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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What you think ? Are we cuckolds real men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Who gets to define what a "real man" is anyway?

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be confident enough to not let jealousy ruin your relationship takes courage.

Just because you take pleasure from being humiliated by your wife and her chosen lover, that doesn't make you weak or less of a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately he is as in control of the situation as his Wife, so yes he is a real man.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Absolutely...

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"To be confident enough to not let jealousy ruin your relationship takes courage.

Just because you take pleasure from being humiliated by your wife and her chosen lover, that doesn't make you weak or less of a man."

Absolutely

My husband allows me to control his sexuality in order to ensure I am happy. Makes him more of a man in my book!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy to be educated on this but I really struggle to see the appeal of being cuckolded, presumably by someone I care about.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"I am happy to be educated on this but I really struggle to see the appeal of being cuckolded, presumably by someone I care about. "

Not cuckolding per se, but chastity works for us as slave values our relationship more than his sexual release. It modifies his behaviour and keeps him very aware of my needs, my happiness and makes him think with his head not his cock. It also means we communicate much better and discuss everything in a way we never used to.It may not be for everyone, but it works for us. Slave will also tell you it keeps him more focusses in other areas of life, like at work.

Regarding cuckolding. Because our relationship makes me confident, frees me up from worrying about some day to day stresses, makes me feel valued and respected, makes me feel desired....a natural progression turns me into a fiesty, uninhibited and really rather filthy sex goddess, which my husband enjoys seeing me enjoy!

In turn, this fuels his tease and denial, which fuels his eagerness to please me! He will also tell you just how addictive that level of frustration is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in think it emasculates men , i woudnt meet a cuckold husband for this reason , im attracted to masculinity and for me men who are cucks loses something for me , just my opinion and how my mind works

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

i would say yes and no

I mean they can be when not kept sexually frustrated

but generally NO

us cucks are not really men

there are real men on here

and there are males on here

two different things in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you think ? Are we cuckolds real men ? "

Are you looking for a little bit of humiliation? Would like to hear about "real" men fucking your wife?

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"To be confident enough to not let jealousy ruin your relationship takes courage.

Just because you take pleasure from being humiliated by your wife and her chosen lover, that doesn't make you weak or less of a man."

In fact imo it makes you stronger and stable than most vanilla relationships but then I'm getting into the realms of judgemental labelling like the OP phill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny how cuckold is talked about still as humiliation based (its not) all it mean's is to allow another man to seed your wife ..that apart..my hubs love playing the cuck but not in a full time role for him its about escapism hes a dom guy in everyday life but loves me to take control via our sex life and control I take its like a light switch and so horny to see my man go from dom to cuck.. he like's me locking his cock away while I meet he likes me maybe tell him to put a pair of knickers on and stocking but its not humiliation its about control...then when my meet has gone I unreleased the beast and have the best fucks ever ..so is my man a man hell yes every single inch of him ....but saying that so is the guys who cuck what ever way they play a guy who can let go and trust is always going to be a man in my books ...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I don’t get the whole humiliation thing , not one bit .

I also don’t get the whole denial thing , not one bit .

But I happily get off seeing my wife with other guys , I love that and don’t feel I’m less of a man because I enjoy this .

Plenty of people don’t get that , not one bit .

Hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get the whole humiliation thing , not one bit .

I also don’t get the whole denial thing , not one bit .

But I happily get off seeing my wife with other guys , I love that and don’t feel I’m less of a man because I enjoy this .

Plenty of people don’t get that , not one bit .

Hey ho "

Agreed - and she knows it. It's Win/Win/Win play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define: real man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding does not itself involve humiliation or chastity. My wife loves to fuck other guys and I love to watch her enjoying them. I would not tolerate anyone trying to humiliate me or telling me I couldn't join in (if I wanted).

We still class ourselves as a cuckold couple. So am I a real man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading this thread I realise I’m a cuckold

Love to see my partners being fucked by other men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah real meanies the lot of em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you think ? Are we cuckolds real men ?

Are you looking for a little bit of humiliation? Would like to hear about "real" men fucking your wife? "

For sure, fishing for virtual humiliation again...

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By *luttyzoeTV/TS
over a year ago

Lutterworth

Yes they are real men , honest and open no lies and totally secure with themselves and their partner, it’s not all about chastity or humiliation, it’s about letting your partner have fun if they wish , legalised adultery if you want but without the cloak and dagger of a hidden affair , that’s what finishes relationships the lies and deceit, where as if it’s open and honest then it makes a better relationship surely

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk


"After reading this thread I realise I’m a cuckold

Love to see my partners being fucked by other men "

Look up hot wife husband or stag. You might be one of them.

