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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My sexy wife & myself have thoroughly enjoyed the swinging scene for a few years & we are looking to extend our experiences a bit by exploring the fetish scene.

She is definitely more than a little submissive & the following idea has got her very excited. Essentially she has been a very naughty girl & I have told her as punishment she will be taken naked & blindfolded to a fetish club as my slave.

There she will be expected to obey my orders at all times. She will be ordered to show her body to anyone interested, allow others to touch & kiss her & will be left secured/tied for random strangers to penetrate with sex toys. Still blindfolded she will finally be offered for oral.

Being total novices to the fetish scene we have heard that this kind of activity might not go down too well in a fetish club. Is this true?

We could get away with this in most swingers clubs but fancy the edgier atmosphere of a fetish club so if anyone knows of a possible venue we would love to hear about it.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Best bet is to contact any fetish venue you intend to visit and ask about the play limmits.

Some have no play at all, others allow whips, spanking and bondage play, but some allow anything much like a swing venue.

We visit Romeos in Bristol that holds several different theme nights each month of which one is a Fetish/mixed night, where you can play if you wish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sounds idea. Bristol is a long way away from Aberdeen but then we knew it would require us to travel.

If we can find the right venue we are aiming to do this in March next year.

Cheers for the info.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds


"That sounds idea. Bristol is a long way away from Aberdeen but then we knew it would require us to travel.

If we can find the right venue we are aiming to do this in March next year.

Cheers for the info.

"

Couple after my own heart, what a nice nice play sinario x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Couple after my own heart, what a nice nice play sinario x"

Glad you like the idea. If we can find a sympathetic club with some sexy guys & girls it will be pretty wild

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about contacting a local dungeon and hiring it... you could then invite some people.. it would still be a different environment to a swingers club..

We are not sure on the ettiquette at fetish clubs as have not been ourselves..... and as sex features in all our bdsm play it would feel a bit odd without it.

Good luck with your endeavour.

Cali

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

Like others have said contact any potential venue first to find out as they are all very different.

I would also visit first just to see what the loacl crowd are like etc. As the venue might allow something but the regulars might frown upon it.

Have fun guys

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

I know there is one in birmingham that allows play, but cant remember its name. used to know a Dungion you could hire, but not sure that is still there.

Love bondage play from time to time and loved what you said lots. Hope you find somewhere and live out that one xxxx

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By *rs kemeaCouple
over a year ago

angus

The Aberdeen club has a dungeon room - that'd probably be a good option. I know there's a fetish group that meets there, but I'm not sure how much play they do. PM me if you want more details

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know there is one in birmingham that allows play, but cant remember its name. used to know a Dungion you could hire, but not sure that is still there.

Love bondage play from time to time and loved what you said lots. Hope you find somewhere and live out that one xxxx"

Dont know about Birmingham but went to one a number of years ago in Manchester that seemed to accept play. Don't know if is still in existence but thats a possibility.

Its something we are really keen to experience & "where there is a will there is a way".

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

clubf (newcastle)has fetish nights where play is allowed and the Dungeon is open every other saturday...there i quite a queue on party nights

Have fun wherever you decide to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"clubf (newcastle)has fetish nights where play is allowed and the Dungeon is open every other saturday...there i quite a queue on party nights

Have fun wherever you decide to go"

As always I am hugely impressed with how helpful people are on this site (& how knowledgeable).

There are certain logistical considerations when you live in the North of Scotland which need to be considered - its a hell of a drive!

Newcastle however is a definite possibility.

Thanks for the recommendation. We will check it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most swinging clubs do a fettish night monthly, however fet clubs generally have a no sex rule. As others have said hiring a dungeon is an option.

Enjoy your kinky side

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"clubf (newcastle)has fetish nights where play is allowed and the Dungeon is open every other saturday...there i quite a queue on party nights

Have fun wherever you decide to go

As always I am hugely impressed with how helpful people are on this site (& how knowledgeable).

There are certain logistical considerations when you live in the North of Scotland which need to be considered - its a hell of a drive!

Newcastle however is a definite possibility.

Thanks for the recommendation. We will check it out"

If you want any more info...or someone to go with the first time,pm me...it also has hotel rooms...which given the distance might help cut costs.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

theres also club tension but sure thats a no play scene, we have had a cpl of single men meets where my mrs was blindfolded and didnt know who shagged her cany eroti

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"theres also club tension but sure thats a no play scene, we have had a cpl of single men meets where my mrs was blindfolded and didnt know who shagged her cany eroti "

i helped a friend fulfill one of her fantasies...she wanted to be blinfold and cuffed and kneeling give as many bjs in a row as she cud...she had a fab time

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

sounds good hehe she was horny as to,funny the things u try ,well got hotel booked for pink night so never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there still a club or group of people that get together in Aberdeen? X

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

A true fetish / bdsm club does not allow sex .there are rules to follow and abide by

