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By *omeo7xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

London

So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "

Sometimes.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Hey

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Often

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "

In our experience a one word answer is an indication that they aren't interested but are replying to be polite.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

This is one of our main gripes at the moment.

We receive a message that says just “hi”.

Think ok, maybe testing the waters so reply with a message after looking at their profile to try and make it relevant.

Get back “lol”

If you can’t hold a conversation or take the time to speak to us why on earth would we want to play with you.

As a single guy on here it’s kind of a win that you got a response at all I suppose though!

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Quality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block

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By *omeo7xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days?

In our experience a one word answer is an indication that they aren't interested but are replying to be polite. "

Thanks, i reply to everyone as i like to think im polite i coukdnt tell you how many nessages i get from guys when it clearly states im straight but i still reply saying thanks but not for me surely that is much easier then replying one word everytime i reckon i could have a convo with them just would take me maybe 5 days to find out an answer to a simple question

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By *omeo7xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"This is one of our main gripes at the moment.

We receive a message that says just “hi”.

Think ok, maybe testing the waters so reply with a message after looking at their profile to try and make it relevant.

Get back “lol”

If you can’t hold a conversation or take the time to speak to us why on earth would we want to play with you.

As a single guy on here it’s kind of a win that you got a response at all I suppose though!

"

Haha from some of the threads i have seen, i guess yer i should be counting my lucky stars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "

im good at this when they bore me or not read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the main reason I don't message females anymore. The chat was non existant. Bland..boring and nothing back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days?

im good at this when they bore me or not read profiles "
snap

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"This is the main reason I don't message females anymore. The chat was non existant. Bland..boring and nothing back x"

Are you the male or female ? It is helpful if couples profiles let us know who is posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the main reason I don't message females anymore. The chat was non existant. Bland..boring and nothing back x

Are you the male or female ? It is helpful if couples profiles let us know who is posting. "

Mrs. I put an x at the end x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days?

In our experience a one word answer is an indication that they aren't interested but are replying to be polite. "

Exactly this!

We sometimes will reply as the message is a nice one and one we'd like to acknowledge but not encourage. A smily face or even a thumbs up we'll use without the follow up. Some may say, why even do that but like we said, it's a show of appreciation, nice words about pics for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Are you just asking a question though?

We make it clear we don't do chat so if someone tries to engage us in chat we may play along being rather blunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "

You forgot to mention that your initial message to the attractive fem was the usuaul "Fancy a shag?"

Her answer was one word "No"

You replied "blow job then darlin?"

"No"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unwanted

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

I'd read a one word "thanks" type reply as a polite "no thanks" and leave it there.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I'd read a one word "thanks" type reply as a polite "no thanks" and leave it there. "

That's what I do if I have time. I'd add more if I wanted to chat!

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Oh I tink I misunderstood the point. One word responses in a conversation?

Stop asking closed questions that have 'yes' or 'no' or some other 'one word' option as the answer!

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

Meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve become quite conscious from the forums that a lot of men regard it as very rude for messages to be ignored. Therefore I might reply in order to be polite, but I’ll keep my reply as brief as possible in order to discourage conversation. So i’ll often answer messages monosyllabically by saying something like ‘thanks’ or ‘cool’ or ‘ok’. If we want to chat, then we’ll be a bit more forthcoming.

Mrs

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By *omeo7xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Oh I tink I misunderstood the point. One word responses in a conversation?

Stop asking closed questions that have 'yes' or 'no' or some other 'one word' option as the answer!"

Its questiins like .. hows your day going and i get back ok

Then its just one words from there onwards so i dont bother.

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By *omeo7xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days?

You forgot to mention that your initial message to the attractive fem was the usuaul "Fancy a shag?"

Her answer was one word "No"

You replied "blow job then darlin?"

"No" "

I would nevet start a convo like that i have a bit more respect for people and myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often get the standard 'nice pics'

message.

If the sender isn't for us we'll usually just reply 'thanks, to be polite

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By *omeo7xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I’ve become quite conscious from the forums that a lot of men regard it as very rude for messages to be ignored. Therefore I might reply in order to be polite, but I’ll keep my reply as brief as possible in order to discourage conversation. So i’ll often answer messages monosyllabically by saying something like ‘thanks’ or ‘cool’ or ‘ok’. If we want to chat, then we’ll be a bit more forthcoming.

Mrs"

If that is the case why not spend another 10 seconds writing thank you but not for me? Why entice a response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohmyfookingawd

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think some people (including women) have poor conversation skills. Also in your last reply did you give them much ammunition to reply back to? Some replies can be wordy but still closed. The fire needs stoking from both sides.

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By *omeo7xxx OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I think some people (including women) have poor conversation skills. Also in your last reply did you give them much ammunition to reply back to? Some replies can be wordy but still closed. The fire needs stoking from both sides."

I try to strike up conversation i need some sort of connection, im not asking advise from people what to say i get enough meets im all good on that front it was more of a rant of something that pisses me off and to see if anyone else feels the same way which by some of the comments on here they do.

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