I’m all three a cuck a stag and a hot wife husband. Depending on mind set and circumstances

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk

A stag

Sexually straight man who encourages his wife or girlfriend to also fuck other men. A stag proudly shares his woman without being himself denied, humiliated, or sissified, nor does he engage in any bi-play with the other man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happy to be educated on this but I really struggle to see the appeal of being cuckolded, presumably by someone I care about.

Not cuckolding per se, but chastity works for us as slave values our relationship more than his sexual release. It modifies his behaviour and keeps him very aware of my needs, my happiness and makes him think with his head not his cock. It also means we communicate much better and discuss everything in a way we never used to.It may not be for everyone, but it works for us. Slave will also tell you it keeps him more focusses in other areas of life, like at work.

Regarding cuckolding. Because our relationship makes me confident, frees me up from worrying about some day to day stresses, makes me feel valued and respected, makes me feel desired....a natural progression turns me into a fiesty, uninhibited and really rather filthy sex goddess, which my husband enjoys seeing me enjoy!

In turn, this fuels his tease and denial, which fuels his eagerness to please me! Hve will also tell you just how addictive that level of frustration is!

"

You forgot to mention love!

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

Too many boxes for people to be put in. We are all different

Am I man because I play rugby. Drink Guinness. Protect my family whatever the threat. And like driving fast cars.

Or because nothing pleases me more than seeing my queen having amazing fun and enjoying watching it all. And as part the scene it may be some "humiliation " but its after when all have gone and your together is the special time.

Not as eloquent as I wished but that's our input xx

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london


"After reading this thread I realise I’m a cuckold

Love to see my partners being fucked by other men

Look up hot wife husband or stag. You might be one of them.

I’m all three a cuck a stag and a hot wife husband. Depending on mind set and circumstances "

And meant to say. Well said sir

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

And winner for 'thread most likely to wind this feminist up' goes to the OP.

Sorry to get all political, but here goes...

If you get off on humiliation by being told you're not a 'real' man then fill your boots amongst yourselves.

But to start a thread asking if men who like xxxx aren't real men? Yeah that's just becomes patriarchy at its finest.

Do you want to know what real men are?

Any man who identifies as such. Real men are submissive or dominant, bi or straight or even asexual. They cry or hold back the tears, they express themselves and enjoy themselves how ever they damn well choose.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"I am happy to be educated on this but I really struggle to see the appeal of being cuckolded, presumably by someone I care about.

Not cuckolding per se, but chastity works for us as slave values our relationship more than his sexual release. It modifies his behaviour and keeps him very aware of my needs, my happiness and makes him think with his head not his cock. It also means we communicate much better and discuss everything in a way we never used to.It may not be for everyone, but it works for us. Slave will also tell you it keeps him more focusses in other areas of life, like at work.

Regarding cuckolding. Because our relationship makes me confident, frees me up from worrying about some day to day stresses, makes me feel valued and respected, makes me feel desired....a natural progression turns me into a fiesty, uninhibited and really rather filthy sex goddess, which my husband enjoys seeing me enjoy!

In turn, this fuels his tease and denial, which fuels his eagerness to please me! Hve will also tell you just how addictive that level of frustration is!

You forgot to mention love!"

I love my husband being in chastity and I love being a hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it makes them more of a man. Whatever that means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happy to be educated on this but I really struggle to see the appeal of being cuckolded, presumably by someone I care about.

Not cuckolding per se, but chastity works for us as slave values our relationship more than his sexual release. It modifies his behaviour and keeps him very aware of my needs, my happiness and makes him think with his head not his cock. It also means we communicate much better and discuss everything in a way we never used to.It may not be for everyone, but it works for us. Slave will also tell you it keeps him more focusses in other areas of life, like at work.

Regarding cuckolding. Because our relationship makes me confident, frees me up from worrying about some day to day stresses, makes me feel valued and respected, makes me feel desired....a natural progression turns me into a fiesty, uninhibited and really rather filthy sex goddess, which my husband enjoys seeing me enjoy!

In turn, this fuels his tease and denial, which fuels his eagerness to please me! Hve will also tell you just how addictive that level of frustration is!

You forgot to mention love!

I love my husband being in chastity and I love being a hotwife "

I see..........no I don’t Really!

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"I am happy to be educated on this but I really struggle to see the appeal of being cuckolded, presumably by someone I care about.

