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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering what does a wink mean to you and do you take any notice of them

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I totally ignore them.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Take it as a show of interest which if we like what we see, will respond with a wink back or follow up with a message.

Quite often though a wink or message back will get totally ignored so assume it means something different to others.

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By *ligible GentMan
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Definitely don’t ignore them. Depends who it’s from, but then again, I’m not exactly inundated with winks on a daily basis, as I am sure most women are.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I mass delete. Don’t even look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send them an apology bear pic explaining winks are not good enough

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I mass delete. Don’t even look"

Same here

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

I occasionally receive them and take it as a sign of interest from someone who can't be arsed to send a message.

As a result most get ignored.

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By *knick45Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Shows someone is interested so have a peep who it is. Think they are great. Surly they say mmm yes I'm interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We send a wink as an icebreaker if we like someone's profile

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I check them out...and have had several meets because of them... I also send them but get only a few responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks for me are a sign of I like the look of your profile but not sure if you’d like me

I don’t view them as lazy

If I like someone who’s winked then I definitely message. I can’t say I receive a lot of winks though

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

One up from a photo fab - one down from a message

'we're interested in you but don't want to waste your time messaging if you don't like the look of us'

We look at all the winks we receive but only respond to about 1 in 10.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I rarely think to check winks, but when I do I'll check any profiles that look interesting and will usually drop the winner a message - have to say that is a very rare occurrence though. Either way I guess I just see them as a vague indication of possible interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no waster of time as i found out.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Dejavous

But... I like winks I hate sending msgs that never get read especially to ones that have code words.... its tedious. So a wink says hi. If u not interested then that's sound. I hate sending please pick me messages that don't even get read

WINK WINK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dejavous

But... I like winks I hate sending msgs that never get read especially to ones that have code words.... its tedious. So a wink says hi. If u not interested then that's sound. I hate sending please pick me messages that don't even get read

WINK WINK "

I totally agree, it should be universally used as I’m interested. If they respond then you can message.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Dejavous

But... I like winks I hate sending msgs that never get read especially to ones that have code words.... its tedious. So a wink says hi. If u not interested then that's sound. I hate sending please pick me messages that don't even get read

WINK WINK

I totally agree, it should be universally used as I’m interested. If they respond then you can message. "
100%

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Dejavous

But... I like winks I hate sending msgs that never get read especially to ones that have code words.... its tedious. So a wink says hi. If u not interested then that's sound. I hate sending please pick me messages that don't even get read

WINK WINK

I totally agree, it should be universally used as I’m interested. If they respond then you can message. 100%"
cut the bullshit out

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Ignore to be honest

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

I like a wink

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Ignore to be honest "
why? I'm curious

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

To us shows interest..but not got us very far. Suspect gets lost in fab translation.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"To us shows interest..but not got us very far. Suspect gets lost in fab translation."
I'd rather that than send code word message telling the receiver how amazing I am only to see

Read..deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks have been known to work before. Messages are better though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We quite like winks, its a nice way of showing an interest, but if the winker has nothing that matches our profile, or clearly ignores our preferences, don't take it any further.

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

We wink as a sign of our interest to young guys and expect a message back if they are interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would love a wee wink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually will send a wink and if returned then will start a chat, isn't that what they're for?

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Usually will send a wink and if returned then will start a chat, isn't that what they're for? "

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Dont understand those who wink, we wink back then nothing. Most wink, we wink, they message Fi xx

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