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Do bi ladies like to meet couples?

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

So we’ve been on here for a while and had some interesting meets. The one we can’t seem to nail (excuse the pun) is the MFF. I know I know single bi women are apparently like unicorn poop. But I was actually wondering if there are many who do want to meet couples.

As a bi female I asked myself this question and actually while I probably would meet a couple if I was single, I’d still be very weary of the fact that the male half is probably more into it than the female half and that would put me off.

Is this the case? Is it a concern to bi ladies that the lady half is only doing it to please her man?

What kind of profile attracts a single bi lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to find a couple where I’m attracted to them both

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"I struggle to find a couple where I’m attracted to them both "

Ah yes that’s probably a big hurdle. Trying to find an attraction between 3 people.

My fella and I had a 3some with a friend of mine. Although at first he wasn’t attracted to her. That soon changed after a night out and it happened again twice afterwards! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s insanely hard to find bi ladies :/ we’ve still not had a meet on fab yet as we can’t find one hahha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May sound odd but how about other Bifem couples where the male is happy to just watch if you would be ok with it.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

I don't rely on here to meet couples. I need to see the couples dynamic unfold and I'm not afraid to call them out if something doesn't feel right. Clubs all the way for me. Needs to be a 3 way attraction. No head fucks or drama lamas and a couple who know what they want but won't be expecting me to compromise on my needs/wants.

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"It’s insanely hard to find bi ladies :/ we’ve still not had a meet on fab yet as we can’t find one hahha "

Yeah it’s hard work. We managed a meet with a bi guy that was more for the fellas fantasy.

Now it’s my turn and it’s not fair! Haha

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"I don't rely on here to meet couples. I need to see the couples dynamic unfold and I'm not afraid to call them out if something doesn't feel right. Clubs all the way for me. Needs to be a 3 way attraction. No head fucks or drama lamas and a couple who know what they want but won't be expecting me to compromise on my needs/wants."

Yes I guess the drama of couples is off putting. I guess there is a lot of “we’re happy and comfortable in our relationship” that isn’t exactly true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's never much of the man to go by and he usually just wants to watch, or it's soft swing only.

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"May sound odd but how about other Bifem couples where the male is happy to just watch if you would be ok with it."

Yes that would be ok for me too. In fact being watched is a huge fantasy of mine also that I’ve never got around to doing. Although are there really many of those couples around either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't rely on here to meet couples. I need to see the couples dynamic unfold and I'm not afraid to call them out if something doesn't feel right. Clubs all the way for me. Needs to be a 3 way attraction. No head fucks or drama lamas and a couple who know what they want but won't be expecting me to compromise on my needs/wants.

Yes I guess the drama of couples is off putting. I guess there is a lot of “we’re happy and comfortable in our relationship” that isn’t exactly true. "

I wouldn't want to be getting carried away with a man and upsetting his wife. Although I wouldn't leave her out, sometimes, being fucked can render one incapable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also have problems with finding a couple where I fancy both of them but my main issue is, I need penatrative sex so I tend to not get enough cock in an mff. When I did play with couples I found that once the lady had had enough then that was pretty much it and I was nowhere near done. I do play mff with my fwb tho but aswell as getting to play with a lovely lady myself and knowing I will get enough of him I really like seeing him fucking other girls so sharing him, even if I am done playing, is not a problem

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"There's never much of the man to go by and he usually just wants to watch, or it's soft swing only. "

Don’t get me wrong I’m not totally put off by the idea of another couple where both parties want to play but as river said above in that scenario I’d need to get to know the guy/couple and be comfortable therefore social first and it may not happen. I hate the idea of messing people about

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In our case I am certainly "into it" as much as my partner. We mainly play in clubs and while MMF, MMMF etc fun is easy to arrange, MFF is much harder, not surprisingly because of the shortage of single women. I would love to find a lovely lady to share the fun with us, but I can also understand why many single women are wary of couples. They probably worry that they will be treated as just an additional plaything rather than as an equal participant with their own needs. Not sure what the solution might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy a good couples meet, but I've had a couple of bad ones where she was doing it for him. I look now for long term stable couples who have been swinging for a while and where the female leads the arrangements. I also try to ensure that all three of us are involved in the play as much as possible.

