FabSwingers.com forum: Honest married men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

This is a swingers site! Maybe you should look elsewhere lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a swingers site! Maybe you should look elsewhere lol xx"

We both play as a couple, and Mrs has played alone, so why ?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m all for it.

I’d just be really mad if I met someone who lied about their partner actually knowing and I was unintentionally partaking in a deceit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a swingers site! Maybe you should look elsewhere lol xx

We both play as a couple, and Mrs has played alone, so why ? "

Some dont mind, some do...

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I didn’t get that impression with your OP sorry xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m all for it.

I’d just be really mad if I met someone who lied about their partner actually knowing and I was unintentionally partaking in a deceit "

That was the idea, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there? "

Some men in couples post on the forum and say they meet alone. Sounds like it's possible- but difficult- due to the large numbers of single men. Usually the wife gets more meets so be aware that may happen.

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn’t get that impression with your OP sorry xx"

Cheers, I worried it sounded like a single man moan. That wasn't the internet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn’t get that impression with your OP sorry xx

Cheers, I worried it sounded like a single man moan. That wasn't the internet

Intent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet the male half of a swinging couple on here but I do meet attached men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a swingers site! Maybe you should look elsewhere lol xx"

My wife knows I’m here.

Plenty meet me.

“Lol”

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t meet the male half of a swinging couple on here but I do meet attached men."

So cheating men?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"This is a swingers site! Maybe you should look elsewhere lol xx"

How’s he not swinging? He’s part of a couples profile on here too?! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t meet the male half of a swinging couple on here but I do meet attached men.

So cheating men? "

Yes.

I don’t actively seek them, it’s not a ‘thing’. They also have to meet in a similar way to me, but that goes for all men on here.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

This is exactly what we do OP and it does work with the right attitude, approach and all the usual things expected of a single male profile on here.

I actually thought before we decided to set up solo profiles and meet separately that it would be a one sided equation and I'd have limited interest but truth of the matter is with the right approach etc it comes down to effectively quantity vs quality - I may not get as much attention, but when it comes down to quality of that attention the scale is more evenly balanced.

My only advice to you would be to cross-reference all your profiles (this one, your couples one and your other half's one if she has one) to one another so potential meets can do any verifying they want for themselves without having to ask - then It's down to all the things I said about profile, pics etc

Good luck, hope it works out for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both play alone, me more than Mrs marmite... but all consentual so nothing to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

Wrong!!

Say goodbye to a lot of single women who want to fuck the single men.

Who makes up the extra M in your MF..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

Wrong!!

Say goodbye to a lot of single women who want to fuck the single men.

Who makes up the extra M in your MF..?"

Another M form a MF couple

sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

Wrong!!

Say goodbye to a lot of single women who want to fuck the single men.

Who makes up the extra M in your MF..?"

That was actually supposed to be a not so serious smiley face but while we are on the subject should the single men and wemon elope to another site called something like tinder? and leave all the sexy couples to there own devices.? Well that may be ideal for couples but not for the rest including us

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

(I don't meet now, but when I did) I met with a lot of married men. I mean, I'm assuming there were a lot of them, extrapolated from the small sample I actually asked the marital status of. But most of the time I never asked, because I never cared.

And to answer your last question, OP, I often preferred married men because they were better in bed, less hassle, less whiny, less likely to try to get more involved, etc. Just my cup of tea. Single men are so high maintenance. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

Oh look another post that thinks single men shouldn't be here.

Does that thinking extend to single women too.

Call me cynical but I suspect not

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Clubs are so less complicated than the shadow warriors of possibility of fab forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

Oh look another post that thinks single men shouldn't be here.

Does that thinking extend to single women too.

Call me cynical but I suspect not

They actually say above that single women can stay.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

Oh look another post that thinks single men shouldn't be here.

Does that thinking extend to single women too.

Call me cynical but I suspect not

I’ve just said this. Can’t see how the two are different.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

Oh look another post that thinks single men shouldn't be here.

Does that thinking extend to single women too.

Call me cynical but I suspect not

There are some great single guys on here.

We all just need to find our fab matches. Both looking for the same fabulous experiance what ever that maybe.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"This is a swingers site! Maybe you should look elsewhere lol xx

We both play as a couple, and Mrs has played alone, so why ? "

So you also have a couples profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another married men are bad, look at me thread.

As i'm sure i'll be lambasted again, here goes.

I'm not single. She doesn't know. I'm a bad man.

For all the haters, don't bother with your judgement, i've heard it all before. You don't know anything about me or my situation, other than the fact i am upfront about the fact i cheat. If life was straightforward yes i sould have left. It's not.

The moral high ground some people take on here really makes me sick. Swinging couples on here hand out their judgement because in their eyes what they do is ok.

They are also the ones that complain when a vanilla couple criticises them for sleeping around ( a less popular name for swinging) happy to criticize others for alternative lifestyles but not take it.

From other posts on the same subject, a lot is to do with insecurity in couples. Seems some of the women are bere to keep their man happy, not because they want to be.

