FabSwingers.com forum: Will you shag someone in a state of d*unken stupor.

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

As for me no. Moderation is ok by me. Not someone in a dopey state.I can't stand the smell of alcohol.what about you?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely not. It could be construed as non consensual.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Nope. I very rarely drink and I don't like the stench of it on other people either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an odd question

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I've had loads of women take advantage of my d*unkenness

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

Never...also consuming alcohol can have an adverse affect on your ‘performance’

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Never...also consuming alcohol can have an adverse affect on your ‘performance’"

Brewers droop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t even meet couples who are heavy drinkers,We were at a small house party last year where people were really knocking it back we just left

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

No I don’t like d*unk sex, besides when I get d*unk I tend to want to just dance like a maniac x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly have done - with a regular consenting partner, of course. I would never have taken advantage of someone’s d*unken state, if that is what you mean - that would (hopefully) land you in court.

Maturity and more sense than to drink heavily nowadays - means that this is unlikely to happen, even with a consensual partner.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I may have done

V x

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Are we not allowed to say “d*unk”

V x

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Are we not allowed to say “d*unk”

V x

Obviously not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on a fab meet. No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with someone I'd played with before or was mutually accepted that tipsy sex is fun too.

All about the consent having seen a few people at clubs that have definitely been out of control!

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

"Never...also consuming alcohol can have an adverse affect on your ‘performance’

Brewers droop

I’m ashamed of myself for not knowing there’s an actual term for it

On the other hand ^5s for half asleep sex (just needed to mention that at some stage in this thread)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes have but hopefully wouldn’t now ,why do you ask op are you in trouble .?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Again yes (both ways!) but unlikely now..

I think it's viewed very differently today..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

will it is UK were most do fuck once they had to many to drink.

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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've been d*unk and had sex but not in a can't see state.

If I was in that kinda state, I'd hope Mr would stop me

or at least take me home!!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Not swinging or fet play, never!!

With my significant other after we’ve both been out drinking - hell yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to meet a lady that I got chatting on here called to her house and when I went in she was drinking and was a little bit worse for wear. So I politely declined and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Legally, if someone is dr*nk then they are unable to consent. And what constitutes 'too d*unk to consent' is a very grey area.

I'd do it with a regular partner but not with a stranger. It's just too risky IMO.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

No,never. Once had a female ask me to have sex with her but she couldn’t stand up. Took her to her bedroom and put her to bed and walked away. Mrs Brum thought it was so funny watching me carry her up two flights of stairs to her room.

Next day the lady in question didn’t remember a thing.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"Legally, if someone is dr*nk then they are unable to consent. And what constitutes 'too d*unk to consent' is a very grey area.

I'd do it with a regular partner but not with a stranger. It's just too risky IMO. "

What does it say if you're both too d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can’t we say d*unk .

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I was gonna go to the pub for a while today, then come home and see if any of my FAB friends wanted to join me.

I opened the door and - brrrrr - too cold.

So now I am staying in and just poured myself a glass of vino.

I enjoy a drink with sex.

But I don't have sex unless I feel in control of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever drank that much I was stupified....

I'm not sure I would be able to

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Not a chance .

I’m teatotal , and my wife doesn’t drink much at all .

We’ve seen way too much drama over the years at clubs and parties due to excess drinking .

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nope, and the strongest thing I'll drink on a meet is coffee.

Too easy to find yourself in a compromising situation.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

If they was in a d*unken stupor then absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavy drinking and smoking both major turn-offs for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flat out no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I like fab...I sort out who I am gonna play with and when, while sober... I do occasionally enjoy playing while d*unk but with people I play with anyway

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only with someone I'd played with before or was mutually accepted that tipsy sex is fun too.

All about the consent having seen a few people at clubs that have definitely been out of control!"

Seems like a lot of women can't fuck unless they're pissed. Nice husbands they have.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"What an odd question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tipsy, yes

D*unk, yes

D*unken stupor, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Legally, if someone is dr*nk then they are unable to consent. And what constitutes 'too d*unk to consent' is a very grey area.

I'd do it with a regular partner but not with a stranger. It's just too risky IMO.

What does it say if you're both too d*unk "

Well, anyone sensible would say that it was either just very d*unk sex between two adults, or legally they are both guilty of r*pe.

But sadly, it just doesn't always work like that. It is a risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had even just tipsy sex...definitely on my bucket list

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west visiting bpool

IT depends if my shrunken stupor attracts anyone

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row

Plain and simple no, I find the idea revolting.

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Not a chance

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

One night years ago I arrived at a woman's house where she'd left the door on the latch for me to let myself in, entered and called out but got no answer, went upstairs and found her paralytic on her bed next to an empty wine bottle - it took me a full 15 minutes to make her understand nothing was going to happen with her in that state (despite her protests that she was 'absholutely fine, honeshtly' and constantly trying to undo my jeans!)...

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

NO!!

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Tipsy, yes

D*unk, yes

D*unken stupor, no"

Honestly? Agree fully with the above

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a more serious note...

Stupor = can't give informed consent = that "r" that we are not allowed to type in the forums...

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I'd imagine if someone was that enebriated that it could be described as a stupor then they wouldn't really be capable of much. I love fucking after a few cocktails because I get silly and giggly, but I've never been in a stupor in my life. So no I wouldn't fuck someone who was that wasted.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

Hell no - that's classed as r@pe these days is it not?

If they are that d*unk they can not give consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a massive turn off in both sexes for me!!

I wouldn't even chat to them let alone have sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was at uni d*unk sex was the standard...infact I don't think anyone did it sober!

Nowadays I don't drink and I don't go to places where people do drink as I find it boring so no more d*unk sex for me!

I have had some very good d*unk sex, some of it wouldn't have even happened if it wasn't for alcohol giving me the old false confidence

If you're completely out of it though sex is impossible, at that point you're promising yourself if you can just survive the night you'll never drink again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an odd question

This

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By *atureBoySouthMan
over a year ago

Fareham

"As for me no. Moderation is ok by me. Not someone in a dopey state.I can't stand the smell of alcohol.what about you? "

Absolutely not. Alcohol and swinging don't go together, and someone unable to give consent is being r*ped.

I once was chatting with a guy in the chatrooms on another site who wanted me to go over and fuck his paralytic d*unk wife. He failed to see any of the issues, so I reported the chat to the chat mods, who promptly investgated, banned him, and handed the chat logs to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no informed consent so my approach would be to try and help the d*unk get home

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By *avegaMan
over a year ago

Oakville

No, agree with above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it was myself and a regular then maybe as we both know we want each other - but not otherwise

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

What happens when a man is d*unk and a women takes advantage ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Went to meet a lady that I got chatting on here called to her house and when I went in she was drinking and was a little bit worse for wear. So I politely declined and left. "

Good for you why would any man on s first meet put himself in such a position

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

That d*unk? Definitely not, but I have had d*unken sex, though both of us were compis enough to enjoy it.

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

Don't know why the forum automatically removed the r there!

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