Not cuckolding per se, but chastity works for us as slave values our relationship more than his sexual release. It modifies his behaviour and keeps him very aware of my needs, my happiness and makes him think with his head not his cock. It also means we communicate much better and discuss everything in a way we never used to.It may not be for everyone, but it works for us. Slave will also tell you it keeps him more focusses in other areas of life, like at work.

Regarding cuckolding. Because our relationship makes me confident, frees me up from worrying about some day to day stresses, makes me feel valued and respected, makes me feel desired....a natural progression turns me into a fiesty, uninhibited and really rather filthy sex goddess, which my husband enjoys seeing me enjoy!

In turn, this fuels his tease and denial, which fuels his eagerness to please me! Hve will also tell you just how addictive that level of frustration is!

You forgot to mention love!

I love my husband being in chastity and I love being a hotwife

I see..........no I don’t Really!"

What would you like explaining?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All men are real men, it’s like the daft saying real women have curves.

Do I understand it, not really. I get the arrangement that the wife fucking others is a possible turn on but that’s where it ends.

Like any relationship it’s all in the dynamics between the people involved, for some this will be a healthy addition to their sex life for others it won’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happy to be educated on this but I really struggle to see the appeal of being cuckolded, presumably by someone I care about.

Not cuckolding per se, but chastity works for us as slave values our relationship more than his sexual release. It modifies his behaviour and keeps him very aware of my needs, my happiness and makes him think with his head not his cock. It also means we communicate much better and discuss everything in a way we never used to.It may not be for everyone, but it works for us. Slave will also tell you it keeps him more focusses in other areas of life, like at work.

Regarding cuckolding. Because our relationship makes me confident, frees me up from worrying about some day to day stresses, makes me feel valued and respected, makes me feel desired....a natural progression turns me into a fiesty, uninhibited and really rather filthy sex goddess, which my husband enjoys seeing me enjoy!

In turn, this fuels his tease and denial, which fuels his eagerness to please me! Hve will also tell you just how addictive that level of frustration is!

You forgot to mention love!

I love my husband being in chastity and I love being a hotwife

I see..........no I don’t Really!

What would you like explaining?"

Explaining? Nothing at all.

I just didn’t see an6 reference to love in your narrative.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast


"funny how cuckold is talked about still as humiliation based (its not) all it mean's is to allow another man to seed your wife ..that apart..my hubs love playing the cuck but not in a full time role for him its about escapism hes a dom guy in everyday life but loves me to take control via our sex life and control I take its like a light switch and so horny to see my man go from dom to cuck.. he like's me locking his cock away while I meet he likes me maybe tell him to put a pair of knickers on and stocking but its not humiliation its about control...then when my meet has gone I unreleased the beast and have the best fucks ever ..so is my man a man hell yes every single inch of him ....but saying that so is the guys who cuck what ever way they play a guy who can let go and trust is always going to be a man in my books ... "

Perfectly said and as the lucky guy to have been the third in a similar relationship...it's actually very horny to see the couple re kindle

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"All men are real men, it’s like the daft saying real women have curves.

Do I understand it, not really. I get the arrangement that the wife fucking others is a possible turn on but that’s where it ends.

Like any relationship it’s all in the dynamics between the people involved, for some this will be a healthy addition to their sex life for others it won’t.

"

I concur - and for my thoughts (and experience) on this matter; you may with to read this:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/733988

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry


"I am happy to be educated on this but I really struggle to see the appeal of being cuckolded, presumably by someone I care about.

Not cuckolding per se, but chastity works for us as slave values our relationship more than his sexual release. It modifies his behaviour and keeps him very aware of my needs, my happiness and makes him think with his head not his cock. It also means we communicate much better and discuss everything in a way we never used to.It may not be for everyone, but it works for us. Slave will also tell you it keeps him more focusses in other areas of life, like at work.

Regarding cuckolding. Because our relationship makes me confident, frees me up from worrying about some day to day stresses, makes me feel valued and respected, makes me feel desired....a natural progression turns me into a fiesty, uninhibited and really rather filthy sex goddess, which my husband enjoys seeing me enjoy!

In turn, this fuels his tease and denial, which fuels his eagerness to please me! He will also tell you just how addictive that level of frustration is!

"
. Wow ...... Very we'll put if I may say and he is a very lucky man

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney

Why would doing something that you enjoy make you any less a man. We all need to escape from the trials and tribulations of life and if that is your thing then good for you. Keep on doing what you enjoy.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country


"To be confident enough to not let jealousy ruin your relationship takes courage.

