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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Bhm I believe is the term.

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes


"Bhm I believe is the term."

What does Bmh stand for?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

*waves*

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Fem here.. I prefer a bit of meat. Never been a fan of gym buffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like bigger blokes myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to find many ladies like us bigger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happily married to a bhm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to find many ladies like us bigger men. "
true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to find many ladies like us bigger men. true "

We're just not appreciated by our beauty haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men! "

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them............."

Wrong! My hubby is shorter than I, double my weight and ginger. And I wouldn't change him for the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

Wrong! My hubby is shorter than I, double my weight and ginger. And I wouldn't change him for the world."

I think I just found me new favourite fab lady haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them............."

No there are women on here who like men of all shapes and sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

Wrong! My hubby is shorter than I, double my weight and ginger. And I wouldn't change him for the world."

I’m not saying all women are into a certain man, that would be silly. Maybe I was exaggerating, but women amid have the pick of the litter on here and most men will fuck anything.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

Wrong! My hubby is shorter than I, double my weight and ginger. And I wouldn't change him for the world.

I’m not saying all women are into a certain man, that would be silly. Maybe I was exaggerating, but women amid have the pick of the litter on here and most men will fuck anything. "

Do you think us women dont know this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

Wrong! My hubby is shorter than I, double my weight and ginger. And I wouldn't change him for the world.

I’m not saying all women are into a certain man, that would be silly. Maybe I was exaggerating, but women amid have the pick of the litter on here and most men will fuck anything. "

As we know average gets you nowhere, what with all the cans of monster to contend with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

Wrong! My hubby is shorter than I, double my weight and ginger. And I wouldn't change him for the world.

I’m not saying all women are into a certain man, that would be silly. Maybe I was exaggerating, but women amid have the pick of the litter on here and most men will fuck anything.

Do you think us women dont know this?"

I’d like to think they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

Wrong! My hubby is shorter than I, double my weight and ginger. And I wouldn't change him for the world.

I’m not saying all women are into a certain man, that would be silly. Maybe I was exaggerating, but women amid have the pick of the litter on here and most men will fuck anything. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

Wrong! My hubby is shorter than I, double my weight and ginger. And I wouldn't change him for the world.

I’m not saying all women are into a certain man, that would be silly. Maybe I was exaggerating, but women amid have the pick of the litter on here and most men will fuck anything.

Do you think us women dont know this?

I’d like to think they do. "

Maybe it's your attitude that's the problem, not the fact you're not tall, dark, hunky, well hung and/or modelesque

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

No there are women on here who like men of all shapes and sizes."

mmmmm let me think mmmm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

No there are women on here who like men of all shapes and sizes.

mmmmm let me think mmmm not "

There are women who have commented on this very same thread stating that find bigger guys attractive so yes, women do like men of all shapes and sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

Wrong! My hubby is shorter than I, double my weight and ginger. And I wouldn't change him for the world.

I’m not saying all women are into a certain man, that would be silly. Maybe I was exaggerating, but women amid have the pick of the litter on here and most men will fuck anything.

Do you think us women dont know this?

I’d like to think they do.

Maybe it's your attitude that's the problem, not the fact you're not tall, dark, hunky, well hung and/or modelesque"

Ha ha I don’t have attitude or care, I’m stating an observation.

Some women on here live in a false sense of reality, because most men will fuck anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men! "

When I had a single profile I used to state that my preference was 'very large men. Think more trips to MacDonalds rather than the the gym ' and people used to think I was trying to be humorous

But no, only fat guys float my boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a bit of meat on my men. Not keen on skinny, I get scared I might squash them xr

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Fat lad here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat lad here"

Your profile says you are curvy. That's where my interest would end. If you have no public pics you have to sell yourself with the accurate body type.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

They want tall, dark, hunky, well hung, model looking men, to fuck them.............

No there are women on here who like men of all shapes and sizes.

mmmmm let me think mmmm not "

People on this thread have already stated they do,are you calling them liars?

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

I'm into tubby guys, love some meat to grab onto, and some cushion for the pushing. But they do have to be taller than me.

