FabSwingers.com forum: Cannot accommodate. Cannot travel. Why on fab?

By *ieutenant OP Man
over a year ago

london

Have you come across profile with i can't accommodate or travel?Sound bizarre in my eyes.For people with disabilities and children to look after.l understand their predicaments.l wonder how you meet people if can't accommodate or travel reasonable distance.You think this is a ploy to discourage people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could mean they live in a tiny static caravan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or like hotel meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can meet locally so dont need to travel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might just need picking up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to blow the minds of those easily confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Sounds bizarre in your eyes' ?? Haha...classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they share their living space and don't drive? Local hotel could be the answer. Ask them if interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you come across profile with i can't accommodate or travel?Sound bizarre in my eyes.For people with disabilities and children to look after.l understand their predicaments.l wonder how you meet people if can't accommodate or travel reasonable distance.You think this is a ploy to discourage people? "

Yes...its a ploy.

And it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing bizarre about it at all...many people have that on their profile, i do, its never been a problem...numerous threads have been done on this..if it bothers you, why not ask them their reasons..or better still, just ignore those profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/03/18 13:10:56]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

This comes up all the time. All you need to do is apply common sense. The answer is their.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate but I won't - no way I'd let anyone off this site in my street.

I can travel but if I tick the box, people assume that means I'll travel 200 miles to give them a bj.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Many people take travel to mean across the width of the country.

In my case it means I won't travel 200 miles for a mediocre fuck, but am happy to travel to my local club.

For others it can mean they are willing to travel across town, possible because they can only use public transport but not 50 miles.

Or go to a local hotel 5 minutes away.

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By *ush12345Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

I won't travel! As I don't want to be far from my children.. I won't accommodate as I have children! Nore would I have a stranger in my home, near them! Yes I can travel, but don't need to, nor do I need to accommodate. As I only seek out men who can local to me! It's what suits the individual.. That's why we are on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't travel! As I don't want to be far from my children.. I won't accommodate as I have children! Nore would I have a stranger in my home, near them! Yes I can travel, but don't need to, nor do I need to accommodate. As I only seek out men who can local to me! It's what suits the individual.. That's why we are on fab!

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is so the hunted become the hunters.

They will make exceptions to suit their circumstances, not yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually presume it means they will only meet people who are very local to them.

I don't think that is odd or unusual.

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By *ush12345Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

"It is so the hunted become the hunters.

They will make exceptions to suit their circumstances, not yours

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this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have kids I'm not having every Tom dick or Harry in my house

And I don't drive so it's where I can get to easily for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It astounds me that this confuses so many people. It's not hard to work out really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree to a point but everyone has there own right and how to live it, but lots of people look at it that they got something to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be in jail.... just a thought

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Are not looking to meet strangers alone?

Are here for parties or the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommadate but never on a first meeting. A few yesrs ago i invited a single lady to come here after chatting but lived to regret it. After the first few minutes she started talking about money for sex and it became obvious that she was an escort using fab as a pick up site. I never have paid for sex , never will so declined and asked her to leave. Which she did. Minutes later a large stone came through my front window. Ran outsite but she was driving off. A rather expensive way to find out that not everyone on here are what they seem. So social first everytime for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might be in jail.... just a thought

i.e. unhappily married!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I use it as a filter

Doesn't mean to say I won't travel for the right person

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Or like hotel meets?"

you still have to travel for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can accommodate but I won't - no way I'd let anyone off this site in my street.

I can travel but if I tick the box, people assume that means I'll travel 200 miles to give them a bj.

What the good lady said.

I unticked the can travel box as got fed up with stupid travel demands.

I prefer to meet locally anyway.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Or like hotel meets?

you still have to travel for a meet."

To me ‘can travel’ suggests travel to the other party. I ‘travel’ to my local club & will only meet there. So I’m not accommodating & I’m not travelling to someone else either!

I think the point is that it’s not quite as back & white as the OP thought!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why should people accommodate or travel distance and why should you ask why? Just accept it’s their choice OP.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I meet by chance in clubs. So that's why it's on my profile. I enjoy fab to keep up with friends and events, and chat in the forums, I don't meet people anywhere else therefore I don't travel to anybody, and I don't accommodate.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"It could mean they live in a tiny static caravan"

But surely meeting there would be classed as accommodating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might be in jail.... just a thought

i.e. unhappily married!"

