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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Every now and then I see people ask if others can lend them some money on here!! I know some people are hard up "pardon the pun". But really is this type of place to ask for financial help!! Just wondering if others have seen this as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see it all the time, and sometimes I get emails from women about it too - sex is a great way for people to get what they want out of people. Happily I'm not that desperate.

Report them.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Well sometimes I wonder if these people are really scammers tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the good old prostitution status’s disguised as “I need a job? Any offers?”. Bit embarrassing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gang bang meets with £80 per person contribution!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More fool the person who pays....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the latest one i heard was cost to contribute to a babysitter so the lady can come out to play,

nearly every group meet has a costto arrange it, i realize that but the amount seems large,

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

There are some downright rude and cheeky people on here. From guys I’ve met over the years, have heard all sorts. Women and couples agreeing to meets but only if the guy brings, wine, spirits,fags, lingerie. That is not the spirit of Fab. Clubs and parties where costs are explained up front is fine and understandable. Private meets, no money or gifts should be changing hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking for phone credit is the worst one lol

Or actually asking someone to buy a site supporter membership

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'm cheap, a curly wurly gets me for the night

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"There are some downright rude and cheeky people on here. From guys I’ve met over the years, have heard all sorts. Women and couples agreeing to meets but only if the guy brings, wine, spirits,fags, lingerie. That is not the spirit of Fab. Clubs and parties where costs are explained up front is fine and understandable. Private meets, no money or gifts should be changing hands. "

Exactly and I’m not sure how fab can monitor it , but it would be a real improvement if people who offer or accept gifts , money etc,.... were kicked off the site .

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"There are some downright rude and cheeky people on here. From guys I’ve met over the years, have heard all sorts. Women and couples agreeing to meets but only if the guy brings, wine, spirits,fags, lingerie. That is not the spirit of Fab. Clubs and parties where costs are explained up front is fine and understandable. Private meets, no money or gifts should be changing hands.

Exactly and I’m not sure how fab can monitor it , but it would be a real improvement if people who offer or accept gifts , money etc,.... were kicked off the site ."

I can only assume that some guys accept this and provide what is asked for. Bit sad when most of us will do it for free

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose there will always be someone who will give them the money if sex is on offer!! But when someone asks "Please lend me £20 until the end of the month someone!" I can't help thinking how sad it is that you're having to ask on a swingers site for money!!

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I suppose there will always be someone who will give them the money if sex is on offer!! But when someone asks "Please lend me £20 until the end of the month someone!" I can't help thinking how sad it is that you're having to ask on a swingers site for money!!"

Yes but when they say lend....

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I suppose there will always be someone who will give them the money if sex is on offer!! But when someone asks "Please lend me £20 until the end of the month someone!" I can't help thinking how sad it is that you're having to ask on a swingers site for money!!"

It would tell me everything I needed to know about the calibre of that person and they aren’t the type of person I mix with. Good filter and block and good day to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are new to this site and I'm shocked that women are asking guys for money under the disguise of babysitter fee's. That's insane. It's a site for adults and in the real world adult pay there own way. That's just pure cheek,, lol

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Asking for phone credit is the worst one lol

Or actually asking someone to buy a site supporter membership "

The second one makes me cringe. It’s only a fiver for goodness sake!

Another one that gets me is someone asking to be given a lift somewhere!

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I suppose there will always be someone who will give them the money if sex is on offer!! But when someone asks "Please lend me £20 until the end of the month someone!" I can't help thinking how sad it is that you're having to ask on a swingers site for money!!

It would tell me everything I needed to know about the calibre of that person and they aren’t the type of person I mix with. Good filter and block and good day to you. "

You hit the nail on the head!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Sir just told me when he was single on here, one little poppet asked him to provide a 12 box of Chablis. Bless her

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Sir just told me when he was single on here, one little poppet asked him to provide a 12 box of Chablis. Bless her "

Maybe she thought he worked for Majestic Wines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen a few statuses asking for people to pay for their subscription on here... usually women

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Asking for phone credit is the worst one lol

Or actually asking someone to buy a site supporter membership "

seen both these and sending underwear to an Amazon post box and they will go on cam and send pics of them wearing it!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Sir just told me when he was single on here, one little poppet asked him to provide a 12 box of Chablis. Bless her "

nice taste!

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I suppose there will always be someone who will give them the money if sex is on offer!! But when someone asks "Please lend me £20 until the end of the month someone!" I can't help thinking how sad it is that you're having to ask on a swingers site for money!!

It would tell me everything I needed to know about the calibre of that person and they aren’t the type of person I mix with. Good filter and block and good day to you. "

^^^^ this. On the other hand, £20 or site support fees seem cheap compared to what some clubs will charge single blokes, so can kind of understand why some go for it. Some of us can't give it away

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Ive seen a few statuses asking for people to pay for their subscription on here... usually women "

I've seen it and just think, avoid. But it's not rare. I think it's a bloody cheek to be honest.

