FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging Superficial

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.

Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.

Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst.

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

Tend to agree with you harry

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.

Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.

Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."

Swinging is superficial as far as I'm concerned and I don't really want it to be any different. I don't like it when people attach a deeper meaning to casual sexual encounters.

I can't comment on people who attend gyms because apart from a brief period when I had to go for a back problem I've never set foot in one.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

If swinging was anything other than superficial , we wouldn’t do it .

We only want like minded people to join us , those who see it for what it is . A bit of fun , nsa , and that’s it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find."

When you say superficial what do you mean? That people go for looks over personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont take it seriously..

Never have, never will..

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find."

I wouldn't say I am a proper swinger as I am a single female. but I struggle to find people for group fun or more specific scenarios in my local...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find.

When you say superficial what do you mean? That people go for looks over personality?"

Basically, yes. Swinging was much more "underground". I suppose like anything when it goes a little mainstream it gets "watered down".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find.

When you say superficial what do you mean? That people go for looks over personality?

Basically, yes. Swinging was much more "underground". I suppose like anything when it goes a little mainstream it gets "watered down"."

But you are only here for fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If swinging was anything other than superficial , we wouldn’t do it .

We only want like minded people to join us , those who see it for what it is . A bit of fun , nsa , and that’s it ."

This!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find.

When you say superficial what do you mean? That people go for looks over personality?

Basically, yes. Swinging was much more "underground". I suppose like anything when it goes a little mainstream it gets "watered down"."

Well I have to say that I'm one of the superficial ones. I go for looks first. I'm here to have a good time, indulge a few fantasies and just enjoy things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If swinging was anything other than superficial , we wouldn’t do it .

We only want like minded people to join us , those who see it for what it is . A bit of fun , nsa , and that’s it .

This!!"

Really? People put "open minded" and a whole catalogue of things. More often then not, its a bunch of shit - they are as closed minded as a brick wall!

Usually the clubs its a different class of people, many avoid this site like the plague from my understanding.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If swinging was anything other than superficial , we wouldn’t do it .

We only want like minded people to join us , those who see it for what it is . A bit of fun , nsa , and that’s it ."

In a nutshell.

I think some expect to find the meaning of life here and take it waaaaaay too seriously, hence all the angst ridden posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find.

When you say superficial what do you mean? That people go for looks over personality?

Basically, yes. Swinging was much more "underground". I suppose like anything when it goes a little mainstream it gets "watered down"."

I can't have sex with someone I don't find physically attractive.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.

Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.

Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."

It's those bloody "millenials"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well you don't really stand out to expect otherwise. I like the ones who stand out myself. The ones who want to sin, you know like piss in gods eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If swinging was anything other than superficial , we wouldn’t do it .

We only want like minded people to join us , those who see it for what it is . A bit of fun , nsa , and that’s it .

This!!

Really? People put "open minded" and a whole catalogue of things. More often then not, its a bunch of shit - they are as closed minded as a brick wall!

Usually the clubs its a different class of people, many avoid this site like the plague from my understanding.

I avoid clubs like the plague. Does that mean I'm a different class to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well you don't really stand out to expect otherwise. I like the ones who stand out myself. The ones who want to sin, you know like piss in gods eye.

You're attracted to someone who is a filthy fuck. Other people are attracted to a person, not the sex acts they are willing to do for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well you don't really stand out to expect otherwise. I like the ones who stand out myself. The ones who want to sin, you know like piss in gods eye.

Was this comment in reply to mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a Gym?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well you don't really stand out to expect otherwise. I like the ones who stand out myself. The ones who want to sin, you know like piss in gods eye.

You're attracted to someone who is a filthy fuck. Other people are attracted to a person, not the sex acts they are willing to do for them. "

AKA debauchery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well you don't really stand out to expect otherwise. I like the ones who stand out myself. The ones who want to sin, you know like piss in gods eye.

You're attracted to someone who is a filthy fuck. Other people are attracted to a person, not the sex acts they are willing to do for them.

AKA debauchery."