Just because you take pleasure from being humiliated by your wife and her chosen lover, that doesn't make you weak or less of a man."

This

Ss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find men that choose to cuckold the most secure and relaxed guys. They have always been super confident and more often than not are in high performing job roles.

Of course, this all depends of your interpretation of a “real man”...

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"I am happy to be educated on this but I really struggle to see the appeal of being cuckolded, presumably by someone I care about.

Not cuckolding per se, but chastity works for us as slave values our relationship more than his sexual release. It modifies his behaviour and keeps him very aware of my needs, my happiness and makes him think with his head not his cock. It also means we communicate much better and discuss everything in a way we never used to.It may not be for everyone, but it works for us. Slave will also tell you it keeps him more focusses in other areas of life, like at work.

Regarding cuckolding. Because our relationship makes me confident, frees me up from worrying about some day to day stresses, makes me feel valued and respected, makes me feel desired....a natural progression turns me into a fiesty, uninhibited and really rather filthy sex goddess, which my husband enjoys seeing me enjoy!

In turn, this fuels his tease and denial, which fuels his eagerness to please me! Hve will also tell you just how addictive that level of frustration is!

You forgot to mention love!

I love my husband being in chastity and I love being a hotwife

I see..........no I don’t Really!

What would you like explaining?

Explaining? Nothing at all.

I just didn’t see an6 reference to love in your narrative. "

There are many elements of our marriage I don't discuss in my narrative! I also dont really discuss power, our FLR lifestyle or our BDSM element. This was not what was being discussed! Anyone who has met us will never deny that our marriage is absolutely full of love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever the mental stimulation may be I am not sure permanent sexual frustration is good physically or mentally for a guy... I know going without sex brings me down.

I am confused here. Do these wives who fuck other men all the time ever make love to their husband?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"Whatever the mental stimulation may be I am not sure permanent sexual frustration is good physically or mentally for a guy... I know going without sex brings me down.

I am confused here. Do these wives who fuck other men all the time ever make love to their husband? "

Its choice.

I never fuck my husband, he is allowed to pleasure me without his cock with my permission. These sessions are far more 'love making' than sex ever was.

Slave actually has a massive downer if he is allowed to orgasm. Our hormones differ between the sexes.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?"

give the man a blow job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!"

Can your cuck watch?

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"What you think ? Are we cuckolds real men ? "

I have met a few couples over the years.

Most enjoyed different degrees of cuckolding,but only ever met one couple who I would consider the husband a true cuckold,(cockcage)me the a key holder he also liked his cleaning duties.

All the guys were great and what's a 'real'man anyway?

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!

Can your cuck watch?"

He can be snowballed your load

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look up the definition of cuckolding, it’s simply a man who gets turned on watching another man fuck his wife. That’s it, pure and simple. Nothing about humiliation, cleaning up etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!

Can your cuck watch?

He can be snowballed your load "

And there it is! Who's serving who?

A most mutually satisfying outcome that would be! I'll round soon then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't see the turn on or attraction of being a cuckold. My instincts are to play and pleasure women and not watch another man fuck my wife without me being involved.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

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"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!

Can your cuck watch?

He can be snowballed your load

And there it is! Who's serving who?

A most mutually satisfying outcome that would be! I'll round soon then? "

Why does anyone need to be 'serving?' Surely its just a mutually benefitting arrangement for a group of consenting adults?

I will have slave pop the kettle on and 'serve' us a coffee

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been secretly into the idea of being a cuck for ages. I never thought my partner knew until she was out one night and sent me a selfie of her in alley with a mouthful of cock.

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over a year ago


"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!

Can your cuck watch?

He can be snowballed your load

And there it is! Who's serving who?

A most mutually satisfying outcome that would be! I'll round soon then?

Why does anyone need to be 'serving?' Surely its just a mutually benefitting arrangement for a group of consenting adults?

I will have slave pop the kettle on and 'serve' us a coffee "

That's what I mean. It's not really serving. It's more a reciprocal arrangement than anything!

Have him do me a few sandwiches too. I'm feeding you two after all.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

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"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!

Can your cuck watch?

He can be snowballed your load

And there it is! Who's serving who?

A most mutually satisfying outcome that would be! I'll round soon then?

Why does anyone need to be 'serving?' Surely its just a mutually benefitting arrangement for a group of consenting adults?

I will have slave pop the kettle on and 'serve' us a coffee

That's what I mean. It's not really serving. It's more a reciprocal arrangement than anything!

