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.is there any honest women out there that actually wants to be treated like a women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surly lady's would like to be treated right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only surly ladies little ones do to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define treated right?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Are there?

Women = more than one woman.

Woman = just the one woman.

And yes, I'm positive there are plenty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surly lady's would like to be treated right

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And by treated right, you mean displaying half their face as your profile picture

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that was solely what I wanted then I’d be on a site where I’d swipe left/right, not on a site where I’m admitting I have an appetite for casual sex

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Depends on the scenario.

Sometimes I like to be manhandled a bit and called a s**t too

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Being treated like a woman here sometimes means being objectified, pigeonholed and used. Is that what you mean OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that was solely what I wanted then I’d be on a site where I’d swipe left/right, not on a site where I’m admitting I have an appetite for casual sex"

looool I think the subject is total and utter crap lol doesn't make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surly lady's would like to be treated right

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Maybe they are surly because they have been treated wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being treated like a woman here sometimes means being objectified, pigeonholed and used. Is that wha

t you mean OP?"

No I mean made to feel special wined and dined yes this is a swingers site and we are on here for one reason but surely women like to be treated like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been for food and drink before sex. It's ok, but partially digested food reflux isn't nice when you're having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already know I'm special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If that was solely what I wanted then I’d be on a site where I’d swipe left/right, not on a site where I’m admitting I have an appetite for casual sex"

I get that and yes we are here for one reason well it's a turn on for me to treat a women and make them feel special surely if you do when do have a shag it's that much better every one likes feeling special

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Being treated like a woman here sometimes means being objectified, pigeonholed and used. Is that wha

t you mean OP?

No I mean made to feel special wined and dined yes this is a swingers site and we are on here for one reason but surely women like to be treated like that

"

Really? How about we all like to be treated in different ways, just like men do.

If your ideal swinging scenario is meeting a woman for a meal and drinks before playing then go for it, but for other women that will be the last thing they want to do and that doesn’t mean they don’t want to be treated with any less respect.

On a personal level, I don’t drink, have a restricted diet and would rather spend that sort of time with a regular playmate or friends and family, not the bloke I’m about to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that was solely what I wanted then I’d be on a site where I’d swipe left/right, not on a site where I’m admitting I have an appetite for casual sex

I get that and yes we are here for one reason well it's a turn on for me to treat a women and make them feel special surely if you do when do have a shag it's that much better every one likes feeling special"

Wine and dine all you want, call it a shag, and it wouldnt be happening.

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be wined and dined by my partner. It doesn't happen often due to money restrictions but I don't mind.

When it comes to fab we are simply here for a bit of fun and sexual play. We aren't here to make friends or go for dinner and such. We have no qualms with being friendly and stuff, especially with people We have already met but going for dinner, coffee or drinks etc. With fab meets is not something we do. So being wined and dined on here is something we don't do and don't want to do.

It's not that I don't like being treated like a "woman" to assume not enjoying being treated like this makes you any less of a woman is beyond me and I don't see doing these as treating a lady as a woman but simply having a social.

~Mia

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Being treated like a woman here sometimes means being objectified, pigeonholed and used. Is that wha

t you mean OP?

No I mean made to feel special wined and dined yes this is a swingers site and we are on here for one reason but surely women like to be treated like that

Really? How about we all like to be treated in different ways, just like men do.

If your ideal swinging scenario is meeting a woman for a meal and drinks before playing then go for it, but for other women that will be the last thing they want to do and that doesn’t mean they don’t want to be treated with any less respect.

On a personal level, I don’t drink, have a restricted diet and would rather spend that sort of time with a regular playmate or friends and family, not the bloke I’m about to fuck."

100% this. I don’t want a date & this isn’t Tinder!! If I want to play with you, I want to play. If you’re my friend, I’ll spend time with you.

This is why club meets are so much easier!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that was solely what I wanted then I’d be on a site where I’d swipe left/right, not on a site where I’m admitting I have an appetite for casual sex

I get that and yes we are here for one reason well it's a turn on for me to treat a women and make them feel special surely if you do when do have a shag it's that much better every one likes feeling special

Wine and dine all you want, call it a shag, and it wouldnt be happening.

Poppy"

AMEN!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that's cleared that up just be roofles then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all the wining and dining and know that a lot of men here do too. Of course there are those who just want to hook up for nsa fun but that's the great thing about FAB , there's something for everyone.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well that's cleared that up just be roofles then "

Do you mean ruthless? Why would you be ruthless, that won’t get you anywhere.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I love all the wining and dining and know that a lot of men here do too. Of course there are those who just want to hook up for nsa fun but that's the great thing about FAB , there's something for everyone. "

...and there’s a whole work of other things in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love all the wining and dining and know that a lot of men here do too. Of course there are those who just want to hook up for nsa fun but that's the great thing about FAB , there's something for everyone. "

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja."

To be fair there's not a lot I wouldn't do for some tapas and a mediocre rioja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think OP you are being a bit forward...

First meet coffee

Second meet fuck

If you get to third meet then perhaps dinner would be acceptable

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Surly lady's would like to be treated right

And by treated right, you mean displaying half their face as your profile picture

Poppy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's a pretty safe bet that women want to be treated like women. Unless they're into that reverse CD malarky...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve moved on from 1950’s mentality of wine & dine = treating ‘em like a lady

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think op you would be refering to the "Girlfriend experience" something past the instant gratification of a nsa meet?

You have to remember though that yes there will be women out there that appreciate this approach as there will also be ones who would run for the hills at the the thought of a meal with a stranger.

Just because you don't always get the answer you want doesn't mean you should stop looking for what works for you...but perhaps pay attention to your wording

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Surly lady's would like to be treated right

And by treated right, you mean displaying half their face as your profile picture

Poppy

"

Yes not very gentlemanly

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By *lue-eyes-35Woman
over a year ago

durham


"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja."

This !!!!

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Surly lady's would like to be treated right

"

I'm not so sure. I've met many a surly lady and every attempt to soften their demeanour has been met with a very curt reaction.

You're better off focusing on friendly, amiable ladies; you might have more success. Unless of course a challenge is your 'thing'.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

What one person thinks as treating somebody right can be very different to what another person person think it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja.

This !!!! "

I mean I would love some tapas brought for me, but I do completely agree with this. It creates pressure to carry out 'activities'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja.

This !!!!

I mean I would love some tapas brought for me, but I do completely agree with this. It creates pressure to carry out 'activities'..."

I am not dropping my kecks for a ritz cracker and a mouldy olive.... but I may for the right smile

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Depends on the scenario.

Sometimes I like to be manhandled a bit and called a s**t too"
As do most of the ladies I’ve played with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja.

To be fair there's not a lot I wouldn't do for some tapas and a mediocre rioja"

Maybe I should be 'wining and dining' you then...I have a list..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surly lady's would like to be treated right

And by treated right, you mean displaying half their face as your profile picture

Poppy"
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