Mrs S x

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By *ob_2017Man
over a year ago

the last place you look

I love these threads. They always provide a glimmer of hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sturdy men. As long as they can fuck me vigourously more than once (with a breather in between) then i’m happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love these threads. They always provide a glimmer of hope. "

Your profile alone deserves you every success on here - well done! So cleverly written and funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bigger man (I’ve never been called fat but ‘big lad’) I have found women like us big men. Surely it’s a combination of character and shape? If I can’t laugh with a partner then I struggle to play sexually. I love a good conversation and generally to connect with someone on more than a physical level.

My advice would be to be more positive about what could happen rather than dismissing before you’ve even started.

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By *ob_2017Man
over a year ago

the last place you look


"I love these threads. They always provide a glimmer of hope.

Your profile alone deserves you every success on here - well done! So cleverly written and funny "

Thank you very much. I try to let my playful but somewhat self-deprecating attitude shine through.

Sadly, success is rare in a place where you are judged solely on your appearance by the majority, unless you frequent a convention for the blind and visually impaired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally I think it's my weight and age that put women off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am large but very happy if I am not for someone oh well everyone is different but I am happy and if I can make someone else happy even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat lad here

Your profile says you are curvy. That's where my interest would end. If you have no public pics you have to sell yourself with the accurate body type. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a bit of meat on my men. Not keen on skinny, I get scared I might squash them xr"

I think this

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Rotund chap, not as lithe as I used to be right here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat lad here

Your profile says you are curvy. That's where my interest would end. If you have no public pics you have to sell yourself with the accurate body type. "

Mine says curvy too..... but I'm not average either.... so stuck in the middle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls say they live dad bods but in reality they want muscles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems fairly positive, although most ladies who like a chunky monkey seem to be in the Midlands, may need to move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone was 6ft tall and up to 18 stone that would be our limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girls say they live dad bods but in reality they want muscles "

Says who?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I don't have a problem with chunky guys per se but I'm big myself so it would just make playing extremely difficult. Two big chunks belly to belly causes a logistical problem - we just don't 'fit' lol!

I don't need a guy with a gym bod though - in fact I think I'd be quite intimidated by a man with a fit, toned body with mine wobbling all over the place. Average dad bods suit me just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men, nice men with nice faces and nice personalities. Their body types are pretty unimportant if I like their face and attitude. One of my favourite fab friends was 6'6" and almost as wide, he was gorgeous looking (to me), a really sweet, funny guy and an amazing lover. So yes, some women like larger guys, the same as they like slimmer/muscular/dad bods. The only things that put me off playing with most men is that I don't find them attractive, either facially, this does not mean they are ugly either! Or mentally...a poor mental connection (for whatever reason) would put me off playing with even the most beautiful man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Perfectly put xx mental connection is the most important thing

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I’m afrad I’m not a fan of them sorry op

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Girls say they live dad bods but in reality they want muscles "

Well I don't ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer tall chunky men.

I feel massive next to the gym fit types and I'm not into slender men at all.

But that's just visually.

There's nothing sexier than someone that makes you smile.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Girls say they live dad bods but in reality they want muscles

Says who?"

Muscly guys?

I’d take a nice chunky dad bod over a hard set of abs every time - throw hairy into the mix & I'm in heaven!! Someone warm & soft to cuddle up to!!

And as a rule, they’re usually better in bed too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm partial to a plump hunk, as long as he can hold his weight off me and I can get my hips open wide enough for his body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fatty here *waves*

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'm partial to a plump hunk, as long as he can hold his weight off me and I can get my hips open wide enough for his body. "

What a lovely way to put it

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"I prefer a bit of meat on my men. Not keen on skinny, I get scared I might squash them xr"

That’s what I’ve always said about skinny girls - by the time I’m between her legs getting carried away I’d be scared of breaking her

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"I like sturdy men. As long as they can fuck me vigourously more than once (with a breather in between) then i’m happy."

Well hello there...... lol

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Girls say they live dad bods but in reality they want muscles

Says who?

Muscly guys?

I’d take a nice chunky dad bod over a hard set of abs every time - throw hairy into the mix & I'm in heaven!! Someone warm & soft to cuddle up to!!

And as a rule, they’re usually better in bed too! "

Always so far away....... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i like meat on a man, stocky, manly man.

Im not saying men of a more slender build or gym buffs arent, im saying thats my petsonal pref.

Mrs K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, this post gives me a glimmer of hope... Not that I'm bothered with my body type. At least it keeps me warm in the winter lol!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

So chunky guy's step this way .......