Don't have that problem anymore

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Its to connect with people in clubs for us - our home is private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah hotel and club meets usually.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

Exactly

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

But they never have a profile that says in the text:

"I put can't accommodate, and don't travel, but will happily meet in a local hotel, or a local swingers club"

Why don't they put that?

Because they are not serious. Just like the ones who put:

"Not meeting. Just here to chat".

It's a swingers site, not a chat site.

Just another example of a timewaster, who wants to be flattered online, but will never meet.

Or in modern terminology -

A Fake Swinger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may be exhibitionist and just want to show themselves off, there’s the social side too

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"But they never have a profile that says in the text:

"I put can't accommodate, and don't travel, but will happily meet in a local hotel, or a local swingers club"

Why don't they put that?

Because they are not serious. Just like the ones who put:

"Not meeting. Just here to chat".

It's a swingers site, not a chat site.

Just another example of a timewaster, who wants to be flattered online, but will never meet.

Or in modern terminology -

A Fake Swinger!"

Perhaps people like us 'fake swingers' have already met a nice group of people without entitled attitudes and are choosing to use the site to keep in touch with them and use the forums.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"But they never have a profile that says in the text:

"I put can't accommodate, and don't travel, but will happily meet in a local hotel, or a local swingers club"

Why don't they put that?

Because they are not serious. Just like the ones who put:

"Not meeting. Just here to chat".

It's a swingers site, not a chat site.

Just another example of a timewaster, who wants to be flattered online, but will never meet.

Or in modern terminology -

A Fake Swinger!

Perhaps people like us 'fake swingers' have already met a nice group of people without entitled attitudes and are choosing to use the site to keep in touch with them and use the forums. "

Heaven forbid hey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But they never have a profile that says in the text:

"I put can't accommodate, and don't travel, but will happily meet in a local hotel, or a local swingers club"

Why don't they put that?

Because they are not serious. Just like the ones who put:

"Not meeting. Just here to chat".

It's a swingers site, not a chat site.

Just another example of a timewaster, who wants to be flattered online, but will never meet.

Or in modern terminology -

A Fake Swinger!"

Quite right! You tell em! Ferkin fake swingers, running their profiles any way they see fit. Throw em off the site!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"But they never have a profile that says in the text:

"I put can't accommodate, and don't travel, but will happily meet in a local hotel, or a local swingers club"

Why don't they put that?

Because they are not serious. Just like the ones who put:

"Not meeting. Just here to chat".

It's a swingers site, not a chat site.

Just another example of a timewaster, who wants to be flattered online, but will never meet.

Or in modern terminology -

A Fake Swinger!

Quite right! You tell em! Ferkin fake swingers, running their profiles any way they see fit. Throw em off the site!"

* wanders off site tearfully *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to blow the minds of those easily confused

Bugger...wasn't my mind I wanted blown.

hehehe

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I like to blow the minds of those easily confused

Bugger...wasn't my mind I wanted blown.

hehehe"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate and travel. I change it regularly depending on what mood i’m in. I tend to meet at clubs or maybe hotel though. Depends ... right person and all that lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I can do both but up to me who I have in my home, that's why it says I don't accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But they never have a profile that says in the text:

"I put can't accommodate, and don't travel, but will happily meet in a local hotel, or a local swingers club"

Why don't they put that?

Because they are not serious. Just like the ones who put:

"Not meeting. Just here to chat".

It's a swingers site, not a chat site.

Just another example of a timewaster, who wants to be flattered online, but will never meet.

Or in modern terminology -

A Fake Swinger!"

What is a real swinger?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"But they never have a profile that says in the text:

"I put can't accommodate, and don't travel, but will happily meet in a local hotel, or a local swingers club"

Why don't they put that?

Because they are not serious. Just like the ones who put:

"Not meeting. Just here to chat".

It's a swingers site, not a chat site.

Just another example of a timewaster, who wants to be flattered online, but will never meet.

Or in modern terminology -

A Fake Swinger!

