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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong. " a man wife? lol | |||
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong. " Not in my case it's not - in fact that hasn't even occurred to me - I just see it as a mutually agreeable and satisfying experience to which I've been privileged enough to be invited, and on the occasions it's happened, to be treated as an equal part of the overall enjoyment for as long as it's lasted | |||
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong. " That's exactly what it is for me, and it can be an even bigger thrill if he's not there - especially if he doesn't know... | |||
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong. Not in my case it's not - in fact that hasn't even occurred to me - I just see it as a mutually agreeable and satisfying experience to which I've been privileged enough to be invited, and on the occasions it's happened, to be treated as an equal part of the overall enjoyment for as long as it's lasted " i see at less you guys having better luck than me here | |||
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong. That's exactly what it is for me, and it can be an even bigger thrill if he's not there - especially if he doesn't know... " oh ok | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?" This is what my cynical mind thought also but reading through the replies it seems there's a lot more to it than that. Whatever their reasons if everyone's enjoying it then that's all that matters is suppose | |||
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"We've wondered how single men in general cope in a club environment. It must be difficult for them. Also, we appreciate there are lots of male partners out there who love to see their wives / gf's being fucked by another man, but what about identifying those single guys who are bi - and who are rare ?? - and are happy to really enter into the spirit of a threesome with a couple ? Other than wearing a post-it note across the forehead, it's not initially obvious as to where the single guy's interest lies !! I guess that's where the art of making awkward conversation comes in and discovering who wants to do what with whom !" Well if it happens to be Bi Night at the club it's a fairly safe bet that he'll be interested in both of you | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? This is what my cynical mind thought also but reading through the replies it seems there's a lot more to it than that. Whatever their reasons if everyone's enjoying it then that's all that matters is suppose " Some will think that, but most will let it slip during messages so you don't need to meet them. I agree that as long as everyone is happy and outwardly respectful then that's all that matters. | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?" That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled " Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. | |||
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong. That's exactly what it is for me, and it can be an even bigger thrill if he's not there - especially if he doesn't know... oh OK beside that i am British but with a South African accent" | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. " I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages | |||
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"The guys we’ve met all have their own reasons. Just glad they do!!!" Chatterley... there are so many reasons I’d meet you | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages " i get that 24/7 no replies | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages " It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers. Mrs | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers. Mrs" | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? This is what my cynical mind thought also but reading through the replies it seems there's a lot more to it than that. Whatever their reasons if everyone's enjoying it then that's all that matters is suppose " Single women meeting single guys isn’t swinging it’s just nsa sex .. couples have totally different dynamics . | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers. Mrs" I completely agree and while most guys enjoy both there’s definitely a different approach with couples as it should be about 2 combining to spoil the lady rather than just a shag | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers. MrsI completely agree and while most guys enjoy both there’s definitely a different approach with couples as it should be about 2 combining to spoil the lady rather than just a shag" Yep, you can't spitroast a woman on your own. | |||
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing? That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers. MrsI completely agree and while most guys enjoy both there’s definitely a different approach with couples as it should be about 2 combining to spoil the lady rather than just a shag" I see it as women are very complex with many eroginous zones, and one man alone does not have enough hands, tongues or cocks. At least 2 men are required Mrs | |||
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"As has been said, most guys on here are interested on having sex with women and will tolerate the male partner being present. However, most will not say that as they know that if they do so it lessens their chances of a meet. " Personally I'd prefer it the (bi) male half of the couple was present if I met a couple but then bi MMF (or more) is one of my favourite play scenarios | |||
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"As has been said, most guys on here are interested on having sex with women and will tolerate the male partner being present. However, most will not say that as they know that if they do so it lessens their chances of a meet. Personally I'd prefer it the (bi) male half of the couple was present if I met a couple but then bi MMF (or more) is one of my favourite play scenarios " You're the exception We often meet guys as a couple initially and if Katie likes them we are happy for her to see them one to one. We have never known a guy turn that down and said he preferred me there as well. | |||
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"As has been said, most guys on here are interested on having sex with women and will tolerate the male partner being present. However, most will not say that as they know that if they do so it lessens their chances of a meet. Personally I'd prefer it the (bi) male half of the couple was present if I met a couple but then bi MMF (or more) is one of my favourite play scenarios You're the exception We often meet guys as a couple initially and if Katie likes them we are happy for her to see them one to one. We have never known a guy turn that down and said he preferred me there as well. " More than happy to be the exception Whilst I will happily meet one to one with anyone that wants to meet me that way - I personally as a bisexual man enjoy the dynamic that bi MMF (or more) allows for and certainly wouldn't be "tolerating" the presence of the male half of a couple | |||
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong. " I love meeting couples. | |||
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"After our meet last night with a single guy I've been wondering to myself what is it that makes you guys want to meet a couple. I've never really thought of it from the other blokes perspective so all thoughts would be welcome." Meeting a couple can be amazing. Seeing a women get totally pleasure by two guys is great. The big thing I like is you can enjoy the company and the fun without the worry of you needing to move on together. | |||
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"For me there are quite a few things that truly turn me on. Like the idea of trust, a couple bringing me into their bedroom and being part of their most intimate fantasies and secrets. Seeing a lady totally let go of herself and her inhibitions and feeling that comfortable with me to allow herself to do that. As well as the husband to feel comfortable enough also to surrender his wife to me for her pleasure. Or for me to join him and be right along side as we both pleasure his wife. Do enjoy establishing a relationship versus one off's. Just some of my thoughts on the subject." | |||
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"Adventurous women are far more of a turn on" You’re not wrong there | |||
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"After our meet last night with a single guy I've been wondering to myself what is it that makes you guys want to meet a couple. I've never really thought of it from the other blokes perspective so all thoughts would be welcome." Cuckolding, dp and dvp | |||
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