If married men are not you thing, thst's fine. Just say so in your profile (yes, some guys do read a profile before messaging) ignore, or send a polite no thanks.

How many of the single men on here are actually single ?

I know a friend thst flatsits for an oilworker. He takes his meets there. They have no idea. He has hooked up with loads (not from here) they all think he's single.

On forums and in the chat rooms, lots of 'single' men talking about their mrs.

I know this is a rant, but doublestandards do that to me, and i don't like ranting.

I'm not going to lie, just to try and trick someone into bed, but delusional people that insist they don't ever meet married men. If they meet single men, how do they know that ?

Sorry, i'm rambling now, i'm going to go sit in the corner and wait for the onslaught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

If the single ( or solo) men fucked off, I suspect many of the single (or solo) females would too.

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yet another married men are bad, look at me thread.

As i'm sure i'll be lambasted again, here goes.

I'm not single. She doesn't know. I'm a bad man.

The moral high ground some people take on here really makes me sick. Swinging couples on here hand out their judgement because in their eyes what they do is ok.

From other posts on the same subject, a lot is to do with insecurity in couples. Seems some of the women are bere to keep their man happy, not because they want to be.

If married men are not you thing, thst's fine. Just say so in your profile (yes, some guys do read a profile before messaging) ignore, or send a polite no thanks.

How many of the single men on here are actually single ?

I know a friend thst flatsits for an oilworker. He takes his meets there. They have no idea. He has hooked up with loads (not from here) they all think he's single.

On forums and in the chat rooms, lots of 'single' men talking about their mrs.

I know this is a rant, but doublestandards do that to me, and i don't like ranting.

I'm not going to lie, just to try and trick someone into bed, but delusional people that insist they don't ever meet married men. If they meet single men, how do they know that ?

Sorry, i'm rambling now, i'm going to go sit in the corner and wait for the onslaught.

You make some good points and all are true. Breathe.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

And also why should they....why are single females “allowed” to swing when single men are not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I need moral lessons, I will head down to my local church.

I will meet whomever, not my business if she is attached or not, after all this is a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I need moral lessons, I will head down to my local church.

I will meet whomever, not my business if she is attached or not, after all this is a swinging site."

So what is swinging? Is it about fucking anyone and everyone, no matter what? Or is it about having fun with compatible people in whatever way they are mutually happy with?

If I don't want to fuck a married person because I think it's morally disgusting then I won't. I won't fuck someone that I don't want to for fear of being told 'that's not swinging' if I say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There may be a lot of single men on here but quite a few of them (not all!!) are emotionally unavailable.

And no, i’d give married men a wide berth.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think a lot of people have missed the point the OP is raising, possibly because of the way he worded the OP - the way I took it, having read all of his posts (and correct me if I'm wrong OP) is that this wasn't at all about bashing married men or even anything at all about cheating - but about the experiences of men who are on here with the full knowledge of their partners and with their permission, which is why I responded as I did upthread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there?

I wouldn't meet one half of a swinging couple but some women do.

Maybe I'm being harsh here but if all the single men fucked off and left the swinging to to the couples and single females, would it be more harmonious around here?. Wishful thinking but probably not

Wrong!!

Say goodbye to a lot of single women who want to fuck the single men.

Who makes up the extra M in your MF..?

No they shouldn’t because Tinder is supposedly a dating site. Fabs is also for nsa sex which is what a lot of ‘single’ as well as attached people are looking for.

Last known we’re not taking up any cyber space by being here, so those couples who wish to swing with women & couples can do so, leaving us to crack on with our agendas.

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Where's the honest married women, who admit to cheating?

Come say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before I get carried away with attempting this, are there any good married men story's out there, meeting alone?

Married and your wife knows, and anyone you've met knows.

Ladies does it bother you, why would you bother with an attached guy, when there are so many single men out there? "

If they are married and wife is ok with it and can vouch all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where's the honest married women, who admit to cheating?

Come say hi

But that’s not what this thread is about. The OP is talking about couples who have known separate profiles on here ~he’s asking if people would bother to meet the attached Male when there are actually single men to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think a lot of people have missed the point the OP is raising, possibly because of the way he worded the OP - the way I took it, having read all of his posts (and correct me if I'm wrong OP) is that this wasn't at all about bashing married men or even anything at all about cheating - but about the experiences of men who are on here with the full knowledge of their partners and with their permission, which is why I responded as I did upthread

You're not wrong,

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Where's the honest married women, who admit to cheating?

Come say hi

Yeah just get it, the term married men always takes conversations in a certain direction.

Just trying to do my bit for equality...

And my own kinky desires

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think for some women the desirability of a man goes down for one on one meets if the man is attached (even when legitimately in a non monogamous relationship). Maybe the same is true of some men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby is allowed to meet alone if he wants to so long as I know about it and as i know his fb it’s all cool xx I’m also allowed to meet alone so long as he knows about it xx

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