Have him do me a few sandwiches too. I'm feeding you two after all.

"

Sure, you have a deal! Give us a couple of hours.... my 'not a real man' husband is on the drive in the rain putting new brakes on the Mistress Mobile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you think ? Are we cuckolds real men ? "

You could be a right "sissy" in a cuckold play scenario.

But an alpha male in " real life "

No rules are set in stone.

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over a year ago


"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!

Can your cuck watch?

He can be snowballed your load

And there it is! Who's serving who?

A most mutually satisfying outcome that would be! I'll round soon then?

Why does anyone need to be 'serving?' Surely its just a mutually benefitting arrangement for a group of consenting adults?

I will have slave pop the kettle on and 'serve' us a coffee

That's what I mean. It's not really serving. It's more a reciprocal arrangement than anything!

Have him do me a few sandwiches too. I'm feeding you two after all.

Sure, you have a deal! Give us a couple of hours.... my 'not a real man' husband is on the drive in the rain putting new brakes on the Mistress Mobile!

"

Acting all macho is he? Haha!

He can clean my car when I arrive then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be confident enough to not let jealousy ruin your relationship takes courage.

Just because you take pleasure from being humiliated by your wife and her chosen lover, that doesn't make you weak or less of a man.

This

Ss "

This is one of the aspects I don’t understand at all, taking pleasure from being put down. I guess I never will as it’s not a scenario that would make me comfortable, let alone turned on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can't see the turn on or attraction of being a cuckold. My instincts are to play and pleasure women and not watch another man fuck my wife without me being involved."

Each to their own!!

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely

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over a year ago


"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!

Can your cuck watch?

He can be snowballed your load

And there it is! Who's serving who?

A most mutually satisfying outcome that would be! I'll round soon then?

Why does anyone need to be 'serving?' Surely its just a mutually benefitting arrangement for a group of consenting adults?

I will have slave pop the kettle on and 'serve' us a coffee "

How many cups have you got?

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

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"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!

Can your cuck watch?

He can be snowballed your load

And there it is! Who's serving who?

A most mutually satisfying outcome that would be! I'll round soon then?

Why does anyone need to be 'serving?' Surely its just a mutually benefitting arrangement for a group of consenting adults?

I will have slave pop the kettle on and 'serve' us a coffee

How many cups have you got? "

As many as I have holes to fill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.

For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"

We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.

It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?

So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job?

give the man a blow job!

Can your cuck watch?

He can be snowballed your load

And there it is! Who's serving who?

A most mutually satisfying outcome that would be! I'll round soon then?

Why does anyone need to be 'serving?' Surely its just a mutually benefitting arrangement for a group of consenting adults?

I will have slave pop the kettle on and 'serve' us a coffee

How many cups have you got?

As many as I have holes to fill "

You'll have to bring a flask mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever the mental stimulation may be I am not sure permanent sexual frustration is good physically or mentally for a guy... I know going without sex brings me down.

I am confused here. Do these wives who fuck other men all the time ever make love to their husband?

Its choice.

I never fuck my husband, he is allowed to pleasure me without his cock with my permission. These sessions are far more 'love making' than sex ever was.

Slave actually has a massive downer if he is allowed to orgasm. Our hormones differ between the sexes. "

I can easily understand getting pleasure from watching my lover enjoying themself receiving pleasure; and have done so. However I struggle personally to view inflicting emotional pain, discomfort and humiliation on someone I love as a good thing, even if they want that.

It appears it is not unusual for men to suffer brief moments of depression after cuming.

Still its a very interesting world and each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you think ? Are we cuckolds real men ? "

Nope. They’re cardboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what the big thing is. Next time shes on a night out with a girl friends just drop a hint to one of them that youd love to see her with another guy. Im sure they would be more than happy to get her d*unk and persuade her to go go with another guy.

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By *luttyzoeTV/TS
over a year ago

Lutterworth

I think you have hit the nail on the head in your response without realising it , when she is fucking other men yes that’s exactly what she is doing, yet when with her man yes she is making love and with all the passion and closeness that the act brings

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By *luttyzoeTV/TS
over a year ago

Lutterworth

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By *luttyzoeTV/TS
over a year ago

Lutterworth


"Whatever the mental stimulation may be I am not sure permanent sexual frustration is good physically or mentally for a guy... I know going without sex brings me down.

I am confused here. Do these wives who fuck other men all the time ever make love to their husband? "

Yes and the answer is in your question they fuck the bulls but make love to their husband / partner there is a descreet but very important difference

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