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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious. What do people constitiute as safer/safer sex?

For me this extends as far as wearing rubber for oral - theoretically a low probability of getting something nasty but not impossible. Just thinking of open wounds like ulcers or bleeding gums is enough for me to rubber up.

So what do you guys and gals think of as safe? Or conversely, an acceptable risk?

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Every day life holds risk's and after chatting to our friendly GUM nurse, we only use condoms for penetration. Not really my thing sucking on a bit of rubber with stuff in the bottom what makes my lips go numb. Life is risky and as it is a slim chance, enjoy as much as life as possible. But always safe sex regards penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious. What do people constitiute as safer/safer sex?

For me this extends as far as wearing rubber for oral - theoretically a low probability of getting something nasty but not impossible. Just thinking of open wounds like ulcers or bleeding gums is enough for me to rubber up.

So what do you guys and gals think of as safe? Or conversely, an acceptable risk?

"

if i met soomeone who had bleeding gums i wouldnt be playing with them full stop

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds


"Just curious. What do people constitiute as safer/safer sex?

For me this extends as far as wearing rubber for oral - theoretically a low probability of getting something nasty but not impossible. Just thinking of open wounds like ulcers or bleeding gums is enough for me to rubber up.

So what do you guys and gals think of as safe? Or conversely, an acceptable risk?

if i met soomeone who had bleeding gums i wouldnt be playing with them full stop "

+1

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

leaving the house each day is a risk,we have to use our knoledge to determine what we consider be be an acceptable risk.

i only have unprotected sex with those i am fluid bonded with,however having researched the risk of contracting a std from oral i am willing to accept the small risk of not using condoms .i like giving bjs too much

Once you embark on a non monogomous sex life you are indulging in behaviour that is riskier...condoms are not magic...although they are the best option we currently have.If you swing you have to accept you are at risk though,and act accordingly,particually when it comes to regular tests and making sure any partner you have unprotected sex with is aware of your lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always use condoms and have checks but im unsure how regular you need to be checked? I dont tend to meet that many new people lately but how often would you get checked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just curious. What do people constitiute as safer/safer sex?

For me this extends as far as wearing rubber for oral - theoretically a low probability of getting something nasty but not impossible. Just thinking of open wounds like ulcers or bleeding gums is enough for me to rubber up.

So what do you guys and gals think of as safe? Or conversely, an acceptable risk?

if i met soomeone who had bleeding gums i wouldnt be playing with them full stop "

LOL yup hear what you are saying but sometimes its not as obvious as it might sound, I don't mean they have blood gushing out of their gums just a little, almost non visible e.g. after brushing teeth.

I guess I'm just risk averse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get checked every month but thats only because they have a drop in centre at chameleons every month on a monday, i go most mondays anyway so just makes sence to get tested while im there anyway

If you play safe and have no reason to think you may have something, like a condom coming off etc most go every 3 to 6 months just be be on the safe side

Personally i wouldnt leave it 6 months in this life style even if i hadnt had any accidents

Before they have the clinic at chams i used to go every 3 months i think thats usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious. What do people constitiute as safer/safer sex?

For me this extends as far as wearing rubber for oral - theoretically a low probability of getting something nasty but not impossible. Just thinking of open wounds like ulcers or bleeding gums is enough for me to rubber up.

So what do you guys and gals think of as safe? Or conversely, an acceptable risk?

if i met soomeone who had bleeding gums i wouldnt be playing with them full stop

LOL yup hear what you are saying but sometimes its not as obvious as it might sound, I don't mean they have blood gushing out of their gums just a little, almost non visible e.g. after brushing teeth.

I guess I'm just risk averse "

You do whats feels right for you

If you'd rather use protection for oral then you should, its your body and you protect it how you feel best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i tend to get checked about every 3 months.always get a call back to say ive got bv but as thats not an std and i know how to control it im fine

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I don't meet that many new people, but I always go every 3 months whether I've met someone new or not even played at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep a loaded 9mm under my pillow....that always makes me feel safe.

hehe

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Its all down to personal preference, I just dont like sucking a cock covered in a condom. That god dam spermiside just makes my lips do numb, which aint really good for giving a blow job xx

Like i already said life is full of risks, but its personal choice xx

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