FabSwingers.com forum: Soft play only meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

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By *haremoreMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some just don't like jam.

Each to their own,vanilla look down on us for being swingers,should we really put down others for preferring soft swing?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing. "

If you're not going to do it you don't need to understand. There's room for all tastes.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We don't understand Chinese writing

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Oh there’s lots of reasons. Some of them may be medical and people are unable to play fully, others may be finding their feet to see what they like and others it’s just a lifestyle choice.

I’ve been unable to play for a few weeks following an operation. I wasn’t sure if I would be able to play even once I had recovered post operative. Both men and women can have medical problems that mean that soft play is a preferred option.

I’ve had some great meets that were only ‘soft meets’ by definition that no penetrative sex took place. It didn’t lessen the experience and in fact probably lasted a lot longer and was certainly very enjoyable.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Some of our best meets have been soft play. It also depends on what level you take soft play to,if you get fulfilled orally you are not left frustrated.

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By *albec26Man
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

There's nothing wrong with soft play we've had some great meets like this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we started off as soft play only wifes rules anything goes except intercourse as that was left to us but then over time we started pushing our boundaries she would sit back an watch myself an the couple in full swap 3way next thing she wanted to try it an now we both get off watching each other fuck just stepping stones for us but then everyone is different in this game

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

We like all levels of play with couples from voyeur to full swap. Everything can be erotic and fun. If it’s established and agreed upfront then we have no problems playing within another couples boundaries. You have to start somewhere, we kind of jumped in the deepend some like to wade in more slowly lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe some just don't like jam.

Each to their own,vanilla look down on us for being swingers,should we really put down others for preferring soft swing?"

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

If you're not going to do it you don't need to understand. There's room for all tastes.

Bloody good quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing. "

Doughnuts are better without jam. You know, like the yummy ones you get at a fairground

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

If you're not going to do it you don't need to understand. There's room for all tastes.

Bloody good quote

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

Doughnuts are better without jam. You know, like the yummy ones you get at a fairground"

I don't like doughnuts at all. I'm doomed!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

Doughnuts are better without jam. You know, like the yummy ones you get at a fairground

I don't like doughnuts at all. I'm doomed!

I prefer doughrings. You bite in and there’s a hole!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh there’s lots of reasons. Some of them may be medical and people are unable to play fully, others may be finding their feet to see what they like and others it’s just a lifestyle choice.

I think that would make me more frustrated though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe some just don't like jam.

Each to their own,vanilla look down on us for being swingers,should we really put down others for preferring soft swing?"

Well said!

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Maybe some just don't like jam.

Each to their own,vanilla look down on us for being swingers,should we really put down others for preferring soft swing?"

IMO a lot of swingers are quite vanilla....despite even swapping partners.....non-vanilla is the really kinky stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish some of our meets had just been soft..would have been so much better hahah

But i agree..what is the pont of soft swing ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't understand Chinese writing "
haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really dont see how soft swinging is worth anybody's time

If all thats gonna happen is we fuck each other

We already fuck each other ..all the time ..and LOVE IT

We might as well stay home where we have all pur toys and dont have to travel

If we want to hear others fucking while we fuck i would put porn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe some just don't like jam.

Each to their own,vanilla look down on us for being swingers,should we really put down others for preferring soft swing?"

Absolutely agree. Swing and let swing, in whatever way makes you happy and doesn’t hurt others.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"We really dont see how soft swinging is worth anybody's time

If all thats gonna happen is we fuck each other

We already fuck each other ..all the time ..and LOVE IT

We might as well stay home where we have all pur toys and dont have to travel

If we want to hear others fucking while we fuck i would put porn on"

This

When we first started swinging together Mrs H said that she was happy to play but didn't want to fuck anyone else, so we were soft swing only. It only lasted a few months then we thought what's the point? Then a nice young Spanish guy we met in a club showed her the error of her ways.

Not long after I remember one night in a club when we were just going into a playroom. A guy said to us "do you want company or do you want to be alone?" Mrs H instantly replied "if I wanted to be alone I would have stayed at home"

He and another followed us in and she fucked them both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually cum from foreplay a lot better than from penetration so I wouldn’t be apposed to soft play only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about we compromise, I fuck your partner but you don't fuck mine.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I cum mostly through penetrative sex - so soft swing really isn’t for me.

