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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it men will message and i'll politely chat a little but say if not my type do they then offer to pay me for sex?

Its happening alot! Im tryin not to be offended by it but it does make me feel a lil upset

I know they dont know me and that but i also know sadly some girls if im financial struggles might be tempted that worries me

Or am i thinkin too much into it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it men will message and i'll politely chat a little but say if not my type do they then offer to pay me for sex?

Its happening alot! Im tryin not to be offended by it but it does make me feel a lil upset

I know they dont know me and that but i also know sadly some girls if im financial struggles might be tempted that worries me

Or am i thinkin too much into it?"

You are thinking too much. Just delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see where you're coming from OP, report any member who offers you money, it's against the rules. That will safeguard other females from that person, as admin will slap their wrists. My advice to you is politely say no, then block straight away. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twatts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can see where you're coming from OP, report any member who offers you money, it's against the rules. That will safeguard other females from that person, as admin will slap their wrists. My advice to you is politely say no, then block straight away. XXX"

I didnt think to report thanku x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Twatts"

Hehe i called them worse than that but yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it's always going to happen because sex, no matter how we dress it up is a commodity. It's against the rules so people shouldn't do it, however if two parties choose to that's up to them. There's no point worrying over what others may or may not do. Report, block and move on.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I can see where you're coming from OP, report any member who offers you money, it's against the rules. That will safeguard other females from that person, as admin will slap their wrists. My advice to you is politely say no, then block straight away. XXX"

Great advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twatts

Hehe i called them worse than that but yep "
haha i can think of a lot worse as well . Just being polite. The check tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it's always going to happen because sex, no matter how we dress it up is a commodity. It's against the rules so people shouldn't do it, however if two parties choose to that's up to them. There's no point worrying over what others may or may not do. Report, block and move on. "

Yes you are right there aslong as i stay safe then i cant help what othera do

Thanku for the advice girls x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say as you are only 19 - much younger than most female members and you put 'you'll be rewarded he he', which to many is you're up for being paid. It's terms like that which escorts use on sites where they can't blatantly advertise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twatts

Hehe i called them worse than that but yep haha i can think of a lot worse as well . Just being polite. The check tho "
# cheek

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

Unfortunately there are lots of female escorts on here too, you can see them on Twitter too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are bastards, most aren't. Hopefully you'll run into some of the good ones soon

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town

Yep, I agree with the others, report and block. I wouldn't even waste your time answering though, they are probably illiterate anyway x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You're thinking too much into it just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it men will message and i'll politely chat a little but say if not my type do they then offer to pay me for sex?

Its happening alot! Im tryin not to be offended by it but it does make me feel a lil upset

I know they dont know me and that but i also know sadly some girls if im financial struggles might be tempted that worries me

Or am i thinkin too much into it?"

By the same token we have single male friends on here who tell us they have been asked outright to "reward" the lady they are messaging to get a meet. And the amount of single girl status updates along the lines of "I need a sugar daddy" or "Who will upgrade me as I am out of messages" in our local newsfeed is getting all too common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see alot of posts or update from people asking to borrow money or phone credit!! Or even buy them a Fab membership. Like sinderella said sex is a commodity. Even governements add revenue bought in through the sex trade into there evoluation of inflation and the economy. So some men dont hessitate in offering money as some see it as an honest transaction like buying bread and

milk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fed up of women offering me thousands every day to shag them. I'm not a piece of meat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fed up of women offering me thousands every day to shag them. I'm not a piece of meat!

"

I am piece of meat and if they pay me enough I will offer myself vacuum packed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fed up of women offering me thousands every day to shag them. I'm not a piece of meat!

"

Just one second while i clean myself up after seeing your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will for money anything goes I guess lol

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Why is it men will message and i'll politely chat a little but say if not my type do they then offer to pay me for sex?

Its happening alot! Im tryin not to be offended by it but it does make me feel a lil upset

I know they dont know me and that but i also know sadly some girls if im financial struggles might be tempted that worries me

Or am i thinkin too much into it?"

Because people ask for money to meet.

A good looking t-girl from London asked £300/h. A guy wanted to sell his wife for £50 .

I have blocked many prostitutes on here.

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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yeah was offered again this week!

To watch

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By *ows the time 300Man
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

I've not had anyone asking for payments yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few Instant block and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your gonna meet and fuck guys anyway,then as long as you can keep it a safe meet why not i say

I had a mate called Yasmin in London who simply told me once "I love fucking so may as well get paid for it"

She never did bareback and was a high end escort who put her kid into the best private school around, was driving a £100k Porsche and stuck a huge deposit on a Mortgage, she raked it in for a few years, invested wisely and then stopped doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is an erotic element to this. The idea of my otherwise normal wife being rented out to a guy is quite turning on for me. I know J has fantasised about doing it, in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been offered money a fair few times,tbh I thought they was taking the piss lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get offered this too

If I wanted to fuck you, I wouldn’t need to be paid. Then they get all offended when I tell them no, and get abusive

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

I’m a right ugly twunt, but I’ve never ever considered paying for sex like that. Don’t see the need. I don’t see how you can enjoy the sex knowing the person is only doing it for money and not because they actually want to be having sex with you

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I used to find it insulting tbh. Now I just think " how sad" report, block and forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit I must be a real ugly mother then never been messaged back let alone offered money seriously though to the op just block them we ain't all dicks

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