FabSwingers.com forum: dont really get it do u

By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

get a friend request or a hi how's u today, from a total stranger, so obviously didnt read profile, right benefit of doubt, go read theirs, ah seems reasonable now says new to this go easy on me, will add more later, pix awaitin fine, then look how long on site 9months and some over a year, long time to be new, has anyone else cum across this, does it piss u off too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get a friend request or a hi how's u today, from a total stranger, so obviously didnt read profile, right benefit of doubt, go read theirs, ah seems reasonable now says new to this go easy on me, will add more later, pix awaitin fine, then look how long on site 9months and some over a year, long time to be new, has anyone else cum across this, does it piss u off too"

I joined this site over a year ago, but only actively started using it 3 months ago. I travel for work, so (I am guessing, because I can't remember), I signed up, didn't add profile information or pictures, and then a contract came up and I buggered off. I was also a member of a pay site as well, so I must have channeled more of my "energy" into that.

Sometimes we join things on the "spare of the moment" and then forget them, or real life gets in the way.

I only added profile and pics once I rediscovered the site (I went to join and my email address was already registered). Different people have diffent reasons why things get delayed or stalled. I don't really pay much attention to how long someone has been on the site, because of my duration on site and the reasons that prevented me from being "active"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm starting to grow a thicker skin and our block list is growing larger. Thats my solution to it all. There is still plenty of folks on here that are decent so why let those who aren't spoil it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha.. we've came across this alot too, and to be honest it does put us off.. if they're too lazy to update their profile.. we cant be arsed to contact them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As all genuine people on Fabs my time is precious, so I have no time for lazy or time wasting people

It is annoying the amount of fake profiles on the site

Another thing I have found is people who have no photos on their profile yet make a big deal asking for face pics when sending a message but do not send any in return or in the message they send.....Hmmm something to hide

Play the game or get added to the block list

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

isn't every message sent for the first time from a complete stranger ( unless you have met at a social or club ).

even friends requests are... they send as they want to become friends and take it further? ( same as above re club and socials )

or is this about the persons profile, if so... don't accept and block

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Why on earth would it piss me off?

When the tools are there to either click off of a profile, or block the profile.....or both?

It's hardly life threatening is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sigh...wish all I had to worry about was people on a swinging site who don't have profile information.

Some people really need a sense of perspective!

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"isn't every message sent for the first time from a complete stranger ( unless you have met at a social or club ).

even friends requests are... they send as they want to become friends and take it further? ( same as above re club and socials )

or is this about the persons profile, if so... don't accept and block"
yes they are so there fore why ask, how's u today thats the point not that first messager is a stranger, but the question would be askin as though meet before

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Sigh...wish all I had to worry about was people on a swinging site who don't have profile information.

Some people really need a sense of perspective!

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maybe we should all just bkeep or topics to our selves

that same thing could be said of every 1

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

No. If they haven't quoted the code word I have the choice to delete and not bother looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother us in the slightest what other people do with their profile. In fact nothing at all that anybody does on here bothers us .. it's just a swinging site and there are much more important things in life to bother us than the fact that someone didn't update their p

e for 9 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't pee us off and we get a fair few. we just don't accept the friends request. Same with winks from people who don't interest us. Would rather spend our time and energy on those we do want to meet. Ms

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