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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious really...we play full swap but there's so many couples on here that say strictly soft swap only...

So what do you class as soft swapping?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Just curious really...we play full swap but there's so many couples on here that say strictly soft swap only...

So what do you class as soft swapping?"

People's ideas of soft swap vary wildly, but most generally seems to mean NO penetration with each other's partners.

It's always best to ask people what their personal boundaries are.

Cal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine it means kissing, touching, oral but not penetration. I could be wrong

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Just curious really...we play full swap but there's so many couples on here that say strictly soft swap only...

So what do you class as soft swapping?

People's ideas of soft swap vary wildly, but most generally seems to mean NO penetration with each other's partners.

It's always best to ask people what their personal boundaries are.

Cal x

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"Just curious really...we play full swap but there's so many couples on here that say strictly soft swap only...

So what do you class as soft swapping?

People's ideas of soft swap vary wildly, but most generally seems to mean NO penetration with each other's partners.

It's always best to ask people what their personal boundaries are.

Cal x

This "

X- seconded

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We like BDSM role play. Soft swap can mean very, many things to us.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We have had quite a few soft swap meets, which I must say we enjoyed immensely, but found different people have different boundaries. Most we found go as far as oral but no penetration, some only as far as kissing and fondling so it is always best to ask first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything but full sex is what we class as soft for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone we prefer to play full swap and had the offer of soft swap with a couple but with no kissing So thought we'd ask people's opinions

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks everyone we prefer to play full swap and had the offer of soft swap with a couple but with no kissing So thought we'd ask people's opinions "

If you don't want to play the way they like to there's no point meeting. Neither of you will be happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone we prefer to play full swap and had the offer of soft swap with a couple but with no kissing So thought we'd ask people's opinions

If you don't want to play the way they like to there's no point meeting. Neither of you will be happy."

This is it... were more than happy to go with what other people want as long as their boundaries do not get crossed (been there before when meeting and one of them wasn't happy as the other went further than they would of liked them to ) we was just curious as to what others classed as soft swapping X

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By *ontifex69Man
over a year ago

dunmow

Gay guy nice broad flexible hole seeking white silky lobster~ like cock for overnight accommodation inside me .....

Denis

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Gay guy nice broad flexible hole seeking white silky lobster~ like cock for overnight accommodation inside me .....

Denis"

Lobster-like cock?! If anyone has one of those they need to seek medical attention.

But, back on topic... soft for us would mean no penetration with the other couple but I definitely agree that this should all be discussed beforehand as everybody has different ideas and limitations.

Lou x

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We keep kissing for us no mater what apart from girl girl

Then generally soft swap means no penetration but oral etc

As many say communication is the key and I think that is just in general with swinging, open discussion make sure everyone on the same page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone we prefer to play full swap and had the offer of soft swap with a couple but with no kissing So thought we'd ask people's opinions

If you don't want to play the way they like to there's no point meeting. Neither of you will be happy.

This is it... were more than happy to go with what other people want as long as their boundaries do not get crossed (been there before when meeting and one of them wasn't happy as the other went further than they would of liked them to ) we was just curious as to what others classed as soft swapping X"

Did you ask the couple what they considered soft swap?

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we can go along with soft swap but cant do no kissing a good snog is the starter the fore play is the main and penetration the desert but can be happy with the first two courses

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