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Would you change yourself to please a sexual partner?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How far would you go to please a partner?

It’s something I’ve been wondering... over the years l can think of two female fwb who wanted me to change - one told me to shave off a beard I had at the time, and the other wanted me to wear her clothes in bed to get her turned on (not really something that turns me on at all).

Are you happy to change certain parts of yourself? Or do you see that as off limits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t change myself / I would probably try things if they wanted to try something and then make up my mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would try and make myself more ugly? Men tend to find my stunning beauty, amazing wit and great intelligence intimidating... i am just a pussy Kat really...

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By *annysupMan
over a year ago

Yarmouth

Id change to become a better person. But id always be me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A small change in appearance wouldn't bother me. The wearing her clothes thing would just make me laugh, but I'd give it a whirl. If I fit into her clothes though, she's quite a big girl....

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

As long as it felt ok.. why not think and look outside the box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt change myself as a person to please anyone else. But id give different things a try, as long as they where morally agreeable and see what I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed myself for my former FWB, he fked off anyway. I wouldn't change for a FWB again, or anyone else either. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely change if someone wanted to transform me into their perfect woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would try and make myself more ugly? Men tend to find my stunning beauty, amazing wit and great intelligence intimidating... i am just a pussy Kat really...

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Lol ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take me or leave me.

I have this strange idea that people should be open honest and authentic....

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Nope, not ever, not for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. I change me for me.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I lost 2 and a half stone to make myself look better for my partner and feel better in myself ........ she left me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to find the enthusiasm to change myself for me let alone someone on here!

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I would never change myself for anyone and wouldn't meet a guy that I wanted to change, if you need to change someone then you are not right in the first place!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minor things I would. For example if a man likes a woman dressed in a certain way, I might well oblige. And things like whether or not I shave my pussy.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probably never even considered swinging if Hunter hadn't introduced me to it. It's been a bit like opening Pandoras box

I'd never change my beliefs or anything that makes me. But always open to exploring or consider suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...I'm awesome

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By *illieWoman
over a year ago

Do not accommodate

I'm 'considering' anal so my man can DP me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed. Tamed myself and denied what I wanted. Not good.

I think we all develop over time and some changes can be good and fun.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No.

Mrs N is who she was fundemantly as a teen and I'm who I am too, no way would I want her to change and neither would I have changed if she tried or asked. Non negotiable, accept each other as we are.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Simple answer, no from both of us.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t need to change as I am perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they mentioned a preference or asked politely, I might consider it. If they demanded it, I'd suggest they look elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and never will change, even if that means I never get anywhere on here, and I've never changed for a partner either, like I told my brother the other week, his wife had a slight gap in-between her front teeth when he met her, it's was ok then so why try get her to change it now, he realized I was right, I think a slight gap is quite sexy anyway, not that I told him that! It was surposedly a sign of sexual prowess back in the day

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I have and never will change, even if that means I never get anywhere on here, and I've never changed for a partner either, like I told my brother the other week, his wife had a slight gap in-between her front teeth when he met her, it's was ok then so why try get her to change it now, he realized I was right, I think a slight gap is quite sexy anyway, not that I told him that! It was surposedly a sign of sexual prowess back in the day"

So you find your brother’s wife’s gap quite sexy do you? Ooooh . I always wondered if men checked out their brother’s women now you’ve confirmed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not now. I was quite controlled by a previous partner and he would dictate how I had to be, who I could talk to. He would argue with me until I took on his beliefs and prediduces and I look back now and think gosh I was so unhappy. I would never change for someone again as it doesn't work in the long run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no fucker tells me what to do - but im happy to try things to please - if you dont try you dont know -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might change my mind / point of view on a sexual activity if someone gave me good reasons to do so.

Personality / appearance - no way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have and never will change, even if that means I never get anywhere on here, and I've never changed for a partner either, like I told my brother the other week, his wife had a slight gap in-between her front teeth when he met her, it's was ok then so why try get her to change it now, he realized I was right, I think a slight gap is quite sexy anyway, not that I told him that! It was surposedly a sign of sexual prowess back in the day

So you find your brother’s wife’s gap quite sexy do you? Ooooh . I always wondered if men checked out their brother’s women now you’ve confirmed it "

no not particularly, I always find it quite sexy on any good looking women, I think it's quite "cute" in away. My point to him was that if she looked like that when you met her then you have no right to ask her to change it now, and then I pointed out how she'd probably like to see his pregnant looking stomach go down Abit but has never asked.

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