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

I prefer the term 'dad bod'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs preference is chunky fellas

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Last three comments all Midlands or above, definitely a North South divide on chunky fellas and live in the bloody South! The question is do i start living on salads or move!!!

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By *ob_2017Man
over a year ago

the last place you look


"Last three comments all Midlands or above, definitely a North South divide on chunky fellas and live in the bloody South! The question is do i start living on salads or move!!! "

It definitely seems that way, doesn't it?

It's weird. Why is that? Are people North of Bristol more accepting of another person in general, or are people in the South just shallower?

Either way, I appreciate the ladies here who'd consider meeting, let alone give me the time of day, even if we never will cross paths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this chunk is going to move to the Midlands lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Last three comments all Midlands or above, definitely a North South divide on chunky fellas and live in the bloody South! The question is do i start living on salads or move!!!

It definitely seems that way, doesn't it?

It's weird. Why is that? Are people North of Bristol more accepting of another person in general, or are people in the South just shallower?

Either way, I appreciate the ladies here who'd consider meeting, let alone give me the time of day, even if we never will cross paths."

Shallower? So someone who doesn't find the larger person physically attractive is shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last three comments all Midlands or above, definitely a North South divide on chunky fellas and live in the bloody South! The question is do i start living on salads or move!!!

It definitely seems that way, doesn't it?

It's weird. Why is that? Are people North of Bristol more accepting of another person in general, or are people in the South just shallower?

Either way, I appreciate the ladies here who'd consider meeting, let alone give me the time of day, even if we never will cross paths."

Shallow has nothing to do with it. People are attracted to what they're attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last three comments all Midlands or above, definitely a North South divide on chunky fellas and live in the bloody South! The question is do i start living on salads or move!!!

It definitely seems that way, doesn't it?

It's weird. Why is that? Are people North of Bristol more accepting of another person in general, or are people in the South just shallower?

Either way, I appreciate the ladies here who'd consider meeting, let alone give me the time of day, even if we never will cross paths.

Shallower? So someone who doesn't find the larger person physically attractive is shallow?"

Agree with you on that one. Someone definitely isn't shallow for not liking another person's physical appearance. Doesn't just mean how they're built either, could be facial hair or even the hair on their head lol. It's all what the person is attracted too. Nothing more, nothing less. I even respect that as a 'larger' guy myself! Personally, whether you're slim, well built or have a few extra pounds... Be happy for who you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So chunky guy's step this way ....... "

I would if I was in your area and age range lol x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Last three comments all Midlands or above, definitely a North South divide on chunky fellas and live in the bloody South! The question is do i start living on salads or move!!!

It definitely seems that way, doesn't it?

It's weird. Why is that? Are people North of Bristol more accepting of another person in general, or are people in the South just shallower?

Either way, I appreciate the ladies here who'd consider meeting, let alone give me the time of day, even if we never will cross paths.

Shallower? So someone who doesn't find the larger person physically attractive is shallow?

Agree with you on that one. Someone definitely isn't shallow for not liking another person's physical appearance. Doesn't just mean how they're built either, could be facial hair or even the hair on their head lol. It's all what the person is attracted too. Nothing more, nothing less. I even respect that as a 'larger' guy myself! Personally, whether you're slim, well built or have a few extra pounds... Be happy for who you are! "

Nicely put!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last three comments all Midlands or above, definitely a North South divide on chunky fellas and live in the bloody South! The question is do i start living on salads or move!!!

It definitely seems that way, doesn't it?

It's weird. Why is that? Are people North of Bristol more accepting of another person in general, or are people in the South just shallower?

Either way, I appreciate the ladies here who'd consider meeting, let alone give me the time of day, even if we never will cross paths.

Shallower? So someone who doesn't find the larger person physically attractive is shallow?

Agree with you on that one. Someone definitely isn't shallow for not liking another person's physical appearance. Doesn't just mean how they're built either, could be facial hair or even the hair on their head lol. It's all what the person is attracted too. Nothing more, nothing less. I even respect that as a 'larger' guy myself! Personally, whether you're slim, well built or have a few extra pounds... Be happy for who you are!

Nicely put!"

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a mans fat bits are in proportion to his height / built then that’s fine.

If we’re talking unhealthy looking beer gut spilling over jeans then no it’s not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignite, your profile says you are in the East Midlands, so Bob's comment wasn't even directed at you, what's your problem?