I like a bit of debauchery myself. It has to be with people I'm attracted to.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I couldn't be physical with someone I didn't find attractive. That makes "swingers" sound like nymphomaniacs. We are here to find fun but only with ppl we find sexy

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find."

Then go out... simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a fun pass time, not a way of life. Ibso Facto, it’s a tad superficial. If it stops being fun, stop doing it. If I find it’s no fun anymore, I will certainly put it down. But for now, it still puts a smile on my face, so I shall enjoy it’s superficial nonsense when my real life gives me time and space to do so if I want to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What's a Gym?

You probably walk past it on the way to the cafe, we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason I don't go to clubs is because it's all too superficial for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.

Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find they just play shit music.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.

Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc."

It's not elite enough for you now? You don't like that it's come away from couples picking keys from a bowl, behind Chintz curtains, in suburban semis?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.

Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc."

How are you defining superficial?

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.

Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.

That would be my idea of hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.

Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc.

How are you defining superficial?"

I think he means popular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sometimes the older things are best.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Sometimes the older things are best."

Amen to that! #62this year

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.

Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.

That would be my idea of hell"

Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes the older things are best."

How old exactly are you? I'm too young to have participated in the swinging scene of the 70's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.

Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.

That would be my idea of hell

Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one."

I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That was more 90's early 2000's.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.

Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc."

And the army, navy and prisoners...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.

Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.

That would be my idea of hell

Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one.

I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike. "

Well that can't be any worse then those pink slippers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That was more 90's early 2000's."

Your version of it maybe. You can't hang on to the past and stop progress. There are plenty of people having debauched sex nowadays. You may not be part of it, but that doesn't mean it isn't happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.

Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.

That would be my idea of hell

Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one.

I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike.

Well that can't be any worse then those pink slippers!"

You crossed a line there mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.

Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.

That would be my idea of hell

Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one.

I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike.

Well that can't be any worse then those pink slippers!

You crossed a line there mate. "

And they are white!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I cross many lines.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really? They look pink. Pink is a colour that hurts my eyes. Its offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really? They look pink. Pink is a colour that hurts my eyes. Its offensive

I'm not a pink person myself.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Im confused...

Are you (OP) saying swinging was better in the '90s and 2000s? When you were too young for it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No, but I was young lets say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.

Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.

Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst.

It's those bloody "millenials"

Yeah us Millenials not fucking people we don’t find attractive.

Awful aren’t we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.

Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.

Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."

How often do you go to the gym?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By definition swinging is superficial, it's not love or romance,it's meant to be about sex, lust, and pleasure, enjoying the moment and thrill of meeting and pleasuring someone(s), you may never meet again, anyone looking for more is prob on the wrong site.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"By definition swinging is superficial, it's not love or romance,it's meant to be about sex, lust, and pleasure, enjoying the moment and thrill of meeting and pleasuring someone(s), you may never meet again, anyone looking for more is prob on the wrong site.

Spot on , well said

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

So much bitterness....

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.

Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.

Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst.

It's those bloody "millenials"

Yeah us Millenials not fucking people we don’t find attractive.

Awful aren’t we

It was ment as a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s superficial just people like what they like, Its actually kicked my ass in gear!

time to loose my dad bod so I can join the “in shape” folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anyone looking for respect in any shape or form is probably on the wrong site.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.

Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc."
ooops

You mean like tribal tattoos and certain clothing, it's all the uniform of the herd. A sign of the times maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience of swinging is that it is still very much about fun and debauchery. Don’t really know what the OP means by swinging being superficial, but there are definately people out there having filthy fun!

Mrs

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.

Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.

Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."

Order you cloth cap, comfy slippers and pipe now.

Your getting far too miserable and grumpy for your age. Another year or do you’ll be complaining the musics too loud and they don’t make songs like they used to

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.

Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.

Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.

Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.

That would be my idea of hell

Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one.

I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike.

Well that can't be any worse then those pink slippers!

You crossed a line there mate.

And they are white! "

Eeek! It's the new viral sensation to rival the black/blue or white/gold dress!!

I say they're pink

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