I'd rather have no meets, then pay/fall for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always wondered if this went on at those gangbang meets. They'd be better using a different site for the business side of swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking for lifts can be genuine - I sometimes say i can usually going to the same club event or friends etc

But that’s not directly asking for money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men can be as bad.

Since being on fab, i've had a lot of guys offer me cash if I met them. Stranger still, some offered me cash for my used underwear! Gross folk are all over this site. Just block and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sir just told me when he was single on here, one little poppet asked him to provide a 12 box of Chablis. Bless her "

Chablis?

Klassy bird

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By *xijenWoman
over a year ago

manchester

ive asked people for lifts once or twice when theres been a event i really want to go but they've lived quite near and already going and i contribute to petrol,Never offered or asked for anything else ,does this make me a bad person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an investigative reporter spurred on by this thread I contacted a posted meeting ad for tomorrow.

I was in the specific requirements of the meeting criteria those being male (or Female) within the age limits 18 to 99 and in possession of a faint if intermittent pulse.

I read the profile as requested and sent a very polite enquiry as to a possible invite. A response was almost instantaneous in the affirmative as attending the Soirée.

The approximate location was given which was a travel tavern on the edge of a large conurbation in the north of England chosen because access to the pleasure palace was not via the reception.

I was given a phone number to ring which i duly did. The phone was answered by a chap who advised I could have the morning or afternoon slot although the morning slot was getting full presumably with those seeking a workout before the day began in earnest.

The cost of a two hour assignation was a mere £50 and used underwear was available at an additional £20. I was met with an abrupt answer when I asked if the said apparel on sale was that of a male or female origin. Apparently it was the latter.

I explained that the morning slot could work but decided, like a good news of the world reporter to make an excuse and leave.

Embellished slightly but true!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"ive asked people for lifts once or twice when theres been a event i really want to go but they've lived quite near and already going and i contribute to petrol,Never offered or asked for anything else ,does this make me a bad person "

No I don’t think so. You offered to contribute for something practical which is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive asked people for lifts once or twice when theres been a event i really want to go but they've lived quite near and already going and i contribute to petrol,Never offered or asked for anything else ,does this make me a bad person "

No- I’ve accepted requests before for lifts and will do again without expecting anything in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every now and then I see people ask if others can lend them some money on here!! I know some people are hard up "pardon the pun". But really is this type of place to ask for financial help!! Just wondering if others have seen this as well"

Sometimes I see some profile and/or pictures in a very 'professional' style.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"There are some downright rude and cheeky people on here. From guys I’ve met over the years, have heard all sorts. Women and couples agreeing to meets but only if the guy brings, wine, spirits,fags, lingerie. That is not the spirit of Fab. Clubs and parties where costs are explained up front is fine and understandable. Private meets, no money or gifts should be changing hands. "

Well I suppose there is always people out there looking to abuse the power/market value dynamic on here. But every individual has a choice whether they play these games or not. I suppose the presence of people abusing the situation on here is evidence that many people do play (and consequently pay) this game.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I've had this before where a guy came to my house ane thought I had a bit of money, asked to borrow from me, didn't see him again, I only rent it lol

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I was asked by a beautiful young lady to be her daddy and if I spoil her with gifts she will do anything i want ..

Apparently this is a popular scenario and there are sites for this ..

Has the world gone mad x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I was asked by a beautiful young lady to be her daddy and if I spoil her with gifts she will do anything i want ..

Apparently this is a popular scenario and there are sites for this ..

Has the world gone mad x"

No but there are sites for everything. I honestly don’t know why people waste their time trying to make a buck on here when there are sites set up for this specifically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men can be as bad.

Since being on fab, i've had a lot of guys offer me cash if I met them. Stranger still, some offered me cash for my used underwear! Gross folk are all over this site. Just block and delete."

no one has asked for slid marked budgie smugglers yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve been offered cash and to have clothing bought, I always say no thanks. I do meets for fun and if payment was exchanged it would not be fun, just a chore. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen people asking for lifts & support passes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More fool the person who pays.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some downright rude and cheeky people on here. From guys I’ve met over the years, have heard all sorts. Women and couples agreeing to meets but only if the guy brings, wine, spirits,fags, lingerie. That is not the spirit of Fab. Clubs and parties where costs are explained up front is fine and understandable. Private meets, no money or gifts should be changing hands.

Exactly and I’m not sure how fab can monitor it , but it would be a real improvement if people who offer or accept gifts , money etc,.... were kicked off the site ."

I'd think it's fighting a losing battle. Loads of women/ in couples ask for gifts but kid themselves it's not prostitution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked to wear boots an owner has...

Or sell my knickers.

Yuk

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Always report please

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