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When is the right time to gracefully retire from playing,

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By *inkyduokent OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swanley

Think we are almost there. Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

When is the right time to gracefully retire from playing?

Probably some time in the afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

What makes you think that ?

In answer to your question ~ When one or both of you are not enjoying it anymore.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

When you trip over the zimmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bad news is that probably you do get filtered out of some people's preferences.

The good news is you fall into the hands of the worst kind of perverted degenerates

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By *inkyduokent OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swanley


"The bad news is that probably you do get filtered out of some people's preferences.

The good news is you fall into the hands of the worst kind of perverted degenerates

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spot on !

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There is no best time to retire from swinging, everyone is different and your age is immaterial. Yes, we may fall outside the preferences of others as we age but there are plenty of people who still want to play with older swingers.

If you are both still enjoying it then why stop?

Once one or both of you as had enough and doesn't want to do it anymore is when you should stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it comes down to your personal life situation? I don't believe there's a 'right time' for anything in life, only the time that suits you.

It has nothing to do with opinion.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"When is the right time to gracefully retire from playing?

Probably some time in the afternoon."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels like we already have lol keep posting meetings and getting no response lol,best try some clubs see if that works lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Martine looks to be a long way from ready!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When willy disappears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cracking question OP. Looking at your profile I don't think you are over the hill yet, though In our 40s we did find it much much easier to get what we thought were quality meets. We still do not feel like we have to drop our aspirations and perhaps when we do or find no one aspires to meet us that is the time.

People still seem to find our profile attractive so no ready to retire yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

When you feel ready. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting no longer gives you both a thrill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're thinking of retiring? Bloody hell, I haven't even started yet..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

Reading your profile it doesn't look like you're short of offers. So it can only be because you no longer want to do it.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

When it stops being fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?

When it stops being fun"

Agree; when it stops being for for at least one of you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow if your gonna retire can I come to the retirement party your pics are simply amazing xx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Never .... I’m 58! And still at it

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Do we get a gold watch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's far easier to meet people in clubs. Looking at your pictures you'd be very popular chameleons.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

When yr stiff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you can no longer be bothered meeting anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this afternoon genuine question or are you just fishing for an ego boost ..come on be honest? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this afternoon genuine question or are you just fishing for an ego boost ..come on be honest? Lol "

Someone fishing for compliments on fab? Never!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we never seem to be in the age range people are looking for it won’t be long

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

When the fun stops, stop.

That is what we have always said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

Crikey we must already be beyond disgracefully !!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think swinging retires you rather than the other way round.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"Surely it comes down to your personal life situation? I don't believe there's a 'right time' for anything in life, only the time that suits you.

It has nothing to do with opinion."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not there yet by any means.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

You're no way old enough to even think about retiring. We're older than you and having the time of our lives!

It gets better and better.......

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By *inkyduokent OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swanley


"Do we get a gold watch?

"

We deserve one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12:37 am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you stop enjoying it

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

When you are too sore to continue and have run out of ice packs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feels like we already have lol keep posting meetings and getting no response lol,best try some clubs see if that works lol"

Not sure why you would struggle, booty has a great figure, drop me a message, I will be round like a shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we get a gold watch?

We deserve one"

Agreed.

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By *uperman n LoisCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

We’ve had this conversation a few times.

The conclusion we came too is ....

1.When Only ugly people seem interested in you.

2.When you look around a club/party and think what the f@ck am I doing here!!

3.When your always the only couple left in the room when everyone has gone to play.

4.When you’ve been on Fab 4 years with no one wanting to meet you.

Seriously thou we think when the nights lost it’s shine and your not getting a buzz from it then it’s time for a break.

Luckily we’re still loving it but we have reduced the amount of weekends we’re out now.

Old age eh!!

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

From men's point of view.when erectile dysfunction kick in. Perhap is time to leave the stage when the curtain falls.

Just my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you start using words like 'play' or playing'.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I think George Bernard Shaw's fine words can be applied to this as much as to anything;

"You don't stop playing because you grow old, you grow old because you stop playing"

Provided you are still attracting others, who themselves are attractive to you, then why the hell stop?

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

Fuck me... you're not even 50...

Why retire gracefully... just carry on disgracefully !!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Not yet... as long as we get pleasure from sex we'll want to include others too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We shared a 71 year old lovely lady last month and she loved it and so did we

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By *he WickedsCouple
over a year ago

Swingtown


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?

You're no way old enough to even think about retiring. We're older than you and having the time of our lives!

It gets better and better....... "

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By *he WickedsCouple
over a year ago

Swingtown


"Not yet... as long as we get pleasure from sex we'll want to include others too."

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't start till I was 49 and I'm having the time of my life well mainly ,I've met some lovely people and some lying wankers too lol but mainly good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t start till in my sixties lol late developer ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After our last club visit on Monday, we're leaving that scene and probably taking a short break altogether. The last two visits haven't done anything for us so Monday confirmed that decision.

Any future play will be if and when.

It's your life OP, you do what you feel is right for you

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By *inkyduokent OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swanley


"When you start using words like 'play' or playing'."

Not sure what you mean . It's never been our life . Just extra fun. That's playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We may retire to clubs as no one seems to want to meet us. Strange as at clubs we never have a problem even with much younger cpls. Think we they see the Mrs they just put up with me lol lol lol

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Surely it comes down to your personal life situation? I don't believe there's a 'right time' for anything in life, only the time that suits you.

It has nothing to do with opinion."

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"We may retire to clubs as no one seems to want to meet us. Strange as at clubs we never have a problem even with much younger cpls. Think we they see the Mrs they just put up with me lol lol lol"

never x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We may retire to clubs as no one seems to want to meet us. Strange as at clubs we never have a problem even with much younger cpls. Think we they see the Mrs they just put up with me lol lol lol

never x storm x"

Xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is nothing but a number.....retire when your mojo is gone not on a specific age

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

When you manage to empty an orgy room at a club

One of the clubs I used to visit had a large play room where anything goes but one night there was an elderly couple in the middle of this large bed that was usually a pile of bodies and nobody else went in all the time they were there.

Harsh I know but nobody seemed keen to jump in there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

I think when your both or one of you is not getting the thrill or enjoyment from it anymore is the right time.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Good grief Never ! If it is what you want and you still have people that fancy you and you want, keep it going.

It seems Im not too old from the offers I get but I feel they are just trying to tick the age box on their bucket list. shrugs! so I guess for me the age was 67.. I shall just socialise here in the Forums with an occasional Social.

I never was available anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 53 when I discovered this lifestyle, no way am I giving up yet, I'm having so much fun. When the fun goes, so will I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you dont want to play anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

Bye!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Think we are almost there. Thoughts?"

From what we can see you're far, far from it!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"age is nothing but a number.....retire when your mojo is gone not on a specific age "

"Age is nothing but a number" is nothing but a cliche. Age is wrinkly skin, saggy bits, bits that don't work and bits that work overtime, creaking bones, thinning hair etc etc!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Well your pics are great op - so unless you actually want to give up swinging then you’ve nothing to worry about!

Me personally - unless I meet mr rightish (and hopefully mr rightish will be a fellow swinger! ) then I’ll stop swinging when I can no longer attract the people I’m attracted to!

I’ll stop the forums when either

A) there’s no more Fab or

B) I pop my clogs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's no longer fun.

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