Also this thread is looking for woman who like BHM and your profile is looking for "gym fit" I wonder why you even had to comment?

Bob2017, there are women in the SouthWest who like larger guys. As has been mentioned in this thread, it's personality that draw us in.

Fun profile by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignite, your profile says you are in the East Midlands, so Bob's comment wasn't even directed at you, what's your problem?

Also this thread is looking for woman who like BHM and your profile is looking for "gym fit" I wonder why you even had to comment?

Bob2017, there are women in the SouthWest who like larger guys. As has been mentioned in this thread, it's personality that draw us in.

Fun profile by the way "

There's nothing wrong with what she said so why shouldn't she have commented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like I said to Ignite, whether you're slim, well built or have a few extra pounds... Be happy! Some out there love the larger guy and some don't. It doesn't make me hate the people who don't like larger guys lol. It's someone for whoever I meet to grab onto afterall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So chunky guy's step this way ....... "

Cough cough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6ft 2in... 38 waist. 44in chest. 18 stone. what more can a lady want?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Ignite, your profile says you are in the East Midlands, so Bob's comment wasn't even directed at you, what's your problem?

Also this thread is looking for woman who like BHM and your profile is looking for "gym fit" I wonder why you even had to comment?

Bob2017, there are women in the SouthWest who like larger guys. As has been mentioned in this thread, it's personality that draw us in.

Fun profile by the way

There's nothing wrong with what she said so why shouldn't she have commented "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an over weight old one leg parrot on my shoulder, and one eye little cock, but a beautiful wife, does that mean I'm out? Lol oh by the way, I am a millionaire!

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Last three comments all Midlands or above, definitely a North South divide on chunky fellas and live in the bloody South! The question is do i start living on salads or move!!!

It definitely seems that way, doesn't it?

It's weird. Why is that? Are people North of Bristol more accepting of another person in general, or are people in the South just shallower?

Either way, I appreciate the ladies here who'd consider meeting, let alone give me the time of day, even if we never will cross paths.

Shallower? So someone who doesn't find the larger person physically attractive is shallow?

Agree with you on that one. Someone definitely isn't shallow for not liking another person's physical appearance. Doesn't just mean how they're built either, could be facial hair or even the hair on their head lol. It's all what the person is attracted too. Nothing more, nothing less. I even respect that as a 'larger' guy myself! Personally, whether you're slim, well built or have a few extra pounds... Be happy for who you are! "

To say you’ll only be friends with “fit” or good looking people is shallow, but to say you’ll only sleep with people you’re attracted to is perfectly acceptable. Hope you can all understand what I’m trying to say lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Last three comments all Midlands or above, definitely a North South divide on chunky fellas and live in the bloody South! The question is do i start living on salads or move!!!

It definitely seems that way, doesn't it?

It's weird. Why is that? Are people North of Bristol more accepting of another person in general, or are people in the South just shallower?

Either way, I appreciate the ladies here who'd consider meeting, let alone give me the time of day, even if we never will cross paths.

Shallower? So someone who doesn't find the larger person physically attractive is shallow?

Agree with you on that one. Someone definitely isn't shallow for not liking another person's physical appearance. Doesn't just mean how they're built either, could be facial hair or even the hair on their head lol. It's all what the person is attracted too. Nothing more, nothing less. I even respect that as a 'larger' guy myself! Personally, whether you're slim, well built or have a few extra pounds... Be happy for who you are!

Nicely put!

Thanks! "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Ignite, your profile says you are in the East Midlands, so Bob's comment wasn't even directed at you, what's your problem?

Also this thread is looking for woman who like BHM and your profile is looking for "gym fit" I wonder why you even had to comment?

Bob2017, there are women in the SouthWest who like larger guys. As has been mentioned in this thread, it's personality that draw us in.

Fun profile by the way

There's nothing wrong with what she said so why shouldn't she have commented "

I can't even remember what I said now,obviously I rattled someone's box. Hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignite, your profile says you are in the East Midlands, so Bob's comment wasn't even directed at you, what's your problem?

Also this thread is looking for woman who like BHM and your profile is looking for "gym fit" I wonder why you even had to comment?

Bob2017, there are women in the SouthWest who like larger guys. As has been mentioned in this thread, it's personality that draw us in.

