FabSwingers.com forum: women looking for there frist bi experience

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why do you all think that when a women is looking for her frist bi experience it puts people off is there any women that have or want to be the frist and how many of u women are still looking for there frist time

i think u all know what i mean thanks

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's not necessarily the 'first time' thing that's putting people off.

What you're looking for is a long shot for most people, the single bi-fem.

They are around, but are rare, and in a position of choice.

It's only been 3 months, which probably seems like an eternity, but in terms of what you're looking for it isn't really.

FAR be it from me to tell you what to do, but your profile could be better worded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We`ve never found it that hard to find playmates fer Sharon...

We dont have any secret...just browse and mail....

Plenty of people who are considerate and respect yer position, and play softly and let you lead..depending on how yer feeling..

Be patient...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to play with women who i know are bi lol.....i don't want to risk playing with a lady and her freaking out etc. I am sure alot of people like the thought of being someone first experience though. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Jacquie is looking for her first bi experience as she has had a fanatsy about this for a while !!!

Luckily she is not in any rush, However we have had people ask if she has any experience and when we said no they politely said thanks but no thanks as they had been thru a bad experience with first timers !!!! they didn't expand on this but we assumed they must have freaked out lol when it came to it.

Every body is nervous the first time they try something new

We are just looking forward to Jacquie actually getting to play with someone who likes the same things. xx

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

I would have no issue with helping someone with their first bi experience, however I would still need to make sure we click as people and chat several times so I can get a vibe as to whether she really wants to or is being pushed into it.

Sometimes it's easier to just get to know the lady on her own before bringing the guys in. I think it's easier to relax without them there. But each woman is different.

Scarlett x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have no issue with helping someone with their first bi experience, however I would still need to make sure we click as people and chat several times so I can get a vibe as to whether she really wants to or is being pushed into it.

Sometimes it's easier to just get to know the lady on her own before bringing the guys in. I think it's easier to relax without them there. But each woman is different.

Scarlett x"

A good point....we`ve met the controlling husband, who does all the talking and doesn`t allow the fem to express herself....thats toxic shit...

Getting the girls together to do the girlie chat is a good idea..communicating expectations and emotions..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i (angela) would be happy to help with a girls first bi experience and have offered to on occasion.

my problem is that most husbands want to be there... this is not what i want, my husband leaves me to it and goes away completely once he knows i'm safe, if the other girls husband would do the same it would be so much easier. however, they want to stay and watch or join in, sometimes this makes me feel that they may be "pushing" to get what they want and sometimes the fem is going along with this but not completely happy about it .... so, i will happily meet fems, on my own, but no males present at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

this is so true i know steve would want to be there with cock in hand but like u said most men would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes ... but if they left you to it for at least the first time .... then the benefits would be twofold ..... first the sex when you got home and told him all about it ... and secondly .... the buzz he would get from watching when you had a bit of experience ????

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

everyone has to have a first time trying anything - so long as its in a relaxed atmosphere and with no pressure things tend to go well. i also find they proceed better if no set plan has been made - ie a check list 1 touch boobs, 2 kiss etc

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