Being fucked by him while your face deep in her is incredibly hot. It's one of my favourite ways of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to find a couple where I’m attracted to them both "

I've never met a couple for this exact reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have to do a quick search to see that lots and lots and lots of bi fems meet couples

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"There's never much of the man to go by and he usually just wants to watch, or it's soft swing only. "

I'm assuming you mean pics to judge the man rather than they are tiny

We deliberately added more pics of me (Hmm) for this reason, to help the lady decide whether to chat to us or not. It just seems to be not!

To be fair, we probably could tweak our approach, but we'd rather meet the right person, not just any person. We want it to be very much a 3 way, equal meet.

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"I really enjoy a good couples meet, but I've had a couple of bad ones where she was doing it for him. I look now for long term stable couples who have been swinging for a while and where the female leads the arrangements. I also try to ensure that all three of us are involved in the play as much as possible.

Being fucked by him while your face deep in her is incredibly hot. It's one of my favourite ways of swinging."

That’s exactly what I do. My man has never even been on fab! I had to set him up a Kik so we could have a group chat and after that arrangement came and went he deleted it! Haha

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"In our case I am certainly "into it" as much as my partner. We mainly play in clubs and while MMF, MMMF etc fun is easy to arrange, MFF is much harder, not surprisingly because of the shortage of single women. I would love to find a lovely lady to share the fun with us, but I can also understand why many single women are wary of couples. They probably worry that they will be treated as just an additional plaything rather than as an equal participant with their own needs. Not sure what the solution might be."

Yes I suppose that would be a concern. Although to be fair the other woman usually gets a lot of attention. You being all shiny and new and that

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"You only have to do a quick search to see that lots and lots and lots of bi fems meet couples "

Perhaps I need to come back to the Midlands then. Seem scarce on the south coast haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only have to do a quick search to see that lots and lots and lots of bi fems meet couples

Perhaps I need to come back to the Midlands then. Seem scarce on the south coast haha "

Would be nice to see more pics of Mr in the public gallery. Give women a better idea of both of you.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Seems to be that a lot of couples are struggling to find a lady to join them for threesome fun, ourselves included.

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"You only have to do a quick search to see that lots and lots and lots of bi fems meet couples

Perhaps I need to come back to the Midlands then. Seem scarce on the south coast haha

Would be nice to see more pics of Mr in the public gallery. Give women a better idea of both of you."

That’s a very good point! Although he’s reluctant to include face pic on the public page because of work etc. Like most I guess. But you’re right I have plenty of pics of him looking pretty fine and can just cut his head off! Haha don’t tell him I said that

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Seems to be that a lot of couples are struggling to find a lady to join them for threesome fun, ourselves included. "

Yes it seems to be hard work. Well I’ve fixed the ‘no photos of the Mr’ problem. So hopefully gives people a better idea of both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I definitely like to see good clear pics of the Mr too - but the clincher is definitely being attracted to both..

It’s hard work for us unicorns too sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's never much of the man to go by and he usually just wants to watch, or it's soft swing only.

Don’t get me wrong I’m not totally put off by the idea of another couple where both parties want to play but as river said above in that scenario I’d need to get to know the guy/couple and be comfortable therefore social first and it may not happen. I hate the idea of messing people about"

There's nothing to stop anyone getting to know both of the couple.

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Personally, I definitely like to see good clear pics of the Mr too - but the clincher is definitely being attracted to both..

It’s hard work for us unicorns too sometimes "

Haha yes I can imagine it is. I’ve been that unicorn once and omg it was hard work. I understand the avoidance of couples because of drama. Had a lot of that when I joined a couple when I was single.

I’ve tried to add more pics of the Mr and will also send face pics on request.

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