Fun profile by the way

There's nothing wrong with what she said so why shouldn't she have commented

I can't even remember what I said now,obviously I rattled someone's box. Hey ho "

_gnitemybody....

the sexiest lady on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello all,

I am a (well kept) hairy, chunky chap in Lancashire who has very much enjoyed reading this thread! I also love chips and gravy (to put it out there).

If any woman or couple would like to chat, please inbox me for now....I’m going to grab some more gravy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men! "

This is such nonsense. Liking fat women is simply adaptation on part of some men to the lack lf interest from non fat women,or simple poring for sluttier women who are less than picky.

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

I state my preferences in my profile as tall, dark and handsome but nowhere do I mention body type. Love a BHM, rugby build, tall and sticky. Even dad bods. Gorgeous while I appreciate a gym fit man, they intimidate me no end

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

Stocky not sticky, but they might be sticky when I’m done with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u lovely ladies give me hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a gym buff. can't think of anything worse. built like a rugby player.... broad shoulders. 17 and a half stone. 6 ft 2. I'm happy with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not a gym buff. can't think of anything worse. built like a rugby player.... broad shoulders. 17 and a half stone. 6 ft 2. I'm happy with me!"

I'd watch Rugby mate and then claim you're built like a player.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a dad bod but go too the gym and cycle so am fit just like my beer and food more than having abs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

This is such nonsense. Liking fat women is simply adaptation on part of some men to the lack lf interest from non fat women,or simple poring for sluttier women who are less than picky."

I would say its you that's talking nonsense.

I have met 10's of guys who could have their pick of slim/curvy women but actually choose BBW

Just because its not your preference it doesn't mean it's nobody's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I love a dad body.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I’ve not got a type as such I’ve met men of all body types in the past but I definately have a particular weakness for a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

This is such nonsense. Liking fat women is simply adaptation on part of some men to the lack lf interest from non fat women,or simple poring for sluttier women who are less than picky."

Ya this is just wrong lad sorry.

One of my non fab friends is the type of guy who always has option in a club at the end of the night and would always go home witb a larger lady. Its very much a preference for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The delusional thinking is strong here

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men! "

I like my fat mates it makes me look better on a night out joke before anyone gets all PC on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

I like my fat mates it makes me look better on a night out joke before anyone gets all PC on me"

Burn the witch

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

I like my fat mates it makes me look better on a night out joke before anyone gets all PC on me

Burn the witch "

Ffs don't encourage them

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"The delusional thinking is strong here"

You’re quite right

Just think you’re confused about who is really disillusioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

I like my fat mates it makes me look better on a night out joke before anyone gets all PC on me

Burn the witch

Ffs don't encourage them "

Encourage them..... Im the one with the pitchfork... I like my Forums PC complient

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

As a bigger girl im usually the Butt of jokes or the “take one for the team” prank out and about, it’s only on fab I thought people messaged because they liked what they saw, I’d hate to think someone contacted me or met with me for lack of a better option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There may be a slim chance for me yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be no end of guys, me included who are fans of bbw, but where are all the female fans of larger lads bms I guess big beautiful men!

This is such nonsense. Liking fat women is simply adaptation on part of some men to the lack lf interest from non fat women,or simple poring for sluttier women who are less than picky."

I just laughed out loud and this. One of my friends I used to hang out with was absolutely stunning, I haven't ever seen a more beautiful man and guess what he loved fat Woman!

I've had relationships with some really hot guys, my ex was a gym bod and loved larger woman with big boobs and bums. My one before that was a runner and adored my fat ass. I've had male friends who have all preferred the fuller female form, so just because it's not for you doesn't mean you have the right to push your predudice on others! Oh and I'm such a picky bitch that I piss guys off with my hard to get attitude . So no- fatties are not desperate either

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"As a bigger girl im usually the Butt of jokes or the “take one for the team” prank out and about, it’s only on fab I thought people messaged because they liked what they saw, I’d hate to think someone contacted me or met with me for lack of a better option "

Personally tend to go for the bigger girls myself. Don’t like being able to see bones protruding, and after reading your profile I guess that’s your preference too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bigger girl im usually the Butt of jokes or the “take one for the team” prank out and about, it’s only on fab I thought people messaged because they liked what they saw, I’d hate to think someone contacted me or met with me for lack of a better option "

I have found this to be the case on many occassion here. But its easier to them out.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"I have a dad bod but go too the gym and cycle so am fit just like my beer and food more than having abs "

Good for you x

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