FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Club nights VS. Private parties

Jump to newest
 

By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Which do you prefer?

Also, for club owners: what are you thoughts about private parties that fall on the same night as your club night? Surely MOST club owners are okay with that as people who do private parties go to your club too?

Curious x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Which do you prefer?

Also, for club owners: what are you thoughts about private parties that fall on the same night as your club night? Surely MOST club owners are okay with that as people who do private parties go to your club too?

Curious x"

We generally visit clubs rather than private parties because there are normally a larger variety of people, there is no smoking inside clubs, the facilities are designed for swinging and you know that the management will be available & sober if there is any sort of issue.

I'd also be surprised if club owners are concerned about private parties in any way, variety is very much an attribute of the swinging lifestyle.

Cal x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ezza80Man
over a year ago

northampton

Club nights for me... as a single guy getting an invite to a private party is near impossible anyway!

Certainly not against house meets, but i’ve only ever had a few invites.

Going to clubs with no expectations, but open to chatting with some interesting people is great, and if you get to play, BONUS!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only done clubs always been too nervous to try a party where we think there will be more pressure to play

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Clubs, because the people going aren't chosen by the staff, so there's a good variety of people. Yeah there are a few clubs that are elitist, but not the ones I go to.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

We went to a private house party with maybe 40 people

Best night we have ever had doing this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Which do you prefer?

Also, for club owners: what are you thoughts about private parties that fall on the same night as your club night? Surely MOST club owners are okay with that as people who do private parties go to your club too?

Curious x

We generally visit clubs rather than private parties because there are normally a larger variety of people, there is no smoking inside clubs, the facilities are designed for swinging and you know that the management will be available & sober if there is any sort of issue.

I'd also be surprised if club owners are concerned about private parties in any way, variety is very much an attribute of the swinging lifestyle.

Cal x "

Yeah I do like clubs too for that very reason, but do like the variety private parties offer in the sense of venues.

I do agree, club owners shouldn't really be concerned about people having private parties, but you know...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both. Parties and clubs. Clubs have a greater variety plus it's nice to be able to have a shower.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Private house parties for me don't do clubs anymore

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive attended 3 private parties and 3 club night events.

The 3 private events have always been fun and fruitful and have thoroughly enjoyed them.

Club nights have always been a dissapointment for me and have always left without playing.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve only been invited to one private house party, and had an amazing night of fun

I’ve been to clubs 5 times as a single guy, and, like Mr Mechanic, never played in any

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are entirely hit & miss for so may reasons. Threads like this are so subjective that there is no definitive response in truth.

The factors are wide ranging but a few I would offer are things like: whether the ratio of men/women is right (for you), the music (this is a big deal for me as most clubs play dreadful music aimed at teenagers in my [music snob] view). the type of people in attendance (swingers/kink/fetishists etc) and even things like your own mood make a massive difference.

I've been to many clubs and parties on similar nights, with similar people and wildly different experiences due to the above factors.

Clubs are more hit & miss because they're essentially public events, and private parties slightly less so because you can hand-pick who's invited. On balance I prefer private parties.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club owner can't stop someone having a party but if it affects his trade of course he will be bothered ..

Its a bit like saying if everyone went to watch spurs every Saturday but nobody went to arsenal would they mind

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Enjoy both really, we do go to private parties and hold them too on a regular basis for about 18 people. We do find that private parties are more about the social side and definitely more sex as everyone plays.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A club owner can't stop someone having a party but if it affects his trade of course he will be bothered ..

Its a bit like saying if everyone went to watch spurs every Saturday but nobody went to arsenal would they mind "

I've been in clubs where I've been invited to a private party by someone(on a different night) and the club owners got VERY upset about this. They see it as promoting events outside of theirs and don't take kindly to it.

Personally I think that's bullshit.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I’ve only been invited to one private house party, and had an amazing night of fun

I’ve been to clubs 5 times as a single guy, and, like Mr Mechanic, never played in any "

As a couple that enjoy swinging for the fun we can have playing , it would be a private house party every time .

We stopped going to clubs a few years ago when they became way too socially orientated .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Majority of Private party in club premises is a rip off For single guys. Just my opinion

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I have been to a couple of private parties and several different club's.

I prefer the variety of people and facilities at a club and the fact you can have more privacy in a club if you prefer that.

I do like a well organised party though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only been to clubs have not attended the private party yet

Happy to receive invites lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been invited to a party!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer clubs unless I'm good friends with the party organiser.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd probably choose a private party over a general club night, but of course it would depend on the type of party, location etc, (oh yeah, and whether we were invited or forced to gatecrash)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I’m keen to go to a private party, actually.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Both depend entirely on the clientele on any given night. The only issue with a private party would be your safety if the liberty taker 'Feel and grope' type person wanders into a bedroom mid play. At least at a club security can throw them out or ban them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which do you prefer?

Also, for club owners: what are you thoughts about private parties that fall on the same night as your club night? Surely MOST club owners are okay with that as people who do private parties go to your club too?

Curious x"

Club nights - that way Hillie is guaranteed a good coating lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a private party... the ones I have been to are great

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Majority of Private party in club premises is a rip off For single guys. Just my opinion "

I think when people refer to a private party, they mean in a private residence, not held in a club. That's what I was invited to anyway

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top