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"theres also club tension but sure thats a no play scene, we have had a cpl of single men meets where my mrs was blindfolded and didnt know who shagged her cany eroti "
tension disappeared many moons ago along with narnia,the cave and notorious.apart from the private parties there is no out and out fetish club up this way any longer...well apart from liber 8 but thats only on 3 times this year

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Club f is not an out and out fetish club its a swingers club where fetish is allowed.it is run by the people who held proper fetish nights up there until some people overstepped the mark.that side has now ceased but there is a dungeon there for swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abfabs new hdz is Fetish and bdsm event but with the added option of playing (oral and penetration etc). Some venues are bdsm and fetish with no sex but dep NSA on the venue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A true fetish / bdsm club does not allow sex .there are rules to follow and abide by"

I would have to disagree with you on that. Some bdsm people do not like the combination of sex and bdsm, however others like to combine sex with their fetish. Due to the squeemishness of vanilla people and licensing laws very few clubs ran the whole range of fetish behaviour. However Subversion Noir at the Hoist successfully ran almost the whole range but has now closed as the landlord wanted the site back. It is now resurfacing at another site and looking harder than before.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"A true fetish / bdsm club does not allow sex .there are rules to follow and abide by

I would have to disagree with you on that. Some bdsm people do not like the combination of sex and bdsm, however others like to combine sex with their fetish. Due to the squeemishness of vanilla people and licensing laws very few clubs ran the whole range of fetish behaviour. However Subversion Noir at the Hoist successfully ran almost the whole range but has now closed as the landlord wanted the site back. It is now resurfacing at another site and looking harder than before. "
it might be OK in your neck of the woods .but sex was not allowed in any north east fetish club that I have attended in over 25 years and I'm not talking rubbish .I worked in one of them.obviously different rules for different parts of the UK.all our clubs had strict rules.you could book a private room but no sex act was allowed in the public rooms up here

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Make a comment then hide your profile that looks good doesn't it .I made a comment about the north east .I did not say all of the UK.once again the south differs from up here.yes fetish has sexual aspects but full on sex in public is not allowed here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hid my profile as I am not playing as I have recently entered into an exclusive relationship and have been tidying up loose ends. In the same way as today took off all the pictures of other women from my life of fet profile. I can assure you these actions were no way related to this thread.

I can't talk for the fine licensing authorities in the NE, but Subversion Noir was held in a gay club with a sex licence called the Hoist. It was the first time I had seen male anal fisting and circle jerking. I also saw gay and hetero sex in public. There was also the usual fun flogging, whipping, a boot black and more latex than an explosion in a condom factory.

Also Club Pandora of blessed memory at ME1 in Maidstone was the same but that again by day was a gay spa.

So I would not contradict you for the NE but certainly around London there are places where sex and serious fetish meet openly.

Subversion Noir has found a new home and the flyer advertising the next event looks awesome and it will be an all night kinkfest in all meanings until 2pm the next day. Unfortunately I think the people who run it are tossers so I won't be attending anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the new HDZ at Abfabs should be a good blend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A true fetish / bdsm club does not allow sex .there are rules to follow and abide by

I would have to disagree with you on that. Some bdsm people do not like the combination of sex and bdsm, however others like to combine sex with their fetish. Due to the squeemishness of vanilla people and licensing laws very few clubs ran the whole range of fetish behaviour. However Subversion Noir at the Hoist successfully ran almost the whole range but has now closed as the landlord wanted the site back. It is now resurfacing at another site and looking harder than before. it might be OK in your neck of the woods .but sex was not allowed in any north east fetish club that I have attended in over 25 years and I'm not talking rubbish .I worked in one of them.obviously different rules for different parts of the UK.all our clubs had strict rules.you could book a private room but no sex act was allowed in the public rooms up here "

So fetish clubs do have rules of no sex. That is very true. But some clubs also allow it. This does depend more on the venue rather that the event. Playspace a popular fetish night down south is more bdsm and fetish. That have a quiet area, but it's super rare for anyone to have sexual there.

Venues which have a sex license tend to allow more play, ones that don't have the license have strict rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, can't pm you, if you get this message could you pm me as I'm interested in finding out about the group that is in Aberdeen, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Aberdeen club has a dungeon room - that'd probably be a good option. I know there's a fetish group that meets there, but I'm not sure how much play they do. PM me if you want more details "

Hi, can't pm you, if you get this message could you pm me as I'm interested in finding out about the group that is in Aberdeen, thank you

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We love BDSM. But as soon as we get a whip out in a swingers club, even if were in the dungeon - swingers run for their lives. It seems BDSM dose not cross into swinging well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether it is a question of 'sweating their assets' most swing clubs seem to be putting on a fetish/bdsm night, with Jaydees being the latest in the SE/Midlands belt.

But from what I have heard from other kinky people playing on vanilla nights at the weekend, people running from the whip is the least of the issues. The norm being abuse or interruption of the scene.

That being said if I am playing with someone new I find Kestrels when it is quiet is a good place.

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