What is a real swinger? "

I'm guessing someone that drops their knickers and runs to the OP when he clicks his fingers. After all, aren't we meant to be swanning around in lingerie waiting for men and couples to summon us 24/7?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But they never have a profile that says in the text:

"I put can't accommodate, and don't travel, but will happily meet in a local hotel, or a local swingers club"

Why don't they put that?

Because they are not serious. Just like the ones who put:

"Not meeting. Just here to chat".

It's a swingers site, not a chat site.

Just another example of a timewaster, who wants to be flattered online, but will never meet.

Or in modern terminology -

A Fake Swinger!

What is a real swinger?

That's what I thought it meant. That's why I'm not a swinger.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"But they never have a profile that says in the text:

"I put can't accommodate, and don't travel, but will happily meet in a local hotel, or a local swingers club"

Why don't they put that?

Because they are not serious. Just like the ones who put:

"Not meeting. Just here to chat".

It's a swingers site, not a chat site.

Just another example of a timewaster, who wants to be flattered online, but will never meet.

Or in modern terminology -

A Fake Swinger!"

How is not wanting to go to a stranger's home or bring a stranger to yours make you a fake swinger? If you still go to swingers' clubs (the cue is in the word)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't host, except for a trusted FWB, because I don't want to. I don't drive so I don't travel. I am looking for meets in my own town.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all... when I read this on a profile. I start thinking they are open to car sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how people are so thick they don’t understand this. I thought about taking it off my profile but it’s too much fun confusing the thickos

In my case I drive but won’t travel far, not even south manchester so if I put I do people seem to think I should. Even people from Liverpool and Leeds etc try to convince me it’s only an hours drive. The answer is NO I’m not about to travel 2 hours round trip especially when I only have 2 to 3 hours spare!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have exactly that - I wont travel and I wont accommodate and make it clear my meets take place at Eureka or DV8 only unless Im in hotels on business

Works completely fine for me

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over a year ago

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I only meet in clubs, I wish there was an option for that, instead of travel and accommodate being the only options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 26/04/18 13:38:15]"

Love to confuse ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they can only meet in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t accommodate in my own home yes I’m single but my home is my sanctuary!! But it’s surprising how many people expect you too!!

It’s individual choice I guess ....although if people can’t accomodate it also makes me wonder what the reason is if they won’t say why!?

But really do we need to justify ourselves!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t accommodate in my own home yes I’m single but my home is my sanctuary!! But it’s surprising how many people expect you too!!

It’s individual choice I guess ....although if people can’t accomodate it also makes me wonder what the reason is if they won’t say why!?

But really do we need to justify ourselves!!?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I won’t accommodate in my own home yes I’m single but my home is my sanctuary!! But it’s surprising how many people expect you too!!

It’s individual choice I guess ....although if people can’t accomodate it also makes me wonder what the reason is if they won’t say why!?

But really do we need to justify ourselves!!?

No we don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t accommodate in my own home yes I’m single but my home is my sanctuary!! But it’s surprising how many people expect you too!!

It’s individual choice I guess ....although if people can’t accomodate it also makes me wonder what the reason is if they won’t say why!?

I would agree but the down side is people who cannot accommodate mainly single men it harder on them when seeking due to people thinking they got something to hide..

But really do we need to justify ourselves!!?

No we don't. "

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I have this on mine. I cant accom as i have a child.and no u cant come when there asleep and im.disabled so i need to be picked up simple as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously, you can't work that out. We won't travel or accommodate, we will meet locally though if someone else locally can accommodate or use a local hotel.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Might be logged in to use chat as I often am no one reads what you put at the top or they think it doesn't apply to them and send you a message anyway

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"'Sounds bizarre in your eyes' ?? Haha...classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you come across profile with i can't accommodate or travel?Sound bizarre in my eyes. "

Simple answer is limited options to tell all your status on here when setting up your profile. I suppose that’s where writing a blurb, or sending a message and chatting comes in handy.

Or, they’re into tantric mind sex with strangers, I dunno.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Sounds bizarre in your eyes' ?? Haha...classic

I know, I couldn’t believe my ears when I read it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it as meets at clubs or only local area. End of the day we all run our profile as we want.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

You could travel ....and you could accommodate ??

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"'Sounds bizarre in your eyes' ?? Haha...classic

I know, I couldn’t believe my ears when I read it! "

Ha ha

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