No problem with those who prefer it as long as they tell me beforehand and let me make an informed choice!

What irks me is when couples wait until we get into a playroom and THEN tell me there’ll be no penetrative sex!

Previously I’ve carried on with play and left frustrated and a little annoyed / in future I’ll probably just explain it’s not really for me and leave the room!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm happy to accept that for a lot of people soft swing isn't something they want or would consider. I would never suggest that the way they choose to swing is pointless or a waste of time though even though for me it is.

If someone says soft swing only on their profile simply pass that profile by, it really is that straightforward.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Narrow minded people. Life is full of diverse folk. We love to see folk enjoying life no matter what their kink is. Nothing is pointless, everyone having a great time is what swinging is all about. Happy life everyone and always remember, things turn out best for people who make the most of the way things turn out

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By *tuntmuffinMan
over a year ago

BIRMINGHAM

What about doughnuts filled with custard?...

But well said, everyone to there own.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"What about doughnuts filled with custard?...

But well said, everyone to there own."

Custard? Mmmmmm! Now you’re talking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a soft play meet with someone from here and it was one of the hottest meets I’ve had and introduced me to the pleasures of a lubed up bum wank

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I had a soft play meet with someone from here and it was one of the hottest meets I’ve had and introduced me to the pleasures of a lubed up bum wank "

Did she tickle your prostate then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get it or the other extreme of no kissing!

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

If soft swing is what makes somebody happy then that's great, if full swap makes somebody happy then great. Isn't life for each of us to do what makes us happy? Not for me to say what makes somebody happy is pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

Doughnuts are better without jam. You know, like the yummy ones you get at a fairground

I don't like doughnuts at all. I'm doomed!

Oh go on, eat one for the team

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

Doughnuts are better without jam. You know, like the yummy ones you get at a fairground

I don't like doughnuts at all. I'm doomed!

Oh go on, eat one for the team

If I do will it make me doughnut-curious or just fully doughnut?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Don't get it or the other extreme of no kissing!

Lots of people don't get it. It's fine, nobody understands everyone's way of doing things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

Doughnuts are better without jam. You know, like the yummy ones you get at a fairground

I don't like doughnuts at all. I'm doomed!

Oh go on, eat one for the team

If I do will it make me doughnut-curious or just fully doughnut?

Even thinking about licking a doughnut will make you fully doughnut. And if you prefer thinking about licking a chocolate doughnut it makes you racist, too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

Doughnuts are better without jam. You know, like the yummy ones you get at a fairground

I don't like doughnuts at all. I'm doomed!

Oh go on, eat one for the team

If I do will it make me doughnut-curious or just fully doughnut?

Even thinking about licking a doughnut will make you fully doughnut. And if you prefer thinking about licking a chocolate doughnut it makes you racist, too. "

Oh dear. I think the best thing I can do then is accept that other people enjoy doughnuts in all their variations and be happy for them. I will continue to enjoy other forms of bakery items without impinging on their enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

Doughnuts are better without jam. You know, like the yummy ones you get at a fairground

I don't like doughnuts at all. I'm doomed!

Oh go on, eat one for the team

If I do will it make me doughnut-curious or just fully doughnut?

Even thinking about licking a doughnut will make you fully doughnut. And if you prefer thinking about licking a chocolate doughnut it makes you racist, too.

Sound thinking

(though beware perverteroles!)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t understand why people like these as singles. I do for couples as you can shag each other after.

It’s like biting into a doughnut and the jam is missing.

Doughnuts are better without jam. You know, like the yummy ones you get at a fairground

I don't like doughnuts at all. I'm doomed!

Oh go on, eat one for the team

If I do will it make me doughnut-curious or just fully doughnut?

Even thinking about licking a doughnut will make you fully doughnut. And if you prefer thinking about licking a chocolate doughnut it makes you racist, too.

Sound thinking

(though beware perverteroles!)"

or spotted Rick.

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