u dont just move along, ok if people are hassling yas all?? but peeps like me i talk to my friends from chat love the forums just pass me by for a meet easy

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

There is nothing to understand with us, we do move along lol. No pic No play lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have face pics , but more than welcome to chat on cam as validations prove , so no need for them , too many picture collectors on this site as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pic, no reply and just delete, just our way

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Pic collectors can only collect them if you add the as a friend, unless they steal them from public profile, rather sad if you as me. Like someone already said, you can add pics on fab that can only be seen when sent in a message, so no excuse really. Dont like adding ppl to our MSN JUST to be able to see their face on cam, and only add friends to our friends list on here. Sorry but i have seen some lovely ppl with great bodys and get on with them ok via sending messages, then they send a face pic and well it just dont match the body. Im sorry some may think im shallow, but i see it as i HAVE to have a attraction and as im not desperate for a meet as i have my partner and already have great sex, then there is no need to lower my preferences for a meet.

But saying all that everyone is different and everyone has their own preferences for meets. x

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"Dont have face pics , but more than welcome to chat on cam as validations prove , so no need for them , too many picture collectors on this site as it is"

See we find the problem with that way around is, they say ohh we can show you our faces on cam, then it gets to well just stay chat for a bit, then it gets to ohhhh are you horny need i go on. So as well as pic collectors out there, its a case of there is also ppl out there who like cam and cybersex, and thats NOt our thing. So personally we rather see a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do people think its their place to judge others in regards to what personal information and pictures they want splashed all oer the internet?? who made them gods of everything??? i have decided that people like this are nosey picture collectors so dont bother mesaging them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bassas eh?

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"I don't think it's a case of feeling more important, more a case of, 'It's their profile, their membership and their choice what to do with it'

Much the same as it's your (OP) choice not to look at it.

Live and let live eh ?"

Exactly...and perhaps they dont feel the need to let the whole world know they are swingers..

That said...if things develop with another couple then yes, of course they should send a face pic at some point as not doing so will probably cause the other party to wonder what they are hiding.

We will send face pics to another couple once trust is achieved and we are happy that the other party are not picture collectors..

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